Signs Youre Dating a Narcissist
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That is to say, this woman I know thinks she does right about everything, that said to me you can't think like that. It felt like a command. It made me very uncomfortable.
She went on to tell me what to think. I got off the phone by saying in response I have to go I'll get back to you in a few weeks. I needed time to think about the alarm I felt. Are there women that gaslight this way through female acquaintances, friends or relatives through conversation?
She told me she knows a lady that is a caregiver working in this man's house and he has diabetes and diabetics are forgetful and she walks out of his house with his (what was hidden) money. I mean this woman she speaks of is robbing her client. This is awful! I just listened horrified at what I was hearing. Yet I could tell she has no feelings of right or wrong, no sense that 'trust' is being violated, that this woman was stealing and that is wrong. And I sense she lacks empathy. Does it sound that way to you? What bothers me is I think she is gaslighting women through conversation. So when she calls me I time the conversations, keep it short and seldom answer her calls.
Also, is gaslighting a form of mind control? Also, I had said No, to some information she had asked about me, that I felt was too personal and she went off, got very angry. She never done this to me before. I still did not tell her.
Date: 2023-08-20
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Jinal
A doubt: he loves me, cares bout me a lot, he proposed me for marriage but each morning he says how good he is and how caring he is towards me and I agree with him coz he is caring, but slowly the day goes by he starts telling me that m not caring, I don't respect him, I m not desirable, I am not of his level but still he chose me and did a favour on me. I am not good at anything. But still he is ready to compromise with me coz m good human. That's what he tells me every day. I don't like it, and at one point I started believing that problem is with me and m not good at anything. Which affected me a lot mentally.
This converted into fights. Ugly fights. Everyday. One day I seriously told him that I can't marry him, he thought m angry and just said in anger but I was serious. He made really big drama scene out of it. Lot of cursing, abusing, crying, breaking things. All these happened on phone.
Is he called narcist?
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A doubt: he loves me, cares bout me a lot, he proposed me for marriage but each morning he says how good he is and how caring he is towards me and I agree with him coz he is caring, but slowly the day goes by he starts telling me that m not caring, I don't respect him, I m not desirable, I am not of his level but still he chose me and did a favour on me. I am not good at anything. But still he is ready to compromise with me coz m good human. That's what he tells me every day. I don't like it, and at one point I started believing that problem is with me and m not good at anything. Which affected me a lot mentally.
This converted into fights. Ugly fights. Everyday. One day I seriously told him that I can't marry him, he thought m angry and just said in anger but I was serious. He made really big drama scene out of it. Lot of cursing, abusing, crying, breaking things. All these happened on phone.
Is he called narcist?
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Zuzanna
I've broken with a narcisstic boyfriend a few weeks ago. For the eight years of our relationship I was aware of how much miserable he is, how much he needs love and help and how his childhood made him feel and behave this way. I tried to help him as much as I only could but I was unsuccessful I left him because this relationship was making me feel bad about myself and I felt unloved but I am still wondering if I should stay and keep supporting him. For last few weeks I was thinking more about my needs and didn't pay attention to his ones in order not to go back to the relationship but I am wondering if I am a bad person for leaving somebody that miserable alone?
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I've broken with a narcisstic boyfriend a few weeks ago. For the eight years of our relationship I was aware of how much miserable he is, how much he needs love and help and how his childhood made him feel and behave this way. I tried to help him as much as I only could but I was unsuccessful I left him because this relationship was making me feel bad about myself and I felt unloved but I am still wondering if I should stay and keep supporting him. For last few weeks I was thinking more about my needs and didn't pay attention to his ones in order not to go back to the relationship but I am wondering if I am a bad person for leaving somebody that miserable alone?
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Kirra
Every human being has atleast one or two traits of narcissism. Now a true narcissist, a full blown diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder individual? Oh you will know. Plus they dont care to hear if you call them a narcissist. They will deny it because remember they are perfect. Plus they dont care anyways, they lack EMPATHY. Unless you cause a narcissistic wound but even if you do, they dont care. They have other supply that will lick their wounds.
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Every human being has atleast one or two traits of narcissism. Now a true narcissist, a full blown diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder individual? Oh you will know. Plus they dont care to hear if you call them a narcissist. They will deny it because remember they are perfect. Plus they dont care anyways, they lack EMPATHY. Unless you cause a narcissistic wound but even if you do, they dont care. They have other supply that will lick their wounds.
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Eva
A narcissist will only see you as an extension of themselves. It's a matter of time before you start developing their traits, and their personality, especially if your codependent. If you feel guilty for having friends and interests outside the narcissist, something's wrong.
A narcissist will only play the victim, while bullying and belittling others.
Narcissists are horrible people, and your better off without them.
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A narcissist will only see you as an extension of themselves. It's a matter of time before you start developing their traits, and their personality, especially if your codependent. If you feel guilty for having friends and interests outside the narcissist, something's wrong.
A narcissist will only play the victim, while bullying and belittling others.
Narcissists are horrible people, and your better off without them.
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Anna
When you came here trying to find out that your crush is a narcissist just so that you'll have an excuse not to try to date them because you really like them but you're just too afraid of being in a relationship, but as the video goes on you realize every single symptom doesn't apply to them in the very least and now you're left happy but confused and not knowing what to do.
Nope? Just me? Okay
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When you came here trying to find out that your crush is a narcissist just so that you'll have an excuse not to try to date them because you really like them but you're just too afraid of being in a relationship, but as the video goes on you realize every single symptom doesn't apply to them in the very least and now you're left happy but confused and not knowing what to do.
Nope? Just me? Okay
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oTK89o
I noticed narcissistic behavior on my side. I am not sure it I am an narcissistic or just have low selfesteem. I have hurt loved ones multiple times and noticed that I show toxic behavior around them. How can I change my behavior. Can you give any Tipps on how to stop being narcissistic?
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I noticed narcissistic behavior on my side. I am not sure it I am an narcissistic or just have low selfesteem. I have hurt loved ones multiple times and noticed that I show toxic behavior around them. How can I change my behavior. Can you give any Tipps on how to stop being narcissistic?
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oTK89o
I noticed narcissistic behavior on my side. I am not sure it I am an narcissistic or just have low selfesteem. I have hurt loved ones multiple times and noticed that I show toxic behavior around them. How can I change my behavior. Can you give any Tipps on how to stop being narcissistic?
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I noticed narcissistic behavior on my side. I am not sure it I am an narcissistic or just have low selfesteem. I have hurt loved ones multiple times and noticed that I show toxic behavior around them. How can I change my behavior. Can you give any Tipps on how to stop being narcissistic?
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ItsJustMeAlec
Should i be concerned my ex gf was:
-Responsible for my suicide attempt/plan
-Shows all these traits
-Says she did what she did because of me
-Tried separating me from my friend who also begged her to talk to me when i was planning to commit
-and a lot more
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Should i be concerned my ex gf was:
-Responsible for my suicide attempt/plan
-Shows all these traits
-Says she did what she did because of me
-Tried separating me from my friend who also begged her to talk to me when i was planning to commit
-and a lot more
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natalie
Wow. I answered yes on all these questions when describing my [now ex] boyfriend. The saddest part is, despite having a firm cognitive grasp on the fact that hes not someone I should waste any energy or time on, I cant help but feel my heart breaking now that hes discarded me.
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Wow. I answered yes on all these questions when describing my [now ex] boyfriend. The saddest part is, despite having a firm cognitive grasp on the fact that hes not someone I should waste any energy or time on, I cant help but feel my heart breaking now that hes discarded me.
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Jacque
I dated and got dumped by the same guy twice. looking at this described him to a T. plus Narcissists also manipulate, my exbf who's a single dad with a baby momma who abandoned their kid. he would say my daughter needs a mom', like he'd use his kid to pull at my heart strings.
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I dated and got dumped by the same guy twice. looking at this described him to a T. plus Narcissists also manipulate, my exbf who's a single dad with a baby momma who abandoned their kid. he would say my daughter needs a mom', like he'd use his kid to pull at my heart strings.
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Abstract
Wait wait. if someone is feeling insecure if you take ages to reply or they react if the way and frequency you used to communicate changed, that doesn't mean the person is narcissistic. Careful with those labels. Insecurities are not always narcissism.
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Wait wait. if someone is feeling insecure if you take ages to reply or they react if the way and frequency you used to communicate changed, that doesn't mean the person is narcissistic. Careful with those labels. Insecurities are not always narcissism.
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Abby's
Just so you know one of the things similar to all the personality disorders is that if your atleast 18 and meet the criteria then you would beable to get a dignosis of it and thats because when your an adult your personality is staying that way
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Just so you know one of the things similar to all the personality disorders is that if your atleast 18 and meet the criteria then you would beable to get a dignosis of it and thats because when your an adult your personality is staying that way
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Kaneki
Y'all stop demonizing people. The way people end up in life is due to a combination of their experiences and their natural personality. If you find someone is a narcissist, ok cool. Move on and leave them for someone else.
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Y'all stop demonizing people. The way people end up in life is due to a combination of their experiences and their natural personality. If you find someone is a narcissist, ok cool. Move on and leave them for someone else.
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daboodeef179
lol these comments like everybody and their grandma is a narcissist sheesh people. Sometimes people are narcissists and other times it's a misunderstanding or the person isn't thinking or they are just being a jerk
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lol these comments like everybody and their grandma is a narcissist sheesh people. Sometimes people are narcissists and other times it's a misunderstanding or the person isn't thinking or they are just being a jerk
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Debbie
Hahhahahah this is Amber Heard100%. I have categorized her as a sociopath at the start of the trial and after watching her UK testimonies. Absolutely checked all the tickboxes on this one on her.
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Hahhahahah this is Amber Heard100%. I have categorized her as a sociopath at the start of the trial and after watching her UK testimonies. Absolutely checked all the tickboxes on this one on her.
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joshua
Awe man was definitely hoping my partner wouldnt have literally every one of these traits. I stopped feeding the fire now Im calmly talking and she freaks out more than when we would argue.
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Awe man was definitely hoping my partner wouldnt have literally every one of these traits. I stopped feeding the fire now Im calmly talking and she freaks out more than when we would argue.
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education
Currently watching this months after a breakup, because my ex will not leave me alone. Unsurprisingly during our relationship he displayed a lot of these characteristics.
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Currently watching this months after a breakup, because my ex will not leave me alone. Unsurprisingly during our relationship he displayed a lot of these characteristics.
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thomas
No their self worth should come from them not other. They should make little goals to make themself pround n that increase confidence n worth in ourself
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No their self worth should come from them not other. They should make little goals to make themself pround n that increase confidence n worth in ourself
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Ego
But what if you really are the best at everything you do? The Beatles were the best at writing songs, were they narcissists? All you need is love.
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But what if you really are the best at everything you do? The Beatles were the best at writing songs, were they narcissists? All you need is love.
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The
The hardest aspect about being with a narcissist is that they'll pretend to care about you when all they care about is how you make them seem.
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The hardest aspect about being with a narcissist is that they'll pretend to care about you when all they care about is how you make them seem.
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Jeanna
Sadly I know I am dating one. I have no way of moving out at this time. I am working on self-love and finding anywhere to live but with him.
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Sadly I know I am dating one. I have no way of moving out at this time. I am working on self-love and finding anywhere to live but with him.
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education
This just isnt fully true at all. not all narcissistic people are in love with themselves and plenty still follow the rules to survive
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This just isnt fully true at all. not all narcissistic people are in love with themselves and plenty still follow the rules to survive
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Janyce
I just ended a 30 year marriage to a narcissist! I am on day 9 of ending my relationship with him. I wish I had You Tube 30 years ago
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I just ended a 30 year marriage to a narcissist! I am on day 9 of ending my relationship with him. I wish I had You Tube 30 years ago
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Shannen
But what do you do when you realize theyre a narcissist and you still cant let them go even though you feel them letting you go
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But what do you do when you realize theyre a narcissist and you still cant let them go even though you feel them letting you go
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