10 Ways to Deal With a Narcissist
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Vintoiu
I will tell you my story, i co-founded a company with a covert narcissist, i thought at the beggining that he is friendly and is my friend. They manipulate you in ways that you can't imagine, they change you and i am not kidding.
After almost 6 years i figgured it out. Because i couldn't handle no more, the guilt, the gaslight etc.
I found my self in position to negotiate, and it has been a hell. Advices. take time for healing and understanding really well what you are dealing with.
Everybody thinks about the narcissist that is a such s good guy and he well make stories such you are the bad guy.
Accept that, start healing, be in no contact. Don t respond, don't defend.
When you negotiate they will be something like my way or highway it s also a manipulation. Please see fbi tactic negotiate with narcissist.
They have flaws, you can manipulate them, you can escape.
Be aware that he will try to keep the mask untill they die.
Break the cycle, be brave, manipulate them, don t think that you will change them.
Good luck with your journey!
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I will tell you my story, i co-founded a company with a covert narcissist, i thought at the beggining that he is friendly and is my friend. They manipulate you in ways that you can't imagine, they change you and i am not kidding.
After almost 6 years i figgured it out. Because i couldn't handle no more, the guilt, the gaslight etc.
I found my self in position to negotiate, and it has been a hell. Advices. take time for healing and understanding really well what you are dealing with.
Everybody thinks about the narcissist that is a such s good guy and he well make stories such you are the bad guy.
Accept that, start healing, be in no contact. Don t respond, don't defend.
When you negotiate they will be something like my way or highway it s also a manipulation. Please see fbi tactic negotiate with narcissist.
They have flaws, you can manipulate them, you can escape.
Be aware that he will try to keep the mask untill they die.
Break the cycle, be brave, manipulate them, don t think that you will change them.
Good luck with your journey!
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Kimberly
Found this really helpful to recognize that my current partner is a vulnerable narcissist. Nobody could change a person by your own way or help them, its a self made decision for them to change. My current partner is a big red flag, he's prideful, sarcastic, impatient, has anger issues, trust issues, always blames, play victim and always tell me I am selfish and I am the one who always seeks to be understood but in fact he never cared about how I feel and as if I never supported him when he's down, but I always do. I had to be strong all the time for him and act I am never hurting so I dont invalidate what he feels. It really feels like hell and I have never told anyone about it because I can't accept I have let someone treat me this bad. I am suffering from depression for the longest time now and this whole year chapter has been the worst for me, this is the first time I was able to reach out, at least to somebody who doesnt who know us personally. Thank you for sharing this video.
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Found this really helpful to recognize that my current partner is a vulnerable narcissist. Nobody could change a person by your own way or help them, its a self made decision for them to change. My current partner is a big red flag, he's prideful, sarcastic, impatient, has anger issues, trust issues, always blames, play victim and always tell me I am selfish and I am the one who always seeks to be understood but in fact he never cared about how I feel and as if I never supported him when he's down, but I always do. I had to be strong all the time for him and act I am never hurting so I dont invalidate what he feels. It really feels like hell and I have never told anyone about it because I can't accept I have let someone treat me this bad. I am suffering from depression for the longest time now and this whole year chapter has been the worst for me, this is the first time I was able to reach out, at least to somebody who doesnt who know us personally. Thank you for sharing this video.
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Timmy
The thing is and I know this is crazy. I married my wife and going in I knew she had mental problems (bipolar narcassict) and I know I have problems ( depression anxiety. We knew this and accepted eachother for who we are and trusted we would help eachother through it. Weve been married 2 years now and its going well but its so hard because there isnt much change that has happened with our personalities we kind of just deal with eachother. Its kind of the feeling of no one else wants to deal with us so we put up with eachother. We love one another very much and are happy together. Life is what you make it and even if you and your partner are all messed up you can still be happy together.
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The thing is and I know this is crazy. I married my wife and going in I knew she had mental problems (bipolar narcassict) and I know I have problems ( depression anxiety. We knew this and accepted eachother for who we are and trusted we would help eachother through it. Weve been married 2 years now and its going well but its so hard because there isnt much change that has happened with our personalities we kind of just deal with eachother. Its kind of the feeling of no one else wants to deal with us so we put up with eachother. We love one another very much and are happy together. Life is what you make it and even if you and your partner are all messed up you can still be happy together.
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wings
Somehow i keep in the cycle of living with a narcissists, the late night shouting, hitting and beating, manipulation, no regard of my emotions, i just want to move out but its not possible forba year, i think about jumoing off the roof of the building when it happens at night, i go completely numb when they shout so much at me, they say why are you so silent now, but i can't reply with i just want it to be over, my only coping mechanism is to cry and my eyesight is becoming bad day by day, i have lost hope for this life, it feels like i was a experiment by god jusf to see how much i can endure before i give up, its just a matter of time
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Somehow i keep in the cycle of living with a narcissists, the late night shouting, hitting and beating, manipulation, no regard of my emotions, i just want to move out but its not possible forba year, i think about jumoing off the roof of the building when it happens at night, i go completely numb when they shout so much at me, they say why are you so silent now, but i can't reply with i just want it to be over, my only coping mechanism is to cry and my eyesight is becoming bad day by day, i have lost hope for this life, it feels like i was a experiment by god jusf to see how much i can endure before i give up, its just a matter of time
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Leon
This is the most irresponsible video Ive ever seen on narcissism/narcissist ever. Its one thing to have maybe a trait or two but when someone has a full-fledged narcissistic personality disorder, absolutely none of this pertains. Very irresponsible and very misleading. This should be taken down immediately! Furthermore you should not be giving anyone hope when staying with a narcissist, theyre highly destructive and abusive people that are completely fake an out to lie, manipulate, cheat and steal by exploiting anyone they know not to mention theyll break your heart 100 times worse than a regular relationship since its all a con.
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This is the most irresponsible video Ive ever seen on narcissism/narcissist ever. Its one thing to have maybe a trait or two but when someone has a full-fledged narcissistic personality disorder, absolutely none of this pertains. Very irresponsible and very misleading. This should be taken down immediately! Furthermore you should not be giving anyone hope when staying with a narcissist, theyre highly destructive and abusive people that are completely fake an out to lie, manipulate, cheat and steal by exploiting anyone they know not to mention theyll break your heart 100 times worse than a regular relationship since its all a con.
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FunnyHell
I am dating a narcissist right now. I haven't really gotten into what that meant until now. As you mention, they are not their disorder. He doesn't act narcissistic 100% of the time. But I realize now. I can't expect him to meet my needs. But what hurts me the most as an empath is remembering him being sad and saying I just want to be loved for who I am. Who Doesn't want that? And knowing that it will be hard for him, being a narcissist. ofc I really want to be that person for him. I already feel so strongly for him. but I will be left aside. my needs won't be met. and I feel torn.
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I am dating a narcissist right now. I haven't really gotten into what that meant until now. As you mention, they are not their disorder. He doesn't act narcissistic 100% of the time. But I realize now. I can't expect him to meet my needs. But what hurts me the most as an empath is remembering him being sad and saying I just want to be loved for who I am. Who Doesn't want that? And knowing that it will be hard for him, being a narcissist. ofc I really want to be that person for him. I already feel so strongly for him. but I will be left aside. my needs won't be met. and I feel torn.
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N.
This is awful, you cant help them! To have to separate! They need much more than you can give. You think you have positive relationships with them but they are just manipulating them. They are only nice because they want something. They are definitely responsible for what they say and do. They are dangerous. They will also cut you off from your good relationships. They will lie to people about you or about those you love. They are super controlling but will make it, at the beginning anyways, look like they are caring for you or protecting you. They are NOT!
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This is awful, you cant help them! To have to separate! They need much more than you can give. You think you have positive relationships with them but they are just manipulating them. They are only nice because they want something. They are definitely responsible for what they say and do. They are dangerous. They will also cut you off from your good relationships. They will lie to people about you or about those you love. They are super controlling but will make it, at the beginning anyways, look like they are caring for you or protecting you. They are NOT!
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Victor
How you handle narcissist is very simple. This helps me and works for me and always has worked for me. You tell them how you feel, but due to a way where they feel like youre not attacking them for struggling with it, and then explain it to them that, even though they feel like that better, important, or more important, or feel like that, they come first its genuine Langley a good thing, to be considerate to others, and what they need if they dont fit, then you isolate yourself from Them.
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How you handle narcissist is very simple. This helps me and works for me and always has worked for me. You tell them how you feel, but due to a way where they feel like youre not attacking them for struggling with it, and then explain it to them that, even though they feel like that better, important, or more important, or feel like that, they come first its genuine Langley a good thing, to be considerate to others, and what they need if they dont fit, then you isolate yourself from Them.
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Chilango
Let me tell You how I ended up My narc abuser. Cause it was no way to finish the relationship without being manipulated and involved in it one more time. SO basicalIy fok someone else and directly speaked My mind. She WAS so furious that she moved on back with her ex. Let me tell You, it WAS very painful, but after 4 months out and working in therapy I'm winning myself one more time. TELL YOUR HISTORY IT IS TRUTH RESPECT YOUR NARRATIVE CAUSE IT IS ABSOLUTLY THE TRUE.
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Let me tell You how I ended up My narc abuser. Cause it was no way to finish the relationship without being manipulated and involved in it one more time. SO basicalIy fok someone else and directly speaked My mind. She WAS so furious that she moved on back with her ex. Let me tell You, it WAS very painful, but after 4 months out and working in therapy I'm winning myself one more time. TELL YOUR HISTORY IT IS TRUTH RESPECT YOUR NARRATIVE CAUSE IT IS ABSOLUTLY THE TRUE.
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Lulu
I think the most powerful thing you said here is that I should remember that they're more than they're disorder. It acknowledges the fact they have a problem, but that they are not a problem. Just a human being wwith a problem that has no guarantee of being fixed. This video allowed me to have more conpassion for the narc. However, not amount of sympathy, empathy or compassion will ever push me to tolerate or accept their nusiance behaviour due to their problem.
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I think the most powerful thing you said here is that I should remember that they're more than they're disorder. It acknowledges the fact they have a problem, but that they are not a problem. Just a human being wwith a problem that has no guarantee of being fixed. This video allowed me to have more conpassion for the narc. However, not amount of sympathy, empathy or compassion will ever push me to tolerate or accept their nusiance behaviour due to their problem.
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EMC_GamerCats18
I dont know how dealing with a narcissist is possible. I live with my father and he only focuses on himself. When I try to approach him in a respectful manner and get him to understand what he did wrong he will get mad at me and start blaming me. You should literally post a video on what triggers a narcissist, because almost everything positive I do triggers my father. I have to literally move out because of how bad it has gotten in the past year.
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I dont know how dealing with a narcissist is possible. I live with my father and he only focuses on himself. When I try to approach him in a respectful manner and get him to understand what he did wrong he will get mad at me and start blaming me. You should literally post a video on what triggers a narcissist, because almost everything positive I do triggers my father. I have to literally move out because of how bad it has gotten in the past year.
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50
Advising to accept them is the MOST irresponsible thing Ive heard on this topic. Get away from them as soon as you can.
Accepting a narcissist is asking for trouble as it only breeds more contempt in them for you. There is no accepting a narcissist.
What youll be accepting is more deceit and abuse and you will have inflicted this on yourself. They cannot be changed. Do not hope for better - unfortunately, its impossible.
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Advising to accept them is the MOST irresponsible thing Ive heard on this topic. Get away from them as soon as you can.
Accepting a narcissist is asking for trouble as it only breeds more contempt in them for you. There is no accepting a narcissist.
What youll be accepting is more deceit and abuse and you will have inflicted this on yourself. They cannot be changed. Do not hope for better - unfortunately, its impossible.
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Lori
This video is so different from other videos I have seen on the topic of narcissists. I am empathetic. which is why I am in this situation. I used those tools, they did not work. In fact my narcissistic husband went as far as to deny empathy as real and then he claimed it was born of My traumatic childhood. Our issues never were caused by him and his lies and infidelity.
We are now in process of divorce. DARVO anyone?
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This video is so different from other videos I have seen on the topic of narcissists. I am empathetic. which is why I am in this situation. I used those tools, they did not work. In fact my narcissistic husband went as far as to deny empathy as real and then he claimed it was born of My traumatic childhood. Our issues never were caused by him and his lies and infidelity.
We are now in process of divorce. DARVO anyone?
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Sea2Sky
I agree with the comments here. I don't know why every site/video for coping with narcissist is to have compassion and empathy towards them. Isn't that exactly what they prey on? They abuse those that do show them that kind of kindness. I say the only way to deal with them is so sever/cut ties with them and never go back. Ignoring them is the only way I can protect myself.
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I agree with the comments here. I don't know why every site/video for coping with narcissist is to have compassion and empathy towards them. Isn't that exactly what they prey on? They abuse those that do show them that kind of kindness. I say the only way to deal with them is so sever/cut ties with them and never go back. Ignoring them is the only way I can protect myself.
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Pontiac
My dad is a narcissist it has ruined everything i don't even look at him as my dad its sad and he's made the family drift away. I just wanna help him cause i feel like hes depressed sometimes but idk he never speaks with me but when he does its always negative stuff. He always tries to bring me down. I mean im used to it now but it still hurts that i never had a father
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My dad is a narcissist it has ruined everything i don't even look at him as my dad its sad and he's made the family drift away. I just wanna help him cause i feel like hes depressed sometimes but idk he never speaks with me but when he does its always negative stuff. He always tries to bring me down. I mean im used to it now but it still hurts that i never had a father
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Lindbo
I struggle with my narcissistic tendencies Im on the lower self esteem side and I always try to be more of a listener but its hard sometimes because its just by nature that we think everything could be about us or relates to our past experiences and that usually overshadows the other people. Yeah I know its shallow but I do wish the best for people.
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I struggle with my narcissistic tendencies Im on the lower self esteem side and I always try to be more of a listener but its hard sometimes because its just by nature that we think everything could be about us or relates to our past experiences and that usually overshadows the other people. Yeah I know its shallow but I do wish the best for people.
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Evelyn
Ughhhh I cannot accept another narcissist and see them as more than their disorder. Being in a relationship and also having family members who are narcs are mentally draining. I dont ever want to tolerate their shit I will just disown them then and there. There psychological bullying hurts deep and they dont care about no one else but themselves
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Ughhhh I cannot accept another narcissist and see them as more than their disorder. Being in a relationship and also having family members who are narcs are mentally draining. I dont ever want to tolerate their shit I will just disown them then and there. There psychological bullying hurts deep and they dont care about no one else but themselves
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Nick
Everything is about how to treat the grandiose narcissist carefully and adjust your perfectly reasonable behaviour to suit THEM. Hell no! I respectfully decline to engage in their manipulation and if youre a grandiose narcissist then stay the fk away from me because Im not your friend or parent who needs you to have your needs considered.
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Everything is about how to treat the grandiose narcissist carefully and adjust your perfectly reasonable behaviour to suit THEM. Hell no! I respectfully decline to engage in their manipulation and if youre a grandiose narcissist then stay the fk away from me because Im not your friend or parent who needs you to have your needs considered.
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Радост
I'm trying to figure out if a person is narcissist or not because whenever Im with her she always have to talk about herself and when I try say something she always argues like I'm wrong (when she is in bad mood) and is rude when our other friend is with us bt when we are alone she's nice once she yelled at me for no reason
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I'm trying to figure out if a person is narcissist or not because whenever Im with her she always have to talk about herself and when I try say something she always argues like I'm wrong (when she is in bad mood) and is rude when our other friend is with us bt when we are alone she's nice once she yelled at me for no reason
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rior247
That video came from a person who is trying to make you except that they are wrong and you have to except it if any men read this I bet 110% that when youve done nothing wrong youve been made to feel like you have and they will say but what about how I feel and and make you feel bad when theyre the one who did something wrong
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That video came from a person who is trying to make you except that they are wrong and you have to except it if any men read this I bet 110% that when youve done nothing wrong youve been made to feel like you have and they will say but what about how I feel and and make you feel bad when theyre the one who did something wrong
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zen_fapfap
Narcissists are super sensitive reverse blaming gaslighting hypocrites.
It's of no surprise that many who have had whatever type of relationship with them find it impossible and intolerable. They are selfish takers and will drain their victims and push the victim into questioning their own sanity.
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Narcissists are super sensitive reverse blaming gaslighting hypocrites.
It's of no surprise that many who have had whatever type of relationship with them find it impossible and intolerable. They are selfish takers and will drain their victims and push the victim into questioning their own sanity.
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Lauren
Walking on eggshells is easier than dealing with them, this video shows that you can spend your entire life and all your energy to be at peace with them and then you'll die but would have never been able to accomplish anything. No one is worth that sacrifice
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Walking on eggshells is easier than dealing with them, this video shows that you can spend your entire life and all your energy to be at peace with them and then you'll die but would have never been able to accomplish anything. No one is worth that sacrifice
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Levi
This is a dangerous video. If the person you love is this way the last thing you need to do is tailor your life and way of being to bend to their will.
Try to get them help but if they can't or won't then let them go. Get out before you can't.
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This is a dangerous video. If the person you love is this way the last thing you need to do is tailor your life and way of being to bend to their will.
Try to get them help but if they can't or won't then let them go. Get out before you can't.
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