10 Psychological Factors Linked to Bad Parenting
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Date: 2023-08-20
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pokemon9982
My mother had gotten on my butt tonight, raising her voice at me for having slept so long and not eating yet. My leg is hurting badly from the walk in the zoo we had yesterday, I was severely tired, plus I had an issue where I wanted to eat, but my stomach didn't feel like it wanted to it, so I tried waiting so it could and it went on too long because it wouldn't let up. I was already annoyed, and I told sorry and told her I'll try several times, and asked if we could just put it behind us, but she kept going and going. And then said to stop saying sorry because she felt I didn't mean it. What else was I supposed to say? I'm trying my best, I'm only human and will make mistakes. I don't have tough skin like she does. I'm sensitive, and yet she acts as if me trying isn't enough. Sometimes I don't know what to do, and it makes me feel like I can't do anything without feeling like I did the wrong thing, or that I can't do it right.
What am I doing wrong! I am an adult, but even then, is acting up like that really going to do anything? Not to mention when she offered to make mac and cheese, I thought Okay, maybe she'll be willing to make ramen for me while she makes mc for herself. She could've calmly told me I'd rather not and I'd be fine, but no, instead she raised her voice at me for then, and then that's when she got on me for not having eaten yet.
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My mother had gotten on my butt tonight, raising her voice at me for having slept so long and not eating yet. My leg is hurting badly from the walk in the zoo we had yesterday, I was severely tired, plus I had an issue where I wanted to eat, but my stomach didn't feel like it wanted to it, so I tried waiting so it could and it went on too long because it wouldn't let up. I was already annoyed, and I told sorry and told her I'll try several times, and asked if we could just put it behind us, but she kept going and going. And then said to stop saying sorry because she felt I didn't mean it. What else was I supposed to say? I'm trying my best, I'm only human and will make mistakes. I don't have tough skin like she does. I'm sensitive, and yet she acts as if me trying isn't enough. Sometimes I don't know what to do, and it makes me feel like I can't do anything without feeling like I did the wrong thing, or that I can't do it right.
What am I doing wrong! I am an adult, but even then, is acting up like that really going to do anything? Not to mention when she offered to make mac and cheese, I thought Okay, maybe she'll be willing to make ramen for me while she makes mc for herself. She could've calmly told me I'd rather not and I'd be fine, but no, instead she raised her voice at me for then, and then that's when she got on me for not having eaten yet.
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ZT
Heres what I hate about parents: Calls you a piece of sht, whacks you with books and verbally abuses you then says theyre sorry and that sometimes they say things they dont mean. HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE OR BE FAIR TO ME? How come I cant use that excuse to say things i want to? What just cause you shat me out your vagana means you have the right to treat me like sht? And then when I try to say something related to things like this theyre all crying and sobbing I pay for you! I cook for you! You hurt my feelings! Well what about the kids aka mine?
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Heres what I hate about parents: Calls you a piece of sht, whacks you with books and verbally abuses you then says theyre sorry and that sometimes they say things they dont mean. HOW DOES THAT MAKE SENSE OR BE FAIR TO ME? How come I cant use that excuse to say things i want to? What just cause you shat me out your vagana means you have the right to treat me like sht? And then when I try to say something related to things like this theyre all crying and sobbing I pay for you! I cook for you! You hurt my feelings! Well what about the kids aka mine?
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education
My depressed and stressed dad and my angry and stressed mom fit the reasons mentioned in this video and while it may be their fault for having kids when they weren't ready, I still feel horrible, and all I wanna do is help them, that's why I try so hard, but apparently they've always got something to complain about. I don't know how much longer I can do this honestly, I don't wanna future, I just wanna go join my dog and little twin siblings in heaven.
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My depressed and stressed dad and my angry and stressed mom fit the reasons mentioned in this video and while it may be their fault for having kids when they weren't ready, I still feel horrible, and all I wanna do is help them, that's why I try so hard, but apparently they've always got something to complain about. I don't know how much longer I can do this honestly, I don't wanna future, I just wanna go join my dog and little twin siblings in heaven.
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Peregrination
My anxiety/lack of assertiveness is seen as she came out that way in my family. I used to think it meant they accepted me the way I am. It took me a long time to recognize the rampant emotional abuse in the family. Now I have something better than innate issues that I was born with and accept for: I know I don't have those issues in the first place. My upbringing just put me on a poor frame of mind. Recognizing that helps me to revert that.
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My anxiety/lack of assertiveness is seen as she came out that way in my family. I used to think it meant they accepted me the way I am. It took me a long time to recognize the rampant emotional abuse in the family. Now I have something better than innate issues that I was born with and accept for: I know I don't have those issues in the first place. My upbringing just put me on a poor frame of mind. Recognizing that helps me to revert that.
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SoReal1stic
Bro why do I act like I'm emotionally scarred when I was brought into a loving home? I was never physically abused, I only remember my mom trying to choke me once. I think her decision was kinda valid since I was throwing a tantrum. Actually I think the fact that my sibling, mother, and father always verbally fight and come to me to rant might be the reason why I act not so good. Anyway sorry for the rant. Keep scrolling, have a good day!
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Bro why do I act like I'm emotionally scarred when I was brought into a loving home? I was never physically abused, I only remember my mom trying to choke me once. I think her decision was kinda valid since I was throwing a tantrum. Actually I think the fact that my sibling, mother, and father always verbally fight and come to me to rant might be the reason why I act not so good. Anyway sorry for the rant. Keep scrolling, have a good day!
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Bhavika
I dont have necessary skills to deal with the adult life. I can have a good relationship with narcissistic and authoritarian parents by having zero expectations but in the meanwhile, its been difficult to be in a healthy relationship with others in normal day to day life. I feel depersonalisation, dissociative thoughts, I fear I wont be able to feel secure with others if I dont ask a person to accompany me, with whom I feel secure
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I dont have necessary skills to deal with the adult life. I can have a good relationship with narcissistic and authoritarian parents by having zero expectations but in the meanwhile, its been difficult to be in a healthy relationship with others in normal day to day life. I feel depersonalisation, dissociative thoughts, I fear I wont be able to feel secure with others if I dont ask a person to accompany me, with whom I feel secure
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Twei
many / majority have 1-2 bad parents, nobody is perfect in anything, some worse than others or too unfair to children/siblings or some even no parents D:
and or worse, having criminal or backstab family D: or poor culture and or they were traumatized with / by many things
and a few people survive, do better than their evil or bad parents D:
life is hard D:
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many / majority have 1-2 bad parents, nobody is perfect in anything, some worse than others or too unfair to children/siblings or some even no parents D:
and or worse, having criminal or backstab family D: or poor culture and or they were traumatized with / by many things
and a few people survive, do better than their evil or bad parents D:
life is hard D:
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Lucius
If you don't have any of the qualities of a role model, a hero or a friend, then you're a horrible parent.
To be a good parent, you have to be a more relatable and more reliable person at the same time. You also have to think more positively of others before raising kids.
Children are people too and you have to treat many people the way they want to be treated.
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If you don't have any of the qualities of a role model, a hero or a friend, then you're a horrible parent.
To be a good parent, you have to be a more relatable and more reliable person at the same time. You also have to think more positively of others before raising kids.
Children are people too and you have to treat many people the way they want to be treated.
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lj
I'm so trauma with my mom they always overprotective me Ang kill my happiness I'm feeling devastated my mom said she doing that things for my own good but for me they only make me like an emotional punching bag when they always tell me and control what I'm doing I'm my life. I'm feel so worthless I'm am doing everything for them but it's is not enough for them
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I'm so trauma with my mom they always overprotective me Ang kill my happiness I'm feeling devastated my mom said she doing that things for my own good but for me they only make me like an emotional punching bag when they always tell me and control what I'm doing I'm my life. I'm feel so worthless I'm am doing everything for them but it's is not enough for them
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education
I want to be an artist and draw a little cute girl, I'll give her a name, I'll talk to her a lot, I'll play with her and I'll call her my beautiful princess. because becoming a parent will bring with it the terrors I had to endure in my childhood thanks to my parents. I can feel my daughter already thanking me for not bringing her to this life
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I want to be an artist and draw a little cute girl, I'll give her a name, I'll talk to her a lot, I'll play with her and I'll call her my beautiful princess. because becoming a parent will bring with it the terrors I had to endure in my childhood thanks to my parents. I can feel my daughter already thanking me for not bringing her to this life
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Adel
Everything bad that happens to my mom, is apparently me or my brothers fault. Everything. Mom misses the train to work? Our fault.
Mom cant find her mobile? Our fault.
Home is messy? JUST our fault.
Me or my brother is sad? Our problem.
Everything bad is our fault, thats what Ive learned since I took my first breath.
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Everything bad that happens to my mom, is apparently me or my brothers fault. Everything. Mom misses the train to work? Our fault.
Mom cant find her mobile? Our fault.
Home is messy? JUST our fault.
Me or my brother is sad? Our problem.
Everything bad is our fault, thats what Ive learned since I took my first breath.
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Gail
My mom favors my older brother too much, that when my brother physically abuses me she just brushes it off and act like she doesnt hear me. She never talks to my brother to stop. She just lets him do as he pleases. Im always the one being pushed around. :) there times when I want to kill myself because i think its just so unfair
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My mom favors my older brother too much, that when my brother physically abuses me she just brushes it off and act like she doesnt hear me. She never talks to my brother to stop. She just lets him do as he pleases. Im always the one being pushed around. :) there times when I want to kill myself because i think its just so unfair
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Shakirah
Seeing the bad mother's in my own immediate and extended family has made me not want kids purely because I am afraid I'll turn out like them. I honestly haven't seen example of good parenting but one teen mother restored my faith in motherhood by not continuing a cycle of toxicity but my bad examples over shadow her a bit
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Seeing the bad mother's in my own immediate and extended family has made me not want kids purely because I am afraid I'll turn out like them. I honestly haven't seen example of good parenting but one teen mother restored my faith in motherhood by not continuing a cycle of toxicity but my bad examples over shadow her a bit
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Bunny
Well. I feel useless, ugly, a failure and I can't do anything right. Sometimes I get an idea of cutting myself but it's hard. To be called useless by your parents, sworn at, being ignored. It's just. Painful they compare me to them when they were young saying. why couldn't I be like them etc.
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Well. I feel useless, ugly, a failure and I can't do anything right. Sometimes I get an idea of cutting myself but it's hard. To be called useless by your parents, sworn at, being ignored. It's just. Painful they compare me to them when they were young saying. why couldn't I be like them etc.
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education
literally every psych diagnosis seems to have a connection to having links to abusive parents. it's pretty obvious that psychs aren't advocating for teaching all adults about legal and scientific standards of healthy parenting. too many parents think there are no standards
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literally every psych diagnosis seems to have a connection to having links to abusive parents. it's pretty obvious that psychs aren't advocating for teaching all adults about legal and scientific standards of healthy parenting. too many parents think there are no standards
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Hay
Played this video during an argument with my mom and when she realized what she was listening to, she got loud so she didn't have to hear it and walked out of the room. Guess my mom doesn't like being told she's an unfit parent from psychology videos.
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Played this video during an argument with my mom and when she realized what she was listening to, she got loud so she didn't have to hear it and walked out of the room. Guess my mom doesn't like being told she's an unfit parent from psychology videos.
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Heather
plus if you can't take care of yourself in any possible way, very often people dont have any money, dont have kids. that's irresponsible parenting and you can see it everywhere. fix your bs and then have kids, if you can't, dont have them
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plus if you can't take care of yourself in any possible way, very often people dont have any money, dont have kids. that's irresponsible parenting and you can see it everywhere. fix your bs and then have kids, if you can't, dont have them
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Hibiscuswaters
My own head has predicted that I am being controlled by my mother, I don't know if my Father is doing that also. Number 6 and 9 are something I relate to. These two makes sense, I somehow knew my parents had parent me wrong.
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My own head has predicted that I am being controlled by my mother, I don't know if my Father is doing that also. Number 6 and 9 are something I relate to. These two makes sense, I somehow knew my parents had parent me wrong.
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TheWillowMan
The only tools my single mother gave me was Dread and Apathy. Failure to communicate, failure to express, love and trust. I'm 32, I'm still stalked by the shroud of my past. I am glade my mom is dead, but the damage is done.
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The only tools my single mother gave me was Dread and Apathy. Failure to communicate, failure to express, love and trust. I'm 32, I'm still stalked by the shroud of my past. I am glade my mom is dead, but the damage is done.
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Nezukoloverz
Ok. I am not a hater but you shouldn't have said that a childs mind is Plastic and changeable and then suddenly switch over to how children want independence and self control. Not very smart and also a little offensive.
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Ok. I am not a hater but you shouldn't have said that a childs mind is Plastic and changeable and then suddenly switch over to how children want independence and self control. Not very smart and also a little offensive.
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Jessamynn
#9 hit hard. My parents(especially my mother, is a strict authoritarian. Almost lost my individuality, had an attempted suicide attempt in highschool, and been fighting against depression. Thanks for providing these info.
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#9 hit hard. My parents(especially my mother, is a strict authoritarian. Almost lost my individuality, had an attempted suicide attempt in highschool, and been fighting against depression. Thanks for providing these info.
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Jaded
Just smile and everything will be ok. ummm
Toxic positivity.
No wonder i usually skip your content.
Shit if you grow up poor, your partner's where shit?
The privlaged disconnect is strong in this clip
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Just smile and everything will be ok. ummm
Toxic positivity.
No wonder i usually skip your content.
Shit if you grow up poor, your partner's where shit?
The privlaged disconnect is strong in this clip
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NotThe$ame
This explains a lot. Man my mom has some serious issues and the planets biggest victim. She can't see the pain she inflicts but boy oh boy she holds on to pain inflicted on her like some sick badge of honor!
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This explains a lot. Man my mom has some serious issues and the planets biggest victim. She can't see the pain she inflicts but boy oh boy she holds on to pain inflicted on her like some sick badge of honor!
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Prisheen
why mee. I am already suffering from panic attacks, anxiety and depression with emotional parental abuuse and this tooo. I actually don't think that anyone cares about me I wanna just go to heaven now
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why mee. I am already suffering from panic attacks, anxiety and depression with emotional parental abuuse and this tooo. I actually don't think that anyone cares about me I wanna just go to heaven now
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Khoi
I know exactly that I'm not normal
I honestly never thought that how i turned out. A broken person who is an asshole in other people's eyes. That it could be my childhood. I will never have kids.
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I know exactly that I'm not normal
I honestly never thought that how i turned out. A broken person who is an asshole in other people's eyes. That it could be my childhood. I will never have kids.
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