5 Signs of Narcissistic Abuse (Parents, friends, co-workers)
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Mulatta
My whole life I have felt like my parents have put more effort into their image and reputation then into their kids like thats all they care about is how the world views them. Its all superficial all the while all my life they have told me growing up whatever you do or turn out to be is your fault and youre responsibility and its is not a reflection on us because we have done everything we were supposed to do such as pay bills and etc and they say if we something bad happens with me they arent going to let it big them down and stress them out bm lol. All the while they are like this their kids struggle and are trying to figure things out on their own and because both of my parents lack patience and have gotten mad or upset when we couldnt figure out how to do things on our own. The have that I have my stuff together type attitude but with their kids ever since we were kids and we were always their competition it always seemed like. Like my dad just bought a new bed lol I bet he thinks Im jealous. They do that all the time too like if they get something me and my brother would be teenagers and they would act with us like we wanted what they had and that we were envious of them at 13 years old and that they had to protect their stuff from us. They took that everyone is out to get me mindset to us and always treated me and my brother like that even to this day.
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My whole life I have felt like my parents have put more effort into their image and reputation then into their kids like thats all they care about is how the world views them. Its all superficial all the while all my life they have told me growing up whatever you do or turn out to be is your fault and youre responsibility and its is not a reflection on us because we have done everything we were supposed to do such as pay bills and etc and they say if we something bad happens with me they arent going to let it big them down and stress them out bm lol. All the while they are like this their kids struggle and are trying to figure things out on their own and because both of my parents lack patience and have gotten mad or upset when we couldnt figure out how to do things on our own. The have that I have my stuff together type attitude but with their kids ever since we were kids and we were always their competition it always seemed like. Like my dad just bought a new bed lol I bet he thinks Im jealous. They do that all the time too like if they get something me and my brother would be teenagers and they would act with us like we wanted what they had and that we were envious of them at 13 years old and that they had to protect their stuff from us. They took that everyone is out to get me mindset to us and always treated me and my brother like that even to this day.
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riki
My dad is a narcissist.
(Read if you care)
He tricked my mom into a paradise life when she was 16 and then treated her like garbage after marriage. She was never allowed to work or go out or do anything she wanted without his permission. The same with us. My 4 siblings and me. We never got to chose what we wore and had to wear 3 tshirts for 2 years. We could only eat what's left from his food. And now I'm 15. I got a job because I wanted to earn my own money so nobody of us has to ask Him. But guess what. My dad planned to quit his job since I will be working and he will drive me to work every day, which I never want in my whole life. At this moment, I'm completely lost. I'm at the point where I will commit murder with no mercy and remorse. I will kill him sooner or later because I'm getting crazy. If I don't kill him, I will kill myself. But that will bring no benefit because he will keep on torturing my family. I want at least one single day to live without fear. I wanna see my mom happy for at least once in my life. I wish there was someone that could hug me and tell me it's gonna be OK. This world is nothing but cruel.
If you got until here thanks for wasting your time for a sad stranger. I hope you're having a better time.
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My dad is a narcissist.
(Read if you care)
He tricked my mom into a paradise life when she was 16 and then treated her like garbage after marriage. She was never allowed to work or go out or do anything she wanted without his permission. The same with us. My 4 siblings and me. We never got to chose what we wore and had to wear 3 tshirts for 2 years. We could only eat what's left from his food. And now I'm 15. I got a job because I wanted to earn my own money so nobody of us has to ask Him. But guess what. My dad planned to quit his job since I will be working and he will drive me to work every day, which I never want in my whole life. At this moment, I'm completely lost. I'm at the point where I will commit murder with no mercy and remorse. I will kill him sooner or later because I'm getting crazy. If I don't kill him, I will kill myself. But that will bring no benefit because he will keep on torturing my family. I want at least one single day to live without fear. I wanna see my mom happy for at least once in my life. I wish there was someone that could hug me and tell me it's gonna be OK. This world is nothing but cruel.
If you got until here thanks for wasting your time for a sad stranger. I hope you're having a better time.
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dense
My dad is so much worse than the vid describes, he does everything in the vid and so much more, he keeps making me feel like i should still be ashamed of that time i got in trouble in elementary school. In my freshman year of hs i got caught with a lil bit of weed ( just curiousity) and now for the past 2 years he has been using that as a shield for the shit he does like: forcing me to sleep next to him in his room instead of mine, follows me around everywhere, he says i cant make decisions for myself because i dont deserve to( clothes i wear, who my friends are! what i do in my free time, MF ALSO THINKS HE DECIDES WHAT I LIKE OR DONT LIKE) There is so much more but i suck at writing. Hes also been doin this shit forever and he always just uses a new excuse, bef i got caught with weed he still did the same shit but uses an excuse like dont u know what u did in 6th grade ( me and my friend got in trouble for throwing food at each other) and uses that as a point for everything. ik my writings terrible and i cant convey everything this way but hope i got the point thru. anyone got any tips for how i can survive the next 2 years dealing with all this shit
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My dad is so much worse than the vid describes, he does everything in the vid and so much more, he keeps making me feel like i should still be ashamed of that time i got in trouble in elementary school. In my freshman year of hs i got caught with a lil bit of weed ( just curiousity) and now for the past 2 years he has been using that as a shield for the shit he does like: forcing me to sleep next to him in his room instead of mine, follows me around everywhere, he says i cant make decisions for myself because i dont deserve to( clothes i wear, who my friends are! what i do in my free time, MF ALSO THINKS HE DECIDES WHAT I LIKE OR DONT LIKE) There is so much more but i suck at writing. Hes also been doin this shit forever and he always just uses a new excuse, bef i got caught with weed he still did the same shit but uses an excuse like dont u know what u did in 6th grade ( me and my friend got in trouble for throwing food at each other) and uses that as a point for everything. ik my writings terrible and i cant convey everything this way but hope i got the point thru. anyone got any tips for how i can survive the next 2 years dealing with all this shit
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Happy
I actually was in a friendship with a narcissist.
I used to be friends with them for almost 5 years, then we had a break for 2 years. We recently started talking again after I reached out to them again.
I slowly realised that they were super rude and made me feel uncomfortable in conversations. Hed even make me feel bad about normal things, like overthinking. Theyd also say things which hurt me or made me feel dumb, since they didnt show any signs of empathy. And they bragged so much about them self, it was tiring. So when we got into a small argument, they said that everything was my fault and decided to end the friendship, as my flaws were annoying. When i asked them if they thought, they were perfect, they replied with yes. Thats when I decided to delete them, Ive never met a more self-centred, ignorant, insensible and rude person in my whole life.
The worst thing is, that they had the manipulative thing about them self, where I even started to question if I was in the wrong, and I tried to find the good in them but everyone advised me to stay away from them. And so I did, even if it hurts.
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I actually was in a friendship with a narcissist.
I used to be friends with them for almost 5 years, then we had a break for 2 years. We recently started talking again after I reached out to them again.
I slowly realised that they were super rude and made me feel uncomfortable in conversations. Hed even make me feel bad about normal things, like overthinking. Theyd also say things which hurt me or made me feel dumb, since they didnt show any signs of empathy. And they bragged so much about them self, it was tiring. So when we got into a small argument, they said that everything was my fault and decided to end the friendship, as my flaws were annoying. When i asked them if they thought, they were perfect, they replied with yes. Thats when I decided to delete them, Ive never met a more self-centred, ignorant, insensible and rude person in my whole life.
The worst thing is, that they had the manipulative thing about them self, where I even started to question if I was in the wrong, and I tried to find the good in them but everyone advised me to stay away from them. And so I did, even if it hurts.
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hayley
Something that I think should be emphasized, from personal experience, is that sometimes they arent obviously dismissive.
But say youre discussing your bad day. They can initially be receptive and appear to care, but they will change the subject to themselves at their first chance to respond. The whole conversation will shift and accelerate in the opposite direction without a second thought. Its not directly insulting or dismissing your emotions; its indirect and confusing, but sends the same message.
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Something that I think should be emphasized, from personal experience, is that sometimes they arent obviously dismissive.
But say youre discussing your bad day. They can initially be receptive and appear to care, but they will change the subject to themselves at their first chance to respond. The whole conversation will shift and accelerate in the opposite direction without a second thought. Its not directly insulting or dismissing your emotions; its indirect and confusing, but sends the same message.
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Blade
my mother would beat me savagely such as hair pulling, slapping, kicking & scratching when i failed in school or made mistakes in keeping an orderly room, school bag or breaking household ornaments by accident. she also chased me around the house with a knife to scare me when i could not cope with school work. she also would pretend to act insane by suddenly keeping silent and laughing at herself. she did this for 3 yrs while i was in the 2nd to 3rd grade.
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my mother would beat me savagely such as hair pulling, slapping, kicking & scratching when i failed in school or made mistakes in keeping an orderly room, school bag or breaking household ornaments by accident. she also chased me around the house with a knife to scare me when i could not cope with school work. she also would pretend to act insane by suddenly keeping silent and laughing at herself. she did this for 3 yrs while i was in the 2nd to 3rd grade.
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Karim
I am experiencing psychological abuse and it's something that I can't articulate. I am certain It's true but when I try to get my point across I feel so small in comparison to the powers that be. I'm trying to grow up but it seems I'm stuck in my room I don't know what day it is I never know what time it is I haven't worked a job to any meaningful frequency in a meaningful period of time I feel like moving out is the best thing to do
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I am experiencing psychological abuse and it's something that I can't articulate. I am certain It's true but when I try to get my point across I feel so small in comparison to the powers that be. I'm trying to grow up but it seems I'm stuck in my room I don't know what day it is I never know what time it is I haven't worked a job to any meaningful frequency in a meaningful period of time I feel like moving out is the best thing to do
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Tessa
everything about this dude was so beautiful. it showcases minslegends intelligence, mindfulness, & the fact that he's cognizant of himself & he impact in the hacking industry ( along w/ other male outside of himself). it shows his growth as not only an hacker, but a human being as well. & he allowed himself to be vulnerable. i could go on, but all-in-all, this his best recommendation. i can't stress it enough.
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everything about this dude was so beautiful. it showcases minslegends intelligence, mindfulness, & the fact that he's cognizant of himself & he impact in the hacking industry ( along w/ other male outside of himself). it shows his growth as not only an hacker, but a human being as well. & he allowed himself to be vulnerable. i could go on, but all-in-all, this his best recommendation. i can't stress it enough.
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Tessa
everything about this dude was so beautiful. it showcases minslegends intelligence, mindfulness, & the fact that he's cognizant of himself & he impact in the hacking industry ( along w/ other male outside of himself). it shows his growth as not only an hacker, but a human being as well. & he allowed himself to be vulnerable. i could go on, but all-in-all, this his best recommendation. i can't stress it enough.
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everything about this dude was so beautiful. it showcases minslegends intelligence, mindfulness, & the fact that he's cognizant of himself & he impact in the hacking industry ( along w/ other male outside of himself). it shows his growth as not only an hacker, but a human being as well. & he allowed himself to be vulnerable. i could go on, but all-in-all, this his best recommendation. i can't stress it enough.
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Alina
From personal experience I would suggest to run far away from being friends with these kinds of people. I just got out of a friendship with a covert narcissist she made me feel guilty to stay in the friendship and I was mentally and emotionally drained and felt like shit. The friendship started out good but eventually turned into a toxic and unhealthy.
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From personal experience I would suggest to run far away from being friends with these kinds of people. I just got out of a friendship with a covert narcissist she made me feel guilty to stay in the friendship and I was mentally and emotionally drained and felt like shit. The friendship started out good but eventually turned into a toxic and unhealthy.
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Brooklyn
Thank you so much for all that you've done for I and my family during the difficult time! minslegend you eased all my pain and provided a beautiful celebration. thank you so much for the evidence you helped me received against my Narcissist husband, Your kindness and professionalism helped us through and is much appreciated
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Thank you so much for all that you've done for I and my family during the difficult time! minslegend you eased all my pain and provided a beautiful celebration. thank you so much for the evidence you helped me received against my Narcissist husband, Your kindness and professionalism helped us through and is much appreciated
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Brooklyn
Thank you so much for all that you've done for I and my family during the difficult time! minslegend you eased all my pain and provided a beautiful celebration. thank you so much for the evidence you helped me received against my Narcissist husband, Your kindness and professionalism helped us through and is much appreciated
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Thank you so much for all that you've done for I and my family during the difficult time! minslegend you eased all my pain and provided a beautiful celebration. thank you so much for the evidence you helped me received against my Narcissist husband, Your kindness and professionalism helped us through and is much appreciated
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Christian
Wow I honestly immediately started crying at minslegend part of honesty. Imagine sacrificing that much for your own firm's success, and being so thrilled to see them all grow. I come from a small family and can imagine recommending all of them to you but an absolute inspiration for the way to surround yourself with love.
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Wow I honestly immediately started crying at minslegend part of honesty. Imagine sacrificing that much for your own firm's success, and being so thrilled to see them all grow. I come from a small family and can imagine recommending all of them to you but an absolute inspiration for the way to surround yourself with love.
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Christian
Wow I honestly immediately started crying at minslegend part of honesty. Imagine sacrificing that much for your own firm's success, and being so thrilled to see them all grow. I come from a small family and can imagine recommending all of them to you but an absolute inspiration for the way to surround yourself with love.
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Wow I honestly immediately started crying at minslegend part of honesty. Imagine sacrificing that much for your own firm's success, and being so thrilled to see them all grow. I come from a small family and can imagine recommending all of them to you but an absolute inspiration for the way to surround yourself with love.
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shineeca
My two former friends mental abuse me they lied to me for 2 years pretending to a cop they blame me for lying to them I take them back 7 times I am still hurt for it I feel so bad i dont end my friendship with them a year I left the friendship now I am not going back to that friendship
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My two former friends mental abuse me they lied to me for 2 years pretending to a cop they blame me for lying to them I take them back 7 times I am still hurt for it I feel so bad i dont end my friendship with them a year I left the friendship now I am not going back to that friendship
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Mackthis
Ok, now I start to be more and more glad she is my ex now. Her behavior, which to me felt random yet scary predictable. and my supportive behavior as response. it put me almost iver the edge. but now I can still type, I really think people should be warned about these kind of people.
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Ok, now I start to be more and more glad she is my ex now. Her behavior, which to me felt random yet scary predictable. and my supportive behavior as response. it put me almost iver the edge. but now I can still type, I really think people should be warned about these kind of people.
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Dawood
I ran away from my house when I was 14 because of my narcissistic mother's constant physical and mental abuse. Survived in the streets for 3 years, came back to complete my studies. She didn't felt guilty at all on what she had done. Years past, am 40 now but my past stills haunts me.
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I ran away from my house when I was 14 because of my narcissistic mother's constant physical and mental abuse. Survived in the streets for 3 years, came back to complete my studies. She didn't felt guilty at all on what she had done. Years past, am 40 now but my past stills haunts me.
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duckyisevil
how do we know if we are these covert narcissists can this happen becus of something that happend in childhood or is it just from birth and can covert narcissists get better? I'm starting to belive I hurt people sorry if someone could just answer these?
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how do we know if we are these covert narcissists can this happen becus of something that happend in childhood or is it just from birth and can covert narcissists get better? I'm starting to belive I hurt people sorry if someone could just answer these?
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Amber
I literally don't know what love is because I've only trauma bonded and been fed off of by narcissists. It started scaring me so bad that it kept happening that I just stopped dating and have completely given up on love because all I am is narcissist kibble.
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I literally don't know what love is because I've only trauma bonded and been fed off of by narcissists. It started scaring me so bad that it kept happening that I just stopped dating and have completely given up on love because all I am is narcissist kibble.
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John
I don't like when someone says: I will help you on two, or more, conditions. then later say: I had no intention to help you. .. Then they try to sabotage whatever conflict you're trying to resolve on your own because they wouldn't help you from the start.
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I don't like when someone says: I will help you on two, or more, conditions. then later say: I had no intention to help you. .. Then they try to sabotage whatever conflict you're trying to resolve on your own because they wouldn't help you from the start.
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Contact
Since I hacked my narcissistic parents business pages by the lnstagram name above and made them knew I was responsible for it, they were both diffidence in front of me and they pleaded and asked for forgiveness for being rude to me!
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Since I hacked my narcissistic parents business pages by the lnstagram name above and made them knew I was responsible for it, they were both diffidence in front of me and they pleaded and asked for forgiveness for being rude to me!
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Contact
Since I hacked my narcissistic parents business pages by the lnstagram name above and made them knew I was responsible for it, they were both diffidence in front of me and they pleaded and asked for forgiveness for being rude to me!
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Since I hacked my narcissistic parents business pages by the lnstagram name above and made them knew I was responsible for it, they were both diffidence in front of me and they pleaded and asked for forgiveness for being rude to me!
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Viktor
Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you leapnotch
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Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you leapnotch
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Abigail
My heart goes out to all the Victims in this world It's uncalled for and breaks my heart to know so many are losing their lives over this. The Narcissist is uncalled for. Minslegend, don't stop doing you we here to support you %.
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My heart goes out to all the Victims in this world It's uncalled for and breaks my heart to know so many are losing their lives over this. The Narcissist is uncalled for. Minslegend, don't stop doing you we here to support you %.
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Adams
Say what u want about Leapnotch, but this man is a legend, and something about his personality just brings a smile to my face! he is so charismatic & extremely talented. he's given us hits for over the last 13 years. a legend. Xoxo
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Say what u want about Leapnotch, but this man is a legend, and something about his personality just brings a smile to my face! he is so charismatic & extremely talented. he's given us hits for over the last 13 years. a legend. Xoxo
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