10 Signs You Have a Strong, Intimidating Personality
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Tal
I kinda sad when people proudly say that they hate small talks though. I'm naturally introvert, but I think there's so much to learn from extroverts. Small talks aren't that bad when you just get to know people, it's a sign that they're simply interested and want to know you. Just respond kindly and politely to appreciate them. They might clicked with you, or might not, and it's okay.
Me in the past was so afraid of new people. Then my friend encouraged me to greet new colleagues first trough chatting because we do things online now. And I realized how rude 'shy' people who don't respond are actually. I was hurt a lot at first by some rude and cold responses, but there's also some people who responded nicely. So I learn to overcome embarrassment from 'rejection' and find myself become more brave to chat new people first. The more I got rejections, the more I learn how to not give a shit about how people would respond and just go do it, while putting my ego on my sleeve. That's when I realized that extroverts are actually brave and appreciative people, and I want to learn some of that bravery for myself
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I kinda sad when people proudly say that they hate small talks though. I'm naturally introvert, but I think there's so much to learn from extroverts. Small talks aren't that bad when you just get to know people, it's a sign that they're simply interested and want to know you. Just respond kindly and politely to appreciate them. They might clicked with you, or might not, and it's okay.
Me in the past was so afraid of new people. Then my friend encouraged me to greet new colleagues first trough chatting because we do things online now. And I realized how rude 'shy' people who don't respond are actually. I was hurt a lot at first by some rude and cold responses, but there's also some people who responded nicely. So I learn to overcome embarrassment from 'rejection' and find myself become more brave to chat new people first. The more I got rejections, the more I learn how to not give a shit about how people would respond and just go do it, while putting my ego on my sleeve. That's when I realized that extroverts are actually brave and appreciative people, and I want to learn some of that bravery for myself
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education
1. You question things.
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2. You don't tolerate ignorance.
check but sometimes it's better to just not bother with some people.
3. You don't seek validation from others.
I do, Anyone that doesn't is lying. You want your close friends to approve of things you do. You want to make your parents proud. That's validation.
4. You don't make excuses for yourself or anyone.
Everyone does, You just have to recognize when something is an excuse.
5. You are careful about who you let in.
check but I'm also pretty open
6. You overcome your insecurities.
they sometimes get to me, I don't let them dictate my decisions.
7. You allow reason to drive your decisions, not emotions.
ew, No. A mix of both is better.
8. You stick to your morals.
What are morals? You have to adapt and change them with time. They have to be flexible or you're being naive.
9. You are driven and goal-oriented.
I'm trying but I'm still working on it.
10. You see problems as learning opportunities.
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1. You question things.
check
2. You don't tolerate ignorance.
check but sometimes it's better to just not bother with some people.
3. You don't seek validation from others.
I do, Anyone that doesn't is lying. You want your close friends to approve of things you do. You want to make your parents proud. That's validation.
4. You don't make excuses for yourself or anyone.
Everyone does, You just have to recognize when something is an excuse.
5. You are careful about who you let in.
check but I'm also pretty open
6. You overcome your insecurities.
they sometimes get to me, I don't let them dictate my decisions.
7. You allow reason to drive your decisions, not emotions.
ew, No. A mix of both is better.
8. You stick to your morals.
What are morals? You have to adapt and change them with time. They have to be flexible or you're being naive.
9. You are driven and goal-oriented.
I'm trying but I'm still working on it.
10. You see problems as learning opportunities.
check
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vv_orry.
I don't rule out dealing with these types of people, but I think social isolation of these types of people is inevitable. This does not mean right or wrong, but human beings as animals themselves are more aware of threats, even if you are a strong person, you will still feel threatened and you will not like to be threatened. Compromising with the big environment as a smart person more often will win you more room for interpretation, and it can also reduce the cost of the other party's understanding of you. After all, living in human society needs to be pleasing.
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I don't rule out dealing with these types of people, but I think social isolation of these types of people is inevitable. This does not mean right or wrong, but human beings as animals themselves are more aware of threats, even if you are a strong person, you will still feel threatened and you will not like to be threatened. Compromising with the big environment as a smart person more often will win you more room for interpretation, and it can also reduce the cost of the other party's understanding of you. After all, living in human society needs to be pleasing.
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Caitolino
See, I'm kinda like this, I like different things, I question stuff and I never leave anyone behind, but I'm the one being left behind, I still want validation and I'm still nobody's favorite person, I'm always nice and I really help people to be happy but I'm not strong; it's so unfair only being used by everyone and I don't get how you guys do it. Please, how can you love yourself when no body else does? I don't want to be mean I actually want to learn since I seem to have the worst parts of this video. How can I make people notice me and care about me?
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See, I'm kinda like this, I like different things, I question stuff and I never leave anyone behind, but I'm the one being left behind, I still want validation and I'm still nobody's favorite person, I'm always nice and I really help people to be happy but I'm not strong; it's so unfair only being used by everyone and I don't get how you guys do it. Please, how can you love yourself when no body else does? I don't want to be mean I actually want to learn since I seem to have the worst parts of this video. How can I make people notice me and care about me?
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Melechtna
I've, never really seen this attitude as confidence, as confidence, as it's always been described to me, is a self assurance despite facts. I simply know what I can and can't do, or would be better off getting help with. It's why it's always greatly confused me when people claim that I'm confident in myself, I'm not confident, I just know my limits. I also, even after watching this, still find it very confusing how this behavior is. intimidating. I'm about as intimidating as a house cat, and they have WAY more confidence than I ever will.
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I've, never really seen this attitude as confidence, as confidence, as it's always been described to me, is a self assurance despite facts. I simply know what I can and can't do, or would be better off getting help with. It's why it's always greatly confused me when people claim that I'm confident in myself, I'm not confident, I just know my limits. I also, even after watching this, still find it very confusing how this behavior is. intimidating. I'm about as intimidating as a house cat, and they have WAY more confidence than I ever will.
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Yzabelle
Arrogant, intimidating, scary, these are some word's to be the first impression's on to me. Countless number of people misunderstood who I am. The way I look, when I speak, my facial expression's, simple discussion's often turned debates, these are common ground's that I encounter a lot of haters. When I knew I was right, surrender isn't in my vocabulary and because of that I made enemies. Many kid's who were afraid at first became my friend's and enjoyed my company compared to their dad's super bossy.
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Arrogant, intimidating, scary, these are some word's to be the first impression's on to me. Countless number of people misunderstood who I am. The way I look, when I speak, my facial expression's, simple discussion's often turned debates, these are common ground's that I encounter a lot of haters. When I knew I was right, surrender isn't in my vocabulary and because of that I made enemies. Many kid's who were afraid at first became my friend's and enjoyed my company compared to their dad's super bossy.
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2ndPartyCrasher
I do a good chunk of these, but i think it's because I've been unknowingly focusing on them.
At work i have set boundaries so that i don't do everything people tell me to do. I have stopped trying to please peers anymore and so far so good. I mess up, i suck or i don't perform well. But it doesn't matter because i don't care if they disapprove of me. Afterall they were taking me for granted before anyways.
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I do a good chunk of these, but i think it's because I've been unknowingly focusing on them.
At work i have set boundaries so that i don't do everything people tell me to do. I have stopped trying to please peers anymore and so far so good. I mess up, i suck or i don't perform well. But it doesn't matter because i don't care if they disapprove of me. Afterall they were taking me for granted before anyways.
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Someone
Not gonna lie, I genuinely wanna meet someone like this, I feel like a lot of ppl I know have weak personalities, they lack flavor and passion! (They're fine ppl, I don't hate them nor am I mean to them, but it just feels like I can't connect) as well they lack intellect, and so please God ppl just do this plsplspslspslspsls develop pls CRIS.
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Not gonna lie, I genuinely wanna meet someone like this, I feel like a lot of ppl I know have weak personalities, they lack flavor and passion! (They're fine ppl, I don't hate them nor am I mean to them, but it just feels like I can't connect) as well they lack intellect, and so please God ppl just do this plsplspslspslspsls develop pls CRIS.
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Le
I have an unfortunate tendency to seek to attack strong personalities. Something ticks me off- likely the usual trait of such personalities being neverending shows, which is incredibly nerve wracking to me especially if I'm already within my own flow with my favored company. Any tips on self control and being less negative towards such personas?
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I have an unfortunate tendency to seek to attack strong personalities. Something ticks me off- likely the usual trait of such personalities being neverending shows, which is incredibly nerve wracking to me especially if I'm already within my own flow with my favored company. Any tips on self control and being less negative towards such personas?
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Eya
i came here after being told am scary and intimidating several times. it sucks. i don't want to look scary or intimidating.
edit; after watching the video and finding out that my personality fits with ALL THE 10 signs, I kinda feel a little bit better as the video made it look incredible. idk. still questioning if I should change or not.
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i came here after being told am scary and intimidating several times. it sucks. i don't want to look scary or intimidating.
edit; after watching the video and finding out that my personality fits with ALL THE 10 signs, I kinda feel a little bit better as the video made it look incredible. idk. still questioning if I should change or not.
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Just
Im actually that intimidating that one time at school, I ask one of my classmates for a pencil, and he replies with yes sir and give it to me so fast and then give me an smile like I was his boss LMAOOO.
Me and my best friend couldn't start laughing, cause I knew that I was intimidating but not to the yes sir point
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Im actually that intimidating that one time at school, I ask one of my classmates for a pencil, and he replies with yes sir and give it to me so fast and then give me an smile like I was his boss LMAOOO.
Me and my best friend couldn't start laughing, cause I knew that I was intimidating but not to the yes sir point
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Ummayyah
I think I might be intimidating is because I dont waste time to point out the obvious, but I also think I might not be because I only do that when I know someones a having trouble communicating and I make it easier for them to express themselves. So I guess I am intimidating by looks but everytime I speak Im not
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I think I might be intimidating is because I dont waste time to point out the obvious, but I also think I might not be because I only do that when I know someones a having trouble communicating and I make it easier for them to express themselves. So I guess I am intimidating by looks but everytime I speak Im not
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Presidents
Strong personality has the power to make a change because of their influence!
I hope people who have a strong personality could use their power for good instead of bad! If you have that power on your words be a good example in away that people would be inspired changing their outlook in life!
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Strong personality has the power to make a change because of their influence!
I hope people who have a strong personality could use their power for good instead of bad! If you have that power on your words be a good example in away that people would be inspired changing their outlook in life!
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Slicerax
Number 5 makes things make a lot more sense. I thought I just had trouble trusting people. But now I can tell that I've just been being careful about who my friends are, and expanding that circle as I become more confident in my ability to handle friendships with other kinds of people.
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Number 5 makes things make a lot more sense. I thought I just had trouble trusting people. But now I can tell that I've just been being careful about who my friends are, and expanding that circle as I become more confident in my ability to handle friendships with other kinds of people.
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maev_
THIS is an intimidating personality. I feel like many people who are insecure with themselves feel like being rude or mean to others makes them look intimidating. In reality, they just look disrespectful and insecure and feel the need to put others down to make themselves look better.
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THIS is an intimidating personality. I feel like many people who are insecure with themselves feel like being rude or mean to others makes them look intimidating. In reality, they just look disrespectful and insecure and feel the need to put others down to make themselves look better.
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grey
I used to be exactly like this up until a year ago, when I went through some traumatic events. These events have silenced me. I am currently trying to get my strenght back and become the strong, confident, brave person I once was. I hope I will get all of this and more back.
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I used to be exactly like this up until a year ago, when I went through some traumatic events. These events have silenced me. I am currently trying to get my strenght back and become the strong, confident, brave person I once was. I hope I will get all of this and more back.
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Kai
im like this and sometimes i feel bad for the way i communicate and respond but its not my fault for how other people feel unless my intentions are malicious and filled with bad energy and i have to realize that my personality is beautiful regardless
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im like this and sometimes i feel bad for the way i communicate and respond but its not my fault for how other people feel unless my intentions are malicious and filled with bad energy and i have to realize that my personality is beautiful regardless
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Dangerous
This is meeeeee no wonder it feels lonely sometimes. My partner tells me this all the time and he loves it but sees how others may treat me because of it: / Id never trade it for anything though. Im proud of how far Ive come.
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This is meeeeee no wonder it feels lonely sometimes. My partner tells me this all the time and he loves it but sees how others may treat me because of it: / Id never trade it for anything though. Im proud of how far Ive come.
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Your
My personality is not like the norm. Im very extroverted, loud, happy and i always joke or make fun. Never am i serious. But i know not many people like it. But I dont stop it bc i know the right people will stay.
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My personality is not like the norm. Im very extroverted, loud, happy and i always joke or make fun. Never am i serious. But i know not many people like it. But I dont stop it bc i know the right people will stay.
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Anjali
Well now i know why everyone thinks i am intending. I was not even aware my friends tald me they said they thought I was scary and just might be rude. But i am totally not i am just comfortable just being me.
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Well now i know why everyone thinks i am intending. I was not even aware my friends tald me they said they thought I was scary and just might be rude. But i am totally not i am just comfortable just being me.
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anonymous
People with strong personalities have done fair share of hard work and endured enough pain in life to have such a strength. This is why they just can't entertain excuses and being okay with ignorance.
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People with strong personalities have done fair share of hard work and endured enough pain in life to have such a strength. This is why they just can't entertain excuses and being okay with ignorance.
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Gerben
Absolutely confirming this is me. ;) only problem with the video I have is, the music in the background. Its annoying and dont let me focus properly on what is said. ;) and I love Psych2go cheers.
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Absolutely confirming this is me. ;) only problem with the video I have is, the music in the background. Its annoying and dont let me focus properly on what is said. ;) and I love Psych2go cheers.
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Callizto
My friend at school two years ago said they thought I was cool and wanted to be my friend, but that I was really intimidating. I was really surprised because Im an introvert and always anxious
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My friend at school two years ago said they thought I was cool and wanted to be my friend, but that I was really intimidating. I was really surprised because Im an introvert and always anxious
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education
im an introverted smiley and friendly person. but once my classmates see im in a bad mood or they know they did me wrong, theyll avoid me lmao my bff said i look scary when mad
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im an introverted smiley and friendly person. but once my classmates see im in a bad mood or they know they did me wrong, theyll avoid me lmao my bff said i look scary when mad
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blossom
damn all of these describe me and that explains why only few people stick with me cuz they know me well. people tend to walk away or ghost me when they first get to know me
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damn all of these describe me and that explains why only few people stick with me cuz they know me well. people tend to walk away or ghost me when they first get to know me
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