7 Signs Of DARK Intimacy, Not Healthy
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Date: 2024-08-17
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ryanricks318
Ugh authoritative constraints have itty ur ways whom am i to disagree oodest behavioral display am witnessing awkward spimes o theys conditioning environmental factors they so favors we so shares o weaving truely terrible narratives o us o our togetherness combating impulses instincts weird sensations to vibe along wits ain't itty ever so loverly cuteness tysm furs being wits meh as i awfully awkwardly vent to the void furs reasons yet idfk appologies furs inconvenience results consequences tysm fur keeping meh so honestly n sincerely err umm also gotta sensation possibly mine split mind is up to itty olde dirty tricks so eventful wild wits wits dat figgy newton o illmaggotnation playing rounds o floop d fool o meh n mine lonesome loneliness alls to overly familiar jus hads to let dat all oot in the open wotevs will b cie lah vy pardons mine pronounciation communication skill issues r ah wurk in progress o sucha ood sorts oot o touchy sore subject our pitys hopes furs to gits betters inevitably as so possibles are we crossing a bridge at this moment o itty alls jus meh telly a story o copium ad nauseum o sucha lovesick hopeless romantic so lost in the crowds fickle tensions tysm furs enduring dat spectacle dat itty meh minezelf i n maybes us o takes cares really feeling so much o the lonely side exactly wot shade o spectrum dat b idfk doth dat makes ya wonder o wander wot ways we whrrrs goings wits so wildly so wickedly alls so suddenly caught in distraction to b continueation laters tysm nya sojourneys
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Ugh authoritative constraints have itty ur ways whom am i to disagree oodest behavioral display am witnessing awkward spimes o theys conditioning environmental factors they so favors we so shares o weaving truely terrible narratives o us o our togetherness combating impulses instincts weird sensations to vibe along wits ain't itty ever so loverly cuteness tysm furs being wits meh as i awfully awkwardly vent to the void furs reasons yet idfk appologies furs inconvenience results consequences tysm fur keeping meh so honestly n sincerely err umm also gotta sensation possibly mine split mind is up to itty olde dirty tricks so eventful wild wits wits dat figgy newton o illmaggotnation playing rounds o floop d fool o meh n mine lonesome loneliness alls to overly familiar jus hads to let dat all oot in the open wotevs will b cie lah vy pardons mine pronounciation communication skill issues r ah wurk in progress o sucha ood sorts oot o touchy sore subject our pitys hopes furs to gits betters inevitably as so possibles are we crossing a bridge at this moment o itty alls jus meh telly a story o copium ad nauseum o sucha lovesick hopeless romantic so lost in the crowds fickle tensions tysm furs enduring dat spectacle dat itty meh minezelf i n maybes us o takes cares really feeling so much o the lonely side exactly wot shade o spectrum dat b idfk doth dat makes ya wonder o wander wot ways we whrrrs goings wits so wildly so wickedly alls so suddenly caught in distraction to b continueation laters tysm nya sojourneys
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ionasan
This is literally the dynamic between my in-laws. He is a textbook narcissist with psychopathic tendencies. He is always finding a way to try to see how far he can go with his control and harmful actions on the family. Then afterwards, put the blame on anyone else (usually it's on my husband or me. He constantly abuses my mother-in-law in every way but physical (from what I've seen. She works as well, but he makes her give every cent she makes to him. He expects her to go grocery shopping but then will refuse to give her money as she's waiting in the checkout line. She will have him on the phone, begging for 30 just to buy food for dinner that _he_ also is going to eat.
He also will constantly call her names, also in public and in front of their friends. He also will inappropriately touch her, even after she yells at him to stop.
He also has manipulated my husband into working for him at his company and now refuses to pay him his salary that he fairly worked for, making up bogus excuses like saying he needed the money for all the things he paid for my husband that he needed when he was a kid or saying he needed help paying for taxes.
Now my husband and I are stuck living with this evil man with nowhere to go and no money to move out because of his dad.
His mom also won't leave him because she's a JW and they aren't allowed to divorce.
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This is literally the dynamic between my in-laws. He is a textbook narcissist with psychopathic tendencies. He is always finding a way to try to see how far he can go with his control and harmful actions on the family. Then afterwards, put the blame on anyone else (usually it's on my husband or me. He constantly abuses my mother-in-law in every way but physical (from what I've seen. She works as well, but he makes her give every cent she makes to him. He expects her to go grocery shopping but then will refuse to give her money as she's waiting in the checkout line. She will have him on the phone, begging for 30 just to buy food for dinner that _he_ also is going to eat.
He also will constantly call her names, also in public and in front of their friends. He also will inappropriately touch her, even after she yells at him to stop.
He also has manipulated my husband into working for him at his company and now refuses to pay him his salary that he fairly worked for, making up bogus excuses like saying he needed the money for all the things he paid for my husband that he needed when he was a kid or saying he needed help paying for taxes.
Now my husband and I are stuck living with this evil man with nowhere to go and no money to move out because of his dad.
His mom also won't leave him because she's a JW and they aren't allowed to divorce.
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fluffytoaster1827
I think my girlfriend may have a codependency personality disorder but I’m not positive. How can I help her in a positive way She refuses therapy for her mental issues and I’ve become her therapist of sorts instead. She gives off some signs like always saying yes to me, when I ask her what she wants to do or where to go she just says whatever I want is good, she prefers to listen to me and have me order her around rather than her give me suggestions on things. She is very submissive to me. If she feels that she upset me or hurt me even slightly she has a panic attack and her mind goes black and she is mentally distraught to the extreme, so I have to give her lots of words of comfort to cheer her up and calm her down. She likes to keep saying how I am like a saint and she doesn’t deserve me and I try to convince her otherwise but to no avail.
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I think my girlfriend may have a codependency personality disorder but I’m not positive. How can I help her in a positive way She refuses therapy for her mental issues and I’ve become her therapist of sorts instead. She gives off some signs like always saying yes to me, when I ask her what she wants to do or where to go she just says whatever I want is good, she prefers to listen to me and have me order her around rather than her give me suggestions on things. She is very submissive to me. If she feels that she upset me or hurt me even slightly she has a panic attack and her mind goes black and she is mentally distraught to the extreme, so I have to give her lots of words of comfort to cheer her up and calm her down. She likes to keep saying how I am like a saint and she doesn’t deserve me and I try to convince her otherwise but to no avail.
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foolycoolydood
At this point what’s even the point of dating Between having to project yourself a certain way to get noticed and all of this extra including my favorite line; what’s your red flag Let’s not get started about the whole money thing.
Get that everyone is cautious but things seemed a lot simpler about 10-14 years back. I am so good and happy with just being myself. I’m 28 going on 29 and I’m grateful enough to just have a place of my own and two of the greatest friends I could ever ask for.
Sorry for going on a rant like this but the way relationships took a whole 180 from what’s supposed to be something beautiful bothers me.
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At this point what’s even the point of dating Between having to project yourself a certain way to get noticed and all of this extra including my favorite line; what’s your red flag Let’s not get started about the whole money thing.
Get that everyone is cautious but things seemed a lot simpler about 10-14 years back. I am so good and happy with just being myself. I’m 28 going on 29 and I’m grateful enough to just have a place of my own and two of the greatest friends I could ever ask for.
Sorry for going on a rant like this but the way relationships took a whole 180 from what’s supposed to be something beautiful bothers me.
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Flowery_Borinquen
Thank you for making this video! Now, I can try to work on myself with the flaw sign. Only that one, because my gf knows how to have a healthy bond. Heck, when I explained that I don't want my friend to feel neglected, which is why I call him a few times, and she understood. And she only asked me to call to know if I can or if I wanted to. Again, thank you for making this video! It helps a lot to keep my relationship healthy and happy and other people's relationship. You would make a great physicologist. I hope you make more videos like this to spread awareness!
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Thank you for making this video! Now, I can try to work on myself with the flaw sign. Only that one, because my gf knows how to have a healthy bond. Heck, when I explained that I don't want my friend to feel neglected, which is why I call him a few times, and she understood. And she only asked me to call to know if I can or if I wanted to. Again, thank you for making this video! It helps a lot to keep my relationship healthy and happy and other people's relationship. You would make a great physicologist. I hope you make more videos like this to spread awareness!
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PrettyTasha-k8q
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
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Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
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littleraven9842
i know this is random but i don't appreciate you, nono. i cherish, value, respect, acknowledge, treasure, and admire you. i dont know you, but i know you are strong, and even if you dont know it your smart in your own way. i hope your doing alright and i hope you find love in whatever shape or form you would like, whether it be romance, friendship, or faith. :)
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i know this is random but i don't appreciate you, nono. i cherish, value, respect, acknowledge, treasure, and admire you. i dont know you, but i know you are strong, and even if you dont know it your smart in your own way. i hope your doing alright and i hope you find love in whatever shape or form you would like, whether it be romance, friendship, or faith. :)
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psych2go
I related to a few of these, especially the fighting tor power one. Hed threaten to break up wiht me if i didn't do something. Once i finally broke up with him, and told my mum and sibling about all that happened. They said it was because it was his first relationship and HE felt pressured. There was other things, but that was the main one.
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I related to a few of these, especially the fighting tor power one. Hed threaten to break up wiht me if i didn't do something. Once i finally broke up with him, and told my mum and sibling about all that happened. They said it was because it was his first relationship and HE felt pressured. There was other things, but that was the main one.
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indridcold8433
Of this, I have no possibility of it happening to me, nor me doing it to someone else. I keep a very well defined distance from humans. I disallow myself any amicable or amorous relationahips with humans. I learned my lesson. Humans are cruel, evil, violent, things. Keep a well defined distance from humans.
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Of this, I have no possibility of it happening to me, nor me doing it to someone else. I keep a very well defined distance from humans. I disallow myself any amicable or amorous relationahips with humans. I learned my lesson. Humans are cruel, evil, violent, things. Keep a well defined distance from humans.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. The codependency trap 0: 28
2. Over idealizing 1: 06
3. An emotional roller coaster 1: 39
4. Uneven power dynamics 2: 20
5. Manipulative behaviour 2: 57
6. Empty affections 3: 44
7. Feeling drained 4: 29
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. The codependency trap 0: 28
2. Over idealizing 1: 06
3. An emotional roller coaster 1: 39
4. Uneven power dynamics 2: 20
5. Manipulative behaviour 2: 57
6. Empty affections 3: 44
7. Feeling drained 4: 29
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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psych2go
Honestly, I don't expect romantic relationship anymore because I feel it as a,
1. Threat
2. Beginning of manipulation (Ex: - Borukari (Daddy) - You might need a translation for this)
3. Beginning of loosing what I gained even if they're the best.
4. Transmitting my mental illnesses.
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Honestly, I don't expect romantic relationship anymore because I feel it as a,
1. Threat
2. Beginning of manipulation (Ex: - Borukari (Daddy) - You might need a translation for this)
3. Beginning of loosing what I gained even if they're the best.
4. Transmitting my mental illnesses.
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8MinutesExplainer
1. Emotional Manipulation
2. Excessive Control
3. Constant Jealousy
4. Isolation from Others
5. Gaslighting
6. Disrespectful Communication
7. Lack of Trust
8. Intimidation
9. Possessiveness
10. Fear-Based Obedience
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1. Emotional Manipulation
2. Excessive Control
3. Constant Jealousy
4. Isolation from Others
5. Gaslighting
6. Disrespectful Communication
7. Lack of Trust
8. Intimidation
9. Possessiveness
10. Fear-Based Obedience
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toddij
I'm having trouble dealing with a sxal narcissist and he's always tryna come back into my life or claim I quote on quote miss it when I just want to heal and focus on myself, if possible could you guy's help me out on how to block them out
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I'm having trouble dealing with a sxal narcissist and he's always tryna come back into my life or claim I quote on quote miss it when I just want to heal and focus on myself, if possible could you guy's help me out on how to block them out
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psych2go
I don't know what's more distracting, a visual experience coupled with an auditory experience or an auditory experience but expecting a visual experience. Maybe it's my ADHD or the ways social media has shaped my brain synapses.
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I don't know what's more distracting, a visual experience coupled with an auditory experience or an auditory experience but expecting a visual experience. Maybe it's my ADHD or the ways social media has shaped my brain synapses.
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AS-xi9df
I'm currently watching this from deep within the African Congo me and my team are on a much needed five day rest back at base camp we have been studying some of the last known gorillas on the planet stay safe guy's
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I'm currently watching this from deep within the African Congo me and my team are on a much needed five day rest back at base camp we have been studying some of the last known gorillas on the planet stay safe guy's
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aksarabaca5131
A healthy relationship can make you a better person. Apart from that, signs of a healthy relationship can be seen from how you and your partner solve problems in a constructive way.
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A healthy relationship can make you a better person. Apart from that, signs of a healthy relationship can be seen from how you and your partner solve problems in a constructive way.
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NarcSurvivor
Dark intimacy is trauma-bonding, future faking, devaluation and public humiliation. Some people are just seeking power and control over you, to regulate themselves and feel superior.
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Dark intimacy is trauma-bonding, future faking, devaluation and public humiliation. Some people are just seeking power and control over you, to regulate themselves and feel superior.
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nekomegumi2536
It's interesting to see what was really between me and my ex. I always knew that something's wrong, but couldn't say it just like this. Most of this video was so true.
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It's interesting to see what was really between me and my ex. I always knew that something's wrong, but couldn't say it just like this. Most of this video was so true.
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UnknownXlll
I don't know, but I'm really afraid to get into a relationship. I'd rather stay single. I don't find relationships worth it anyway.
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I don't know, but I'm really afraid to get into a relationship. I'd rather stay single. I don't find relationships worth it anyway.
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87solarsky
Cycle of AbuseRefathering = Trauma-Bonding, relies on compatible Core Conflictual Relational Themes (CCRTs) and insecure attachment.
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Cycle of AbuseRefathering = Trauma-Bonding, relies on compatible Core Conflictual Relational Themes (CCRTs) and insecure attachment.
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