Ways To Recognize Toxic Friendships
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Lucy
I had a friend who had a variety of mental/developmental obstacles she was unable to overcome. She barely passed high school and was unable to pass the written portion of the drivers ed test. Not to mention she was also raised by an abusive elderly mother. But I was always there to support her and help her get through her darkest moments.
However, looking back, I think she started to take advantage of my kind nature. Soon, she started asking for a lift to the store even though I've had a long day at work. She even asked me to drive her and her dog to the groomers and got dog hair all over the interior of my car.
She even asked me to help her and her husband move out of their home. twice! The first time I was hesitant because my younger sister was in town and I wanted to spend time with her. The second time they moved, I had a cold and she guilt-tripped me into helping her, even though I wasn't feeling 100% and was crabby. She later got mad at me for my bad attitude, despite the fact that I told her that I was sick and grumpy.
The straw that broke the camel's back happened recently. I hadn't seen her in two years because of the pandemic but I often called her to say hello (keep in mind that I'M the one calling her, not the other way around. Then one day, she called me. Imagine my surprise and excitement when she was the one calling me for a change. To my disappointment, she was only calling to say she and her husband were moving yet again and that they needed me to help. I told her I'd think about it. Then last week, she messaged me asking for my decision. I still didn't know, mostly because my workload was large and my supervisor often asked me to OT on Saturday. She got angry at me for not giving her an answer. She said that a true friend would help no matter what and that she'd drop everything to help me (which is impossible for her because, again, she can't drive. After talking to my family, they told me she was only using me. It hurt to realize that. It made me stop and think about what else was she using me for. She messaged me again, trying to say that she still wanted to be friends and that she cared. I made my decision and told her that I was sorry but I couldn't help her this time.
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I had a friend who had a variety of mental/developmental obstacles she was unable to overcome. She barely passed high school and was unable to pass the written portion of the drivers ed test. Not to mention she was also raised by an abusive elderly mother. But I was always there to support her and help her get through her darkest moments.
However, looking back, I think she started to take advantage of my kind nature. Soon, she started asking for a lift to the store even though I've had a long day at work. She even asked me to drive her and her dog to the groomers and got dog hair all over the interior of my car.
She even asked me to help her and her husband move out of their home. twice! The first time I was hesitant because my younger sister was in town and I wanted to spend time with her. The second time they moved, I had a cold and she guilt-tripped me into helping her, even though I wasn't feeling 100% and was crabby. She later got mad at me for my bad attitude, despite the fact that I told her that I was sick and grumpy.
The straw that broke the camel's back happened recently. I hadn't seen her in two years because of the pandemic but I often called her to say hello (keep in mind that I'M the one calling her, not the other way around. Then one day, she called me. Imagine my surprise and excitement when she was the one calling me for a change. To my disappointment, she was only calling to say she and her husband were moving yet again and that they needed me to help. I told her I'd think about it. Then last week, she messaged me asking for my decision. I still didn't know, mostly because my workload was large and my supervisor often asked me to OT on Saturday. She got angry at me for not giving her an answer. She said that a true friend would help no matter what and that she'd drop everything to help me (which is impossible for her because, again, she can't drive. After talking to my family, they told me she was only using me. It hurt to realize that. It made me stop and think about what else was she using me for. She messaged me again, trying to say that she still wanted to be friends and that she cared. I made my decision and told her that I was sorry but I couldn't help her this time.
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Jaden
my friend is always so extra about everything and thinks he's funny and is always toxic, he sleeps like really late never responds are always toxic and always brings me into random drama with his friends to make me look bad for no reason he harasses people (in people i mean everyone) and only goes by his opinions, for example if i say oh my gosh he says cringe then continues to flame me for no reason. Always being a jerk. I sometimes miss him and tell him to unblock me and we play some games then he starts more drama and calls me toxic, I'm not toxic I'm just annoyed and irritated, he's immature and abuses his power lying about is age cause he has a deep voice making fun of kids who have a higher pitched voice and always pushing the girls he meets online to send him stuff. To top it all off he kind of has bad internet so every time he crashes he gets really angry and then leaves the call then joins back the slurs at me for being toxic then leaves then proceeds to block me like 1 hour later. Always makes fun of people and tells me to make fun of them and join his side in an argument over social media drama, then he becomes toxic to me invite me to a server leaves blocks me then gets his friend that he said he hates and is annoying JUST because he is short then proceeds to be toxic towards both of us. Him being so extra and always ignoring me for no reason and just not replying when i asked him a question then saying a racist or hurtful joke which isn't funny at all then doesn't talk, if he is in the middle of something he should at least tell me he can never think cause he sleeps for like 30 minutes and plays geometry dash and thinks he's the best. sorry i just had to get that off my chest I'm extremely irritated rn
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my friend is always so extra about everything and thinks he's funny and is always toxic, he sleeps like really late never responds are always toxic and always brings me into random drama with his friends to make me look bad for no reason he harasses people (in people i mean everyone) and only goes by his opinions, for example if i say oh my gosh he says cringe then continues to flame me for no reason. Always being a jerk. I sometimes miss him and tell him to unblock me and we play some games then he starts more drama and calls me toxic, I'm not toxic I'm just annoyed and irritated, he's immature and abuses his power lying about is age cause he has a deep voice making fun of kids who have a higher pitched voice and always pushing the girls he meets online to send him stuff. To top it all off he kind of has bad internet so every time he crashes he gets really angry and then leaves the call then joins back the slurs at me for being toxic then leaves then proceeds to block me like 1 hour later. Always makes fun of people and tells me to make fun of them and join his side in an argument over social media drama, then he becomes toxic to me invite me to a server leaves blocks me then gets his friend that he said he hates and is annoying JUST because he is short then proceeds to be toxic towards both of us. Him being so extra and always ignoring me for no reason and just not replying when i asked him a question then saying a racist or hurtful joke which isn't funny at all then doesn't talk, if he is in the middle of something he should at least tell me he can never think cause he sleeps for like 30 minutes and plays geometry dash and thinks he's the best. sorry i just had to get that off my chest I'm extremely irritated rn
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Aedan
I'm thinking of ending a friendship of 3 years tonight. I've tried ending it before and I always gravitate back. In the beginning he was a nice likable guy. We hung out a bunch and played video games. As the years progressed he met some of my long time friends and befriended them. He started acting hostile towards me and started picking sides with my friends. Of course my dumb self blew it off and never thought about it. But he started doing it more and more. I tried to open up about it a few times but he always shut me down and avoided the subject. For the last year or so hes been straight up emotionally abusing me. Telling me I'm worthless, ugly, anoying, telling me he hated me and even black mailing me, but he'd always just blow it off as a joke. He's super charismatic so I keep suppressing my feelings about it. He only comes to me when he needs my help or he's bored. He also has the biggest ego out of everyone I know, if I ever do good at something he always had to do it better. Everytime I open up to him about it he called me a wuss or a pussy and its lead to me having some serious emotional issues. I always think im not there for my friends when in reality he's been using me and abusing me emotionally for years. This time I'm sticking to my decision and I'm not talking to him again.
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I'm thinking of ending a friendship of 3 years tonight. I've tried ending it before and I always gravitate back. In the beginning he was a nice likable guy. We hung out a bunch and played video games. As the years progressed he met some of my long time friends and befriended them. He started acting hostile towards me and started picking sides with my friends. Of course my dumb self blew it off and never thought about it. But he started doing it more and more. I tried to open up about it a few times but he always shut me down and avoided the subject. For the last year or so hes been straight up emotionally abusing me. Telling me I'm worthless, ugly, anoying, telling me he hated me and even black mailing me, but he'd always just blow it off as a joke. He's super charismatic so I keep suppressing my feelings about it. He only comes to me when he needs my help or he's bored. He also has the biggest ego out of everyone I know, if I ever do good at something he always had to do it better. Everytime I open up to him about it he called me a wuss or a pussy and its lead to me having some serious emotional issues. I always think im not there for my friends when in reality he's been using me and abusing me emotionally for years. This time I'm sticking to my decision and I'm not talking to him again.
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education
i have a friend group on discord, they are the first ever friends i made in first grade at aa new school, the first ever one is one of my best friends, he has never been rude to me. the second one, we used to hang out all the time, but a few months ago he has been kind of toxic. me and my friends love playing bedwars but my toxic friend always acts like he is right. Now i cant tell if he is joking or not anymore. when i fall into the void or die, he says you suck man, even if he is joking, it is lowering my self esteem. i cant even talk to him about anything becuase i know he wont care. I like playing bedwars with my nice friend, we are a great team. It's not the game that made him toxic, we have been playing it for so long. It was recently when he started to be toxic. I am thinking of ending the friendship, but he is the only person i can talk to most the time, he is always online. my other friends play really early or late. My best nice friend, he is online as much as my toxic one, which is nice. My toxic friend can be ok sometimes but most the time he is toxic. Should i end my friendship with him. i would but i am not sure. Now IDC if anyone say's that i am sensitive, but my self esteem has been lowered for many reasons, not just him. Thanks for reading the whole thing.
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i have a friend group on discord, they are the first ever friends i made in first grade at aa new school, the first ever one is one of my best friends, he has never been rude to me. the second one, we used to hang out all the time, but a few months ago he has been kind of toxic. me and my friends love playing bedwars but my toxic friend always acts like he is right. Now i cant tell if he is joking or not anymore. when i fall into the void or die, he says you suck man, even if he is joking, it is lowering my self esteem. i cant even talk to him about anything becuase i know he wont care. I like playing bedwars with my nice friend, we are a great team. It's not the game that made him toxic, we have been playing it for so long. It was recently when he started to be toxic. I am thinking of ending the friendship, but he is the only person i can talk to most the time, he is always online. my other friends play really early or late. My best nice friend, he is online as much as my toxic one, which is nice. My toxic friend can be ok sometimes but most the time he is toxic. Should i end my friendship with him. i would but i am not sure. Now IDC if anyone say's that i am sensitive, but my self esteem has been lowered for many reasons, not just him. Thanks for reading the whole thing.
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Sweet
I have a problem with my best friend. I think she's kind of a faker and a user. First of all, the reason we became friends was that her ex best friend didn't want to be friends with her anymore saying that she was toxic, but she convinced me she was the victim and she became friends with me because at the time she needed help with her studies. But over the 3 years of our friendship her behaviour is making me uncomfortable. Like she only wants us to talk about her and she never listens to me when I wanna talk about something. And I'm fine that she constantly brags to everyone about being the most attractive one and that all the boys want her, but the other day she said in front of others that the only boyfriend I could ever have is a fictional one(which is true, but I felt really bad. I don't like how she always makes me feel inferior. The reason I watched this video is that today she was telling a friend of ours that her crush wouldn't like her and when I told her she can't say that she told me to shut up because I'm nothing.
I don't know what to do, because I don't want to just walk away but I also can't deal with this.
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I have a problem with my best friend. I think she's kind of a faker and a user. First of all, the reason we became friends was that her ex best friend didn't want to be friends with her anymore saying that she was toxic, but she convinced me she was the victim and she became friends with me because at the time she needed help with her studies. But over the 3 years of our friendship her behaviour is making me uncomfortable. Like she only wants us to talk about her and she never listens to me when I wanna talk about something. And I'm fine that she constantly brags to everyone about being the most attractive one and that all the boys want her, but the other day she said in front of others that the only boyfriend I could ever have is a fictional one(which is true, but I felt really bad. I don't like how she always makes me feel inferior. The reason I watched this video is that today she was telling a friend of ours that her crush wouldn't like her and when I told her she can't say that she told me to shut up because I'm nothing.
I don't know what to do, because I don't want to just walk away but I also can't deal with this.
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Reaver
I've had a female platonic friend for over 15 years, and I feel like the friendship has always been a bit toxic. But in the last couple of years I feel it's gotten worse. We've had a lot of drama throughout our friendship and I won't lie, back in our college days I caused a lot of it. Something I would learn about a decade later is never be friends with someone you like. For me I stopped liking her after a fight we had. We didn't speak for months, until she was in a situation where she had no one of course. The thing is for me people I truly consider my friends I consider part of my family. But after something that happened recently which I actually think is kind of funny I just don't even want that friendship anymore. My feelings are just gone. Every time I talk to her over the past couple of years she panics and goes off on some alt left tangent which I really don't care about. And talking with her is like putting myself into an emotional black hole. Any good feelings I had before the conversation are just gone.
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I've had a female platonic friend for over 15 years, and I feel like the friendship has always been a bit toxic. But in the last couple of years I feel it's gotten worse. We've had a lot of drama throughout our friendship and I won't lie, back in our college days I caused a lot of it. Something I would learn about a decade later is never be friends with someone you like. For me I stopped liking her after a fight we had. We didn't speak for months, until she was in a situation where she had no one of course. The thing is for me people I truly consider my friends I consider part of my family. But after something that happened recently which I actually think is kind of funny I just don't even want that friendship anymore. My feelings are just gone. Every time I talk to her over the past couple of years she panics and goes off on some alt left tangent which I really don't care about. And talking with her is like putting myself into an emotional black hole. Any good feelings I had before the conversation are just gone.
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bryana
Guys please help. okay so like i dont have many friends and I have one (lets call her Kate) that she was my best friend but I think she got way too comfortable with me letting everything slide. like she is always fishing for attention like saying omg Im so fat and when I say you are perfect the way you are she starts telling me that I always say the same thing so we start arguing for like an hour so she kinda wastes my time but then at the end of the day were fine and then it happens everyday. I have another friend (lets call her Jamie) and Kate knows about her and supposedly, Kate is my beset friend and Kate is always like go with your best friend jaimie so its definitely a toxic friendship if shes jelous of my other friends. Im so scared to end the friendship because I dont have many friends and I dont want it being awkward between us so I really dont know what to do and we usually ask each other like do you still want to be my friend and we both say yes knowing that something isnt right.
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Guys please help. okay so like i dont have many friends and I have one (lets call her Kate) that she was my best friend but I think she got way too comfortable with me letting everything slide. like she is always fishing for attention like saying omg Im so fat and when I say you are perfect the way you are she starts telling me that I always say the same thing so we start arguing for like an hour so she kinda wastes my time but then at the end of the day were fine and then it happens everyday. I have another friend (lets call her Jamie) and Kate knows about her and supposedly, Kate is my beset friend and Kate is always like go with your best friend jaimie so its definitely a toxic friendship if shes jelous of my other friends. Im so scared to end the friendship because I dont have many friends and I dont want it being awkward between us so I really dont know what to do and we usually ask each other like do you still want to be my friend and we both say yes knowing that something isnt right.
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The
Im not out of a friendship that I suspect to be toxic yet, but I would like to talk about it here. Please tell me if Im being selfish about it though!
I have a friend and they really complain a lot. Like its normal to vent but holy crap! Thats not the bad part. Lots of people vent. But I tried to talk about my own issues and they told me theyre not my therapist and cant help me. They get to say that their family is mean to them and thats fair, I dont live there, but whenever I go over to their house their family is exactly like mine! They just get into trouble more I guess. Every talk we have is either them showing off or them complaining but Im afraid Im being selfish if I make our friendship fade away. I have other friends that seem to care more and we all look out for each other, the mental load isnt passed to just one person like it is in the friendship Im talking about.
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Im not out of a friendship that I suspect to be toxic yet, but I would like to talk about it here. Please tell me if Im being selfish about it though!
I have a friend and they really complain a lot. Like its normal to vent but holy crap! Thats not the bad part. Lots of people vent. But I tried to talk about my own issues and they told me theyre not my therapist and cant help me. They get to say that their family is mean to them and thats fair, I dont live there, but whenever I go over to their house their family is exactly like mine! They just get into trouble more I guess. Every talk we have is either them showing off or them complaining but Im afraid Im being selfish if I make our friendship fade away. I have other friends that seem to care more and we all look out for each other, the mental load isnt passed to just one person like it is in the friendship Im talking about.
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Dont
I came out of a toxic relationship. At the time it was tough. Even though she was abusive towards me and stealing money from me, strangely I still wanted to be with her somehow. tough times! But, leaving that toxic relationship tought me alot and was probably one of my most important lessons in life. Because it tought me how to recognize BS early and recognize what I like in all relationships. I have removed around 6 so called friends from my life and have 2 very close friends one of which is my brother and I have a wonderful gf who loves me and I love her. And I have never been happier. One of the friends was my best friend of 18 years and I always knew deep down that he used me but leaving a toxic relationship tought me that when you remove the toxicity, you will feel pure. Dont worry about how long a toxic person has been in your life, you WILL feel better for it.
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I came out of a toxic relationship. At the time it was tough. Even though she was abusive towards me and stealing money from me, strangely I still wanted to be with her somehow. tough times! But, leaving that toxic relationship tought me alot and was probably one of my most important lessons in life. Because it tought me how to recognize BS early and recognize what I like in all relationships. I have removed around 6 so called friends from my life and have 2 very close friends one of which is my brother and I have a wonderful gf who loves me and I love her. And I have never been happier. One of the friends was my best friend of 18 years and I always knew deep down that he used me but leaving a toxic relationship tought me that when you remove the toxicity, you will feel pure. Dont worry about how long a toxic person has been in your life, you WILL feel better for it.
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lintea
My best friend stopped talking to me after I went through a tough emotional period at school, saying she never knows what to say when I'm sad, so she just leaves me and lets my other friends comfort me. Then I got my grades for my winter exams and she stopped talking to me once she realised she got lower grades than me. I was there trying to comfort her, like always, even if I couldn't find anything to say I'd just rub her back and hug her and try to calm her down. I'd do that with all of her school drama and even the littlest things that would get her upset. But I didn't see the same decency from her, not then, and not from the start of our friendship. I now haven't talked to her since I got those grades, so about 2 months. She doesn't talk to me either and honestly, that's not my problem, I still have friends. All I'd wanna know is why she really did that.
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My best friend stopped talking to me after I went through a tough emotional period at school, saying she never knows what to say when I'm sad, so she just leaves me and lets my other friends comfort me. Then I got my grades for my winter exams and she stopped talking to me once she realised she got lower grades than me. I was there trying to comfort her, like always, even if I couldn't find anything to say I'd just rub her back and hug her and try to calm her down. I'd do that with all of her school drama and even the littlest things that would get her upset. But I didn't see the same decency from her, not then, and not from the start of our friendship. I now haven't talked to her since I got those grades, so about 2 months. She doesn't talk to me either and honestly, that's not my problem, I still have friends. All I'd wanna know is why she really did that.
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education
I think that threeof my friends are users because they always mame me do stuff for them and always ask for money even if they have their own, but those three friends are my friend from grade 1 so I dont know if I should reject them and they also try to control what I do like for example I lost in a game of basketball they always say WHY DID YOU DO THAT You should hold the ball like this and whenever I take their advise I always fail either way there is also this friend that whenever we got in an argument they would try to regain my trust by saying sorry I didnt mean that and other stuff but when I do trust them again they judge me but when I dont they will hate me and tell my secrets to other people.
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I think that threeof my friends are users because they always mame me do stuff for them and always ask for money even if they have their own, but those three friends are my friend from grade 1 so I dont know if I should reject them and they also try to control what I do like for example I lost in a game of basketball they always say WHY DID YOU DO THAT You should hold the ball like this and whenever I take their advise I always fail either way there is also this friend that whenever we got in an argument they would try to regain my trust by saying sorry I didnt mean that and other stuff but when I do trust them again they judge me but when I dont they will hate me and tell my secrets to other people.
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Octo
Imo I dont get why people get offended when they are being used I mean. Here are some reasons to be sad
-you thought they were your friends the whole time
-they made a fool of you
(If you have more reasons reply please
Things that flatter you
-if they use you for beauty and care its like they are telling you that ur attractive without doing it
-If they use you for homework or smth they think ur smarter than them
Anyways this is my opinion if u have been used I am SO sorry just stop thinking of who used you and get over them, you thinking if ur a bad friend and struggling to get over them is EXACTLY a what they want to happen
Dont cry because its over, smile because it happend
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Imo I dont get why people get offended when they are being used I mean. Here are some reasons to be sad
-you thought they were your friends the whole time
-they made a fool of you
(If you have more reasons reply please
Things that flatter you
-if they use you for beauty and care its like they are telling you that ur attractive without doing it
-If they use you for homework or smth they think ur smarter than them
Anyways this is my opinion if u have been used I am SO sorry just stop thinking of who used you and get over them, you thinking if ur a bad friend and struggling to get over them is EXACTLY a what they want to happen
Dont cry because its over, smile because it happend
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No
im not 100% sure if my hs friends are toxic, i just started hs months ago and already made friends with a few people, there are four of us, at first i was all talkative and happy, then nowadays they seem to avoid talking to me, like they would always respond to me with the shortest answer, and many times i asked 2 of them to go to the school restroom but they rejected me then when im done using the restroom the 2 suddenly came in, idk, it's probably bcs at some point i was joking around being fruity to all of them and they felt uncomfy, or is it bcs im ugly? ive been crying for the last 3 days bcs of school work and i kept thinking what i couldve done wrong to them to deserve this
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im not 100% sure if my hs friends are toxic, i just started hs months ago and already made friends with a few people, there are four of us, at first i was all talkative and happy, then nowadays they seem to avoid talking to me, like they would always respond to me with the shortest answer, and many times i asked 2 of them to go to the school restroom but they rejected me then when im done using the restroom the 2 suddenly came in, idk, it's probably bcs at some point i was joking around being fruity to all of them and they felt uncomfy, or is it bcs im ugly? ive been crying for the last 3 days bcs of school work and i kept thinking what i couldve done wrong to them to deserve this
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Hype
I need your advice: My friend is sweet, loving, and caring, but Im not sure she understands me so well. She constantly talks about her relationship and its problems, knowing that Ive never been in a relationship nor a the best friendships either. Shes also with her girlfriend most of the time, and never takes some time with me. It might sound possessive or something, but thats how it is. I dont bring it to her attention because I dont want to start a conflict, I dont wanna lose her, as shes my only friend, and it seems like she cant live without her gf. What should I do? Help me plz
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I need your advice: My friend is sweet, loving, and caring, but Im not sure she understands me so well. She constantly talks about her relationship and its problems, knowing that Ive never been in a relationship nor a the best friendships either. Shes also with her girlfriend most of the time, and never takes some time with me. It might sound possessive or something, but thats how it is. I dont bring it to her attention because I dont want to start a conflict, I dont wanna lose her, as shes my only friend, and it seems like she cant live without her gf. What should I do? Help me plz
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Ganti
Need help. Idk if I have a toxic friend or not. So there are some time where its clear but Im not sure. lets call my friend brooke. So. she is normal sometimes but there were time where she'd say things that are soo mean. Once I was having lunch with her and I was happy that day, and then she randomly said do you think you're a princess I said no bc yk I dont have very good self esteem. And there was a time where she said indirectly If I couldnt do better how can you which really pissed me of but I didnt say anything. And also some others but its too much to explain
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Need help. Idk if I have a toxic friend or not. So there are some time where its clear but Im not sure. lets call my friend brooke. So. she is normal sometimes but there were time where she'd say things that are soo mean. Once I was having lunch with her and I was happy that day, and then she randomly said do you think you're a princess I said no bc yk I dont have very good self esteem. And there was a time where she said indirectly If I couldnt do better how can you which really pissed me of but I didnt say anything. And also some others but its too much to explain
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Drina
I'm selective when it comes to friendships. I got out of several toxic ones once I learned they were users and fakers. I cut them off after graduation because I refused to be their doormat for one more second. Their requests became overwhelming and ridiculous. I started to build resentment. My judgment was so poor that I thought the people I hung out with at school were good. They started only talking to me when they needed something from me. Don't say yes so often that people start taking advantage of your kindness and using your good nature against you.
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I'm selective when it comes to friendships. I got out of several toxic ones once I learned they were users and fakers. I cut them off after graduation because I refused to be their doormat for one more second. Their requests became overwhelming and ridiculous. I started to build resentment. My judgment was so poor that I thought the people I hung out with at school were good. They started only talking to me when they needed something from me. Don't say yes so often that people start taking advantage of your kindness and using your good nature against you.
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The
My friend has been acting bad (at least in my opinion) recently. He is rude to me and my friends when I am with them and calls us bozos. And I have this friend who is a girl and everytime I ask her something, they go like, ooooohhh so you guys are dating now? And I am honestly really annoyed by him. He even tries to be the leader in group projects and ignores other people saying they are the leader and makes fun of my friend because of his height. I feel like I shouldnt be his friend anymore, but I dont know if I should make the decision.
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My friend has been acting bad (at least in my opinion) recently. He is rude to me and my friends when I am with them and calls us bozos. And I have this friend who is a girl and everytime I ask her something, they go like, ooooohhh so you guys are dating now? And I am honestly really annoyed by him. He even tries to be the leader in group projects and ignores other people saying they are the leader and makes fun of my friend because of his height. I feel like I shouldnt be his friend anymore, but I dont know if I should make the decision.
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Youtube
Hi, I have a question:
2: 20 fakers
-always do bad things to other (be defensive after someone has called them out because of their malicious behaviors)
-want to take more than give (fakers have high tendency to be reliant to self gain)
-only be a friend with someone with at least 1 trait that is far more inferior to them (faker friends with people who they deem less than themselves.
Am I understand all these information correctly as the same as you have said in the clip?
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Hi, I have a question:
2: 20 fakers
-always do bad things to other (be defensive after someone has called them out because of their malicious behaviors)
-want to take more than give (fakers have high tendency to be reliant to self gain)
-only be a friend with someone with at least 1 trait that is far more inferior to them (faker friends with people who they deem less than themselves.
Am I understand all these information correctly as the same as you have said in the clip?
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niharika
I used to be the unaware but ones told me what i. was doing I realazided and changed. but it was to late cause hated me now. I tried many times to be freind with but i think i effected them too much. they started shouting and hitting me. and then they told everyone I was a bad freind and said i hit them even though I never did and they were they one who got me in front of EVERYONEEE. yet people take their side and I don't get it. I just don't get it at all please help
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I used to be the unaware but ones told me what i. was doing I realazided and changed. but it was to late cause hated me now. I tried many times to be freind with but i think i effected them too much. they started shouting and hitting me. and then they told everyone I was a bad freind and said i hit them even though I never did and they were they one who got me in front of EVERYONEEE. yet people take their side and I don't get it. I just don't get it at all please help
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Vanishes
Sometimes my friend comes to my house and when im about to sit to the pc he does so before i do, and i give him all the rights, i watch him play for nearly 3 hours without even saying anything, and when it comes to me playing for 5 MINUTES, he starts doing all his crap, He stands up of the chair he turns around the room like to show me something, he says, hey bro close this shit bro its shit anyways come on man
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Sometimes my friend comes to my house and when im about to sit to the pc he does so before i do, and i give him all the rights, i watch him play for nearly 3 hours without even saying anything, and when it comes to me playing for 5 MINUTES, he starts doing all his crap, He stands up of the chair he turns around the room like to show me something, he says, hey bro close this shit bro its shit anyways come on man
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Name
This is probably not what a toxic friendship means, but I have a theory.
For some reason, its like in the beginning of the school year, you make friends and talk, but then when youre progressing, they ignore you or its like they change their personalty. Its like theres some negative corruption or something; everybody is more rude to you.
(I probably sound dumb while typing this comment)
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This is probably not what a toxic friendship means, but I have a theory.
For some reason, its like in the beginning of the school year, you make friends and talk, but then when youre progressing, they ignore you or its like they change their personalty. Its like theres some negative corruption or something; everybody is more rude to you.
(I probably sound dumb while typing this comment)
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Debbie
I had a friend who would talk to me everyday but on occasions they would give me the silent treatment so yesterday I blocked them as this was the fourth time it happened I cannot handle someone who chats a lot everyday then disappears then think they can walk back into my life I felt used and belittled so I blocked them a true friend stands by you and I felt this person was not a good friend
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I had a friend who would talk to me everyday but on occasions they would give me the silent treatment so yesterday I blocked them as this was the fourth time it happened I cannot handle someone who chats a lot everyday then disappears then think they can walk back into my life I felt used and belittled so I blocked them a true friend stands by you and I felt this person was not a good friend
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Alexia
So I have a current friend right now that makes me feel like she is toxic. She hit me over a phone charger and then talked shit about me on the phone, and now she wants to hangout all of a sudden after 3 weeks. She was being kinda pushy in my opinion like she would ask when I got outta work and I didn't reply because I was scared asf. Should I just end this friendship?
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So I have a current friend right now that makes me feel like she is toxic. She hit me over a phone charger and then talked shit about me on the phone, and now she wants to hangout all of a sudden after 3 weeks. She was being kinda pushy in my opinion like she would ask when I got outta work and I didn't reply because I was scared asf. Should I just end this friendship?
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AutoDrifter
I had a friend that kept being mean faking and saying lieing to me on roblox i met her 2 times but when it hit jan 1 this year everything turned toxic saying bad stuff and mean stuff me and my cousin tought haha its a joke but it just got worse until the point i was called names bc she was lgtbq and i was not and she got mad at me for that thats my story
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I had a friend that kept being mean faking and saying lieing to me on roblox i met her 2 times but when it hit jan 1 this year everything turned toxic saying bad stuff and mean stuff me and my cousin tought haha its a joke but it just got worse until the point i was called names bc she was lgtbq and i was not and she got mad at me for that thats my story
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Rawlon
Ive been in a friendship with an unaware faker and its been awful. One day theyll put me down to make themselves feel better then the next day they will beg me to talk to them and stop ignoring them. They have such a fragile ego because once I call them out for it they get all defensive. Im ending this toxic relationship soon. Thank you for this video.
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Ive been in a friendship with an unaware faker and its been awful. One day theyll put me down to make themselves feel better then the next day they will beg me to talk to them and stop ignoring them. They have such a fragile ego because once I call them out for it they get all defensive. Im ending this toxic relationship soon. Thank you for this video.
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