8 Ways Your Childhood Affects Your Lifestyle
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Date: 2023-08-20
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R.
SO much of this is ridiculous. The facts about most of the theories that are presented here are merely one theory of why people are the way they are. They took one and only one perspective, sited one author or researcher and decided THAT is why you are _______. You are depressed, addicted, a people pleaser, a quitter, anxious, clingy, distant, narcissist or insecure because your mom did this, your dad didn't do that, you were an only child/middle child/ etc etc. (It is a lot like when you pick up a book about dream interpretation - and it says if you dream about ____________ it means _________ as if those so-called symbols apply to the entire human races dreams) If you're an adult, you very likely know why you are the way you are and how it might relate to your childhood. Hopefully you also know you are an adult now and are responsible for why you are the way you are NOW.
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SO much of this is ridiculous. The facts about most of the theories that are presented here are merely one theory of why people are the way they are. They took one and only one perspective, sited one author or researcher and decided THAT is why you are _______. You are depressed, addicted, a people pleaser, a quitter, anxious, clingy, distant, narcissist or insecure because your mom did this, your dad didn't do that, you were an only child/middle child/ etc etc. (It is a lot like when you pick up a book about dream interpretation - and it says if you dream about ____________ it means _________ as if those so-called symbols apply to the entire human races dreams) If you're an adult, you very likely know why you are the way you are and how it might relate to your childhood. Hopefully you also know you are an adult now and are responsible for why you are the way you are NOW.
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Mecenautismo
1 highly strict parents: codependent relationships
2 broken marriage parents: higher demands in relationships
3 micromanagers parents: depression, low self esteem
4 parents don't talk to you, watch tv: lack of social communication skill
5 if you copy parents, then more open to other cultures
6 spanked by parents too strongly or often: health problems
7 needy parents: professional perfectionist attitude, not living your younger ages, transforming in a more mature being; or adopting their habits: you develop sense of being worthless.
8 love from father and towards him/ mother /towards her: better in establishing stable relationships.
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1 highly strict parents: codependent relationships
2 broken marriage parents: higher demands in relationships
3 micromanagers parents: depression, low self esteem
4 parents don't talk to you, watch tv: lack of social communication skill
5 if you copy parents, then more open to other cultures
6 spanked by parents too strongly or often: health problems
7 needy parents: professional perfectionist attitude, not living your younger ages, transforming in a more mature being; or adopting their habits: you develop sense of being worthless.
8 love from father and towards him/ mother /towards her: better in establishing stable relationships.
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Gachamay
The 6th one is me because. I was spanked a lot. and. I dont think things will ever get better. so I try to prevent myself from being spanked is by staying quiet. I dont really tell my parents anything. I dont really think spanking is exactly a good thing. it wont straighten any relationships. it wont fix any attitudes or any bad behavior. it will only make things worse. and strike more and more fear into the child. I have already lost trust in my parents. cause now me. I cry easily and Im not exactly the talkative kind.
(Right now. 2020 I still get threatened and spanked. so yeah 6# is me)
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The 6th one is me because. I was spanked a lot. and. I dont think things will ever get better. so I try to prevent myself from being spanked is by staying quiet. I dont really tell my parents anything. I dont really think spanking is exactly a good thing. it wont straighten any relationships. it wont fix any attitudes or any bad behavior. it will only make things worse. and strike more and more fear into the child. I have already lost trust in my parents. cause now me. I cry easily and Im not exactly the talkative kind.
(Right now. 2020 I still get threatened and spanked. so yeah 6# is me)
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Rick
My parents divorced when I was 6 years old and I experienced the first 7 of these on a daily basis during my childhood. The last point about the importance of a close relationship with a father hurts the most. My Dad never missed an opportunity to tell me that I was a mistake. I'm glad that I had my Grandfather / Mom's Dad to step up and treat me like a his own Son. And kudos to my Mother for being strong willed and telling I was worth something. At 51 years old, I still struggle with these issues, but I think I turned out alright even if I sometimes miss my father
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My parents divorced when I was 6 years old and I experienced the first 7 of these on a daily basis during my childhood. The last point about the importance of a close relationship with a father hurts the most. My Dad never missed an opportunity to tell me that I was a mistake. I'm glad that I had my Grandfather / Mom's Dad to step up and treat me like a his own Son. And kudos to my Mother for being strong willed and telling I was worth something. At 51 years old, I still struggle with these issues, but I think I turned out alright even if I sometimes miss my father
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Morai
1. If your parents were strict you may grow up as a codependent.
2. If your parents divorced you may have a higher demands and want a moral partner.
3. Depression
4. If your parents left you infront of the tv it can suppress your communication skills.
5. Did you imitate your parents behaviour.
6. If you were spanked as a child you are prone to sneakiness. And illnesses.
7. Perfectionism if your parents are addicts. Or depression feelings of being unworthy.
8. May have daddy/mummy issues.
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1. If your parents were strict you may grow up as a codependent.
2. If your parents divorced you may have a higher demands and want a moral partner.
3. Depression
4. If your parents left you infront of the tv it can suppress your communication skills.
5. Did you imitate your parents behaviour.
6. If you were spanked as a child you are prone to sneakiness. And illnesses.
7. Perfectionism if your parents are addicts. Or depression feelings of being unworthy.
8. May have daddy/mummy issues.
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Collie
what if when I was 5yo my 12yo cousin (we were both girls) kissed me and made me do things and it became a normal thing to me. Then when I was 7yo I transferred to another country with my parents and I didn't realize it was wrong until now that I'm 18? I've never said that to anyone. But after years I realized it when she texted me, I felt kind of uncomfortable
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what if when I was 5yo my 12yo cousin (we were both girls) kissed me and made me do things and it became a normal thing to me. Then when I was 7yo I transferred to another country with my parents and I didn't realize it was wrong until now that I'm 18? I've never said that to anyone. But after years I realized it when she texted me, I felt kind of uncomfortable
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Spicy
Childhood 1: check
Childhood 2: check
Childhood 3: check
Childhood 4: check
Childhood 5: check
Childhood 6: check
Childhood 7: mmm, not so much
Childhood 8: check
Yep! My childhood is in the same condition from the last time I checked.
If you read this farI hope you and your family a heartwarming and fruitful life of prosperity.
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Childhood 1: check
Childhood 2: check
Childhood 3: check
Childhood 4: check
Childhood 5: check
Childhood 6: check
Childhood 7: mmm, not so much
Childhood 8: check
Yep! My childhood is in the same condition from the last time I checked.
If you read this farI hope you and your family a heartwarming and fruitful life of prosperity.
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Petronus668
Every time i asked my mom, dad or brother about some generally known things, i would only get Omg, you seriously don't know that, hahahaha. and i'd never get a legitimate answer, so i had an attitude of not wanting to learn about general knowledge of history, geography, politics and stayed dumb. thank god i realized that and changed it in time.
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Every time i asked my mom, dad or brother about some generally known things, i would only get Omg, you seriously don't know that, hahahaha. and i'd never get a legitimate answer, so i had an attitude of not wanting to learn about general knowledge of history, geography, politics and stayed dumb. thank god i realized that and changed it in time.
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JoAnna
Me: 'being sad for no reason whatsoever'
Parents continues to ask the following: why are you sad?
Me: ' remembers all the yelling through school years, being left by brother to take care of all the house chores by self and yelled at by him, losing friends, and being threatened to be taken out of favorite activity for bad grades.
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Me: 'being sad for no reason whatsoever'
Parents continues to ask the following: why are you sad?
Me: ' remembers all the yelling through school years, being left by brother to take care of all the house chores by self and yelled at by him, losing friends, and being threatened to be taken out of favorite activity for bad grades.
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Skye
The reading a book and watching TV thing, when I was little I HATED being read to out of school but I would always be able to talk with my parents when we watched TV together but us watching movies together as a family ended in them playing on their phone or not even watching the movie because it is either too boring or confusing.
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The reading a book and watching TV thing, when I was little I HATED being read to out of school but I would always be able to talk with my parents when we watched TV together but us watching movies together as a family ended in them playing on their phone or not even watching the movie because it is either too boring or confusing.
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Kimberly
My parents never read to me as a kid and instead we watched tv and they blamed it on it was a long day at work today but that doesnt really work if you use it everyday and when we watched tv my dad would always tell me to be quiet whenever I made comments or conversation about what was happening
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My parents never read to me as a kid and instead we watched tv and they blamed it on it was a long day at work today but that doesnt really work if you use it everyday and when we watched tv my dad would always tell me to be quiet whenever I made comments or conversation about what was happening
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Tina
Wot if ur parents had a fake picture perfect from the outside marriage but behind closed doors the truth was full of covert narcissism and verbal and emotional AND physical abuse! N I'm now an emotionally disabled individual that cannot function properly bcoz of my past enduring abuse growing up!
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Wot if ur parents had a fake picture perfect from the outside marriage but behind closed doors the truth was full of covert narcissism and verbal and emotional AND physical abuse! N I'm now an emotionally disabled individual that cannot function properly bcoz of my past enduring abuse growing up!
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Kade
My mom: WHY DONT YOU EVER OPEN UP TO ME?
me calmly: because every time I do you act like this when I dont give you every little detail.
My dad: across the house in his own room watching TV probably not even realizing I exist or have mental health issues
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My mom: WHY DONT YOU EVER OPEN UP TO ME?
me calmly: because every time I do you act like this when I dont give you every little detail.
My dad: across the house in his own room watching TV probably not even realizing I exist or have mental health issues
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ASTRONOMIA
My cousin is actually a toddler child, and my aunt just never read a single book with him, he reads books but not w her mother. And after watching tgis i pretend to teach him communication skills, but just when he's 9yo, untill them, ill pray for the best
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My cousin is actually a toddler child, and my aunt just never read a single book with him, he reads books but not w her mother. And after watching tgis i pretend to teach him communication skills, but just when he's 9yo, untill them, ill pray for the best
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Alli's
That one parent who compares you to the popular girl, makes fun of you when you try to communicate, changes emotions already, fights everyday everytime, complains your lazy if you dont do any thing, and then if in a bad mood vomits they're anger at you
me
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That one parent who compares you to the popular girl, makes fun of you when you try to communicate, changes emotions already, fights everyday everytime, complains your lazy if you dont do any thing, and then if in a bad mood vomits they're anger at you
me
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Princess
Me in 4 years old: sees my mom and dad fighting
Sister and dad fighting in 2020
Older sister got merried
My older sister and my sister's husband: fighting
Me: sees my sister and her husband fighting
Also me: I don't want to get merried
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Me in 4 years old: sees my mom and dad fighting
Sister and dad fighting in 2020
Older sister got merried
My older sister and my sister's husband: fighting
Me: sees my sister and her husband fighting
Also me: I don't want to get merried
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Terraria
My parents: super strict, serious, rarely having fun with them
How I approach to people: serious, introverted, boring, grounded, a type of person who likes work
I can see now. My parents ruined my social life and I'm LITERALLY a Gemini.
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My parents: super strict, serious, rarely having fun with them
How I approach to people: serious, introverted, boring, grounded, a type of person who likes work
I can see now. My parents ruined my social life and I'm LITERALLY a Gemini.
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Paulinette
I didn't had an alcoholic parent but a grandmother. Age seven losing sleep thinking she would die whenever she had her asthma attacks. Had to clean her house as well because she was depressed. So yeah. Everything on this list hit me hard.
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I didn't had an alcoholic parent but a grandmother. Age seven losing sleep thinking she would die whenever she had her asthma attacks. Had to clean her house as well because she was depressed. So yeah. Everything on this list hit me hard.
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Krizia
I never experienced to make a decision for my life. When i told my parents real dream they just laughed at me. They chose my path. And now i am so depressed. I regret that i followed them. And now im not happy with my life.
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I never experienced to make a decision for my life. When i told my parents real dream they just laughed at me. They chose my path. And now i am so depressed. I regret that i followed them. And now im not happy with my life.
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marigairi
I think there are huge generational and cultural differences. Our parents and granparents don't even know what mental health is, and here we are coping with our issues and solving a whole history of dysfuncional families
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I think there are huge generational and cultural differences. Our parents and granparents don't even know what mental health is, and here we are coping with our issues and solving a whole history of dysfuncional families
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Haleluya
growing up with a father will help u with better relationship, me whose father died as toddler. but I still know this is not true tho interesting this can't tell me whether I will have healthy rn or not.
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growing up with a father will help u with better relationship, me whose father died as toddler. but I still know this is not true tho interesting this can't tell me whether I will have healthy rn or not.
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ReXAmun
I see, so according to this its the CHILD who needs to learn to communicate and tolerate their fathers? Who's the child here. Was this prepared by a team of teenagers? Where are the studies. What a joke.
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I see, so according to this its the CHILD who needs to learn to communicate and tolerate their fathers? Who's the child here. Was this prepared by a team of teenagers? Where are the studies. What a joke.
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Solee
What about kids who grew up in a household with a mother and father together but they are constantly fighting? I feel like thats an important distinction and also some statistics on that would be nice to.
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What about kids who grew up in a household with a mother and father together but they are constantly fighting? I feel like thats an important distinction and also some statistics on that would be nice to.
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CosmicVoyager
Remember! You are not these personality types and dont assume its finality. As the narrator said, never to late to change the outcomes. Being aware of it is the best way to combat it and fix it.
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Remember! You are not these personality types and dont assume its finality. As the narrator said, never to late to change the outcomes. Being aware of it is the best way to combat it and fix it.
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dumb
4: 16 thats my dads childhood. but hes more immature now than serious because he never had a childhood. he has anger issues and yelled at my older siblings when i was a child. its scared us so much.
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4: 16 thats my dads childhood. but hes more immature now than serious because he never had a childhood. he has anger issues and yelled at my older siblings when i was a child. its scared us so much.
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