8 Things Narcissists Are Secretly Afraid Of
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What's worse is that even knowing the truth now, I can't seem to make any of my decisions without thinking of myself first. I decided I wanted to get better. So i basically reinvented myself in a way that I was way more self centered and only talked about how much attention I needed because of how much I loved myself. I still love myself. I think about how perfect my body image is. But no matter how much attention I get or how many people I surround myself with, it's nothing compared to how much my ex gave me and I feel like I only poisoned her with my selfishness knowing that even though I know I had good intentions, I still hurt her. And I'll never know what real love is supposed to like. I always told myself that when I leave my dad and move on in my life, I'm going to be a way better person and make sure to show a better example of how to love.
Date: 2023-08-20
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Dale
Is not death Andre husband fraud is the judgement, cause krishna does speak every language but the paper for exemption needs three signatures, the signature of love, the signature of ya spiritual fadder who tell you if you only touch my grandchild Dale Richard sister in the flesh, you have no imagination so What you plan for Dale and Dale replacement in this physical realm is a really long joke, because it cheap, and ya mother, and those who gave you my instructions, but if you learn to laugh at your self it will just get worst, and Andre I wish you can get to know your daughter carry her for ice cream and build memories with her, you are a good big brother and I easy on you because you deserve to be happy that child have zo much to teach you, not by phone and teach her to fight send her martial arts, because that child might save your soul, make a good memory with her cause nevermind what I think of you if you thief the child snacks she go be vex with you now how I can get vex with you, you thief ma snacks Maurice feel you up then you cry till sun down, because if you did thief ma food Maurice qoukd have had Brent as he husband.
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Is not death Andre husband fraud is the judgement, cause krishna does speak every language but the paper for exemption needs three signatures, the signature of love, the signature of ya spiritual fadder who tell you if you only touch my grandchild Dale Richard sister in the flesh, you have no imagination so What you plan for Dale and Dale replacement in this physical realm is a really long joke, because it cheap, and ya mother, and those who gave you my instructions, but if you learn to laugh at your self it will just get worst, and Andre I wish you can get to know your daughter carry her for ice cream and build memories with her, you are a good big brother and I easy on you because you deserve to be happy that child have zo much to teach you, not by phone and teach her to fight send her martial arts, because that child might save your soul, make a good memory with her cause nevermind what I think of you if you thief the child snacks she go be vex with you now how I can get vex with you, you thief ma snacks Maurice feel you up then you cry till sun down, because if you did thief ma food Maurice qoukd have had Brent as he husband.
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education
Every day for the last few months been recognizing these bad habits in my daily life. Without the emotional intelligence to actively process it I struggle to change and acknowledge and gain empathy towards myself and others. It has been a difficult journey but I am on it. This is a comment for those who relate to this video, we do not have NPD, we just have bad tendencies and habits. Accept that you do this and focus on that, so when it happens you can see it and apologize to yourself and others for doing it. From here, therapy and a LOT of self love and time.
My story is not everyone's but just know having tendencies or habits of a narcissist do not make you one outright and stem from a very poor, emotionally detached childhood. You are hurting and project that hurt in your daily life. But you can get through it and eventually love yourself and others openly. :)
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Every day for the last few months been recognizing these bad habits in my daily life. Without the emotional intelligence to actively process it I struggle to change and acknowledge and gain empathy towards myself and others. It has been a difficult journey but I am on it. This is a comment for those who relate to this video, we do not have NPD, we just have bad tendencies and habits. Accept that you do this and focus on that, so when it happens you can see it and apologize to yourself and others for doing it. From here, therapy and a LOT of self love and time.
My story is not everyone's but just know having tendencies or habits of a narcissist do not make you one outright and stem from a very poor, emotionally detached childhood. You are hurting and project that hurt in your daily life. But you can get through it and eventually love yourself and others openly. :)
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alohachristine
Maybe for fear of relationship commitment, you should clarify that they don't know how, nor desire, emotional commitment! -- even though many of them do commit to relationships of all kinds!
Unfortunately, there are various reasons for narcissism (which each one of us shares to a degree-- though hopefully never to this degree! But humans by nature are narcissistic. Some just manage to take it to an extreme. Some of the other reasons for narcissism, as I see it, are comorbid conditions like depression and anxiety-- and also-- AUTISM.
Good luck everyone at maneuvering this terrifying rollercoaster that some people take us on! :\
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Maybe for fear of relationship commitment, you should clarify that they don't know how, nor desire, emotional commitment! -- even though many of them do commit to relationships of all kinds!
Unfortunately, there are various reasons for narcissism (which each one of us shares to a degree-- though hopefully never to this degree! But humans by nature are narcissistic. Some just manage to take it to an extreme. Some of the other reasons for narcissism, as I see it, are comorbid conditions like depression and anxiety-- and also-- AUTISM.
Good luck everyone at maneuvering this terrifying rollercoaster that some people take us on! :\
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ROTJ
When i tried to talk (very delicately) to my narcissist mother about her behaviour 2 things really stood out:
1) she would rather blame me for her actions than take responsibility for them
2) she is hyper sensitive to the slightest criticism yet expects everyone else to accept her criticism without complaint.
Someone who will treat you like this doesn't care about you. That was sad to realise. I don't see how you can have a fair or balanced relationship with someone like that. She literally thinks calling out her behaviour is worse than her doing it. I honestly have no idea what to do. Suggestions welcome.
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When i tried to talk (very delicately) to my narcissist mother about her behaviour 2 things really stood out:
1) she would rather blame me for her actions than take responsibility for them
2) she is hyper sensitive to the slightest criticism yet expects everyone else to accept her criticism without complaint.
Someone who will treat you like this doesn't care about you. That was sad to realise. I don't see how you can have a fair or balanced relationship with someone like that. She literally thinks calling out her behaviour is worse than her doing it. I honestly have no idea what to do. Suggestions welcome.
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The
Number 9. Being called a narcissist.
Number 10. Someone stealing their spotlight.
Number 11. Someone looking down on them.
Number 12. Telling the truth. Admitting or confessing something about what they did.
Number 13. Afraid of losing or competition.
Number 14. Being alone or being abandoned.
Number 15. Telling them no and set boundaries.
Number 16. Being ignored.
Number 17. Failure.
Number 18. Feeling remorse.
Number 19. Responsibility.
Number 20. Someone who is stronger than they are.
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Number 9. Being called a narcissist.
Number 10. Someone stealing their spotlight.
Number 11. Someone looking down on them.
Number 12. Telling the truth. Admitting or confessing something about what they did.
Number 13. Afraid of losing or competition.
Number 14. Being alone or being abandoned.
Number 15. Telling them no and set boundaries.
Number 16. Being ignored.
Number 17. Failure.
Number 18. Feeling remorse.
Number 19. Responsibility.
Number 20. Someone who is stronger than they are.
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Joel
Glad I found this video. My roommate is narcissistic/egotistical. He got on my case today about not recalling of why he went our first groceries twice today & that he is the main talker. What came after was I am going to stop talking as you don't listen.
Being an introvert myself, I have learned to deal with him.
There are things which if brought up (dad issues, forgiving, growing up etc) It would be a mess.
Any thoughts on this besides moving out?
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Glad I found this video. My roommate is narcissistic/egotistical. He got on my case today about not recalling of why he went our first groceries twice today & that he is the main talker. What came after was I am going to stop talking as you don't listen.
Being an introvert myself, I have learned to deal with him.
There are things which if brought up (dad issues, forgiving, growing up etc) It would be a mess.
Any thoughts on this besides moving out?
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education
They love to say how dare you as if they were royalty Superior and you are beneath them I enjoyed knocking them off their pedestal after hearing those words I normally enjoy giving them the verbal thrashing of their life then it's getting physical is something they feel strongly about so be it they only do what they think they can get away with without major repercussions
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They love to say how dare you as if they were royalty Superior and you are beneath them I enjoyed knocking them off their pedestal after hearing those words I normally enjoy giving them the verbal thrashing of their life then it's getting physical is something they feel strongly about so be it they only do what they think they can get away with without major repercussions
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PinkPaprika
Narcissists have so many expectations that they are bound to be constantly disappointed.
They also consider any difference of opinion with their own point of view as an insult, so of course they constantly feel offended.
Its sad that some people should try so hard to make themselves and other people around them miserable
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Narcissists have so many expectations that they are bound to be constantly disappointed.
They also consider any difference of opinion with their own point of view as an insult, so of course they constantly feel offended.
Its sad that some people should try so hard to make themselves and other people around them miserable
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lipstickprincess1
My mom is a malignant liar and narcissist!
Her denial about the truth makes me the liar
She takes zero responsibility for her lies!
She will never realize how disgusting her personality is and all my sisters do is kiss her a.
I wont so that makes me the black sheep
I stay away as far as possible!
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My mom is a malignant liar and narcissist!
Her denial about the truth makes me the liar
She takes zero responsibility for her lies!
She will never realize how disgusting her personality is and all my sisters do is kiss her a.
I wont so that makes me the black sheep
I stay away as far as possible!
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bunny
shut up shut up shut up shut up npd literally comes from childhood trauma. you have no business putting down an entire disorder and spreading the whole narcissist abuse myth. narcissistic abuse does not exist, its literally just regular emotional abuse no matter if the person has npd or not
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shut up shut up shut up shut up npd literally comes from childhood trauma. you have no business putting down an entire disorder and spreading the whole narcissist abuse myth. narcissistic abuse does not exist, its literally just regular emotional abuse no matter if the person has npd or not
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Steven
I am ashamed to say I have some of these traits but many I do not. I have heard there is no way around it when you have been around a so many narcissists or cluster B personalities. The narcissistic traits I do not have I am very glad I don't have those traits.
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I am ashamed to say I have some of these traits but many I do not. I have heard there is no way around it when you have been around a so many narcissists or cluster B personalities. The narcissistic traits I do not have I am very glad I don't have those traits.
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Mark
Why are narcissists always painted as evil. My last relationship was with the most wonderful woman that has the misfortune of SUFFERING from narcissism and delusional disorder. I was devastated when it became apparent that we simply couldn't be together any more
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Why are narcissists always painted as evil. My last relationship was with the most wonderful woman that has the misfortune of SUFFERING from narcissism and delusional disorder. I was devastated when it became apparent that we simply couldn't be together any more
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Viktor
Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you leapnotch
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Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you leapnotch
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Viktor
Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you leapnotch
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Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you leapnotch
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Carla
Yes! My ex always could find flaws in everyone but himself. He would constantly tell me I was embarrassing him after he would go into a rage and harm me. My ex had started saying he was a Angel people would laugh at him.
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Yes! My ex always could find flaws in everyone but himself. He would constantly tell me I was embarrassing him after he would go into a rage and harm me. My ex had started saying he was a Angel people would laugh at him.
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Cyril
I've recently realized I'm a narcissist and have always been deluded, blaming others and believing I only had the best intentions and was being misunderstood. I no longer want to be this way and would like your help. :(
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I've recently realized I'm a narcissist and have always been deluded, blaming others and believing I only had the best intentions and was being misunderstood. I no longer want to be this way and would like your help. :(
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Will
I would like to see where these theories end up in a few decades, they sound like conspiracy theories to me. The most harmful part of it is avoiding straight communication, relying on mind reading and wild assumptions.
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I would like to see where these theories end up in a few decades, they sound like conspiracy theories to me. The most harmful part of it is avoiding straight communication, relying on mind reading and wild assumptions.
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Kathleen
They addressed so many issues lots of people had with the narcissists and that makes me extremely happy to know that he is really listening to their community like they did so many years ago. Thanks Leapnotch.
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They addressed so many issues lots of people had with the narcissists and that makes me extremely happy to know that he is really listening to their community like they did so many years ago. Thanks Leapnotch.
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Kathleen
They addressed so many issues lots of people had with the narcissists and that makes me extremely happy to know that he is really listening to their community like they did so many years ago. Thanks Leapnotch.
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They addressed so many issues lots of people had with the narcissists and that makes me extremely happy to know that he is really listening to their community like they did so many years ago. Thanks Leapnotch.
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Perilous
Even if you are afraid of your insides and trust your self to do good and show good. Eventualy people think you are weak and treat you as that with subtle passive knives of disrespect. Yeah. I hit brick walls!
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Even if you are afraid of your insides and trust your self to do good and show good. Eventualy people think you are weak and treat you as that with subtle passive knives of disrespect. Yeah. I hit brick walls!
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education
be careful with the relationship commitment part and it's ok to have healthy boundaries with others. Just because you don't feel comfortable getting into a relationship doesn't mean you are a narcissist.
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be careful with the relationship commitment part and it's ok to have healthy boundaries with others. Just because you don't feel comfortable getting into a relationship doesn't mean you are a narcissist.
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Jen
This kind of attitude or character gives me so much stress and the nerve. The way they acted like they don't do it or didn't know about it that they are acting like innocent! it freezed me from head to toe.
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This kind of attitude or character gives me so much stress and the nerve. The way they acted like they don't do it or didn't know about it that they are acting like innocent! it freezed me from head to toe.
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education
Truth. They know that they are losers who put on a front. Then they go home to their mother who they live with since being born and think their wish is everyone's command (real losers by that time)
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Truth. They know that they are losers who put on a front. Then they go home to their mother who they live with since being born and think their wish is everyone's command (real losers by that time)
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Sarah
Coke on admit it loosers. what sad pathetic looser has wasted two mins of their life putting eckart tole uv got no life onto my u tube at home and commenting in fake stories for hours under it
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Coke on admit it loosers. what sad pathetic looser has wasted two mins of their life putting eckart tole uv got no life onto my u tube at home and commenting in fake stories for hours under it
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