7 Early Signs of A Toxic Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Florian
Him:
> is her ex, but plans to come back and conquer her heart back.
> plans his moves for days, or weeks before coming.
> tries to make it intimate from the begining, even if she feels uncomfortable.
> create the occasion, such as pretending not being able to sleep or being nervous to ask her for comfort.
> is either very friendly, or very cold towards her friends and loved ones, based on how interest he can have from us (spoiler: I was labeled as the uninteresting one after trying to be friendly with him three or four times.
> never speaks, or no more than ten words per conversations, or during lunch and diner.
> is insecure about his appearence or age (always tries to look good, sometimes admit he is 40, the next day he is 33.
> always talks with people separetly, never to a group (I learnt more about him by talking with others than talking with him.
> no clear informations about who he is, how they met and what he is doing in life, even if he has passions or hobbies.
> mood swings on purpose: either dark and mysterious, or funny and seducive when needed.
> tries to get the girl, yet is seducive to all females in the group, and outside the group.
> stick to the girl he targeted, yet assure everyone (includind her) he is not in the mood for love (but surprisingly, can't spend 15 days single, without having the need of a relationship.
> describes himself as in love with her and that she is the love of his life. not telling the fact that they broke up three or five years ago, that he had quite a lot of girlfriends.
> gets jealous when he realises other men (including me) are very close to that girl he came to conquer, tries to know what feelings we have, and if we are planning to come back to her too, to see if he will have adversaries.
> asks questions when we spend time with her, to know what we did.
> when he finally get the girl, seclude himself from the rest of the group, spend all his time with her, or in her room, only appears briefly at the table, have no more bounds with anyone.
Her: Nah, it's fine, he is just a little bit shy and need affection.
I am in fear for that girlfriend eversince.
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Him:
> is her ex, but plans to come back and conquer her heart back.
> plans his moves for days, or weeks before coming.
> tries to make it intimate from the begining, even if she feels uncomfortable.
> create the occasion, such as pretending not being able to sleep or being nervous to ask her for comfort.
> is either very friendly, or very cold towards her friends and loved ones, based on how interest he can have from us (spoiler: I was labeled as the uninteresting one after trying to be friendly with him three or four times.
> never speaks, or no more than ten words per conversations, or during lunch and diner.
> is insecure about his appearence or age (always tries to look good, sometimes admit he is 40, the next day he is 33.
> always talks with people separetly, never to a group (I learnt more about him by talking with others than talking with him.
> no clear informations about who he is, how they met and what he is doing in life, even if he has passions or hobbies.
> mood swings on purpose: either dark and mysterious, or funny and seducive when needed.
> tries to get the girl, yet is seducive to all females in the group, and outside the group.
> stick to the girl he targeted, yet assure everyone (includind her) he is not in the mood for love (but surprisingly, can't spend 15 days single, without having the need of a relationship.
> describes himself as in love with her and that she is the love of his life. not telling the fact that they broke up three or five years ago, that he had quite a lot of girlfriends.
> gets jealous when he realises other men (including me) are very close to that girl he came to conquer, tries to know what feelings we have, and if we are planning to come back to her too, to see if he will have adversaries.
> asks questions when we spend time with her, to know what we did.
> when he finally get the girl, seclude himself from the rest of the group, spend all his time with her, or in her room, only appears briefly at the table, have no more bounds with anyone.
Her: Nah, it's fine, he is just a little bit shy and need affection.
I am in fear for that girlfriend eversince.
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Fusion
Hi there Psych, i might need a bit of advice. One of my friends are currently experiencing a very difficult personal life to the point they are damaging their sleep schedule and refusing to eat, even resorting to self harm at times. They made me aware of this last week and they said that their boyfriend threatened to break up with them for it, which i feel could make the problem worse. Ive been in a similar situation to her and im going to try to tell her that i understand where she is coming from so i can help her with some of her issues. Do you have any advice on whether i should do this or not, and if i should, is there anything i should be wary of?
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Hi there Psych, i might need a bit of advice. One of my friends are currently experiencing a very difficult personal life to the point they are damaging their sleep schedule and refusing to eat, even resorting to self harm at times. They made me aware of this last week and they said that their boyfriend threatened to break up with them for it, which i feel could make the problem worse. Ive been in a similar situation to her and im going to try to tell her that i understand where she is coming from so i can help her with some of her issues. Do you have any advice on whether i should do this or not, and if i should, is there anything i should be wary of?
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Malliena
I honestly dont think giving someone your password is toxic especially if you have nothing to hide. And you are dating to marry I dont even think a password is necessary passwords are for privacy - as a protection detail if youre partner doesnt trust u enough for you to know things like a password or isnt willing to give something as simple as a password thats something to look into especially if youre comfortable with giving yours what makes it controlling is when they want you to give your password but they dont want you to have theirs
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I honestly dont think giving someone your password is toxic especially if you have nothing to hide. And you are dating to marry I dont even think a password is necessary passwords are for privacy - as a protection detail if youre partner doesnt trust u enough for you to know things like a password or isnt willing to give something as simple as a password thats something to look into especially if youre comfortable with giving yours what makes it controlling is when they want you to give your password but they dont want you to have theirs
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90'sScoobySnack
What if you're the toxic one in the relationship? And have tried to break things off, but the other person can't except what's being said. And they bombard you with all this love making you feel like you could love them like they deserve to be loved. But when it comes down to it, it's just a chaotic toxic continuous cycle. And they don't end up getting the love they deserve.
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What if you're the toxic one in the relationship? And have tried to break things off, but the other person can't except what's being said. And they bombard you with all this love making you feel like you could love them like they deserve to be loved. But when it comes down to it, it's just a chaotic toxic continuous cycle. And they don't end up getting the love they deserve.
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ToxicMountain
One of my good friend's boyfriend not only does about 3 or 4 of these, he also changes his actions when she isn't around, by calling her closest friend slurs, attempting to push all of her friends away, and then trying to attack me. Do I stop him? I worry this might distance her even more, she is a great person, and I dont want to lose connection with her.
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One of my good friend's boyfriend not only does about 3 or 4 of these, he also changes his actions when she isn't around, by calling her closest friend slurs, attempting to push all of her friends away, and then trying to attack me. Do I stop him? I worry this might distance her even more, she is a great person, and I dont want to lose connection with her.
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Psych2Go
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Savage
I know it's a bit explicit and whatnot but I was just in a very abusive mentally and physically relationship I actually got two and a half of my teeth knocked out with my own grandmother's pistol last June on Father's Day by the abuser among many other things. I just wish you guys would cover more on physical abuse
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I know it's a bit explicit and whatnot but I was just in a very abusive mentally and physically relationship I actually got two and a half of my teeth knocked out with my own grandmother's pistol last June on Father's Day by the abuser among many other things. I just wish you guys would cover more on physical abuse
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SouthPAW
I recently got out of a long distance relationship and find it hard to let go. In the end I know they were using me and most likely seeing their roommate why we were together. They check this list to a T. wish I would have noticed sooner. My heart and body are destroyed now. Thanks for the amazing advice.
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I recently got out of a long distance relationship and find it hard to let go. In the end I know they were using me and most likely seeing their roommate why we were together. They check this list to a T. wish I would have noticed sooner. My heart and body are destroyed now. Thanks for the amazing advice.
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Arianna
Im making one and they other person uses them and manipulating them but the person who is manipulative had a lack of physical and emotional affection as a kid and she was in a toxic relationship and was manipulated into thinking that toxic relationships were normal is that realistic?
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Im making one and they other person uses them and manipulating them but the person who is manipulative had a lack of physical and emotional affection as a kid and she was in a toxic relationship and was manipulated into thinking that toxic relationships were normal is that realistic?
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Paula
I wish I would have listened to this before he strangled me this is all about my relationship with him. thanks psych2go! Yes police have lit handled.
Did you know that a woman is 750% more likely to be killed by her partner that previously Strangled her! This is serious business!
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I wish I would have listened to this before he strangled me this is all about my relationship with him. thanks psych2go! Yes police have lit handled.
Did you know that a woman is 750% more likely to be killed by her partner that previously Strangled her! This is serious business!
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Beluga
This is exactly what happened to me. Im the one giving the toxic as the points hit me. , but thinking back, there were reasons of such behavior. It takes two to tango. The avoidant and also coldness felt, makes me wanted to do more to secure and scout for any problems.
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This is exactly what happened to me. Im the one giving the toxic as the points hit me. , but thinking back, there were reasons of such behavior. It takes two to tango. The avoidant and also coldness felt, makes me wanted to do more to secure and scout for any problems.
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CLPPRBRD
I love bomb, but not with bad intents, its because of my bpd, I see my romantic partner also as my fp (favorite person, so to me, they are the one person I base my life around, is that still toxic, its basically to honeymoon phase, but intensified.
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I love bomb, but not with bad intents, its because of my bpd, I see my romantic partner also as my fp (favorite person, so to me, they are the one person I base my life around, is that still toxic, its basically to honeymoon phase, but intensified.
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Sonicz
Number 3 and 6. bI'd to leave a person go for obsessive texts and calls. It was very creepy. They were ringing 13 times in a row sending crying messages. Text for hours. They'd leave gaps but go nuts if I didn't reply. That's why there was no date.
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Number 3 and 6. bI'd to leave a person go for obsessive texts and calls. It was very creepy. They were ringing 13 times in a row sending crying messages. Text for hours. They'd leave gaps but go nuts if I didn't reply. That's why there was no date.
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Makaitashe
It's really sad to realize my best friend might be toxic and that I sometimes feel like I am toxic too, I can't hang out with other friends of mine because if I do she gets mad and I can't confront her about it because I hate conflict
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It's really sad to realize my best friend might be toxic and that I sometimes feel like I am toxic too, I can't hang out with other friends of mine because if I do she gets mad and I can't confront her about it because I hate conflict
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education
I just found your site. interesting.
I have 5 years of college psychology, so I'm interested in applied psychology used in counseling situations. Helping others is my mission, but biblical theology is the path I travel.
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I just found your site. interesting.
I have 5 years of college psychology, so I'm interested in applied psychology used in counseling situations. Helping others is my mission, but biblical theology is the path I travel.
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How
No 1 is bs. People might bring up their ex when they feel they were treated better by them than in the new relationship. Also if someone lies to you, you naturally become insecure and start having a need to monitor them.
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No 1 is bs. People might bring up their ex when they feel they were treated better by them than in the new relationship. Also if someone lies to you, you naturally become insecure and start having a need to monitor them.
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ZeroOne
Woaw step 5-6 was me and my ex. I was the isolated dog haha hah. Now she made sure my ex friends stopped talking to me to make me even more isolated. Jokes on her I have way more and REAL friends
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Woaw step 5-6 was me and my ex. I was the isolated dog haha hah. Now she made sure my ex friends stopped talking to me to make me even more isolated. Jokes on her I have way more and REAL friends
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Plymothian
I aint putting up with that. I am not getting involved with toxic people in reality or online nor get into a toxic relationship. Sod that! I deserve better.
I deserve to be treated right.
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I aint putting up with that. I am not getting involved with toxic people in reality or online nor get into a toxic relationship. Sod that! I deserve better.
I deserve to be treated right.
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HeavenFed
I am a believer of toxic relationships, not having power but only wishing they have power! With a higher power of the universe toxicity is eliminated! It just shows it's ugly face!
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I am a believer of toxic relationships, not having power but only wishing they have power! With a higher power of the universe toxicity is eliminated! It just shows it's ugly face!
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Sofia
All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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Sofia
All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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All thanks to the greatest of all time Dr Dr danja the spell caster he help with his spiritual powers to restore my broken marriage. I met him on his face book page. Am greatful.
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Latoya
i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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Latoya
i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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i was heart broken not until i was recommended to Dr Danja The Spell Caster who helped me restore my relationship i can't still believe it that we are now together again.
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9blucats
Are you saying people do this manipulating stuff on purpose? I mean is the toxic person doing it without realizing they're doing it or are they doing it to be a jerk?
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Are you saying people do this manipulating stuff on purpose? I mean is the toxic person doing it without realizing they're doing it or are they doing it to be a jerk?
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Calm
I'm going to send this video to my bestie to let her know that she's in a toxic relationship, she doesn't understand I have tried everything to make her understand
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I'm going to send this video to my bestie to let her know that she's in a toxic relationship, she doesn't understand I have tried everything to make her understand
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