5 Signs Youve Met a Sociopath But Just Dont Know It
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I know I'm not a sociopath nor a psychopath (hopefully) but I like manipulating people without having them knowing or ruining someone's life just for fun (in which I could still feel guilt but that won't stop me from doing it again.
I want them to take it as affection (the things that I do for them, care, and love so that they would rely on me and do something for me in return when I need it. I also like seeing people suffer (in which, I hope, is normal) and dwell in their regrets or disappointments. I enjoy appearing attractive but dominant to other people (plus I have superiority complexes about certain things. I also do not value people that I'm not emotionally involved with so I'll be fine even if someone got shot beside me (but I would rather fake my compassion if I have someone around that I know and would be a great tool for me in the future- so that they wouldn't question my personality and have doubts regarding me.
I also rarely get emotionally attached to people (but in an extent that I can fake my attachment for several purposes that could come in handy in the future.
I also can handle, wait, and control my urge to act entitled around people.
I appear really kind and compassionate to other people but now. my family are noticing signs that I have less empathy than before though I have no plans on hiding the real me from them.
Only 10+ of my closest friends are aware that I'm like this.
I'm still normal, right?
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I know I'm not a sociopath nor a psychopath (hopefully) but I like manipulating people without having them knowing or ruining someone's life just for fun (in which I could still feel guilt but that won't stop me from doing it again.
I want them to take it as affection (the things that I do for them, care, and love so that they would rely on me and do something for me in return when I need it. I also like seeing people suffer (in which, I hope, is normal) and dwell in their regrets or disappointments. I enjoy appearing attractive but dominant to other people (plus I have superiority complexes about certain things. I also do not value people that I'm not emotionally involved with so I'll be fine even if someone got shot beside me (but I would rather fake my compassion if I have someone around that I know and would be a great tool for me in the future- so that they wouldn't question my personality and have doubts regarding me.
I also rarely get emotionally attached to people (but in an extent that I can fake my attachment for several purposes that could come in handy in the future.
I also can handle, wait, and control my urge to act entitled around people.
I appear really kind and compassionate to other people but now. my family are noticing signs that I have less empathy than before though I have no plans on hiding the real me from them.
Only 10+ of my closest friends are aware that I'm like this.
I'm still normal, right?
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Joe
Citizen where I get confused cuz every other video I see is it's the other way around whichever one cuz I'm pretty sure I'm I know I'm anti-social I don't like people literally I don't like people anymore that's recent though but I always thought I was a sociopath because on some level I do feel people and I could understand it and I do feel bad neurotic ADHD just trying to get to the bottom of it because every other video I watched on psychopathy and sociopathy they flop him around or they'll say they both don't feel you do they both have no empathy and I was on a waiting list to see a therapist for year-and-a-half still haven't seen them going through some problems with that but yeah just curious in my debate inside my head which one is which because I'm personally tired of seeing all these licensed quote-unquote psychiatrist and doctors but they can't they can't agree on which one is which I literally have watch like 10 videos literally like five say this way and five states that away so please put that to rest in my mind I would be grateful
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Citizen where I get confused cuz every other video I see is it's the other way around whichever one cuz I'm pretty sure I'm I know I'm anti-social I don't like people literally I don't like people anymore that's recent though but I always thought I was a sociopath because on some level I do feel people and I could understand it and I do feel bad neurotic ADHD just trying to get to the bottom of it because every other video I watched on psychopathy and sociopathy they flop him around or they'll say they both don't feel you do they both have no empathy and I was on a waiting list to see a therapist for year-and-a-half still haven't seen them going through some problems with that but yeah just curious in my debate inside my head which one is which because I'm personally tired of seeing all these licensed quote-unquote psychiatrist and doctors but they can't they can't agree on which one is which I literally have watch like 10 videos literally like five say this way and five states that away so please put that to rest in my mind I would be grateful
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Margaret
I just saw a very dark side of someone that I loved and cared so much about I actually saw someone with blue eyes turn black I was completely shocked I still am but when you see that look and the words that came out I just was blown away! I'm still looking back and can see how this was all coming I just met up out of trying to end things friendly but I was actually happy to get away he was actually trying to make me do something to him bating me I was so mad but l just knew it was a big mistake and ran! Blocked number this is a person I've know for 7 years in still in shock! I feel like I need a record because if I told anyone I knew they wouldn't believe it.
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I just saw a very dark side of someone that I loved and cared so much about I actually saw someone with blue eyes turn black I was completely shocked I still am but when you see that look and the words that came out I just was blown away! I'm still looking back and can see how this was all coming I just met up out of trying to end things friendly but I was actually happy to get away he was actually trying to make me do something to him bating me I was so mad but l just knew it was a big mistake and ran! Blocked number this is a person I've know for 7 years in still in shock! I feel like I need a record because if I told anyone I knew they wouldn't believe it.
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Goofball
I had a friend in 8th grade and she started off as being really kind and encouraging. However she started asking me to do a bunch of favors for her and never doing any in return. She started manipulating me and lying to me a lot. Than she started being mean and using what she knew about me against me. She also has a huge ego and she thinks shes better than everyone. She also doesnt follow rules and always argues with authority figures. I am no longer friends with her because Im tired of being manipulated and thrown under the bus.
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I had a friend in 8th grade and she started off as being really kind and encouraging. However she started asking me to do a bunch of favors for her and never doing any in return. She started manipulating me and lying to me a lot. Than she started being mean and using what she knew about me against me. She also has a huge ego and she thinks shes better than everyone. She also doesnt follow rules and always argues with authority figures. I am no longer friends with her because Im tired of being manipulated and thrown under the bus.
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Ptolemy
My ex boyfriend is a sociopath. We talked for months and he convinced me to fly across the country and move in with him. I did, and the signs started to pop up almost immediately. It's terrifying to see it unfold. Im convinced that if I didn't get out when I did, he would have ruined my life. He was very, very sweet, and talking to him was so easy. These types are masters of charisma. You should definitely be hesitant to engage with someone who has an image so perfect that you can't find any fault. No one is that perfect.
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My ex boyfriend is a sociopath. We talked for months and he convinced me to fly across the country and move in with him. I did, and the signs started to pop up almost immediately. It's terrifying to see it unfold. Im convinced that if I didn't get out when I did, he would have ruined my life. He was very, very sweet, and talking to him was so easy. These types are masters of charisma. You should definitely be hesitant to engage with someone who has an image so perfect that you can't find any fault. No one is that perfect.
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kaw
My ex gf checks off most of these boxes.
I was like a lamb to the slaughter.
These people are VERY damaging.
The fact that I am here commenting 25 yrs. later is proof of that.
I wish I never met her. I did and am now still trying to deal with the aftermath.
I internalize stuff so she was the absolute worst type of person I could have met.
If you suspect you are with one, RUN the hell away for your own sake.
You'll be glad you did.
Sad that you didnt.
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My ex gf checks off most of these boxes.
I was like a lamb to the slaughter.
These people are VERY damaging.
The fact that I am here commenting 25 yrs. later is proof of that.
I wish I never met her. I did and am now still trying to deal with the aftermath.
I internalize stuff so she was the absolute worst type of person I could have met.
If you suspect you are with one, RUN the hell away for your own sake.
You'll be glad you did.
Sad that you didnt.
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The
What does it mean when someone buries their emotions so deep that they just don't feel them anymore, yet with some conditions like their favorite activity or preferred activity they can resurface again? What happens when that same person shows a distinct lack of. well worry for much of anything? I just need to know since my little brother EmperorSheep is displaying and stating these feelings, and I feel like I need to help him before things get worse into his adulthood.
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What does it mean when someone buries their emotions so deep that they just don't feel them anymore, yet with some conditions like their favorite activity or preferred activity they can resurface again? What happens when that same person shows a distinct lack of. well worry for much of anything? I just need to know since my little brother EmperorSheep is displaying and stating these feelings, and I feel like I need to help him before things get worse into his adulthood.
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. T
Hey guys i'm a sociopath that just leaned my condition and i'm trying to change my ways in loving someone i currently have a girlfriend and i'm scared that she might only be here because of the things i did without know i did them i truly love her and want to give her what i never had emotionally can anyone give me some advice on how to cope with things and learn to spot the things i do to stop them
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Hey guys i'm a sociopath that just leaned my condition and i'm trying to change my ways in loving someone i currently have a girlfriend and i'm scared that she might only be here because of the things i did without know i did them i truly love her and want to give her what i never had emotionally can anyone give me some advice on how to cope with things and learn to spot the things i do to stop them
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Scott
I'm a sociopath, but live by a code I was taught, sort of like Dexter. That's why I like that show so much. I have been since my late teens (46 now. I was abused by my parents until I was 18. I think that is why. Now, in my 40s I understand who I am and tell people I am a sociopath so they know up front. My goal is to never hurt anyone again. Peace to all who are suffering.
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I'm a sociopath, but live by a code I was taught, sort of like Dexter. That's why I like that show so much. I have been since my late teens (46 now. I was abused by my parents until I was 18. I think that is why. Now, in my 40s I understand who I am and tell people I am a sociopath so they know up front. My goal is to never hurt anyone again. Peace to all who are suffering.
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Ellie
I'm a sociopath but I also have ASD so I don't have empathy. I can and do love some people but it's rare for someone to think I love them due to how argumentative I can be.
Once I was kicked out of a friend group because I let someone's dog run away which I thought was funny.
Most people don't try to understand me which only makes my sociopathic symptoms worse.
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I'm a sociopath but I also have ASD so I don't have empathy. I can and do love some people but it's rare for someone to think I love them due to how argumentative I can be.
Once I was kicked out of a friend group because I let someone's dog run away which I thought was funny.
Most people don't try to understand me which only makes my sociopathic symptoms worse.
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solarfreeloader
Took me a while to understand someone I know who defines this.
I can't think of one thing that doesn't match this description.
Its that bad, if I said your a sociopath he would deny it and say what you on about even though he knows what I mean.
These individuals can not be helped by thier victims. Just disown them.
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Took me a while to understand someone I know who defines this.
I can't think of one thing that doesn't match this description.
Its that bad, if I said your a sociopath he would deny it and say what you on about even though he knows what I mean.
These individuals can not be helped by thier victims. Just disown them.
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AlphaFlame
I have been researching a little bit on sociopaths because i think i might be one or at least similar because there are some people i care about, my family, and REALLY food friends, i also dont have many emotiones, like i dont feel romantic love or anything and ive looked at alot of videos and it sounds very similar to me.
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I have been researching a little bit on sociopaths because i think i might be one or at least similar because there are some people i care about, my family, and REALLY food friends, i also dont have many emotiones, like i dont feel romantic love or anything and ive looked at alot of videos and it sounds very similar to me.
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mbarna99
This video seems rather contradictory to other videos you have made comparing sociopaths and psychopaths. You say sociopaths have a sense of morality and can care about certain people but then you say they lack remorse entirely and have no morals. It sounded more like you were describing psychopaths in this video.
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This video seems rather contradictory to other videos you have made comparing sociopaths and psychopaths. You say sociopaths have a sense of morality and can care about certain people but then you say they lack remorse entirely and have no morals. It sounded more like you were describing psychopaths in this video.
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Khye
This is my sister almost completely. Please make more videos on sisters. My sister is a narcissistic sociopath, since we were very young. she has done quite alarming things, and as a child I wasn't able to give those things a real name. Now I understand them.
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This is my sister almost completely. Please make more videos on sisters. My sister is a narcissistic sociopath, since we were very young. she has done quite alarming things, and as a child I wasn't able to give those things a real name. Now I understand them.
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James
Hey, because of this video people are mistaking my ADHD for sociopathy and it's really painful to see all my friends gang up on me. I really hate this video because this is what they referred to as their realisation I hope nobody else suffers the way I did
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Hey, because of this video people are mistaking my ADHD for sociopathy and it's really painful to see all my friends gang up on me. I really hate this video because this is what they referred to as their realisation I hope nobody else suffers the way I did
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BLOCKOFICE
99. 9% of people on this video: don't self diagnose your self you not a sociopath/psychopath.
Also them: oh but listen to us because there's a better percent chance we are right, unlike you
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99. 9% of people on this video: don't self diagnose your self you not a sociopath/psychopath.
Also them: oh but listen to us because there's a better percent chance we are right, unlike you
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BigRez
Why does society make sociopaths out as monsters well dealing with a sociopath will probably not be negative if you dont allow yourself to be manipulated their just better at getting what they want
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Why does society make sociopaths out as monsters well dealing with a sociopath will probably not be negative if you dont allow yourself to be manipulated their just better at getting what they want
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babababab
Fun fact: if you diagnose yourself as a sociopath you're probably not one because sociopaths don't even get bothered to notice their actions, most likely you're an edgy 13 yro c:
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Fun fact: if you diagnose yourself as a sociopath you're probably not one because sociopaths don't even get bothered to notice their actions, most likely you're an edgy 13 yro c:
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Natalie
Good video. They DO experience shame, try not to trigger it because it will cause them to fly into a rage. They do not feel guilt or take accountability.
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Good video. They DO experience shame, try not to trigger it because it will cause them to fly into a rage. They do not feel guilt or take accountability.
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psych2go
When You apologize to a socio they dont really understand they will always blame you & they always turn shit around on you. They have a Victim mindset.
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When You apologize to a socio they dont really understand they will always blame you & they always turn shit around on you. They have a Victim mindset.
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Kitty
One movie that is NEVER mentioned but is one that should be on everyone's to watch list is, The Good Son, staring Macaulay Culkan and Elijah Wood.
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One movie that is NEVER mentioned but is one that should be on everyone's to watch list is, The Good Son, staring Macaulay Culkan and Elijah Wood.
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Mattius
So sociopaths have hope but psychopaths do not. How do you effectively deal with each case effectively outside of medication then?
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So sociopaths have hope but psychopaths do not. How do you effectively deal with each case effectively outside of medication then?
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Daily
My ex is definitely a sociopath.
So is my father. I'm an empath. I've always tried to love the ones who abused me. Never again!
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My ex is definitely a sociopath.
So is my father. I'm an empath. I've always tried to love the ones who abused me. Never again!
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Larry
I was with him from the time iwas 19 until i was in my 30s befor i started seeing his narcissistic sociopath behavior, lady fowler
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I was with him from the time iwas 19 until i was in my 30s befor i started seeing his narcissistic sociopath behavior, lady fowler
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Sweeter
All of these are me- 100% except whenever I got in trouble, I would just act like I was super super guilty and get out of it
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All of these are me- 100% except whenever I got in trouble, I would just act like I was super super guilty and get out of it
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