He's not my feeder - he's my boyfriend - love don't judge
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Christophe
I'm 126 kg and I've always been overweight/obese. Due to bad genetics and PCOS and a whole lot of bad relationship with food. My partner on the other hand? Always been underweight. To where he's been assumed to have anorexia. He's currently at a barely average weight where there are no worries for his health.
And we've been together for 14 years. Met when I was 14 and he 15. First love and never let go since.
I didn't even know being one fat person and one skinny person in a relationship was weird. Sure our weightdifference is HUGE but I've never experienced anything like this couple.
It feels weird that others would judge them for who they love. But then again I'm not surprised because the world really does love to judge and hate on others for things that are none of their business.
I hope this couple gets to stay together and grow together and grow closer as I've been blessed to do with my partner-
( Also I am working on my weight. Please do not offer me any weightloss tips. I have a history of eatingdisorders and I'm losing weight now with the help of my lovely diabetes nurse and my doctors advice )
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I'm 126 kg and I've always been overweight/obese. Due to bad genetics and PCOS and a whole lot of bad relationship with food. My partner on the other hand? Always been underweight. To where he's been assumed to have anorexia. He's currently at a barely average weight where there are no worries for his health.
And we've been together for 14 years. Met when I was 14 and he 15. First love and never let go since.
I didn't even know being one fat person and one skinny person in a relationship was weird. Sure our weightdifference is HUGE but I've never experienced anything like this couple.
It feels weird that others would judge them for who they love. But then again I'm not surprised because the world really does love to judge and hate on others for things that are none of their business.
I hope this couple gets to stay together and grow together and grow closer as I've been blessed to do with my partner-
( Also I am working on my weight. Please do not offer me any weightloss tips. I have a history of eatingdisorders and I'm losing weight now with the help of my lovely diabetes nurse and my doctors advice )
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Arrowverse
The only problem with this type of relationship I have seen is when the woman wants to get pregnant and she can't because she is overweight, so she wants to lose weight, but the guy is so stuck in his head because he's not attracted to lower weight woman, that he doesn't want her to lose weight and she never has a child. It honestly all comes down to selfishness. If a guy isn't so stuck in his head and is okay with being with a woman who has decided to lose weight, by all means, that is a very healthy relationship, but if a man can't see past her weight, and he is putting his preference before her happiness, it's not a healthy relationship and they should find other people.
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The only problem with this type of relationship I have seen is when the woman wants to get pregnant and she can't because she is overweight, so she wants to lose weight, but the guy is so stuck in his head because he's not attracted to lower weight woman, that he doesn't want her to lose weight and she never has a child. It honestly all comes down to selfishness. If a guy isn't so stuck in his head and is okay with being with a woman who has decided to lose weight, by all means, that is a very healthy relationship, but if a man can't see past her weight, and he is putting his preference before her happiness, it's not a healthy relationship and they should find other people.
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Jessie
I have a couple serious question? I think they are a beautiful couple and they compliment each other. So here's my question. I applaud her or your confidence Maria (not knowing if she will see this) that being said if there was something that came up where you have to lose weight would you do it, or do you think you would stay the way your are because of social media/society or because he prefers bigger women? That leads me to my next question which is for him or you Alin, do you think that you're attraction physically will change because of the weight loss?
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I have a couple serious question? I think they are a beautiful couple and they compliment each other. So here's my question. I applaud her or your confidence Maria (not knowing if she will see this) that being said if there was something that came up where you have to lose weight would you do it, or do you think you would stay the way your are because of social media/society or because he prefers bigger women? That leads me to my next question which is for him or you Alin, do you think that you're attraction physically will change because of the weight loss?
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Hensy
may god truly bless them both togethere with many more smiles laughing happines love faith hope prayers strength peacefullness gracefullness by growing old togethere enjoying each others love an heart with alot of hugs kisses i wish u both all the happines an the most beautiful womens in the whole world r bbw chubby ssbbw thickness big beautiful beauty they r warmth to hold in the cold winters an they keep u cool in the summers shades they all have huge heart caring kindness an they love u for who u r real true love inside an outside
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may god truly bless them both togethere with many more smiles laughing happines love faith hope prayers strength peacefullness gracefullness by growing old togethere enjoying each others love an heart with alot of hugs kisses i wish u both all the happines an the most beautiful womens in the whole world r bbw chubby ssbbw thickness big beautiful beauty they r warmth to hold in the cold winters an they keep u cool in the summers shades they all have huge heart caring kindness an they love u for who u r real true love inside an outside
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Vicki
I am an older person but I want to tell you that watching your story I cannot help but tell you both that this world is so full of cruel people and political violence with people just fighting against one another without reason. If you found love together then bless you both and continue on your life-s journey. - live your lives for YOU-. it doesn-t matter what other-s think. Sending you both hugs. -
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I am an older person but I want to tell you that watching your story I cannot help but tell you both that this world is so full of cruel people and political violence with people just fighting against one another without reason. If you found love together then bless you both and continue on your life-s journey. - live your lives for YOU-. it doesn-t matter what other-s think. Sending you both hugs. -
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2010Aveen
A 'mixed weight couple' oh boy please don't make that a term, they are just a couple. It's sad we live in a world were this is judged. It's assumed that he is the more attractive one because she is plus size but I'm sure many people would find her more attractive than him. Fatphobia and stigma is awful.
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A 'mixed weight couple' oh boy please don't make that a term, they are just a couple. It's sad we live in a world were this is judged. It's assumed that he is the more attractive one because she is plus size but I'm sure many people would find her more attractive than him. Fatphobia and stigma is awful.
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NyteKeeper
They're not in a -mixed-weight relationship-. They're in a -relationship-. I hate how everything these days has to have a label. Mixed-weight/race/age/whatever, it's all the same thing at the end of the day. A relationship.
However, I am one of the people concerned about Alin's bowl cut. Yikes.
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They're not in a -mixed-weight relationship-. They're in a -relationship-. I hate how everything these days has to have a label. Mixed-weight/race/age/whatever, it's all the same thing at the end of the day. A relationship.
However, I am one of the people concerned about Alin's bowl cut. Yikes.
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Carmen
I'll say this to this unique couple. Live your lives the best way you can and DO NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO THOSE NASTY COMMENTS you get from ignorant people. And I say to these people. if you do not have anything NICE TO SAY, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING AND KEEP YOUR IGNORANT COMMENTS TO YOURSELF. BE BLESS.
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I'll say this to this unique couple. Live your lives the best way you can and DO NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION TO THOSE NASTY COMMENTS you get from ignorant people. And I say to these people. if you do not have anything NICE TO SAY, DO NOT SAY ANYTHING AND KEEP YOUR IGNORANT COMMENTS TO YOURSELF. BE BLESS.
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Brittany
Most of the people around them, parents included, need to grow up. -
Please treat obesity like a health issue, not an aesthetics issue. Yes, her weight is unhealthy, but that is not a majority of the internet's reason for attacking her.
Assholes need to learn to mind their own.
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Most of the people around them, parents included, need to grow up. -
Please treat obesity like a health issue, not an aesthetics issue. Yes, her weight is unhealthy, but that is not a majority of the internet's reason for attacking her.
Assholes need to learn to mind their own.
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jessica
I do not like the way they paint Maria with this video. They make it seem like the guy is a straight catch and like Maria is something to have pity on. She literally doesn't have anything wrong with her. She is comfortable in her own skin. This video just doesn't sit right with me
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I do not like the way they paint Maria with this video. They make it seem like the guy is a straight catch and like Maria is something to have pity on. She literally doesn't have anything wrong with her. She is comfortable in her own skin. This video just doesn't sit right with me
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Samantha
I don-t see what the problem is! She-s a lovely attractive human being! Her size shouldn-t matter. He obviously sees something in her that he absolutely loves. His friend is evil for saying that he-s only with her for attention. That-s disgusting! Be happy for your friend!
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I don-t see what the problem is! She-s a lovely attractive human being! Her size shouldn-t matter. He obviously sees something in her that he absolutely loves. His friend is evil for saying that he-s only with her for attention. That-s disgusting! Be happy for your friend!
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Anderia
What has happened to our world? When did we start saying, -mixed weight relationship-? They are simply -people-! It has happened since the beginning of time but now our society has to put a foolish label on one person being larger than the other. Just complete insanity
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What has happened to our world? When did we start saying, -mixed weight relationship-? They are simply -people-! It has happened since the beginning of time but now our society has to put a foolish label on one person being larger than the other. Just complete insanity
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Field
Nothing is more beautiful than Love when it flows from a sincere heart.
Still imagining how God so loved me that He gave His only begotten Son to die a ransom for my soul.
Don't break her heart, Allain.
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Nothing is more beautiful than Love when it flows from a sincere heart.
Still imagining how God so loved me that He gave His only begotten Son to die a ransom for my soul.
Don't break her heart, Allain.
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Apara
Im a thin person, but LOVE chubby men. I find them more attractive than skinny ones by far. Theres nothing wrong with that, and no reason to harrass someone for it. People are weird to judge them!
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Im a thin person, but LOVE chubby men. I find them more attractive than skinny ones by far. Theres nothing wrong with that, and no reason to harrass someone for it. People are weird to judge them!
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Ashley
People are so mean and need to realize that just because they aren-t attracted to a larger person doesn-t mean the whole world feels the same way! People find all shapes and sizes attractive
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People are so mean and need to realize that just because they aren-t attracted to a larger person doesn-t mean the whole world feels the same way! People find all shapes and sizes attractive
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Nico_PZ
-Someone like me with her- umm excuse me, what makes him or his friend think they are visibly -acceptable- -
If I sat in a room with them I would only be questioning someone-s haircut -
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-Someone like me with her- umm excuse me, what makes him or his friend think they are visibly -acceptable- -
If I sat in a room with them I would only be questioning someone-s haircut -
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DollsCats
I couldn-t care less about a couples weight? What even is a mixed weight couple - I see couples like this daily? And never thought twice.
His funny hair is the biggest issue lol
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I couldn-t care less about a couples weight? What even is a mixed weight couple - I see couples like this daily? And never thought twice.
His funny hair is the biggest issue lol
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Elizabeth
Wow -- what a truly beautiful and loving couple. the fact that he makes her gorgeous clothes is soooo sweet. they love each other for who they are, on the inside and outside. goals!
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Wow -- what a truly beautiful and loving couple. the fact that he makes her gorgeous clothes is soooo sweet. they love each other for who they are, on the inside and outside. goals!
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Monica
There are many men who prefer bigger women- it's nothing new or unusual. They make a sweet couple but she should lose weight for her health. Being that big isn't healthy.
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There are many men who prefer bigger women- it's nothing new or unusual. They make a sweet couple but she should lose weight for her health. Being that big isn't healthy.
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Debra
She's not ugly she's very pretty but the only thing I would be worried about is how the weight affects her health not how it affects who she is and how pretty she is.
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She's not ugly she's very pretty but the only thing I would be worried about is how the weight affects her health not how it affects who she is and how pretty she is.
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Sandy
He-s no Brad Pitt, why wouldn-t people not believe he-s with her? She-s beautiful regardless of her size. It-s his short bob cut that needs to go. -
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He-s no Brad Pitt, why wouldn-t people not believe he-s with her? She-s beautiful regardless of her size. It-s his short bob cut that needs to go. -
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Nessy
I've never heard of a mixed weight couple, to be honest, I see a man and a woman in love nothing less, as long as they are happy leave them alone
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I've never heard of a mixed weight couple, to be honest, I see a man and a woman in love nothing less, as long as they are happy leave them alone
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Coqu-
If you truly loved your body, you would make the effort to get back down to a balanced weight. Both underweight and overweight are not healthy.
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If you truly loved your body, you would make the effort to get back down to a balanced weight. Both underweight and overweight are not healthy.
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samantha
I truly hope this is a genuine relationship I don't know something seems off and it's not because of her weight I am plus sized so
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I truly hope this is a genuine relationship I don't know something seems off and it's not because of her weight I am plus sized so
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Jessica
I didn't know mixed weight relationships were a big deal or problem, there's plenty of bigger women with skinny men and vice versa.
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I didn't know mixed weight relationships were a big deal or problem, there's plenty of bigger women with skinny men and vice versa.
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4D
personally, i think the bowl cut is cute and unique. just bc most people look shitty with a bowl cut doesnt mean he cant pull it off
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personally, i think the bowl cut is cute and unique. just bc most people look shitty with a bowl cut doesnt mean he cant pull it off
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Ash
Im so confused-. this is so normal -why are they viral? Fat people date smaller people all the time. shes not even that big.
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Im so confused-. this is so normal -why are they viral? Fat people date smaller people all the time. shes not even that big.
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123UpNorth321
A mixed weighed couple. that's a new one - Just let pple be happy with eachother if they crave companionship.
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A mixed weighed couple. that's a new one - Just let pple be happy with eachother if they crave companionship.
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JupiterOnKauai
All its counts they love each other. and they seem to be very sweet loving couple. so all the best for them
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All its counts they love each other. and they seem to be very sweet loving couple. so all the best for them
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Voni
I'm so jealous that you two found Love number one number two I can't thread a needle let alone sew. Kudos to you both
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I'm so jealous that you two found Love number one number two I can't thread a needle let alone sew. Kudos to you both
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