7 Signs You Should Cut All Contact with Someone
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Date: 2024-08-17
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Potatorolling
i've just cut off with one of my friends recently though we have known each other for 3 years, it's all because she gave me too much negative energy and she's always go find me and talk only when she really need me, she also the type of new one in, old one out, she gaslighting me many times too, but i still forgive her and think about good side of her a long time. However, the day she protected the friend that talk shit about me even she saw it and do nothing is the day our friendship over and when i talked about it to her, she blamed me and said i was just overreacting, it's just a little joke with her and her friend to me. After that she said she felt like we just not match and cut off with me. i guess i was just her second choice or smt
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i've just cut off with one of my friends recently though we have known each other for 3 years, it's all because she gave me too much negative energy and she's always go find me and talk only when she really need me, she also the type of new one in, old one out, she gaslighting me many times too, but i still forgive her and think about good side of her a long time. However, the day she protected the friend that talk shit about me even she saw it and do nothing is the day our friendship over and when i talked about it to her, she blamed me and said i was just overreacting, it's just a little joke with her and her friend to me. After that she said she felt like we just not match and cut off with me. i guess i was just her second choice or smt
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SilentOcean-f7s
I once had a lot of friends who were only with me because i was a topper and an excellent student.
After i lost my grades and my marks plumetted, they gradually started to ignore me, it grew to the time when they only called me for help with something.
Maybe being alone is tough right now, but being with people who talk behind your back and who will never have your back at your worst is really bad for the wrong run.
Being with one friend who actually cares for you is better.
Even though seeing people laugh and smile with a bunch of people makes me feel like i am missing a lot, but i also know that i am missing a lot of betrayal, backstabbing and hurt
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I once had a lot of friends who were only with me because i was a topper and an excellent student.
After i lost my grades and my marks plumetted, they gradually started to ignore me, it grew to the time when they only called me for help with something.
Maybe being alone is tough right now, but being with people who talk behind your back and who will never have your back at your worst is really bad for the wrong run.
Being with one friend who actually cares for you is better.
Even though seeing people laugh and smile with a bunch of people makes me feel like i am missing a lot, but i also know that i am missing a lot of betrayal, backstabbing and hurt
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psych2go
I guess walking away or cutting ties also doesn’t mean you are submitting defeat to the toxic or abusive people you are trying to get away from but helping yourself or saving yourself nor is it a sign of weakness despite how manipulative the other person might be. Thanks for sharing this video at the right time I really needed this with the abusive family and how gossipy some of them are and just like this video said the positives are few and the toxic family is I’ve been so done with them and I’m even more done and ready to move on and walk away even more thanks to you so ty
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I guess walking away or cutting ties also doesn’t mean you are submitting defeat to the toxic or abusive people you are trying to get away from but helping yourself or saving yourself nor is it a sign of weakness despite how manipulative the other person might be. Thanks for sharing this video at the right time I really needed this with the abusive family and how gossipy some of them are and just like this video said the positives are few and the toxic family is I’ve been so done with them and I’m even more done and ready to move on and walk away even more thanks to you so ty
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InterLun
Hi guys, please help me.
Tomorrow's my birthday tomorrow on August 18. For the past 3 years, my mom's used the excuse of being busy so that she doesn't need to come to my birthday and my family only wants to do a small celebration unlike all the other family members with big parties and celebrations when it's about them.
I had to say goodbye to a group of toxic friends and move on, they really impacted me with a bunch of suicide, gaslighting and guilt tripping from trying to leave them. No one's wished me a happy birthday, so can anyone please wish me a Happy Birthday
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Hi guys, please help me.
Tomorrow's my birthday tomorrow on August 18. For the past 3 years, my mom's used the excuse of being busy so that she doesn't need to come to my birthday and my family only wants to do a small celebration unlike all the other family members with big parties and celebrations when it's about them.
I had to say goodbye to a group of toxic friends and move on, they really impacted me with a bunch of suicide, gaslighting and guilt tripping from trying to leave them. No one's wished me a happy birthday, so can anyone please wish me a Happy Birthday
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raindrops438
I have been on both sides of this topic. Before I recognized my dysfunction and woundedness, I was cut off in relationships. It was them, not me! As I realized my own wound history, I understood. I recognized it was both of us and not just me. Problem is. the other person said she has moved on. I am working on my issues and I now know about boundaries. Looking back, I should have left the relationship long before but I had no clue as to what was going on. Relationships are black and white and neither is recovery I am finding. Thanks for the video.
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I have been on both sides of this topic. Before I recognized my dysfunction and woundedness, I was cut off in relationships. It was them, not me! As I realized my own wound history, I understood. I recognized it was both of us and not just me. Problem is. the other person said she has moved on. I am working on my issues and I now know about boundaries. Looking back, I should have left the relationship long before but I had no clue as to what was going on. Relationships are black and white and neither is recovery I am finding. Thanks for the video.
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garchompelago
I had a Narcissist friend back then.
He always gives me back handed compliments
He invalidates my opinions
He manipulates me to do his bidding and guilt trip me if I dont comply.
Everything is always my fault yet he never owns up to any of his mistakes.
He speaks against me behind my back.
He only contacts me when he needs a favor.
He always stir up drama and always paint me as the villain.
I didnt try to get revenge or anything along the lines. One day I decided to just cut him off.
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I had a Narcissist friend back then.
He always gives me back handed compliments
He invalidates my opinions
He manipulates me to do his bidding and guilt trip me if I dont comply.
Everything is always my fault yet he never owns up to any of his mistakes.
He speaks against me behind my back.
He only contacts me when he needs a favor.
He always stir up drama and always paint me as the villain.
I didnt try to get revenge or anything along the lines. One day I decided to just cut him off.
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alaraswings8535
Tw: venting
I had to cut off my friend group because they were still defending my former friend who harassed me online because I was sucdal. And I remember them downplaying the issue since not only I already planned to end it all but also the harassment continued in the group chat. And my other friends blamed me for being harassed in the first place. Like, Matt said just a few insults like my other friends said, then why was I freezing and shaking so much Why was I exhausted that night
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Tw: venting
I had to cut off my friend group because they were still defending my former friend who harassed me online because I was sucdal. And I remember them downplaying the issue since not only I already planned to end it all but also the harassment continued in the group chat. And my other friends blamed me for being harassed in the first place. Like, Matt said just a few insults like my other friends said, then why was I freezing and shaking so much Why was I exhausted that night
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Pomeraman
This comes at a right time as I just recently cut some toxic people out of my life, one in particular who I really thought of as a good friend really showed his true colors as he turns out to be one of those toxic positivity people who thinks there’s a one sized fits all solution to everything, as if a bandaid can simply heal a bullet wound. It’s hard to connect with those who always minimize your struggles and cannot come from a place of understanding of one’s mental health struggles
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This comes at a right time as I just recently cut some toxic people out of my life, one in particular who I really thought of as a good friend really showed his true colors as he turns out to be one of those toxic positivity people who thinks there’s a one sized fits all solution to everything, as if a bandaid can simply heal a bullet wound. It’s hard to connect with those who always minimize your struggles and cannot come from a place of understanding of one’s mental health struggles
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Vaudian55
i normally don't leave comments that much on videos, but this came at a perfect time, as someone i already cut ties with was trying to come back into my life, and i almost let them back in since i missed them so much, but this video reminded me of how draining it was being around them despite all the fun we had together. thank you for posting this and helping me making such a difficult decision that i've been stuck on for over a week!
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i normally don't leave comments that much on videos, but this came at a perfect time, as someone i already cut ties with was trying to come back into my life, and i almost let them back in since i missed them so much, but this video reminded me of how draining it was being around them despite all the fun we had together. thank you for posting this and helping me making such a difficult decision that i've been stuck on for over a week!
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keip4568
If only it was that easy for those to let go of barely anyone they had.
Also a lot of people let people go or cut off so easily. Especially via social media.
It is nice for those to have healthy relationships.
For some, barely any exist to begin with.
So many take their superficial relationships to good people for granted.
The literal block button is abused by many with so many labels even false ones.
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If only it was that easy for those to let go of barely anyone they had.
Also a lot of people let people go or cut off so easily. Especially via social media.
It is nice for those to have healthy relationships.
For some, barely any exist to begin with.
So many take their superficial relationships to good people for granted.
The literal block button is abused by many with so many labels even false ones.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. You're guilted for setting boundaries 0: 33
2. They block your personal growth 1: 04
3. Everything is always your fault 1: 44
4. The bad outweighs the good 2: 25
5. They don't keep in contact 3: 08
6. They're an energy vampire 3: 33
7. All roads lead to nowhere 4: 21
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. You're guilted for setting boundaries 0: 33
2. They block your personal growth 1: 04
3. Everything is always your fault 1: 44
4. The bad outweighs the good 2: 25
5. They don't keep in contact 3: 08
6. They're an energy vampire 3: 33
7. All roads lead to nowhere 4: 21
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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azloii9781
My step-mom speed run. And no this isn’t some rebellious teenager complaining that I can’t drink with my friends all night, I established very normal boundaries such as what I wear and she would literally smile the most crooked creepy smile when she said no. She got a genuine rise out of disciplining her kids and it’s sickening
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My step-mom speed run. And no this isn’t some rebellious teenager complaining that I can’t drink with my friends all night, I established very normal boundaries such as what I wear and she would literally smile the most crooked creepy smile when she said no. She got a genuine rise out of disciplining her kids and it’s sickening
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Miiskl
timestamps
0: 34 - you’re guilted for setting boundaries
1: 05 - they block your personal growth
1: 45 - everything is always your fault
2: 26 - the bad outweighs the good
3: 09 - they don’t keep in contact
3: 34 - they’re an energy vampire
4: 22 - all roads lead to nowhere
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timestamps
0: 34 - you’re guilted for setting boundaries
1: 05 - they block your personal growth
1: 45 - everything is always your fault
2: 26 - the bad outweighs the good
3: 09 - they don’t keep in contact
3: 34 - they’re an energy vampire
4: 22 - all roads lead to nowhere
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EverettNightshade
People who don't respect you or your boundaries are not worth having around. They're worth avoiding. If people want things addressed, they should address the issues themselves. If I cut off someone who doesn't respect me or my boundaries, I avoid them for a long time.
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People who don't respect you or your boundaries are not worth having around. They're worth avoiding. If people want things addressed, they should address the issues themselves. If I cut off someone who doesn't respect me or my boundaries, I avoid them for a long time.
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DarkRose0523
I had a friend abandon me, and was talking to their gf during prom though he invited me. I told him what he did really hurt my feelings, but he never apologized nor recognized what he did was wrong. Now he wonders why I don’t speak to him anymore
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I had a friend abandon me, and was talking to their gf during prom though he invited me. I told him what he did really hurt my feelings, but he never apologized nor recognized what he did was wrong. Now he wonders why I don’t speak to him anymore
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seesaw41
I usually don't like burning bridges, but if someone tells me I'm a stalker for noticing and pointing out a changed profile picture, I don't want anything to do with them.
I felt good doing that. That person is but a distant memory now.
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I usually don't like burning bridges, but if someone tells me I'm a stalker for noticing and pointing out a changed profile picture, I don't want anything to do with them.
I felt good doing that. That person is but a distant memory now.
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JessLoveIV
Thank you. I really needed this video today. It makes it easier to let go of something that I've been holding on to for waayyy too long (now realizing what it really was. It's time to grow and focus on myself. It's time to let go.
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Thank you. I really needed this video today. It makes it easier to let go of something that I've been holding on to for waayyy too long (now realizing what it really was. It's time to grow and focus on myself. It's time to let go.
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th0mmy726
She says she still loves me, I know how it feels to have someone breaking up with you so I'm scared, I don't want People to suffer because of me, but neither do I want to suffer because of her anymore, I don't know how to do it
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She says she still loves me, I know how it feels to have someone breaking up with you so I'm scared, I don't want People to suffer because of me, but neither do I want to suffer because of her anymore, I don't know how to do it
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di_xox4747
Y'all should cut ties to someone only messege you to continuously ask many favor and also emotionally manipulates you not to say NO to her/ his favor being asked.
Like this if you have this kind of friend ( or ex-friend)
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Y'all should cut ties to someone only messege you to continuously ask many favor and also emotionally manipulates you not to say NO to her/ his favor being asked.
Like this if you have this kind of friend ( or ex-friend)
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jhoss0743
Walking away from a toxic coworker or supervisor isn’t easy. If you are in a field you’ve wanted all your life, worries about finding another job or purpose can haunt you. Keep searching for a way out; never give up.
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Walking away from a toxic coworker or supervisor isn’t easy. If you are in a field you’ve wanted all your life, worries about finding another job or purpose can haunt you. Keep searching for a way out; never give up.
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