Aidan VS Big: The Battle of Carrie Bradshaw's Boyfriends
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Date: 2023-11-20
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Caroline
I do love that you guys acknowledged that the way someone treats you isn't everything. It certainly is a big component of a healthy relationship, That often gets ignored. That the ability to talk to your partner and relate to them along with goals and values leads to a successful union. That's one reason I prefer big for Carrie is that they really balance one another out much more than her and Aidan. They provide for one another's needs more and are on the same level in terms of goals and interests, and yes it's a long and difficult road to get to a commitment but honestly, it works for them. They both had to grow to be together, and I am happy they did.
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I do love that you guys acknowledged that the way someone treats you isn't everything. It certainly is a big component of a healthy relationship, That often gets ignored. That the ability to talk to your partner and relate to them along with goals and values leads to a successful union. That's one reason I prefer big for Carrie is that they really balance one another out much more than her and Aidan. They provide for one another's needs more and are on the same level in terms of goals and interests, and yes it's a long and difficult road to get to a commitment but honestly, it works for them. They both had to grow to be together, and I am happy they did.
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Camilla
I have to stand up for Mr Big. Aiden is a traditionel loving man who want kids and marridge. Mr Bigs lifestyle is completely different and there is nothing vrong with that. Kids and marridge is not for everyone. And that does not make him a bad man. Carrie and Big have the same lifestyle and the same outlook on life. That makes them a great match. They are also great friends and have a lot in common. They share the same type of humor. Carrie is not a traditional woman. That doesnt make her bad
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I have to stand up for Mr Big. Aiden is a traditionel loving man who want kids and marridge. Mr Bigs lifestyle is completely different and there is nothing vrong with that. Kids and marridge is not for everyone. And that does not make him a bad man. Carrie and Big have the same lifestyle and the same outlook on life. That makes them a great match. They are also great friends and have a lot in common. They share the same type of humor. Carrie is not a traditional woman. That doesnt make her bad
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Nicole
Carrie is a stalker whos obsessed with the Idea of Big, she doesnt really love him either she just likes his money, he keeps rejecting her because he Doesnt WANT her, from the very beginning! Think about it, do you really know anything about Mr. Big besides his having money & his constant rejections of the Stalker? If he had lost all his money in the show, Carrie would be gone in a Heartbeat! She doesnt know ANYTHING about him except hes Rich & his name is Mr. Big!
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Carrie is a stalker whos obsessed with the Idea of Big, she doesnt really love him either she just likes his money, he keeps rejecting her because he Doesnt WANT her, from the very beginning! Think about it, do you really know anything about Mr. Big besides his having money & his constant rejections of the Stalker? If he had lost all his money in the show, Carrie would be gone in a Heartbeat! She doesnt know ANYTHING about him except hes Rich & his name is Mr. Big!
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Robert
Aiden is! Carrie was always more relaxed and happier with Aiden. She looks more beautiful with Aiden too - he brought out the better qualities in Carrie. She wasnt ready the first time, didnt trust it or appreciate it. Later in life when she is wiser and the chemistry is still powerful between them they reconnect. Carrie looks incredible with Aiden its an energy thing. They really have chemistry it jumps off the screen!
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Aiden is! Carrie was always more relaxed and happier with Aiden. She looks more beautiful with Aiden too - he brought out the better qualities in Carrie. She wasnt ready the first time, didnt trust it or appreciate it. Later in life when she is wiser and the chemistry is still powerful between them they reconnect. Carrie looks incredible with Aiden its an energy thing. They really have chemistry it jumps off the screen!
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Native
Mr. B is definitely a Capricorn man (with a Aries moon = me, How do I know? I'm a Capricorn woman dating a Capricorn man (more like Miranda+Mr. Big. and funny because his name is Ben, and we know ourselves. Haha! Not to say I disliked Aiden, I love him: cute, gentlemen, very tall, caring and open with his feelings. Unfortunately, just in the wrong timing in the time of Mr. B.
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Mr. B is definitely a Capricorn man (with a Aries moon = me, How do I know? I'm a Capricorn woman dating a Capricorn man (more like Miranda+Mr. Big. and funny because his name is Ben, and we know ourselves. Haha! Not to say I disliked Aiden, I love him: cute, gentlemen, very tall, caring and open with his feelings. Unfortunately, just in the wrong timing in the time of Mr. B.
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Christine
Aiden tried to change Carrie into his dream girl. Country girl slopping the hogs, babies in arms, and slaving over a hot kettle. It was so selfish and delusional. Of Aiden. I couldn't understand Carrie going along with his fantasy why didn't her loud mouth take over that time?
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Aiden tried to change Carrie into his dream girl. Country girl slopping the hogs, babies in arms, and slaving over a hot kettle. It was so selfish and delusional. Of Aiden. I couldn't understand Carrie going along with his fantasy why didn't her loud mouth take over that time?
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Rika
Carrie and Big deserve each other. Carrie is more invested in the relationship than Big but basically they are the same kind of people - self-absorbed, valuing own feelings more than anyone else and thrill-seeking. Aiden is a good guy who needs simplicity and stable couple life.
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Carrie and Big deserve each other. Carrie is more invested in the relationship than Big but basically they are the same kind of people - self-absorbed, valuing own feelings more than anyone else and thrill-seeking. Aiden is a good guy who needs simplicity and stable couple life.
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Yulie
Carry spent the majority of the show crying about Big being emotionally unavailable only to cheat and break up with a man who was emotionally available and who wanted to marry her. Both Carry and Big are toxic people who deserve each other. Aidan dodged a bullet with her.
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Carry spent the majority of the show crying about Big being emotionally unavailable only to cheat and break up with a man who was emotionally available and who wanted to marry her. Both Carry and Big are toxic people who deserve each other. Aidan dodged a bullet with her.
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Mo
I was too young back then but I do wonder if they only brought Aiden back because of some backlash back then? Because it does seem like they only brought him back to show viewers that him and Carrie were not compatible?
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I was too young back then but I do wonder if they only brought Aiden back because of some backlash back then? Because it does seem like they only brought him back to show viewers that him and Carrie were not compatible?
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Oldtowngirl
Both Big and Carrie are players. Aidan is the genuine guy and Carrie is not into him seriously. She found her match with Big and was hurt most by him. Karma. She got served with what she deserves.
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Both Big and Carrie are players. Aidan is the genuine guy and Carrie is not into him seriously. She found her match with Big and was hurt most by him. Karma. She got served with what she deserves.
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Zach
Big was a situationship and Aiden was a relationship. Carrie likes a project. Aiden was very put together. Big had things he needed to work on and Carrie want to fix things. So she chose the project.
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Big was a situationship and Aiden was a relationship. Carrie likes a project. Aiden was very put together. Big had things he needed to work on and Carrie want to fix things. So she chose the project.
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Jess
Aiden dodged a bullet by not ending up with Carrie, she would have just cheated with big over and over again, Im glad they didnt get married, even though I loved Aiden. He deserved well better x
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Aiden dodged a bullet by not ending up with Carrie, she would have just cheated with big over and over again, Im glad they didnt get married, even though I loved Aiden. He deserved well better x
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phaedra
I loved season 4 Aiden. However, Carrie is more suited for Big. Aiden was so awesome, funny and sweet; unfortunately Carrie needs the drama and thats Big with a capitol D.
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I loved season 4 Aiden. However, Carrie is more suited for Big. Aiden was so awesome, funny and sweet; unfortunately Carrie needs the drama and thats Big with a capitol D.
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Susann
Big was too arrogant, Carrie was seriously high maintenance, and Aidan was too good for her. She was too much at times and I wanted to shake some sense into her
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Big was too arrogant, Carrie was seriously high maintenance, and Aidan was too good for her. She was too much at times and I wanted to shake some sense into her
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Amol
Oh wow did they just say Aiden was much more attractive with shorter hair and much trimmer bod? It feels like the episode of to hell with body positivity for men
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Oh wow did they just say Aiden was much more attractive with shorter hair and much trimmer bod? It feels like the episode of to hell with body positivity for men
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Ruhamma
Carry and Big had something major in common tho, which somehow makes their relationship works, a hint of selfishness jajajaja
You dropped the ball guys
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Carry and Big had something major in common tho, which somehow makes their relationship works, a hint of selfishness jajajaja
You dropped the ball guys
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kkorova
In what world is Mr Big more attractive than Aiden? No disrespect, but he is overweight, old, and has a nose almost bigger than Carries. Like, seriously!
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In what world is Mr Big more attractive than Aiden? No disrespect, but he is overweight, old, and has a nose almost bigger than Carries. Like, seriously!
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Joan
Aiden was always trying to change Carrie. He tried to mold her into something she wasnt. He tried to subtly manipulate her. And got mad when it didnt work
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Aiden was always trying to change Carrie. He tried to mold her into something she wasnt. He tried to subtly manipulate her. And got mad when it didnt work
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fanjoy
I agree that Carrie and Big were more compatible. I was always surprised that Aidan even lived in the city. He seemed like much more of a country boy.
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I agree that Carrie and Big were more compatible. I was always surprised that Aidan even lived in the city. He seemed like much more of a country boy.
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Lucinda
My daughter and I actually talked about this a few days ago, and I said that I flat out hated Mr. Big. I stand by my statement. Too arrogant for me.
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My daughter and I actually talked about this a few days ago, and I said that I flat out hated Mr. Big. I stand by my statement. Too arrogant for me.
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Helena
Mr big is a love bomber. No consistency. He draws her back every time with grand gestures of care. Then drops her when he has her where he wants.
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Mr big is a love bomber. No consistency. He draws her back every time with grand gestures of care. Then drops her when he has her where he wants.
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Roberta
Guess we will all have our fav man here. No comparison Aidan was not only THE one but he was unbelievably hot, but obviously not to Carrie
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Guess we will all have our fav man here. No comparison Aidan was not only THE one but he was unbelievably hot, but obviously not to Carrie
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Yulia
Classic example of an attachment style theory:
Carrie - Anxious Attachment
Mr. Big - Avoidant Attachment
Aidan - Secure Attachment
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Classic example of an attachment style theory:
Carrie - Anxious Attachment
Mr. Big - Avoidant Attachment
Aidan - Secure Attachment
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Peechy
Carrie is horrible. They both deserved her. One was a super simp the other was a douchebag chad. If Carrie was a good catch then it's diff
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Carrie is horrible. They both deserved her. One was a super simp the other was a douchebag chad. If Carrie was a good catch then it's diff
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fanjoy
Fck Carrie and her Narcissistic personality. She deserved Big because they are both selfish and insensitive! Glad Aiden dodged the bullet!
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Fck Carrie and her Narcissistic personality. She deserved Big because they are both selfish and insensitive! Glad Aiden dodged the bullet!
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Jean
Aiden was not my favorite, I think the drama of Big will always be the guy who touches a womans heart. The heart wants what it wants.
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Aiden was not my favorite, I think the drama of Big will always be the guy who touches a womans heart. The heart wants what it wants.
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Victoria
I'm confused on how Big can be described as Tall, Dark and Handsome; he's tall, but not attractive and white as Wonder Bread.
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I'm confused on how Big can be described as Tall, Dark and Handsome; he's tall, but not attractive and white as Wonder Bread.
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SonyaOutThere2020
Carrie is ugly. If Sarah Jessica Parker werent an actress, then no man of be any caliber would be enthralled by her.
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Carrie is ugly. If Sarah Jessica Parker werent an actress, then no man of be any caliber would be enthralled by her.
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Sandra
Big. I love him an Carrie together they have so much fun together I'm glad her an Big got Marry. yaaaaay. BIG was so funny too
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Big. I love him an Carrie together they have so much fun together I'm glad her an Big got Marry. yaaaaay. BIG was so funny too
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fanjoy
Aiden is my type of guy. but for Carrie, Big is her better match. they shouldve broken up after that country weekend debacle!
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Aiden is my type of guy. but for Carrie, Big is her better match. they shouldve broken up after that country weekend debacle!
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