8 Signs You Were Actually In Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Raph
I love my gf, weve been together for 3 years now, and the problem is, idk if the kind of guy I am can be in a relationship, because after spending a weekend at her house I already feel the need of coming back home to do my hobbies, because seeing their routine it seems like I couldnt do my stuff there, such as music, painting, studying, Im a guy who loves my time alone, but I also love her and this past week I was so into all of these things that I barely talked to her and she was so sad saying I was distant, I felt horrible, she gave an idea and said she wants me to live with her and her grandmother, but as I am a guy always singing, playing the guitar, getting messy with the paintings, Im not sure if this could work as her grandma is always there, it wouldnt feel like home and I wouldnt feel so comfortable, and I fear I would live unhappy, getting home from working all day, then giving attention to them, doing things for the house, and what about the time for my hobbies that make me so happy? Sometimes I make a mess with my tools and when its time to go to bed in my bedroom I leave it all there because nobody cares, I can take care of the it the next day, but when you are living in someone elses house its different, idk Im lost, I like the idea of doing what I like to do when I feel the need and nobody complaining because they need attention or because its too late to make a mess with my tools, it scares me idk what to do anymore, I fear leaving my family to live with her family and do not be able to feel like home, feel miserable because I cant do my stuff, and I feel so selfish saying this but it does help my mental health these things and I bet she gets mad when I say these things help me the most than being with her around
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I love my gf, weve been together for 3 years now, and the problem is, idk if the kind of guy I am can be in a relationship, because after spending a weekend at her house I already feel the need of coming back home to do my hobbies, because seeing their routine it seems like I couldnt do my stuff there, such as music, painting, studying, Im a guy who loves my time alone, but I also love her and this past week I was so into all of these things that I barely talked to her and she was so sad saying I was distant, I felt horrible, she gave an idea and said she wants me to live with her and her grandmother, but as I am a guy always singing, playing the guitar, getting messy with the paintings, Im not sure if this could work as her grandma is always there, it wouldnt feel like home and I wouldnt feel so comfortable, and I fear I would live unhappy, getting home from working all day, then giving attention to them, doing things for the house, and what about the time for my hobbies that make me so happy? Sometimes I make a mess with my tools and when its time to go to bed in my bedroom I leave it all there because nobody cares, I can take care of the it the next day, but when you are living in someone elses house its different, idk Im lost, I like the idea of doing what I like to do when I feel the need and nobody complaining because they need attention or because its too late to make a mess with my tools, it scares me idk what to do anymore, I fear leaving my family to live with her family and do not be able to feel like home, feel miserable because I cant do my stuff, and I feel so selfish saying this but it does help my mental health these things and I bet she gets mad when I say these things help me the most than being with her around
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Laura
True love was with my first husband. We both threw it all away. He started throwing it away and I ended it. He remarried and I did a few years later. I still miss him, even though Im remarried. My current husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, has bi polar, wont stay on his meds and doesnt spend much time with me, then When he does he likes to argue and acts like he knows everything! Hes ridiculously egotistical. I cant stand to be around him much anymore. I think of excuses to not go anywhere with him, etc. we dont sleep in the bed much anymore. Not for about 3 years now. The other night we slept together, first time in months. I touched him, he never touched me back, so I know he is not in love with me anymore. Im the one who hugs him. He doesnt hug me first anymore and has not hugged me first in more than a year. It hurts, but Im ok with moving on once GESARA NESARA LAW comes to everyone on earth. Then he can leave blessings to all, love and light who are going through a hard troubled toxic relationship or marriage. Hugs to you from me.
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True love was with my first husband. We both threw it all away. He started throwing it away and I ended it. He remarried and I did a few years later. I still miss him, even though Im remarried. My current husband is verbally and emotionally abusive, has bi polar, wont stay on his meds and doesnt spend much time with me, then When he does he likes to argue and acts like he knows everything! Hes ridiculously egotistical. I cant stand to be around him much anymore. I think of excuses to not go anywhere with him, etc. we dont sleep in the bed much anymore. Not for about 3 years now. The other night we slept together, first time in months. I touched him, he never touched me back, so I know he is not in love with me anymore. Im the one who hugs him. He doesnt hug me first anymore and has not hugged me first in more than a year. It hurts, but Im ok with moving on once GESARA NESARA LAW comes to everyone on earth. Then he can leave blessings to all, love and light who are going through a hard troubled toxic relationship or marriage. Hugs to you from me.
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Yaroslav
2: 58 _> But if you threaten to leave unless your partner got a real job or stopped dressing a certain way, your love probably isn't the real deal_
It depends. Sure, if your partner has a job, makes some money, but you want them to make more, or, say, leave the job and be a housekeeper, or else; or if your partner, say, wears jeans and t-shirts, and you want her to wear frilly dresses/ him to wear business suits, or else - that's not love. But if your partner works as a moonshine connoisseur or a professional nothing-doer, and refuses to change; or wears extremely provocative/ inappropriate/ silly/ dorky clothes, and refuses to even try following your suggestions that, may be, possibly, a different kind of clothes for a specific occasion would be better - then chances are they don't love you, and no matter how much love you have to them, you will some day lose it.
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2: 58 _> But if you threaten to leave unless your partner got a real job or stopped dressing a certain way, your love probably isn't the real deal_
It depends. Sure, if your partner has a job, makes some money, but you want them to make more, or, say, leave the job and be a housekeeper, or else; or if your partner, say, wears jeans and t-shirts, and you want her to wear frilly dresses/ him to wear business suits, or else - that's not love. But if your partner works as a moonshine connoisseur or a professional nothing-doer, and refuses to change; or wears extremely provocative/ inappropriate/ silly/ dorky clothes, and refuses to even try following your suggestions that, may be, possibly, a different kind of clothes for a specific occasion would be better - then chances are they don't love you, and no matter how much love you have to them, you will some day lose it.
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Dan
Not ever with me anymore. I cared about and for females who only rejected me. The last one ran off in 05 with a old man 22 years her senior, she was my age I was 48 going on 49 and she was 48 going on 49 in August of 2005. I didn't at all know about her running off and marrying the old man until one day, wanted to stop in and say hellow to her, only to be greeted by a for sale sign on her house and property. Found out why. As written, she ran off with an old man 22 years her senior because he's a rich old doctor with tons and tons of cash to stash, more money than he would know what to do with. If you've got the money, you get the honey. No money, no honey. That incident hurt me so bad that I have closed off the word love and falling in love forever in my book. I will NEVER fall in love again, EVER!
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Not ever with me anymore. I cared about and for females who only rejected me. The last one ran off in 05 with a old man 22 years her senior, she was my age I was 48 going on 49 and she was 48 going on 49 in August of 2005. I didn't at all know about her running off and marrying the old man until one day, wanted to stop in and say hellow to her, only to be greeted by a for sale sign on her house and property. Found out why. As written, she ran off with an old man 22 years her senior because he's a rich old doctor with tons and tons of cash to stash, more money than he would know what to do with. If you've got the money, you get the honey. No money, no honey. That incident hurt me so bad that I have closed off the word love and falling in love forever in my book. I will NEVER fall in love again, EVER!
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Indrid
I have to know someone to be in love with that person, or even to just be a friend to someone. I know nobody. Nobody knows me. There are enormous benefits to living without humans in life. The negatives of not having a social existence are dwarfed by the enormous benefits I have gained. One of them is that it is impossible for me to ever be used, betrayed, painfully abandoned, heartbroken, or emotionally abused again. Almost all emotion is stimulated by humans. Eliminate the human social aspect of your existence and never feel the pain of the emotional abuse most people inflict upon each other, as well as barely experinecing very little other emotions. It is not a sacrifice to eliminate the human social aspect of your life. It is a very small exchange for incredible benefits.
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I have to know someone to be in love with that person, or even to just be a friend to someone. I know nobody. Nobody knows me. There are enormous benefits to living without humans in life. The negatives of not having a social existence are dwarfed by the enormous benefits I have gained. One of them is that it is impossible for me to ever be used, betrayed, painfully abandoned, heartbroken, or emotionally abused again. Almost all emotion is stimulated by humans. Eliminate the human social aspect of your existence and never feel the pain of the emotional abuse most people inflict upon each other, as well as barely experinecing very little other emotions. It is not a sacrifice to eliminate the human social aspect of your life. It is a very small exchange for incredible benefits.
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Jessica
I just got back with my boyfriend almost a month ago after being broken up for 2 years next week on the 19th will be a month the last time we were together we were actually engaged we were supposed to get married last year but we broke up but now that we're back together I still see your future with him but right now we're just going to build our relationship and when the time is right she's going to propose to me again the first time he proposed to me he didn't give me a ring but next time he's going to give me a ring I see him as my husband and the father of my children I've always loved him I still love him I love him with all my heart and soul I love you with everything in me I love him more than I ever did 2 years ago
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I just got back with my boyfriend almost a month ago after being broken up for 2 years next week on the 19th will be a month the last time we were together we were actually engaged we were supposed to get married last year but we broke up but now that we're back together I still see your future with him but right now we're just going to build our relationship and when the time is right she's going to propose to me again the first time he proposed to me he didn't give me a ring but next time he's going to give me a ring I see him as my husband and the father of my children I've always loved him I still love him I love him with all my heart and soul I love you with everything in me I love him more than I ever did 2 years ago
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Kakarott
0: 30 Min. : I would love descrip as THE best feeling that a human can feel. If you look at it logical you see just hormones that flows in our bodys and thats it. Its a body chemical reaktion that wants us show that we spent time with a special human. A human that makes us happy. A human that fits good at outher site and would be a good partner 4 mating and creat new humans.
At the end its all part of our all nature and fight against it is unnatural and shouldnt we. We just should follow our hearths and have a great time.
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0: 30 Min. : I would love descrip as THE best feeling that a human can feel. If you look at it logical you see just hormones that flows in our bodys and thats it. Its a body chemical reaktion that wants us show that we spent time with a special human. A human that makes us happy. A human that fits good at outher site and would be a good partner 4 mating and creat new humans.
At the end its all part of our all nature and fight against it is unnatural and shouldnt we. We just should follow our hearths and have a great time.
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Ruffa
Im here cause i think i still have fellings for someone but everytime isee him around imcomfotable or felling safe or just somthing that connect to him my heart beats so fast before I meet him I never being like this to someone whene we having conversation im comfortable ta say anything that in my mind like im free and i always smile i cant hold my laugh and smile if it is him and its hurt if i see him in someone else but im trying to hold back my fellings cause i know that we are not gonna work again
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Im here cause i think i still have fellings for someone but everytime isee him around imcomfotable or felling safe or just somthing that connect to him my heart beats so fast before I meet him I never being like this to someone whene we having conversation im comfortable ta say anything that in my mind like im free and i always smile i cant hold my laugh and smile if it is him and its hurt if i see him in someone else but im trying to hold back my fellings cause i know that we are not gonna work again
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madmike1
4. You never used ultimatums.
NGL, after over 5 years together and they still simply cannot bring them selves to entertaining the idea of moving out from their parent's, knowing full well you want kids, they keep complaining that they work too much to do anything (they work two part time min wage shop jobs. but actually being in a position where they can go down in hours and they are comfortable only seeing you twice a week. Then I think an ultimatum is kind of needed.
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4. You never used ultimatums.
NGL, after over 5 years together and they still simply cannot bring them selves to entertaining the idea of moving out from their parent's, knowing full well you want kids, they keep complaining that they work too much to do anything (they work two part time min wage shop jobs. but actually being in a position where they can go down in hours and they are comfortable only seeing you twice a week. Then I think an ultimatum is kind of needed.
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Sam
Lately Im explaining to people that my latest ex is the first person I had this connection with and the feeling home for the first time of my life. And yes the feeling home is hard to discribe. Bc I dont have a hard time being myself with other people. And thats the reason why its hard to let him go and some feelings and attraction is still there
But its just a special feeling I first experienced with him. I still miss that time with him.
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Lately Im explaining to people that my latest ex is the first person I had this connection with and the feeling home for the first time of my life. And yes the feeling home is hard to discribe. Bc I dont have a hard time being myself with other people. And thats the reason why its hard to let him go and some feelings and attraction is still there
But its just a special feeling I first experienced with him. I still miss that time with him.
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psych2go
After rewatchimg this again for the foirth time a few months later. it still hurts sooo much m yet here i am nearly 9 months nc n still letting go n moving on. Sadly. da breakup doesnt hurt anymore noq its my turn to move on n take the next step n try to go on dates someday or at least to prepare myself. Idk. we had all this yet it ended between me m her. For now imm just continue working on myaelf for the better. Always
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After rewatchimg this again for the foirth time a few months later. it still hurts sooo much m yet here i am nearly 9 months nc n still letting go n moving on. Sadly. da breakup doesnt hurt anymore noq its my turn to move on n take the next step n try to go on dates someday or at least to prepare myself. Idk. we had all this yet it ended between me m her. For now imm just continue working on myaelf for the better. Always
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DMTdreamz
Like you start to experience orgasmic levels of ecstasy. Imagine the best orgasm you've ever had and then multiply it by a thousand.
You realize that caring about anything at all is completely idiotic.
From the highest perspective if you realize that everything is love then that's it. Anything that happens is absolute love and nothing could be better. Everything is absolutely perfect.
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Like you start to experience orgasmic levels of ecstasy. Imagine the best orgasm you've ever had and then multiply it by a thousand.
You realize that caring about anything at all is completely idiotic.
From the highest perspective if you realize that everything is love then that's it. Anything that happens is absolute love and nothing could be better. Everything is absolutely perfect.
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Bridgette
It feels good to know I experienced love in my last relationship. He was my best friend and never judged me, and I did the same. It did hurt when we both spilt but I am better now. I want him to be happy and I am sure he would want the same for me. Physch2Go has helped me realize a lot of things about myself and guided me to heal anything that is needed to be healed. Thank you Psych2Go. :D
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It feels good to know I experienced love in my last relationship. He was my best friend and never judged me, and I did the same. It did hurt when we both spilt but I am better now. I want him to be happy and I am sure he would want the same for me. Physch2Go has helped me realize a lot of things about myself and guided me to heal anything that is needed to be healed. Thank you Psych2Go. :D
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DMTdreamz
Just Do IT
What is Just Do It?
The idea that action trumps theory by a huge margin. Thinking, talking, and planning are good, but the greatest point of leverage for getting results is just doing it.
Why is it Important?
Without action you will not get any results. The reason you don't have what you want is probably because you aren't taking enough action.
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Just Do IT
What is Just Do It?
The idea that action trumps theory by a huge margin. Thinking, talking, and planning are good, but the greatest point of leverage for getting results is just doing it.
Why is it Important?
Without action you will not get any results. The reason you don't have what you want is probably because you aren't taking enough action.
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Jorge
I wish I saw this video in my timeline the day it was released. Back then I was in a relationship, and I know I was in love. My partner, however, clearly wasn't, and I had a lot of trouble and went through a lot of pain figuring this out.
Thanks for your awesome content. Keep it up: )
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I wish I saw this video in my timeline the day it was released. Back then I was in a relationship, and I know I was in love. My partner, however, clearly wasn't, and I had a lot of trouble and went through a lot of pain figuring this out.
Thanks for your awesome content. Keep it up: )
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JeyD
I don't want to expect anymore. I was heartbroken, then i tried to get up. Then she says she does not love me anymore, it was the most broken I've ever got. Now I cant help but put up walls. But i hope she finds happiness even if she see's me as a monster now. I love her still.
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I don't want to expect anymore. I was heartbroken, then i tried to get up. Then she says she does not love me anymore, it was the most broken I've ever got. Now I cant help but put up walls. But i hope she finds happiness even if she see's me as a monster now. I love her still.
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Jeffrey
Definitely feel like shit after seeing this. Never had any of this, so I made it about halfway through this and didn't want to keep crying. Wish I could have real love. 47 years old and don't think it exists at this point. At least not for me.
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Definitely feel like shit after seeing this. Never had any of this, so I made it about halfway through this and didn't want to keep crying. Wish I could have real love. 47 years old and don't think it exists at this point. At least not for me.
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Sunset
Love and hate relationships are unhealthy. Sure, you may feel different emotions in a relationship but I believe it never comes to abuse ( emotional, mental, physical and so on )
Love and hate relationships are unstable and unreliable
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Love and hate relationships are unhealthy. Sure, you may feel different emotions in a relationship but I believe it never comes to abuse ( emotional, mental, physical and so on )
Love and hate relationships are unstable and unreliable
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Aimee
I am currently on a break with my partner that could lead to an official break up coming April. We experienced all of these above and I cant imagine losing him. The end really gave me hope. I miss that feeling of home.
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I am currently on a break with my partner that could lead to an official break up coming April. We experienced all of these above and I cant imagine losing him. The end really gave me hope. I miss that feeling of home.
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Lim
Love is a two way traffic. Love comes from both sides.
The most common problem which leads to failure is one way traffic also known as one sided love. It will happen to almost 100 percent of everyone.
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Love is a two way traffic. Love comes from both sides.
The most common problem which leads to failure is one way traffic also known as one sided love. It will happen to almost 100 percent of everyone.
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Officer
I had a breakup around 2 or 3 years ago, and I feel like I still haven't quite let go. I have a girlfriend now, and I love her, but sometimes, I still have dreams about my ex. Is that bad?
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I had a breakup around 2 or 3 years ago, and I feel like I still haven't quite let go. I have a girlfriend now, and I love her, but sometimes, I still have dreams about my ex. Is that bad?
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Prince
DAMN DAMN DAMN so good so true and rightttt. The opposite of love isnt HATE! Its indifference. Its just that it hurts the most when they dont care for you anymore, not when they hate you!
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DAMN DAMN DAMN so good so true and rightttt. The opposite of love isnt HATE! Its indifference. Its just that it hurts the most when they dont care for you anymore, not when they hate you!
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education
8 Signs You WERE Actually in Love
Okay okay I get it. I lost a great person, stop telling me that yt algorithm. I always knew
Edit: okay point 8 was nice I take that back
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8 Signs You WERE Actually in Love
Okay okay I get it. I lost a great person, stop telling me that yt algorithm. I always knew
Edit: okay point 8 was nice I take that back
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Misaki
People say more often/believe: The more you hate, the more you love.
What I truly believe: The more you love, the more you hate.
(Thank God I'm correct)
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People say more often/believe: The more you hate, the more you love.
What I truly believe: The more you love, the more you hate.
(Thank God I'm correct)
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Love is a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slooooowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage.
-Rick Sanchez
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Love is a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slooooowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage.
-Rick Sanchez
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