8 Reasons to be Single
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Date: 2023-08-20
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proud2bpagan
I'm 42, and am 3 classes away from my B. A. in Psychology, then it's on to Grad School for my Master's in Clinical Mental Health. I want to work with kids and teenagers who are patients on psych wards. I also wanna get my dog, Strider, certified as a pet therapy dog and take him with me to work to help my patients feel calm, loved unconditionally, and promote the Rogerian ideal of nonjudgement and empathy. I'm hoping to at least intern at the same hospital that gave an angry, hurt, scared teenager like me a reason to live again after having been molested for 6 yrs.
I know that while I could have a romantic relationship during this time, when you're studying such strenuous, draining, upper level courses as the one I'm taking right now, it would be unwise, and unfair, to anyone I may date to make them feel as if they have to compete with my course work to have any sort of meaningful connection to me. Not saying I wanna be a hermit forever, but right now, it's just easier on me, and more fair and equitable to the emotional needs of anyone I date.
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I'm 42, and am 3 classes away from my B. A. in Psychology, then it's on to Grad School for my Master's in Clinical Mental Health. I want to work with kids and teenagers who are patients on psych wards. I also wanna get my dog, Strider, certified as a pet therapy dog and take him with me to work to help my patients feel calm, loved unconditionally, and promote the Rogerian ideal of nonjudgement and empathy. I'm hoping to at least intern at the same hospital that gave an angry, hurt, scared teenager like me a reason to live again after having been molested for 6 yrs.
I know that while I could have a romantic relationship during this time, when you're studying such strenuous, draining, upper level courses as the one I'm taking right now, it would be unwise, and unfair, to anyone I may date to make them feel as if they have to compete with my course work to have any sort of meaningful connection to me. Not saying I wanna be a hermit forever, but right now, it's just easier on me, and more fair and equitable to the emotional needs of anyone I date.
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Stephanie
Nothing about temporary romantic relationships are positive for females unless you want sperm donation for offspring or more household income. Women have to give up their freedoms during all stages of life. They have to compromise the most. Their free time (males have to give up nothing, their education and career (so you can raise your offspring, give up your last name (if married, where you want to live depends on where the male gets a job or makes more money, and you get to retire in an area where he wants to live. Ive see too many females give up their lives to many times over to crave what society expects us to want.
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Nothing about temporary romantic relationships are positive for females unless you want sperm donation for offspring or more household income. Women have to give up their freedoms during all stages of life. They have to compromise the most. Their free time (males have to give up nothing, their education and career (so you can raise your offspring, give up your last name (if married, where you want to live depends on where the male gets a job or makes more money, and you get to retire in an area where he wants to live. Ive see too many females give up their lives to many times over to crave what society expects us to want.
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2: 45 OMIGOSH YAR STEVEN UNIVERSE FAN YESSSSSSS
Also I was thinking, I feel like we need to normalize people choosing to be single. Relationships and marriage are a practical, beautiful and very stable concept and provides so much for the 2 partners involved like company, safety etc. But not everyone fits into the concept of relationships and marriage. Some people are their most authentic self when they're single, and they genuinely don't feel the need to have a relationship. And that is totally fine!
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2: 45 OMIGOSH YAR STEVEN UNIVERSE FAN YESSSSSSS
Also I was thinking, I feel like we need to normalize people choosing to be single. Relationships and marriage are a practical, beautiful and very stable concept and provides so much for the 2 partners involved like company, safety etc. But not everyone fits into the concept of relationships and marriage. Some people are their most authentic self when they're single, and they genuinely don't feel the need to have a relationship. And that is totally fine!
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Octavia
I'm a single women with autism and learning disabilities I'm happy to be single because I'm free from bullying and abuse I have been in 2 bed relationships with men who have autism and learning disabilities I have been though bullying and abuse in both relationships I'm happy to be single and to just have friends when my mom is gone I want to live in the house with a female friend I never want a boyfriend again
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I'm a single women with autism and learning disabilities I'm happy to be single because I'm free from bullying and abuse I have been in 2 bed relationships with men who have autism and learning disabilities I have been though bullying and abuse in both relationships I'm happy to be single and to just have friends when my mom is gone I want to live in the house with a female friend I never want a boyfriend again
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Dege
I am grateful that through singleness, I learned how valuable I am and learned how to pour a lot of respect, love, kindness and care into myself. In doing that, I will never allow someone to disturb my joy, knock me off my center, or treat me less than. In challenging myself through hard times to be solely rely on God, I feel Im attracting the right person now. Best feeling in the world. I love being single.
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I am grateful that through singleness, I learned how valuable I am and learned how to pour a lot of respect, love, kindness and care into myself. In doing that, I will never allow someone to disturb my joy, knock me off my center, or treat me less than. In challenging myself through hard times to be solely rely on God, I feel Im attracting the right person now. Best feeling in the world. I love being single.
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butterflytotem
All i can say is - Enjoy being Single.
Freedom, Independence, Health, Productivity, Money. And for me, focus on spirituality and working on having lesser and lesser human desires. and also having better relationships with my family, especially my beautiful parents.
Unless someone is truly in line with you in goals and dreams, dont date.
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All i can say is - Enjoy being Single.
Freedom, Independence, Health, Productivity, Money. And for me, focus on spirituality and working on having lesser and lesser human desires. and also having better relationships with my family, especially my beautiful parents.
Unless someone is truly in line with you in goals and dreams, dont date.
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Joe
Sometimes is better to be single sometimes its not.
My dad is 61 and my mom is 51 and im about to be 12 soon. Im a only child and people on average die in the age of 80 so for my parents seeing my child as 10 years old dad will be 80 and mom 70 if i get married in the age of 20 so yeah not always
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Sometimes is better to be single sometimes its not.
My dad is 61 and my mom is 51 and im about to be 12 soon. Im a only child and people on average die in the age of 80 so for my parents seeing my child as 10 years old dad will be 80 and mom 70 if i get married in the age of 20 so yeah not always
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JV
A Wiseman once say, a person who claimed and proclaimed to be already HAPPY on his/her OWN (alone). is a total LOSER (afraid to get rejected or hurt) and a Big Fat LIAR (self-denial. Wiseman says, It is better to LOVE and FALL than NOT to LOVE at ALL. why. because if we do not TRY, we already FAILED.
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A Wiseman once say, a person who claimed and proclaimed to be already HAPPY on his/her OWN (alone). is a total LOSER (afraid to get rejected or hurt) and a Big Fat LIAR (self-denial. Wiseman says, It is better to LOVE and FALL than NOT to LOVE at ALL. why. because if we do not TRY, we already FAILED.
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Billy
Few thoughts
1. Who else thinks that the protagonist of this animation looks exactly like Amanda; )
2. Of course Amanda has a bf =p
3. Who else thinks that the girl sitting on the front porch enjoying the sun reminds them of Wanda in the last post credit scene of wandavision?
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Few thoughts
1. Who else thinks that the protagonist of this animation looks exactly like Amanda; )
2. Of course Amanda has a bf =p
3. Who else thinks that the girl sitting on the front porch enjoying the sun reminds them of Wanda in the last post credit scene of wandavision?
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Naysa
6 Reasons To Be & Remain Single Without Children:
1: You Get To Be Selfish To a Bigger Extent.
2: You Have More Money.
3: You Have More Freedom.
4: You Have No Need To Fear Adultery.
5: You Have No Need To Fear Abuse.
6: You Have No Need To Fear Abandonment.
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6 Reasons To Be & Remain Single Without Children:
1: You Get To Be Selfish To a Bigger Extent.
2: You Have More Money.
3: You Have More Freedom.
4: You Have No Need To Fear Adultery.
5: You Have No Need To Fear Abuse.
6: You Have No Need To Fear Abandonment.
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Kathryn
When I was in my 20s, I was soooo eager to be in a rship but now that I'm in my mid 30s, I actually don't like the idea of having a bf. I don't wanna lose my freedom, having to compromise with someone else n to constantly worry that he might cheat on me (cheated on twice before)
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When I was in my 20s, I was soooo eager to be in a rship but now that I'm in my mid 30s, I actually don't like the idea of having a bf. I don't wanna lose my freedom, having to compromise with someone else n to constantly worry that he might cheat on me (cheated on twice before)
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Doom-Driven
I've been single my entire life, I'm 27 years old, and let me tell you being in a relationship is very very hard, but worth it. Dying alone is 10x worse (a slow, painful death); being in a relationship is hard, but being alone is harder.
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I've been single my entire life, I'm 27 years old, and let me tell you being in a relationship is very very hard, but worth it. Dying alone is 10x worse (a slow, painful death); being in a relationship is hard, but being alone is harder.
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UwU
the only thing i like about being single is that i can simp for anyone without any guilt but i personally think there are way more benefits in being in a romantic relationship and i want to marry someone ive been with since i was a teenager
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the only thing i like about being single is that i can simp for anyone without any guilt but i personally think there are way more benefits in being in a romantic relationship and i want to marry someone ive been with since i was a teenager
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Vanessa
Single. because I don't want to get hurt again (& we all know that's inevitable. I don't trust people easily (I have my reasons. Also because therapy is expensive & I already take really good care of someone important: myself
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Single. because I don't want to get hurt again (& we all know that's inevitable. I don't trust people easily (I have my reasons. Also because therapy is expensive & I already take really good care of someone important: myself
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Darragh
Psych2go I'm single I've been single since April 2020 I don't like relationships or have any interest or enjoyment in them. I am Happy being Single. I'm going to be single, for the rest of my life. Cause I want to.
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Psych2go I'm single I've been single since April 2020 I don't like relationships or have any interest or enjoyment in them. I am Happy being Single. I'm going to be single, for the rest of my life. Cause I want to.
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DisneyfanBeckers
I enjoy being single, but then the part at the end about a person coming along? Not for me! I'd rather keep my freedom, happiness, and avoid entering a world of new problems that would come from dating.
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I enjoy being single, but then the part at the end about a person coming along? Not for me! I'd rather keep my freedom, happiness, and avoid entering a world of new problems that would come from dating.
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13Maria. Cortez13
Being single is a wise choice. In my case, it sure is. My freedom, privacy, money, etc. Darling, I am honey, juicy, spicy, feisty. Being taken in a relationship ruins it.
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Being single is a wise choice. In my case, it sure is. My freedom, privacy, money, etc. Darling, I am honey, juicy, spicy, feisty. Being taken in a relationship ruins it.
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Vicky
Love is my biggest enemy and I want to be single forever and I told the only thing single was better but hell I dont blame you for having a relationship 1: 14
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Love is my biggest enemy and I want to be single forever and I told the only thing single was better but hell I dont blame you for having a relationship 1: 14
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life
Actually I guess being is not actually being single we are in a relationship with ourselves where we can have a bunch of benefits and maybe no heart breaks
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Actually I guess being is not actually being single we are in a relationship with ourselves where we can have a bunch of benefits and maybe no heart breaks
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Sarah
I just ended a 4 year long relationship. I'm heartbroken, but at the same time, this video gives me hope. Maybe being single again won't be so bad.
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I just ended a 4 year long relationship. I'm heartbroken, but at the same time, this video gives me hope. Maybe being single again won't be so bad.
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kittycornflamingo
Who else is watching this so they don't feel as bad about being single (probably forever) and trying not to cry the entire time.
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Who else is watching this so they don't feel as bad about being single (probably forever) and trying not to cry the entire time.
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clxrii-!
Me, who's single and almost getting r4ped by someone I met 4 days ago:
It's my fault to make someone depressed until I'm alone: ')
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Me, who's single and almost getting r4ped by someone I met 4 days ago:
It's my fault to make someone depressed until I'm alone: ')
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Vicky
I think singles better but I dont care if you have a relationship I love is my biggest enemy but I dont mind if you like it 1: 56
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I think singles better but I dont care if you have a relationship I love is my biggest enemy but I dont mind if you like it 1: 56
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Victory90
I have noticed that being single is stress free. Imagine being in relationship and having children and you are unemployed.
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I have noticed that being single is stress free. Imagine being in relationship and having children and you are unemployed.
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