12 Signs You're in a Healthy Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Loona
this was like me and my ex the first month and 2/3 we were dating (we dated for 2 months) well after the first month and those weeks he started being rude bringing me down not wanting alone time with me anymore he once said he would but then cancelled that day due to homework and i found out he was hanging out with our friends instead and he knew my dad has cancer and this years birthday would be his last and guess what he broke up with me on my dads last birthday, the next day we saw eachother since we had plans with friends and i did self harm (i do regret it so much now and i havent done it since and it has been almost 2 months) and he pointed it out on the ride home while i even gave him ice coffee but the day after that day he suddenly broke our friendship (since we stayed friends) and basically told people some of my secrets, told people what we did (we shouldnt have done that i wont say what but we were too young and i regret it) and when i found myself a girlfriend (im pan) he suddenly was like i love you please take me back (he was also having spies on me to see what i was doing) he used the excuse he got blackmailed to break up with me and be rude to me and telling me to kms but i didnt buy it i told him wed stay friends and he said okay thank you maybe we can later date again? and i said i dont know and basically an week after that it went downhill again as he started being rude once again (we didnt talk a lot during the week we were friends) and i also broke up with my girlfriend since that relationship became toxic and she wanted to jump my best friend for hugging me like what? but now back to my ex he started threatening me later on (he also had passwords of some of my accounts but i changed them dw) and brought his friends in it too while we had an argument not me and them he basically told me i would get jumped on school which caused me to stay home for the week because my friend had corona and couldnt come too (i told an teacher and the teacher confronted him and gave him an warning) but he did it again like a few days ago as im writing this and im scared to go to school once again (i told the same teacher again and the teacher said he would do something with it again) but honestly i dont know what kind of relationship we had i mean we started dating after 2 days of meeting that already is an red flag but it just clicked really well (it was during the vacation untill school started again somewhere) he also told me i was an bet so i think it was an manipulative relationship to gain my trust and secrets and then stab me in the back i dont know and it really bothers me
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this was like me and my ex the first month and 2/3 we were dating (we dated for 2 months) well after the first month and those weeks he started being rude bringing me down not wanting alone time with me anymore he once said he would but then cancelled that day due to homework and i found out he was hanging out with our friends instead and he knew my dad has cancer and this years birthday would be his last and guess what he broke up with me on my dads last birthday, the next day we saw eachother since we had plans with friends and i did self harm (i do regret it so much now and i havent done it since and it has been almost 2 months) and he pointed it out on the ride home while i even gave him ice coffee but the day after that day he suddenly broke our friendship (since we stayed friends) and basically told people some of my secrets, told people what we did (we shouldnt have done that i wont say what but we were too young and i regret it) and when i found myself a girlfriend (im pan) he suddenly was like i love you please take me back (he was also having spies on me to see what i was doing) he used the excuse he got blackmailed to break up with me and be rude to me and telling me to kms but i didnt buy it i told him wed stay friends and he said okay thank you maybe we can later date again? and i said i dont know and basically an week after that it went downhill again as he started being rude once again (we didnt talk a lot during the week we were friends) and i also broke up with my girlfriend since that relationship became toxic and she wanted to jump my best friend for hugging me like what? but now back to my ex he started threatening me later on (he also had passwords of some of my accounts but i changed them dw) and brought his friends in it too while we had an argument not me and them he basically told me i would get jumped on school which caused me to stay home for the week because my friend had corona and couldnt come too (i told an teacher and the teacher confronted him and gave him an warning) but he did it again like a few days ago as im writing this and im scared to go to school once again (i told the same teacher again and the teacher said he would do something with it again) but honestly i dont know what kind of relationship we had i mean we started dating after 2 days of meeting that already is an red flag but it just clicked really well (it was during the vacation untill school started again somewhere) he also told me i was an bet so i think it was an manipulative relationship to gain my trust and secrets and then stab me in the back i dont know and it really bothers me
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CrunKy
So i recently broke up with my GF, and i had to end it cause i felt i was doing all the work in the relationship.
1. she never talked about her feelings or anything
2. when we argued she would always make excuses for herself, or compare me to her girls BFs
3. She complained that i dont pay her attention when i was literally spending my every free moment with her
4. I did, she would bottle everything up
6. When i tried to take time for myself and do my hobbies she would complain i dont give her attention, when i go and give her attention she whipped out her phone and started scrolling insta
7. If she was out with friends id rarely message her until i lost my trust in her, but even then id message her only if its supper late like past 1am, however if i go out it was a problem and she kept texting, and if i was out with a girl oh lawd
9Only thing in common we had was what we wanted for our future
10. whenever i wanted to do something id share and she would never tell me wha tshe wants, just says whatever u want, whenever she wanted to do something she didnt ask she just streight up tells me, she would take days off when i cant and go do her thing
11. the only good thing we had going on
12. yeah other than judgment, id rarely get motivation from her, if i did it was like i had to ask for it
needless to say ive cougth her lying on multiple occasions
Sorry for my rant i just really need to vent, and assure myself it was the right choice to break up
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So i recently broke up with my GF, and i had to end it cause i felt i was doing all the work in the relationship.
1. she never talked about her feelings or anything
2. when we argued she would always make excuses for herself, or compare me to her girls BFs
3. She complained that i dont pay her attention when i was literally spending my every free moment with her
4. I did, she would bottle everything up
6. When i tried to take time for myself and do my hobbies she would complain i dont give her attention, when i go and give her attention she whipped out her phone and started scrolling insta
7. If she was out with friends id rarely message her until i lost my trust in her, but even then id message her only if its supper late like past 1am, however if i go out it was a problem and she kept texting, and if i was out with a girl oh lawd
9Only thing in common we had was what we wanted for our future
10. whenever i wanted to do something id share and she would never tell me wha tshe wants, just says whatever u want, whenever she wanted to do something she didnt ask she just streight up tells me, she would take days off when i cant and go do her thing
11. the only good thing we had going on
12. yeah other than judgment, id rarely get motivation from her, if i did it was like i had to ask for it
needless to say ive cougth her lying on multiple occasions
Sorry for my rant i just really need to vent, and assure myself it was the right choice to break up
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BloodlustInsanity
See, its a toughy for me because my other half is a bit of a tricky one to understand and deal with.
Transparency, check! Argue, check! Except he comes off more aggressive than he intends to, hes a blunt person with no filter. And were both VERY stubborn. Privacy, ish. Were both open books. Grudges, hell remind me of things but more as a joke. Realistic, check! Space, we live and work together 5 days a week so hard, but we do make time for ourselves. Trust, yes although he worries about some of my friends and I feel like travelling to see them with trigger his anxiety. Time together, check. Friends, yes although we have practically no similar interests. We try to compromise though, which goes into the next point. Intimacy, yes! Many cuddles, kisses, sweet wordsfeel so much love! Making better, hes toughened me up and I think Ive softened him a little so I guess that works.
Many people think we shouldnt be together, we are completely different people, but somehow we work. And the love is definitely there. 3yrs in and we still say it 10+ times a day, he hugs me from behind when Im doing things, he buys me treats (particularly during my monthly, I stroke his hair, listen to and support him even against his own family, I buy him treatsit goes both ways. Certain things he does/doesnt do drive me nuts, but I still love him. Things arent so black and white.
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See, its a toughy for me because my other half is a bit of a tricky one to understand and deal with.
Transparency, check! Argue, check! Except he comes off more aggressive than he intends to, hes a blunt person with no filter. And were both VERY stubborn. Privacy, ish. Were both open books. Grudges, hell remind me of things but more as a joke. Realistic, check! Space, we live and work together 5 days a week so hard, but we do make time for ourselves. Trust, yes although he worries about some of my friends and I feel like travelling to see them with trigger his anxiety. Time together, check. Friends, yes although we have practically no similar interests. We try to compromise though, which goes into the next point. Intimacy, yes! Many cuddles, kisses, sweet wordsfeel so much love! Making better, hes toughened me up and I think Ive softened him a little so I guess that works.
Many people think we shouldnt be together, we are completely different people, but somehow we work. And the love is definitely there. 3yrs in and we still say it 10+ times a day, he hugs me from behind when Im doing things, he buys me treats (particularly during my monthly, I stroke his hair, listen to and support him even against his own family, I buy him treatsit goes both ways. Certain things he does/doesnt do drive me nuts, but I still love him. Things arent so black and white.
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Fika
Thank you for the video! It helps me to understand what I've experienced. I was in a relationship for 5 years, and none of these signs are there. It felt forced and I kept feeling guilty or resent things. Lately, I met someone that we naturally click and show all of these signs. We feel secure. I don't know what will happen in the future, but I believe I should be grateful and enjoy the time we are together while we can.
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Thank you for the video! It helps me to understand what I've experienced. I was in a relationship for 5 years, and none of these signs are there. It felt forced and I kept feeling guilty or resent things. Lately, I met someone that we naturally click and show all of these signs. We feel secure. I don't know what will happen in the future, but I believe I should be grateful and enjoy the time we are together while we can.
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SaberThorn
Me and my boyfriend argue but its more like a play argue. Him and I will yell at each other every chance we get, (not actual yelling) for the pettiest things and start slandering each other. Might sound bad although we always end up laughing, of course I wont yell at him for things hes insecure about and viceversa, but I find it the funniest thing ever and it always makes my day.
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Me and my boyfriend argue but its more like a play argue. Him and I will yell at each other every chance we get, (not actual yelling) for the pettiest things and start slandering each other. Might sound bad although we always end up laughing, of course I wont yell at him for things hes insecure about and viceversa, but I find it the funniest thing ever and it always makes my day.
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Melanie
these signs are so on point! being in a healthy relationship is truly a blessing. by the way, my partner and I have been enjoying a strong bond, and we recently started using Spanish Fly Pro. It's like a magical enhancer that's taken our intimacy to new heights, adding an extra layer of connection. If you're looking to enrich your relationship, it's definitely worth trying out!
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these signs are so on point! being in a healthy relationship is truly a blessing. by the way, my partner and I have been enjoying a strong bond, and we recently started using Spanish Fly Pro. It's like a magical enhancer that's taken our intimacy to new heights, adding an extra layer of connection. If you're looking to enrich your relationship, it's definitely worth trying out!
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Devnethmi
Funny how my boyfriend and I became best frnds and even relate to everything here, in a time period less than 2 months.
He understands me soo much, So do I. Its like a match made in heaven. Even our bdays are just 2 days apart and almost every interest we hv in common, Im his ideal type and so is he of mine.
Just feel like the LUCKIEST girl on earth.
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Funny how my boyfriend and I became best frnds and even relate to everything here, in a time period less than 2 months.
He understands me soo much, So do I. Its like a match made in heaven. Even our bdays are just 2 days apart and almost every interest we hv in common, Im his ideal type and so is he of mine.
Just feel like the LUCKIEST girl on earth.
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Mae
As weird as it sounds I think it's important to prioritize being friends over being super romantic. My husband and I have been best friends for 10 years and are still has happy today as when we first met and I think a lot of that is because we make sure to focus on our friendship. Yes he's my husband but he's my friend first.
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As weird as it sounds I think it's important to prioritize being friends over being super romantic. My husband and I have been best friends for 10 years and are still has happy today as when we first met and I think a lot of that is because we make sure to focus on our friendship. Yes he's my husband but he's my friend first.
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IveTheIvette
I am so happy to be in such a stainable relationship with my boyfriend. After watching this it has made me realise that me and my boyfriend are made for each other and is in a healthy relationship. offically 7 months together and made it to 2023! I feel so lucky to have my boyfriend. I love him so much
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I am so happy to be in such a stainable relationship with my boyfriend. After watching this it has made me realise that me and my boyfriend are made for each other and is in a healthy relationship. offically 7 months together and made it to 2023! I feel so lucky to have my boyfriend. I love him so much
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Molly
these signs are everything! being in a healthy relationship is an incredible experience. speaking of connections, have you ever considered Spanish Fly Pro? my partner and I have been using it to add more spice and passion to our relationship. It's been an exciting journey of discovery and intimacy!
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these signs are everything! being in a healthy relationship is an incredible experience. speaking of connections, have you ever considered Spanish Fly Pro? my partner and I have been using it to add more spice and passion to our relationship. It's been an exciting journey of discovery and intimacy!
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A. J.
I follow almost all of these I'm a bit of an anxious person tho so I do ask my partner to tell me where they go just in case something bad happens. I also stress text when they haven't gotten home in the time they said they would. Not accusingly, but out of fear they have gotten hurt
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I follow almost all of these I'm a bit of an anxious person tho so I do ask my partner to tell me where they go just in case something bad happens. I also stress text when they haven't gotten home in the time they said they would. Not accusingly, but out of fear they have gotten hurt
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Preston
This video has made me feel even MORE grateful for my boyfriend. In comparison to my exes, he doesn't lie to me, he's there for me, he loves being around me, etc. He's DEFINITELY the man God forgot to give me. He may be in his 40s but idc. He's beautiful just the way he is.
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This video has made me feel even MORE grateful for my boyfriend. In comparison to my exes, he doesn't lie to me, he's there for me, he loves being around me, etc. He's DEFINITELY the man God forgot to give me. He may be in his 40s but idc. He's beautiful just the way he is.
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Victor
Me and my girlfriend for about 6 months now, and something we do a lot, is when possible do stuff that united us the most at the beginning and made us spend time together. We play video games and sometimes go out to eat at places we both chose. And its amazing!
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Me and my girlfriend for about 6 months now, and something we do a lot, is when possible do stuff that united us the most at the beginning and made us spend time together. We play video games and sometimes go out to eat at places we both chose. And its amazing!
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JadeAlexia
I don't necessarily want to change my partner, but there are habits he has that i don't like, messiness for example. It doesn't mean I don't love him for him but I do not agree with messiness, how do I change that without coming off like I am fixing him
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I don't necessarily want to change my partner, but there are habits he has that i don't like, messiness for example. It doesn't mean I don't love him for him but I do not agree with messiness, how do I change that without coming off like I am fixing him
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Equinoxx
My boyfriend and I are suuper sarcastic and competitive in a loving way. I definitely feel that understanding the languages of a person and their way of talking super helpful. It can be hard- but hey, it's definitely worth it when you get the hang of it
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My boyfriend and I are suuper sarcastic and competitive in a loving way. I definitely feel that understanding the languages of a person and their way of talking super helpful. It can be hard- but hey, it's definitely worth it when you get the hang of it
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Thank you for letting me know who my gf really was. Also thank you for letting me know what I have to change about myself and who I am. So keep making videos because I like them and watch them every day and Im sure other people do to.
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Thank you for letting me know who my gf really was. Also thank you for letting me know what I have to change about myself and who I am. So keep making videos because I like them and watch them every day and Im sure other people do to.
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Kai
Im about 2 months into mine, weve been talking for 3, and Im really happy that a lot of these are clicking! Ive tried dating people previously where the relationship couldnt last longer than a month. Im excited for how we grow: )
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Im about 2 months into mine, weve been talking for 3, and Im really happy that a lot of these are clicking! Ive tried dating people previously where the relationship couldnt last longer than a month. Im excited for how we grow: )
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umakant
There is nothing like love make your self happy and if you have someone be ready to lose them anyone can go from your life in an instance make yourself strong so that you dont need anyone else support for feeling better.
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There is nothing like love make your self happy and if you have someone be ready to lose them anyone can go from your life in an instance make yourself strong so that you dont need anyone else support for feeling better.
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Natalia
Thank you, this def helped we had a argument last night and this morning I felt kinda off even tho we resolved it and I know I love him. This just reinforced that this is def the healthiest relationship I've been in.
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Thank you, this def helped we had a argument last night and this morning I felt kinda off even tho we resolved it and I know I love him. This just reinforced that this is def the healthiest relationship I've been in.
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Lazy
Yes me and my girlfriend are so happy together. We follow each of these steps one by one. We love each other very much and I really hope to marry her and have a doggy farm with her! Shes amazing! I love you J!
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Yes me and my girlfriend are so happy together. We follow each of these steps one by one. We love each other very much and I really hope to marry her and have a doggy farm with her! Shes amazing! I love you J!
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Umbre
I've been crying for the past 5 minutes /pos
I've finally found someone that isn't going to abuse me. I'm finally In a healthy relationship. I feel like I'm dreaming. Thank you for opening my eyes to this.
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I've been crying for the past 5 minutes /pos
I've finally found someone that isn't going to abuse me. I'm finally In a healthy relationship. I feel like I'm dreaming. Thank you for opening my eyes to this.
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rutha
Just asked out my crush 3 days ago and he says i love you but i dont think he actually does i think he said that because he felt bad and can anyone tell me what to do and how to know if he actually like me?
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Just asked out my crush 3 days ago and he says i love you but i dont think he actually does i think he said that because he felt bad and can anyone tell me what to do and how to know if he actually like me?
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Charring
Showing interest in what theyre doing/making/feeling is the flip side to having independence from each other. If they arent interested in your life it starts to feel like the freedom is disinterest
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Showing interest in what theyre doing/making/feeling is the flip side to having independence from each other. If they arent interested in your life it starts to feel like the freedom is disinterest
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Shane
I just finally got into a relationship with someone who loves me, we both exhibit all of these traits early on, we can talk about anything and we do sometimes argue but make up immediately afterwards
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I just finally got into a relationship with someone who loves me, we both exhibit all of these traits early on, we can talk about anything and we do sometimes argue but make up immediately afterwards
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Delia
I liked this. I am in a new relationship and have noticed some things a little off about my partner but not sure how to being them up to make a change for the better and not worst. Any advice?
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I liked this. I am in a new relationship and have noticed some things a little off about my partner but not sure how to being them up to make a change for the better and not worst. Any advice?
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