6 Subtle Signs Your Crush Wants You To Notice Them
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Date: 2024-09-09
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melaniescribbles
Quick question from an autistic goth woman with a bad case of RBF; how do one actually notice whether they're into you or not if they're too scared or shy to even talk to you They're actually my type, but I'm pretty much the 'scary dog privilege' of any given group, so that has often been a problem for me in the past (to the point where my neurotypical friends legit had to clue my dense self in, lol, and most of these resources kind of tend to assume the guy actually speaks to in some capacity. Like, I just want to know what subtle body language I'm probably missing here once and for all. For example; people will say stuff like 'they're staring at you', but after 17 years and counting in the goth subculture I just automatically tune all kinds of staring out, to a point where I'll legit not even notice. And just saying; people might stare at me for more. negative reasons. I have to wonder what's the difference between that and a romantic stare, though. I do believe that there's a difference, but I'm just missing SOME kind of neurotypical sorcery here, so I just need some neurotypical folks to just enlighten me on this particular one as well. I'm not actively searching for love at the moment, but it would be nice to just be able to tell in advance if a man is into me so I can decide for myself whether it's actually requited or not. Like, it's probably delusional for me to think that romantic interest would ever even happen in my case, but I just like to be prepared in case a godforsaken miracle happens (there were times in the past when reality tried to prove me wrong on that one, lol.
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Quick question from an autistic goth woman with a bad case of RBF; how do one actually notice whether they're into you or not if they're too scared or shy to even talk to you They're actually my type, but I'm pretty much the 'scary dog privilege' of any given group, so that has often been a problem for me in the past (to the point where my neurotypical friends legit had to clue my dense self in, lol, and most of these resources kind of tend to assume the guy actually speaks to in some capacity. Like, I just want to know what subtle body language I'm probably missing here once and for all. For example; people will say stuff like 'they're staring at you', but after 17 years and counting in the goth subculture I just automatically tune all kinds of staring out, to a point where I'll legit not even notice. And just saying; people might stare at me for more. negative reasons. I have to wonder what's the difference between that and a romantic stare, though. I do believe that there's a difference, but I'm just missing SOME kind of neurotypical sorcery here, so I just need some neurotypical folks to just enlighten me on this particular one as well. I'm not actively searching for love at the moment, but it would be nice to just be able to tell in advance if a man is into me so I can decide for myself whether it's actually requited or not. Like, it's probably delusional for me to think that romantic interest would ever even happen in my case, but I just like to be prepared in case a godforsaken miracle happens (there were times in the past when reality tried to prove me wrong on that one, lol.
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Rafsanul_Haq_96
Love is indeed a complex and multifaceted emotion, a truth I've come to understand through personal experience. It encompasses care, affection, attraction, trust, and a myriad of other emotions. Surprisingly, jealousy also plays a role in love. Consider two romantic partners, X and Y. One day, X notices that Y is frequently chatting, gossiping, and spending more time with another person. Upon seeing this, X feels a surge of jealousy because Y is extremely important to him. X deeply values their relationship and fears losing Y, with his jealousy signalling this fear. This kind of jealousy can sometimes motivate X to put more effort into the relationship, by giving Y more attention or working harder to maintain their bond. However, jealousy also points to a lack of trust. X's doubts about Y's interactions with another person indicate that he doesn't fully trust Y, which is problematic because trust is a crucial component of love. In this scenario, jealousy and trust become conflicting emotions. This conflict underscores the complexity and multifaceted nature of love, revealing how it can involve emotions that both strengthen and challenge a relationship.
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Love is indeed a complex and multifaceted emotion, a truth I've come to understand through personal experience. It encompasses care, affection, attraction, trust, and a myriad of other emotions. Surprisingly, jealousy also plays a role in love. Consider two romantic partners, X and Y. One day, X notices that Y is frequently chatting, gossiping, and spending more time with another person. Upon seeing this, X feels a surge of jealousy because Y is extremely important to him. X deeply values their relationship and fears losing Y, with his jealousy signalling this fear. This kind of jealousy can sometimes motivate X to put more effort into the relationship, by giving Y more attention or working harder to maintain their bond. However, jealousy also points to a lack of trust. X's doubts about Y's interactions with another person indicate that he doesn't fully trust Y, which is problematic because trust is a crucial component of love. In this scenario, jealousy and trust become conflicting emotions. This conflict underscores the complexity and multifaceted nature of love, revealing how it can involve emotions that both strengthen and challenge a relationship.
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psych2go
I should stop watching these. The videos on how to nonverbally flirt and the how to see if your crush likes you don’t apply to me at all and usually give me to much hope or make me second guess trying with them.
Most of the advice is not terrible but it rides off of the fact that you already have some sort of connection with them or have a chance to be near them in general which is not the case for like 50% of peoples crushes.
At the end of the day I think just befriending them then asking them out is the best way to do things. The longer you wait and the more subtle you are the higher the chance is that they will move on if they like you or they will get taken by someone else.
I am asking my crush out on Monday when I see them I recommend that do the same if you have a chance. It is better to get it over with then to drag it out and at the end of the day you really have nothing to lose except a awkward but necessary experience.
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I should stop watching these. The videos on how to nonverbally flirt and the how to see if your crush likes you don’t apply to me at all and usually give me to much hope or make me second guess trying with them.
Most of the advice is not terrible but it rides off of the fact that you already have some sort of connection with them or have a chance to be near them in general which is not the case for like 50% of peoples crushes.
At the end of the day I think just befriending them then asking them out is the best way to do things. The longer you wait and the more subtle you are the higher the chance is that they will move on if they like you or they will get taken by someone else.
I am asking my crush out on Monday when I see them I recommend that do the same if you have a chance. It is better to get it over with then to drag it out and at the end of the day you really have nothing to lose except a awkward but necessary experience.
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Chisszaru
I currently don't have a crush. There's a few women i do find attractive, but they don't live in the same municipality as me, and i kinda lost my interest in said women. I'm not really interested in anyone at the moment, and besides, they weren't interested in me anyways, so i simply let it go.
Basically, i'm not searching for love, and i have other things more important than love. I'm the guy no one ever has feelings for, and i do much prefer to be on my own. I'm not a social guy, so to speak. I prefer to spend my time alone, reading about something on the internet, read a book, play video games, watch a good movie, or spend that time with animals instead. When i don't do that, i spend time with my family, preferably my older sisters, borther-in-law and my two nephews, whom's well being is quite important to me. I'm quite easy-going with kids, even though i often use less kid-friendly words, as i use a harsher language than i should
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I currently don't have a crush. There's a few women i do find attractive, but they don't live in the same municipality as me, and i kinda lost my interest in said women. I'm not really interested in anyone at the moment, and besides, they weren't interested in me anyways, so i simply let it go.
Basically, i'm not searching for love, and i have other things more important than love. I'm the guy no one ever has feelings for, and i do much prefer to be on my own. I'm not a social guy, so to speak. I prefer to spend my time alone, reading about something on the internet, read a book, play video games, watch a good movie, or spend that time with animals instead. When i don't do that, i spend time with my family, preferably my older sisters, borther-in-law and my two nephews, whom's well being is quite important to me. I'm quite easy-going with kids, even though i often use less kid-friendly words, as i use a harsher language than i should
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Lt. Aditya10
One year ago a girl in my tuition used to sit near me but never tried to touch me, She used look me secretly and listen my answers given to the teacher intently along with my others friends maybe bcz of my perfect answers, rare talks so no invitation to her friend circle(as none of her friends were in our tuition, she once laughed over me when I made a finger puppet for explaining something to all in a tuition class, no hang outs with her as she quickly ran out of tuition bcz of her badminton classes & only once we made a 5 to 7 second eye contact. But after leaving the tuition we only get the opportunity to met each other 3-4 times a week in school 'coincidently' but still no talks only a gaze at each while passing. Does she like me or Did she like me & Should I try to talk to her or not
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One year ago a girl in my tuition used to sit near me but never tried to touch me, She used look me secretly and listen my answers given to the teacher intently along with my others friends maybe bcz of my perfect answers, rare talks so no invitation to her friend circle(as none of her friends were in our tuition, she once laughed over me when I made a finger puppet for explaining something to all in a tuition class, no hang outs with her as she quickly ran out of tuition bcz of her badminton classes & only once we made a 5 to 7 second eye contact. But after leaving the tuition we only get the opportunity to met each other 3-4 times a week in school 'coincidently' but still no talks only a gaze at each while passing. Does she like me or Did she like me & Should I try to talk to her or not
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psych2go
could you make a video on very early signs of your crush liking you for example, my crush seems to be the shy type, (like me) and we don't really talk to each other. but we do often make eye contact in the one class we have together (like 10 times per class period lol) and just yesterday we walked past each other in the halls, and he was talking/laughing with his friends. when he saw me though, he just kind of stopped (i dont mean he stopped walking) and just made prolonged eye contact. i made eye contact, looked away for a second, then looked back at him and smiled. i dont really know if this means he likes me, but im just putting this out here. thank you!
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could you make a video on very early signs of your crush liking you for example, my crush seems to be the shy type, (like me) and we don't really talk to each other. but we do often make eye contact in the one class we have together (like 10 times per class period lol) and just yesterday we walked past each other in the halls, and he was talking/laughing with his friends. when he saw me though, he just kind of stopped (i dont mean he stopped walking) and just made prolonged eye contact. i made eye contact, looked away for a second, then looked back at him and smiled. i dont really know if this means he likes me, but im just putting this out here. thank you!
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ryanricks318
Don't go noticing too hard all at once jus not so acclimated to dat sorta tension yet cuteness wavelengths wavering wot vibes them tones whrrrs so oot o comfortzone so unacostomed theys wild behavioral patience steady development rate gotta process dat reeling feeling so surreal unreal am meh too intrusive idfk ugh these thoughts how to properly shares n express umm maybe should've been more nonreactive mode o discoveries are we passing over another bridge here o am so confusing situations sessions well take cares tysm nya sojourneys
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Don't go noticing too hard all at once jus not so acclimated to dat sorta tension yet cuteness wavelengths wavering wot vibes them tones whrrrs so oot o comfortzone so unacostomed theys wild behavioral patience steady development rate gotta process dat reeling feeling so surreal unreal am meh too intrusive idfk ugh these thoughts how to properly shares n express umm maybe should've been more nonreactive mode o discoveries are we passing over another bridge here o am so confusing situations sessions well take cares tysm nya sojourneys
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user-uw3qi8wv2v
My neighbor, Shane Tulsi, didn't show me that he's interested in me, but I started talking with him and slowly getting to know him better, I find out a lot of things about him. We're both newly converted Mormons, we both smoke (even though it's against the Code of Wisdom), and we're both bipolar (I have schizoaffective disorder bipolar type and he have bipolar type 1! And now he's my boyfriend and we're moving out of state within October of this year! Wish us luck cause we're going to need it!
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My neighbor, Shane Tulsi, didn't show me that he's interested in me, but I started talking with him and slowly getting to know him better, I find out a lot of things about him. We're both newly converted Mormons, we both smoke (even though it's against the Code of Wisdom), and we're both bipolar (I have schizoaffective disorder bipolar type and he have bipolar type 1! And now he's my boyfriend and we're moving out of state within October of this year! Wish us luck cause we're going to need it!
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Lilbro1467
Ahh yes the classicshe finally gave me choosing signals looks I’m chosen till you make the first move and she tells you I haVe a bOyYYyFrieNDddDd meaning she’s already getting her back discombobulated by Jose/ Pookie Ray Ray/ Chad/ Tyrone and she’s saving you for last either that, or she’s annoyed and thinks you’re not attractive enough. Hope this helps: )
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Ahh yes the classicshe finally gave me choosing signals looks I’m chosen till you make the first move and she tells you I haVe a bOyYYyFrieNDddDd meaning she’s already getting her back discombobulated by Jose/ Pookie Ray Ray/ Chad/ Tyrone and she’s saving you for last either that, or she’s annoyed and thinks you’re not attractive enough. Hope this helps: )
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Lilbro1467
Ahh yes the classicshe finally gave me choosing signals looks I’m chosen till you make the first move and she tells you I haVe a bOyYYyFrieNDddDd meaning she’s already getting her back discombobulated by Jose/ Pookie Ray Ray/ Chad/ Tyrone and she’s saving you for last either that, or she’s annoyed and thinks you’re not attractive enough. Hope this helps: )
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Ahh yes the classicshe finally gave me choosing signals looks I’m chosen till you make the first move and she tells you I haVe a bOyYYyFrieNDddDd meaning she’s already getting her back discombobulated by Jose/ Pookie Ray Ray/ Chad/ Tyrone and she’s saving you for last either that, or she’s annoyed and thinks you’re not attractive enough. Hope this helps: )
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TheChainTV
back in community college I had a crush on this girl: ) I would gift her Manga, But I wasnt a creep I helped her with assignments because she was busy with other class's. we then grew appart bc I learned she was too negative. but if we ever see ourselves again we can mend and be friends again. since then im still looking for that special someone.
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back in community college I had a crush on this girl: ) I would gift her Manga, But I wasnt a creep I helped her with assignments because she was busy with other class's. we then grew appart bc I learned she was too negative. but if we ever see ourselves again we can mend and be friends again. since then im still looking for that special someone.
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agr0nianTV
1st one 100% me in highschool often by pure chance but nothing else since I never had the guts to actually talk to the girl I liked
I will say there was at least one girl in highschool who liked me, but I didn't catch on till later nor really care at the time since my heart was really loyal to my crush. Talk about being lovesick
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1st one 100% me in highschool often by pure chance but nothing else since I never had the guts to actually talk to the girl I liked
I will say there was at least one girl in highschool who liked me, but I didn't catch on till later nor really care at the time since my heart was really loyal to my crush. Talk about being lovesick
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davids2096
What if you only see your crush only once in a great while meaning very large gaps of time in between!
If one day you go to that spot where you can always find them, but this day you can't find them at all! What's the next step Do you give up and move on What a dilemma! Have a great one! Bye!
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What if you only see your crush only once in a great while meaning very large gaps of time in between!
If one day you go to that spot where you can always find them, but this day you can't find them at all! What's the next step Do you give up and move on What a dilemma! Have a great one! Bye!
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Talismano420
So now we're labeling normal human interaction as desperate attempts to get attention. Not every move someone makes around you is some calculated play for affection. Maybe, just maybe, they're just being a decent human being, and not every touch or conversation is about winning your approval.
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So now we're labeling normal human interaction as desperate attempts to get attention. Not every move someone makes around you is some calculated play for affection. Maybe, just maybe, they're just being a decent human being, and not every touch or conversation is about winning your approval.
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julianstone1192
Is there specific things that are different between guys and girls, do these signals apply in general, on one hand I want to feel confident but I don’t want to read too much where there’s nothing if it affects my behavior
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Is there specific things that are different between guys and girls, do these signals apply in general, on one hand I want to feel confident but I don’t want to read too much where there’s nothing if it affects my behavior
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MegaManNeo
No one is interested in me.
And there is no one around me either who would be open towards the idea of be with me anyway.
I'm mostly here because your videos are so good and because of the Komi Can't Communicate Thumbnail
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No one is interested in me.
And there is no one around me either who would be open towards the idea of be with me anyway.
I'm mostly here because your videos are so good and because of the Komi Can't Communicate Thumbnail
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OverSizedShirtz
I’m I have a bit of a problem, I used to have a crush, but it’s beginning to die down, while his love is beginning to spike up, I need help. Can you make a video on advice for stuff like this please Thank you if you do.
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I’m I have a bit of a problem, I used to have a crush, but it’s beginning to die down, while his love is beginning to spike up, I need help. Can you make a video on advice for stuff like this please Thank you if you do.
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Mine-mq5oz
As a nonchalant who likes someone this is what I do, but idk if they ever noticed, cuz I am not really direct with it, but maybe if I'm always talking to them online or not, and I would always be with them they'll take the hint
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As a nonchalant who likes someone this is what I do, but idk if they ever noticed, cuz I am not really direct with it, but maybe if I'm always talking to them online or not, and I would always be with them they'll take the hint
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KiwiBite
0: 32 1. They're constantly closeby.
0: 57 2. They get physical with you.
1: 29 3. They listen.
2: 10 4. They include you.
2: 40 5. They remember.
3: 15 6. They bring up shared interests
Here you go.
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0: 32 1. They're constantly closeby.
0: 57 2. They get physical with you.
1: 29 3. They listen.
2: 10 4. They include you.
2: 40 5. They remember.
3: 15 6. They bring up shared interests
Here you go.
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psych2go
Time stamps:
0: 32 They're constantly close by.
0: 56 They get physical with you.
1: 28 They listen.
2: 10 They include you.
2: 39 They remember.
3: 15 They bring up shared interests.
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Time stamps:
0: 32 They're constantly close by.
0: 56 They get physical with you.
1: 28 They listen.
2: 10 They include you.
2: 39 They remember.
3: 15 They bring up shared interests.
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