10 Thoughts that can Destroy Relationships
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Liza
My boyfriend broke up with me and started ignoring me, my msg and my calls. then after four months I overcame by that pain. then after that one day he said I want to come back to you. He accepted my fault was there I had done overthinking then I accepted him. everything was good, then suddenly old things were came again insecurities thoughts. And one day I said to him you had given me a deadly pain before 4 months to his reaction. But he said why are you talking about it again. I said because I felt bad about that I don't want that again this time. and he said that time I had gone but I came back.
To listen this things am thinking that 1. he is not guilty about his action.
2. He will go again.
3. taking good advantages of my love and kindness
So plz anyone else take me out of this thought. am I right by thinking this things
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My boyfriend broke up with me and started ignoring me, my msg and my calls. then after four months I overcame by that pain. then after that one day he said I want to come back to you. He accepted my fault was there I had done overthinking then I accepted him. everything was good, then suddenly old things were came again insecurities thoughts. And one day I said to him you had given me a deadly pain before 4 months to his reaction. But he said why are you talking about it again. I said because I felt bad about that I don't want that again this time. and he said that time I had gone but I came back.
To listen this things am thinking that 1. he is not guilty about his action.
2. He will go again.
3. taking good advantages of my love and kindness
So plz anyone else take me out of this thought. am I right by thinking this things
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John
My wife and I have recently retired from her business. Leaving control to my daughter, who frequently has discussions with me on how to get more out of it. we sometimes disagree she puts forward her reasons and 9/10 we end up on the same page. This happens perhaps twice a week may be 10 minutes a time and its pleasant.
So refreshing after running the business with her mother, it wasnt worth discussing in the end. Its been going on for 30+ years.
All she does for me now is wash and occasionally iron my clothes. I cook the odd meal vacuume. Use to do more House work but she was still miserable. We remain civil mostly since theres nothing left.
Life is to short if you can make break for it and try to find someone different
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My wife and I have recently retired from her business. Leaving control to my daughter, who frequently has discussions with me on how to get more out of it. we sometimes disagree she puts forward her reasons and 9/10 we end up on the same page. This happens perhaps twice a week may be 10 minutes a time and its pleasant.
So refreshing after running the business with her mother, it wasnt worth discussing in the end. Its been going on for 30+ years.
All she does for me now is wash and occasionally iron my clothes. I cook the odd meal vacuume. Use to do more House work but she was still miserable. We remain civil mostly since theres nothing left.
Life is to short if you can make break for it and try to find someone different
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Creator
I do some of these things (mostly overthinking. We are 19 and since 4 years together. This relationship makes me so sad, because he barely shows interest in a way I feel loved. I just want that he asks questions and that we can be silly together, but he always says that he is too introverted. But what broke my heart is that he do all the things I ever wished for in a relationship with his best friend(laughting, texting, asking randomly what's going on in ur life) So I am the problem? I have come to the point where I cry several times in a week. I am overreacting? My mind goes crazy to imagine being my whole life with someone together who can barely communicate with me. But the loving part in me has still hope.
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I do some of these things (mostly overthinking. We are 19 and since 4 years together. This relationship makes me so sad, because he barely shows interest in a way I feel loved. I just want that he asks questions and that we can be silly together, but he always says that he is too introverted. But what broke my heart is that he do all the things I ever wished for in a relationship with his best friend(laughting, texting, asking randomly what's going on in ur life) So I am the problem? I have come to the point where I cry several times in a week. I am overreacting? My mind goes crazy to imagine being my whole life with someone together who can barely communicate with me. But the loving part in me has still hope.
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A. T. R.
Im in a long-distance relationship and I have been having constant thoughts about if my boyfriend still loves me, is it looking at other people, or does he think I'm annoying. But the way I break that ice is just by communicating to him how I feel. We both learned that if we keep what's bothering us inside it would not get any better. Plus since we're a long-distance couple, we need to have good communication otherwise it would not work. I wish I could say is easy but it's not, it takes time and patience to have the communication we have and I'm thankful to have that.
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Im in a long-distance relationship and I have been having constant thoughts about if my boyfriend still loves me, is it looking at other people, or does he think I'm annoying. But the way I break that ice is just by communicating to him how I feel. We both learned that if we keep what's bothering us inside it would not get any better. Plus since we're a long-distance couple, we need to have good communication otherwise it would not work. I wish I could say is easy but it's not, it takes time and patience to have the communication we have and I'm thankful to have that.
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Peppermint
I've been struggling with overthinking ever since I got into dating and being in a relationship with my new partner. I fear that if I ever open up about our problem that she might break up with me. I don't want another break-up to happen to me again, tbh; and my partner and I are in a Long-Distance Relationship, and we're doing everything we could just to be together. I prefer LDR because I don't find anyone in my vicinity to be attractive
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I've been struggling with overthinking ever since I got into dating and being in a relationship with my new partner. I fear that if I ever open up about our problem that she might break up with me. I don't want another break-up to happen to me again, tbh; and my partner and I are in a Long-Distance Relationship, and we're doing everything we could just to be together. I prefer LDR because I don't find anyone in my vicinity to be attractive
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education
I struggle with trust issues, and honestly I've had most of these thoughts. But you explaining the thoughts actually kind of helped me. I kind of went over briefly in my mind what part of my relationship I was having what thoughts about, and you're explanations kind of helped me calm down and think rationally. Thanks Psych, keep doing what you do.
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I struggle with trust issues, and honestly I've had most of these thoughts. But you explaining the thoughts actually kind of helped me. I kind of went over briefly in my mind what part of my relationship I was having what thoughts about, and you're explanations kind of helped me calm down and think rationally. Thanks Psych, keep doing what you do.
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Zyrhone
Overthinking is what makes me on my relationship, But my girlfriend always reassures me and calms me down, Overthinking sometimes will quite often happen but I shouldn't or you shouldn't always have those overthinking thoughts because if they say they want you forever, those words can always remind that you will have them through your life.
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Overthinking is what makes me on my relationship, But my girlfriend always reassures me and calms me down, Overthinking sometimes will quite often happen but I shouldn't or you shouldn't always have those overthinking thoughts because if they say they want you forever, those words can always remind that you will have them through your life.
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Carolina
This video really opened my eyes whenever I was stressed out or having a rough time I would always tell my ex boyfriend it was his fault everything was his fault but in reality it was mine my own insecurities made him break up with me and it hurts I wish I can talk to him about it but hes not letting me he blocked me on everything
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This video really opened my eyes whenever I was stressed out or having a rough time I would always tell my ex boyfriend it was his fault everything was his fault but in reality it was mine my own insecurities made him break up with me and it hurts I wish I can talk to him about it but hes not letting me he blocked me on everything
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Daniel
Im very extroverted and my partner is the exact opposite. For some reason it really gets to me how quiet she can be and I feel I cant understand her and vise versa. She is perfect in every way but sometimes I feel it may not workout. Why? She does everything she can to make me happy and we compromise so much.
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Im very extroverted and my partner is the exact opposite. For some reason it really gets to me how quiet she can be and I feel I cant understand her and vise versa. She is perfect in every way but sometimes I feel it may not workout. Why? She does everything she can to make me happy and we compromise so much.
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eliguahSB
we were friends at first and didn't argue every time. we were happy together and felt unstoppable. now we mostly argue but get over it fast. things were exiting and we were in the car we talked alot there was not one silent moment (all this was in October) now there is silence in the car. it's sad.
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we were friends at first and didn't argue every time. we were happy together and felt unstoppable. now we mostly argue but get over it fast. things were exiting and we were in the car we talked alot there was not one silent moment (all this was in October) now there is silence in the car. it's sad.
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Purple
Lost a good friend this year because of my own insecurities about myself and constant negative thoughts about the friendship. She told me the truth about myself and instead of being able to accept it, I took it the complete wrong way and ran away from her. Love yourself before you try to love others.
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Lost a good friend this year because of my own insecurities about myself and constant negative thoughts about the friendship. She told me the truth about myself and instead of being able to accept it, I took it the complete wrong way and ran away from her. Love yourself before you try to love others.
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lerato
When you dealing with alot yourself, you turn to think negatively towards the next person. I'm guilty of all of this. Today I was all this thinking negatively towards him, assuming his not feeling me no more. I think I need space to myself for now though it's distant relationship. Distant is tricky.
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When you dealing with alot yourself, you turn to think negatively towards the next person. I'm guilty of all of this. Today I was all this thinking negatively towards him, assuming his not feeling me no more. I think I need space to myself for now though it's distant relationship. Distant is tricky.
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Dr
About the 4th point, I think it's kinda justified because so many people used the excuse of I have to keep working late while they were cheating on their partners that I don't think you can call this overthinking. This 'overthinking' has been proved and justified so many times.
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About the 4th point, I think it's kinda justified because so many people used the excuse of I have to keep working late while they were cheating on their partners that I don't think you can call this overthinking. This 'overthinking' has been proved and justified so many times.
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PRINCESS
Insecurities about my boyfriends ex. I assume they were still together when we first met only come to find out that wasnt the case. He been faithful to me and reminds me that everyday of how much he loves me. I just need to work on me so our relationship can flourish.
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Insecurities about my boyfriends ex. I assume they were still together when we first met only come to find out that wasnt the case. He been faithful to me and reminds me that everyday of how much he loves me. I just need to work on me so our relationship can flourish.
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Susan
wow, that kinda hit me. i don't know in whcih way, i have mixed feelings. however, i have something i hope whcih destroy these things - natural spanish fly enhancer - i bought it in the big sales yesterday and i already have it at home, we're abosltely happy w my man
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wow, that kinda hit me. i don't know in whcih way, i have mixed feelings. however, i have something i hope whcih destroy these things - natural spanish fly enhancer - i bought it in the big sales yesterday and i already have it at home, we're abosltely happy w my man
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contacta
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Who's here trying to figure out how to fix his/her relationship with someone that is now falling apart because of this pandemic. Lol. You can contact a relationship expert for professional consultancy on the above contact details to save your relationship
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contacta
Who's here trying to figure out how to fix his/her relationship with someone that is now falling apart because of this pandemic. Lol. You can contact a relationship expert for professional consultancy on the above contact details to save your relationship
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Who's here trying to figure out how to fix his/her relationship with someone that is now falling apart because of this pandemic. Lol. You can contact a relationship expert for professional consultancy on the above contact details to save your relationship
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Loli
Is it bad for me to feel somewhat jealous.
If she always wants to hear me speak sweet words for her, but I never get any in return.
I mean, I would also love to hear some I love you too. its making me feel unease, like its a one sided relationship.
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Is it bad for me to feel somewhat jealous.
If she always wants to hear me speak sweet words for her, but I never get any in return.
I mean, I would also love to hear some I love you too. its making me feel unease, like its a one sided relationship.
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Chini
My partner stopped listening to everything I say now though when it comes to insecurities such as these so Im on my own whenever I bring something up even if its new, he discards them instead of listening now now I feel sick from bottling it all up.
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My partner stopped listening to everything I say now though when it comes to insecurities such as these so Im on my own whenever I bring something up even if its new, he discards them instead of listening now now I feel sick from bottling it all up.
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Ayoosunny
im currently going through #10 idk what it is like weve been together for a short time yeah but im already starting to notice things changeing ofc not in a bad way but still i do sometimes see myself thinking about how things were back then
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im currently going through #10 idk what it is like weve been together for a short time yeah but im already starting to notice things changeing ofc not in a bad way but still i do sometimes see myself thinking about how things were back then
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Judy
I have been guilty of all if the above. Overthinking and insecurity went hand in hand. All my relationships were unhealthy pretty much. Since then I am taking some time to learn before the next relationship and make some self improvements.
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I have been guilty of all if the above. Overthinking and insecurity went hand in hand. All my relationships were unhealthy pretty much. Since then I am taking some time to learn before the next relationship and make some self improvements.
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cameron
I need sum help it feels like i wanna talk things out and make up but at the same time I feel like it wont be the same and it will be different and I feel like Im tiring her out and eventually shell leave me and I feel like shit
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I need sum help it feels like i wanna talk things out and make up but at the same time I feel like it wont be the same and it will be different and I feel like Im tiring her out and eventually shell leave me and I feel like shit
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Emi
People say communication is essential but little did they know, what is even communication without comprehension? You can communicate with them 24/7 but if they dont understand what you want to deliver/convey, it is hopeless!
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People say communication is essential but little did they know, what is even communication without comprehension? You can communicate with them 24/7 but if they dont understand what you want to deliver/convey, it is hopeless!
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Loli
Too much love will kill you thats what this all about. so, Love in moderation, keep it under control. Keep cool. Say what is meant to say under situations. and most of all, DON'T EXPECT. Expectation can be burden
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Too much love will kill you thats what this all about. so, Love in moderation, keep it under control. Keep cool. Say what is meant to say under situations. and most of all, DON'T EXPECT. Expectation can be burden
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education
Wow, great video.
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Am happy I got my relationship problems solved with the professional expert advice I got from a relationship coach. You can reach her too for help on the above contact details
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Wow, great video.
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Am happy I got my relationship problems solved with the professional expert advice I got from a relationship coach. You can reach her too for help on the above contact details
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