8 Reasons to be in a Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Tero
In my first and latest relationship from a month ago I was committed because the girl I talked to gave me hope and made me smile every day when I thought about her. I met her four months ago and two months ago she reduced her responses significantly which made me anxious and clingy. I talked to her about my insecurities and the situation and she friendzoned me because she left a relationship a year ago where the other person didn't commit after years of being together so she decided to not commit to me. She told me she wanted us to stay friends and that she is not looking for a relationship. I could be persistent and not give up, because if you're in love with someone you would never give the person up. But I've only known her for two months and I can't call attraction deep love. I hate reading between the lines and accept I'm not looking for a relationship right now as nope that's it I'm done for good. Man, I just want a person to commit to me the way I commit to them. It took me 21 years to get into my first relationship and I don't want to wait another 21 for the next breakup. I don't want to die alone nor do I want to date on dating apps. Life gave me this one moment of bliss where we met in one of my favourite games and then I had to return her to the sea. We still talk occasionally and I have started to see some red flags in her but I don't want to judge people and give them the chances others never gave me. I hope she finds a matching guy and that I find my matching girl. I want to watch Ghibli movies, travel and game together. Rn I'm having an existential crisis that will pass soon but damn it is exhausting
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In my first and latest relationship from a month ago I was committed because the girl I talked to gave me hope and made me smile every day when I thought about her. I met her four months ago and two months ago she reduced her responses significantly which made me anxious and clingy. I talked to her about my insecurities and the situation and she friendzoned me because she left a relationship a year ago where the other person didn't commit after years of being together so she decided to not commit to me. She told me she wanted us to stay friends and that she is not looking for a relationship. I could be persistent and not give up, because if you're in love with someone you would never give the person up. But I've only known her for two months and I can't call attraction deep love. I hate reading between the lines and accept I'm not looking for a relationship right now as nope that's it I'm done for good. Man, I just want a person to commit to me the way I commit to them. It took me 21 years to get into my first relationship and I don't want to wait another 21 for the next breakup. I don't want to die alone nor do I want to date on dating apps. Life gave me this one moment of bliss where we met in one of my favourite games and then I had to return her to the sea. We still talk occasionally and I have started to see some red flags in her but I don't want to judge people and give them the chances others never gave me. I hope she finds a matching guy and that I find my matching girl. I want to watch Ghibli movies, travel and game together. Rn I'm having an existential crisis that will pass soon but damn it is exhausting
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Lily
Take it fom someone in a relationship, it's definitely not worth it. Just stay single as long as you can. It'll be fun for a few weeks until they start nagging you constantly or needing things from you. If I could go back in time I wouldn't of even tried dating anyone because eventually it all blows up in your face and you feel like a total idiot with the person you love leaving you for some other person. You'll feel more alone than ever. True love is not real and people get so tied up with wanting a relationship they forget the bad parts. Eventually that person's gonna look at you with dead eyes and not a care in the world. Somewhere along the line you'll convince yourself it's your fault it's not working, you'll take the blame out on yourself, feel miserable and be back to where you started, alone. Only this time you'll feel totally heartbroken. Just don't even start.
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Take it fom someone in a relationship, it's definitely not worth it. Just stay single as long as you can. It'll be fun for a few weeks until they start nagging you constantly or needing things from you. If I could go back in time I wouldn't of even tried dating anyone because eventually it all blows up in your face and you feel like a total idiot with the person you love leaving you for some other person. You'll feel more alone than ever. True love is not real and people get so tied up with wanting a relationship they forget the bad parts. Eventually that person's gonna look at you with dead eyes and not a care in the world. Somewhere along the line you'll convince yourself it's your fault it's not working, you'll take the blame out on yourself, feel miserable and be back to where you started, alone. Only this time you'll feel totally heartbroken. Just don't even start.
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Wanterof
2) People no longer have any good representation of what a healthy relationship looks likes. Each persons expectations and selfishness seem to rule more relationships in current year. Especially, the female side of the relationship. They want 666, as well as, a traditional man, but dont want to do anything that requires traditional things of them.
Healthy relationships are things of the past. There are very few things holding relationships together. Factor that in the past the couple would try to work through. And dont get me started on marriage vows.
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2) People no longer have any good representation of what a healthy relationship looks likes. Each persons expectations and selfishness seem to rule more relationships in current year. Especially, the female side of the relationship. They want 666, as well as, a traditional man, but dont want to do anything that requires traditional things of them.
Healthy relationships are things of the past. There are very few things holding relationships together. Factor that in the past the couple would try to work through. And dont get me started on marriage vows.
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La
I need advice please! I Im talking to a guy over text and I really like him but Im not ready to commit right now and I want to take it slow but he really want to call and go on dates already. Im really stressed about everything: saying it to my family, calling, dating, being in a couple because its difficult sometimes. its gonna my first relashionship and Im only 16. Could someone give me advice on how to be less stressed about everything that concerns my future relashionship. I always want to go back and being single. idk if Im ready or not and how to say him
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I need advice please! I Im talking to a guy over text and I really like him but Im not ready to commit right now and I want to take it slow but he really want to call and go on dates already. Im really stressed about everything: saying it to my family, calling, dating, being in a couple because its difficult sometimes. its gonna my first relashionship and Im only 16. Could someone give me advice on how to be less stressed about everything that concerns my future relashionship. I always want to go back and being single. idk if Im ready or not and how to say him
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Aaron
I don't like this video. It sounds to me like it is suggesting the answer to isolation is being isolated with someone else, and becoming heavily reliant and dependent on a single individual. I would rather get my needs met from a group of friends and loved ones so I am not isolating myself or putting unfair expectations on anyone. I am starting to believe the only good reason to be in a relationship is a spiritual one: creating that bond in and of itself for the sake of a higher power's intent.
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I don't like this video. It sounds to me like it is suggesting the answer to isolation is being isolated with someone else, and becoming heavily reliant and dependent on a single individual. I would rather get my needs met from a group of friends and loved ones so I am not isolating myself or putting unfair expectations on anyone. I am starting to believe the only good reason to be in a relationship is a spiritual one: creating that bond in and of itself for the sake of a higher power's intent.
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G4UL
Even with this video I don't know what are the problems that I have, It looks like so easy for my friends to be in a good relationship, I have no luck in it sadly countless of fiascoes, might be my luck is in other aspect, In past I was a nerd, now I'm on self improvement journey, 100 push ups a day, I've been reading books and making a plan for my career live, I hope I have the luck on this one, Hope also that this self improvement can bring me luck for my dating life.
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Even with this video I don't know what are the problems that I have, It looks like so easy for my friends to be in a good relationship, I have no luck in it sadly countless of fiascoes, might be my luck is in other aspect, In past I was a nerd, now I'm on self improvement journey, 100 push ups a day, I've been reading books and making a plan for my career live, I hope I have the luck on this one, Hope also that this self improvement can bring me luck for my dating life.
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Natetatetv
Reason #1 can be covered by friends and family.
Reason #2 can be accomplished through books.
Reason #3 can be covered by friends and family.
Reason #4 simply isnt true
Reason #5 can be accomplished through porn
Reason #6 is hilarious because relationships CAUSE depression
Reason #7 is weird because not everyone dates online
Reason #8 can be accomplished alone
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Reason #1 can be covered by friends and family.
Reason #2 can be accomplished through books.
Reason #3 can be covered by friends and family.
Reason #4 simply isnt true
Reason #5 can be accomplished through porn
Reason #6 is hilarious because relationships CAUSE depression
Reason #7 is weird because not everyone dates online
Reason #8 can be accomplished alone
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Jimmy
Eh love isn't really my thing when i was in a relationship i had a bit of money we agured alot but when i was single i learned to wheelie on a dirtbike/quad, i joined motocross i have a pretty good amount of money i built a sema truck i don't got to worry about other ppl i am not telling you to be single but being single works for me
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Eh love isn't really my thing when i was in a relationship i had a bit of money we agured alot but when i was single i learned to wheelie on a dirtbike/quad, i joined motocross i have a pretty good amount of money i built a sema truck i don't got to worry about other ppl i am not telling you to be single but being single works for me
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Official
Ive been single all my life as a guy but I can guarantee any woman that chooses to be with me will feel happy and lucky when they get to know me. I will always improve my life and reach for my goals no matter what and whoever that wants that life can join me, if not Im good single
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Ive been single all my life as a guy but I can guarantee any woman that chooses to be with me will feel happy and lucky when they get to know me. I will always improve my life and reach for my goals no matter what and whoever that wants that life can join me, if not Im good single
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Wanterof
1) Man losses job[female reaction: Get Frustrate and leave the relationship] Man fully opens up about his problems [female reaction: Supportive at first. Gets frustrated and emotionally sometime physically exits the relationship] This point is only from a female point of view.
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1) Man losses job[female reaction: Get Frustrate and leave the relationship] Man fully opens up about his problems [female reaction: Supportive at first. Gets frustrated and emotionally sometime physically exits the relationship] This point is only from a female point of view.
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Deli
Who else is here because they're single and can't manage to get a date, and desperately need to get into a relationship because the crippling loneliness is slowly causing them to lose sanity but can't so they're watching this just to know what it's like?
No? Just me? oh.
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Who else is here because they're single and can't manage to get a date, and desperately need to get into a relationship because the crippling loneliness is slowly causing them to lose sanity but can't so they're watching this just to know what it's like?
No? Just me? oh.
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Angel
Ok, my sister has a bf and I don't now. I am not diagnoised but I have anxiety (causes depression sometimes) does that anxiety make it hard for a relationship to be stable? Or can my hypothetcal partner help me out? Bcs I seem to really want a relationshio RIGHT NOW?
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Ok, my sister has a bf and I don't now. I am not diagnoised but I have anxiety (causes depression sometimes) does that anxiety make it hard for a relationship to be stable? Or can my hypothetcal partner help me out? Bcs I seem to really want a relationshio RIGHT NOW?
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Nimbus
I disagree with the depression part. Love your vids but just because ur in a relationship doesn't mean ur cured in a way. Or just because ur get in a relationship doesn't mean all ur doubts and insecurities go away too.
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I disagree with the depression part. Love your vids but just because ur in a relationship doesn't mean ur cured in a way. Or just because ur get in a relationship doesn't mean all ur doubts and insecurities go away too.
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mrdilligaf1968
Relationships are for the weak and needy who need constant reassurance about themselves. They hate a empty bed and cannot deal with their life alone. I hate human contact especially touching. Just not needed.
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Relationships are for the weak and needy who need constant reassurance about themselves. They hate a empty bed and cannot deal with their life alone. I hate human contact especially touching. Just not needed.
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R3ktCunnyz69
There's one better reason for being in a relationship that this video hasn't covered: It's because you're a pussy who doesn't want to cope without company.
Eagles fly alone. Pigeons fly in groups.
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There's one better reason for being in a relationship that this video hasn't covered: It's because you're a pussy who doesn't want to cope without company.
Eagles fly alone. Pigeons fly in groups.
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Danilo
Except there's too many evil people out there nowadays that it's not worth going into a relationship with. yes there are good people out there but there are too much evil dirty people. so why bother.
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Except there's too many evil people out there nowadays that it's not worth going into a relationship with. yes there are good people out there but there are too much evil dirty people. so why bother.
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Paul
It ain't gonna happen you know why?
1. Every girl I have a crush on is taken
2. A girl went up to me and say no one will never take you you are alone forever
I AM ALONE FOREVER!
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It ain't gonna happen you know why?
1. Every girl I have a crush on is taken
2. A girl went up to me and say no one will never take you you are alone forever
I AM ALONE FOREVER!
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2891
I try to figure out what are the advantage of being in a relationship, but after half of the video nothing. I think I can find better reasons myself. let's search in other place.
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I try to figure out what are the advantage of being in a relationship, but after half of the video nothing. I think I can find better reasons myself. let's search in other place.
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Paul
Yeah it probably is nice I dont doubt that but Im a Christian conservative so dating is hard let alone finding a girl who shares my values in such a left wing part of my county
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Yeah it probably is nice I dont doubt that but Im a Christian conservative so dating is hard let alone finding a girl who shares my values in such a left wing part of my county
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Jack574
They'll still leave you one way or another. Whether through a break-up, divorce, or in a coffin, they won't be there in the end. So tell me what's the point of it all?
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They'll still leave you one way or another. Whether through a break-up, divorce, or in a coffin, they won't be there in the end. So tell me what's the point of it all?
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blue
I got into a relationship and then the girl broke up with me without telling me that is why I do not trust anybody any more they all break up with me in the first week
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I got into a relationship and then the girl broke up with me without telling me that is why I do not trust anybody any more they all break up with me in the first week
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Matt
I would very strongly disagree with every statement in this. Relationships are based on convenience at the time. Not a good long term solution to filling your life.
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I would very strongly disagree with every statement in this. Relationships are based on convenience at the time. Not a good long term solution to filling your life.
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Michelle
I've been overdue for a relationship for a long long time. These assholes are trying to ruin it for me, so I'm just ruining alot of things for them
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I've been overdue for a relationship for a long long time. These assholes are trying to ruin it for me, so I'm just ruining alot of things for them
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Entity
These are all lies. Dont get into a relationship. You will get hurt. The girl will cheat on you/leave you/marry somebody else. Dont be fool boys.
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These are all lies. Dont get into a relationship. You will get hurt. The girl will cheat on you/leave you/marry somebody else. Dont be fool boys.
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Beware
For any guys seeing the ad for how to make girls chase you before/after this that suggests making women jealous don't do it. Absolute bull.
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For any guys seeing the ad for how to make girls chase you before/after this that suggests making women jealous don't do it. Absolute bull.
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