7 Signs They're Leading You On
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Mateo
Got lead on by a girl and she really made it seem like she wanted something w me but things didnt go the way I thought. it hurts a lot because I really liked this girl still do and I miss her. Didnt know her that long but timing dont matter in my opinion it felt like I knew her forever. I thought we had something going there for a little bit. But turns out Im not what she wanted after all. I never did anything wrong I was nice and was there for her when she needed a shoulder to cry on I was there for her. Because I genuinely care for her and still care for her. I dont think she realized what she had with me. What she couldve had. Never had any bad intentions. Just good. I do shit outta love. I wanted to make her the happiest girl alive. I felt like I couldve. But ya know I just have to accept what happened and move on. Its hard to move on because I really like her. Everything happens for a reason tho. But I do believe deep down that I couldve made her happy. Because I know Im a great person with a good heart. I dont wish any bad on her for doing me dirty like leading me on. I wish her the best and I hope she finds someone else who makes her happy. I genuinely mean that too. I hope one day someone actually will appreciate me and not lead me on and actually want something with me. I keep having bad experiences and its starting to scare me. Im like starting to get scared of falling for people and getting feelings and all because I always end up getting hurt: ( might build a wall and just be with myself. I got attached to this girl. Loved her personality loved a lot of things about her. She had her faults. She has her issues and problems like every other person out there. I accepted her and all her pros and cons tho Thats how much I like her. Wouldve done anything for her.
This experience made me realize tho that sometimes no matter how great you are no matter how
Great of a person you are
Nice you are
Gentle you are
Kind you are
Sweet you are
Caring you are
Open you are
Loving you are
That sometimes being all of those sometimes isnt enough for some people. Sometimes youll never be good enough. Sometimes people dont see your worth sometimes people get bored and suck the life out of you and then spit you out like you never mattered. They get what they want from you and go on to the next.
I cut her off a week ago because I couldnt handle being her friend after all that. It hurt me. Bad. It hurt me everytime Id see her on social media. I had no other choice but to cut her off from everything. I miss her a lot every day but I did that for me because I felt like it needed to be done for my inner peace and my mental health overall. Its been taking a toll on me. I hope one day shell realize what she couldve had with me: /// maybe maybe not. Who knows.
Im gonna get through this tho. I know I will. To anyone who read this all the way I hope what ever you are going through I hope you get through it too.
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Got lead on by a girl and she really made it seem like she wanted something w me but things didnt go the way I thought. it hurts a lot because I really liked this girl still do and I miss her. Didnt know her that long but timing dont matter in my opinion it felt like I knew her forever. I thought we had something going there for a little bit. But turns out Im not what she wanted after all. I never did anything wrong I was nice and was there for her when she needed a shoulder to cry on I was there for her. Because I genuinely care for her and still care for her. I dont think she realized what she had with me. What she couldve had. Never had any bad intentions. Just good. I do shit outta love. I wanted to make her the happiest girl alive. I felt like I couldve. But ya know I just have to accept what happened and move on. Its hard to move on because I really like her. Everything happens for a reason tho. But I do believe deep down that I couldve made her happy. Because I know Im a great person with a good heart. I dont wish any bad on her for doing me dirty like leading me on. I wish her the best and I hope she finds someone else who makes her happy. I genuinely mean that too. I hope one day someone actually will appreciate me and not lead me on and actually want something with me. I keep having bad experiences and its starting to scare me. Im like starting to get scared of falling for people and getting feelings and all because I always end up getting hurt: ( might build a wall and just be with myself. I got attached to this girl. Loved her personality loved a lot of things about her. She had her faults. She has her issues and problems like every other person out there. I accepted her and all her pros and cons tho Thats how much I like her. Wouldve done anything for her.
This experience made me realize tho that sometimes no matter how great you are no matter how
Great of a person you are
Nice you are
Gentle you are
Kind you are
Sweet you are
Caring you are
Open you are
Loving you are
That sometimes being all of those sometimes isnt enough for some people. Sometimes youll never be good enough. Sometimes people dont see your worth sometimes people get bored and suck the life out of you and then spit you out like you never mattered. They get what they want from you and go on to the next.
I cut her off a week ago because I couldnt handle being her friend after all that. It hurt me. Bad. It hurt me everytime Id see her on social media. I had no other choice but to cut her off from everything. I miss her a lot every day but I did that for me because I felt like it needed to be done for my inner peace and my mental health overall. Its been taking a toll on me. I hope one day shell realize what she couldve had with me: /// maybe maybe not. Who knows.
Im gonna get through this tho. I know I will. To anyone who read this all the way I hope what ever you are going through I hope you get through it too.
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UNKN0WNED
I have someone who has said they have mutual feelings for me. Everytime we are together it goes great and we enjoy our company. But when we aren't together I rarely get many messages from them because they are always busy with work or something else. When I'm online and they can see that they don't even bother messaging. When I message it take forever for them to reply and it's never something to spark a conversation. They've said they would do anything to prove they care for me just the same but has yet to do so. And the only time they really seem to show it is when they are drinking. That's the most conversation we ever get sometimes. It sucks so much because I have put my life on hold (relationship wise) just out of respect for them and whenever we actually decide to do something. But while I'm sitting here waiting I feel like I have no other place to go. I just don't understand how hard it is to just message someone every now and then. Like, I work longer hours than she does yet I message while I'm at work? She only works at Starbucks and doesn't have long hours. But every other part of her day doesn't include me. I hate it so much because I care alot for her and I have been. And when she finally came out and said it aswell it just didn't go anywhere. Idk why I'm even writing this here. But I'm just tired of putting in this effort for someone who isn't even thinking about messaging me a goodmorning or how are you.
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I have someone who has said they have mutual feelings for me. Everytime we are together it goes great and we enjoy our company. But when we aren't together I rarely get many messages from them because they are always busy with work or something else. When I'm online and they can see that they don't even bother messaging. When I message it take forever for them to reply and it's never something to spark a conversation. They've said they would do anything to prove they care for me just the same but has yet to do so. And the only time they really seem to show it is when they are drinking. That's the most conversation we ever get sometimes. It sucks so much because I have put my life on hold (relationship wise) just out of respect for them and whenever we actually decide to do something. But while I'm sitting here waiting I feel like I have no other place to go. I just don't understand how hard it is to just message someone every now and then. Like, I work longer hours than she does yet I message while I'm at work? She only works at Starbucks and doesn't have long hours. But every other part of her day doesn't include me. I hate it so much because I care alot for her and I have been. And when she finally came out and said it aswell it just didn't go anywhere. Idk why I'm even writing this here. But I'm just tired of putting in this effort for someone who isn't even thinking about messaging me a goodmorning or how are you.
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Jesse
There was this girl I met off a dating app. After I when on the first date with her I decided that we weren't right for each other. I didn't want to hurt her feelings so I told her sorry but I realize I don't have time for a relationship. She moved on. But then she messaged me back after a few months when by. We talked for a bit. But then she asked me out on another date. I only wanted to see her as friends. But she developed romantic feelings for me. I realized that I messed up. So I ended up telling her I'm sorry but my intentions was to only be friends. She told me she was fine with it. So we stayed friends. I never flirted with her in any way. But one day she texted me and asked me if I wanted to cuddle. She acted desperate and told me that she never had a relationship and that she was a virgin. I almost did it with her. But she found out that I was only going to do it with her because I felt bad for her. I ended up hurting her feelings. Did I lead her on? Or did she disrespect my boundaries?
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There was this girl I met off a dating app. After I when on the first date with her I decided that we weren't right for each other. I didn't want to hurt her feelings so I told her sorry but I realize I don't have time for a relationship. She moved on. But then she messaged me back after a few months when by. We talked for a bit. But then she asked me out on another date. I only wanted to see her as friends. But she developed romantic feelings for me. I realized that I messed up. So I ended up telling her I'm sorry but my intentions was to only be friends. She told me she was fine with it. So we stayed friends. I never flirted with her in any way. But one day she texted me and asked me if I wanted to cuddle. She acted desperate and told me that she never had a relationship and that she was a virgin. I almost did it with her. But she found out that I was only going to do it with her because I felt bad for her. I ended up hurting her feelings. Did I lead her on? Or did she disrespect my boundaries?
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SaphiraDubuxo
Even though its been quite a while and Im currently in a happy and stable marriage, I came back to this video to check if my ex-boyfriend led a certain girl on prior to dating me. According to this video, only #3 and #7 were accurate (at least from what I remember. So it went on like this - we met at a mutual friends party and became friendly with each other for a couple months, then he met another girl at another group meeting and she directly expressed interest in him, meanwhile he even confided in me that he liked her, too. They spent time getting to know each other for like 3-4 months and he even gave her a very lush and meaningful birthday gift at one point, but plot twist - when she asked him out, he ultimately rejected her, claiming he didnt see a future with her. Afterwards, and to my biggest surprise, he asked me out instead. So did he ultimately lead her on or what?
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Even though its been quite a while and Im currently in a happy and stable marriage, I came back to this video to check if my ex-boyfriend led a certain girl on prior to dating me. According to this video, only #3 and #7 were accurate (at least from what I remember. So it went on like this - we met at a mutual friends party and became friendly with each other for a couple months, then he met another girl at another group meeting and she directly expressed interest in him, meanwhile he even confided in me that he liked her, too. They spent time getting to know each other for like 3-4 months and he even gave her a very lush and meaningful birthday gift at one point, but plot twist - when she asked him out, he ultimately rejected her, claiming he didnt see a future with her. Afterwards, and to my biggest surprise, he asked me out instead. So did he ultimately lead her on or what?
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PoutineProductions
He was giving me flirtatious attention and I went along with it. Eventually he will say that I want him, I should think of him, etc. I was surprised because I never had a guy say that to me. Then when we started fooling around, he would keep bringing up that he is not looking for anything serious. It got to the point that when he said it for the 5th time, I started to believe that maybe he did want to date. But I kept myself emotionally detached from him. Now he's is doing the same with other girls. Apparently he does this often. He charms/seduces multiple girls. Fckboy? Or am I just really an idiot?
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He was giving me flirtatious attention and I went along with it. Eventually he will say that I want him, I should think of him, etc. I was surprised because I never had a guy say that to me. Then when we started fooling around, he would keep bringing up that he is not looking for anything serious. It got to the point that when he said it for the 5th time, I started to believe that maybe he did want to date. But I kept myself emotionally detached from him. Now he's is doing the same with other girls. Apparently he does this often. He charms/seduces multiple girls. Fckboy? Or am I just really an idiot?
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GalaxyGal040-15
I just feel so lied to. She told me I meant a lot to her and that she was in love with me and genuinely loved me. I'm angry that I had to put in all the effort. I'm angry was put through hell and back and made to believe she genuinely cared about me.
It's obvious when she integrated with her work friends she forgot I existed. Maybe she did care about me. Maybe she still does, but I'm tired of being stepped on by her. I'm tired of believing that an ounce of her ever thinks about me.
She's no worth my time. Yeah we had good times together but I'm beginning to think it was just fake.
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I just feel so lied to. She told me I meant a lot to her and that she was in love with me and genuinely loved me. I'm angry that I had to put in all the effort. I'm angry was put through hell and back and made to believe she genuinely cared about me.
It's obvious when she integrated with her work friends she forgot I existed. Maybe she did care about me. Maybe she still does, but I'm tired of being stepped on by her. I'm tired of believing that an ounce of her ever thinks about me.
She's no worth my time. Yeah we had good times together but I'm beginning to think it was just fake.
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Charlie
I was being led on by a girl. She said stuffs like she loves me, and gets jealous around other girls whenever i get near them. She said she's falling in love with me, i was falling for her too but after 3 mos she suddenly had a boyfriend and introduce him to me. She had a bf all along, she led me on. It's not a bf that she just met but a bf that she has been with for so long. Fcking hurts a lot. I felt so betrayed. i promised to myself before that i dont wanna fall in love but she creep her way to my heart and just shattered it. Idk im literally in pain rn like im going to throw up.
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I was being led on by a girl. She said stuffs like she loves me, and gets jealous around other girls whenever i get near them. She said she's falling in love with me, i was falling for her too but after 3 mos she suddenly had a boyfriend and introduce him to me. She had a bf all along, she led me on. It's not a bf that she just met but a bf that she has been with for so long. Fcking hurts a lot. I felt so betrayed. i promised to myself before that i dont wanna fall in love but she creep her way to my heart and just shattered it. Idk im literally in pain rn like im going to throw up.
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Atrix
This is litterary the history of my love life. Being constantly attracted to the those whose like to lead on. Luckly, i figured the signs after 2 failed attempts to eastblished a relationship. What dissapointed me and made me give up, is the fact that I have a shit luck and always stick on those girls with such personality. After 20+ attempts of dates that clearly showed the signs of leading on. I just gave up. On dating, on even attempts of dating as in general and whole. I guess iam a what is called a hopeless case.
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This is litterary the history of my love life. Being constantly attracted to the those whose like to lead on. Luckly, i figured the signs after 2 failed attempts to eastblished a relationship. What dissapointed me and made me give up, is the fact that I have a shit luck and always stick on those girls with such personality. After 20+ attempts of dates that clearly showed the signs of leading on. I just gave up. On dating, on even attempts of dating as in general and whole. I guess iam a what is called a hopeless case.
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DarkParagon
I fell for someone in college. The next 5 years was a mixture of feeling like they didn't care, or they cared a lot, until I basically told them to do one (Not in a polite way, but realising you love someone for 5 years and they were only leading you on is rough.
She tried apologising since then, but then tried the same dumb thing, then I told them even more angrilly to go F themselves.
Some people are just manipulative pieces of garbage.
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I fell for someone in college. The next 5 years was a mixture of feeling like they didn't care, or they cared a lot, until I basically told them to do one (Not in a polite way, but realising you love someone for 5 years and they were only leading you on is rough.
She tried apologising since then, but then tried the same dumb thing, then I told them even more angrilly to go F themselves.
Some people are just manipulative pieces of garbage.
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education
Idk whats wrong with me but I want a relationship really bad but then when I get a chance to be in one I get disgusted and if there is a person that likes me I see that theyre a good person so I talk to them and flirt and everything knowing they want a relationship with me and I dont but like I keep talking to them hoping that I would fall in love and we can be in a normal relationship but it never works out idk I feel super bad about it
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Idk whats wrong with me but I want a relationship really bad but then when I get a chance to be in one I get disgusted and if there is a person that likes me I see that theyre a good person so I talk to them and flirt and everything knowing they want a relationship with me and I dont but like I keep talking to them hoping that I would fall in love and we can be in a normal relationship but it never works out idk I feel super bad about it
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You're
My crush doesnt apply to any of these things. I was too scared to ask him out and my friend did it for me. When he said that he didnt like me that way she told him that we were playing truth or dare. He seemed stressed out. Im getting mixed signals. He treats me better than everyone else and I think that he was intimidated by the fact that he thinks were playing truth or dare. Im planning on asking him out again, but what should I do!
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My crush doesnt apply to any of these things. I was too scared to ask him out and my friend did it for me. When he said that he didnt like me that way she told him that we were playing truth or dare. He seemed stressed out. Im getting mixed signals. He treats me better than everyone else and I think that he was intimidated by the fact that he thinks were playing truth or dare. Im planning on asking him out again, but what should I do!
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kai
Say you start talking to someone because you hear they like you and you want to get to know them to see if you might have feeling for them. During the few days you've been talking to them you just think of them as a friend and you HINT to them multiple times your not into dating saying things like I don't like dating and you keep talking to them. Is that leading them on or giving them false hope?
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Say you start talking to someone because you hear they like you and you want to get to know them to see if you might have feeling for them. During the few days you've been talking to them you just think of them as a friend and you HINT to them multiple times your not into dating saying things like I don't like dating and you keep talking to them. Is that leading them on or giving them false hope?
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Rita-Marie
It is narcissistic behaviour. My ex did ALL of these things. No excuse, he was in his fifties with life experience. A complete and utter wanker who I had the misfortune of wasting a year of my life with - but so glad I no longer do. I can breath now. I have used all the experiences as material for my TV show, so not bad: -D
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It is narcissistic behaviour. My ex did ALL of these things. No excuse, he was in his fifties with life experience. A complete and utter wanker who I had the misfortune of wasting a year of my life with - but so glad I no longer do. I can breath now. I have used all the experiences as material for my TV show, so not bad: -D
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erica
GOOD! Now I know now! Everyone tells me my crush loves attention and he has a huge ego. I even knew that! But he always gives me mixed signals! He'll be nice for 3 days and ignore me for 4! He's such a dick! I don't even like em anymore! He's so mean and annoying! And he always tells me what 2 do! UGH!
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GOOD! Now I know now! Everyone tells me my crush loves attention and he has a huge ego. I even knew that! But he always gives me mixed signals! He'll be nice for 3 days and ignore me for 4! He's such a dick! I don't even like em anymore! He's so mean and annoying! And he always tells me what 2 do! UGH!
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Kristen
As someone who has stringed people along, not ready to be with us is so true. Its about wanting them there WHEN IM READY. Could be because Im not ready to break up with who Im with, I feel like I havent gotten my shit together, not ready to move, list goes on.
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As someone who has stringed people along, not ready to be with us is so true. Its about wanting them there WHEN IM READY. Could be because Im not ready to break up with who Im with, I feel like I havent gotten my shit together, not ready to move, list goes on.
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education
I feel so bad because somebody had said that I was leading them on and I was like idk what I want and I was seriously confused cus we literally argued everyday and they said I love you but I said it back but it didnt feel right. whats going on?
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I feel so bad because somebody had said that I was leading them on and I was like idk what I want and I was seriously confused cus we literally argued everyday and they said I love you but I said it back but it didnt feel right. whats going on?
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elena
I dont think hes leading me on and I do think that he likes me buuuut I dont believe him when he says he loves me. I feel like we are just getting to know each other and its way too early to say something as special as I love you.
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I dont think hes leading me on and I do think that he likes me buuuut I dont believe him when he says he loves me. I feel like we are just getting to know each other and its way too early to say something as special as I love you.
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9MIL
If you lead others on, not only are you doing harm to that person who just wants clear and straight answers and doesn't want to play games but you also lose self-respect and you end up losing friends.
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If you lead others on, not only are you doing harm to that person who just wants clear and straight answers and doesn't want to play games but you also lose self-respect and you end up losing friends.
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Gyno
Seriously. why would she choose me? (Out of all the better options)
I'm sorry, but no.
I'm not falling for this.
I'd rather not getting hurt (more than I already am.
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Seriously. why would she choose me? (Out of all the better options)
I'm sorry, but no.
I'm not falling for this.
I'd rather not getting hurt (more than I already am.
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Stuffy
I feel like #5 is a bit weird bc what if they're at a funeral, or something important like a family matter yk? Not saying I disagree there's just a lot of scenarios.
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I feel like #5 is a bit weird bc what if they're at a funeral, or something important like a family matter yk? Not saying I disagree there's just a lot of scenarios.
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OriginalName
Most of us searched for this. Romance is confusing now, because you can never know if someone likes you, or just likes the idea of you being obsessed with you
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Most of us searched for this. Romance is confusing now, because you can never know if someone likes you, or just likes the idea of you being obsessed with you
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AFT
Isnt it crazy how they lie and lead you on to keep you from getting hurt because they care about your feelings so much yet they dont believe that you deserve honesty.
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Isnt it crazy how they lie and lead you on to keep you from getting hurt because they care about your feelings so much yet they dont believe that you deserve honesty.
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PianoClasesStgo
Wow, the lead on people really cant see that they arent nice by decieving, its even on the video. Is not excusable. When you get lead on youll understand
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Wow, the lead on people really cant see that they arent nice by decieving, its even on the video. Is not excusable. When you get lead on youll understand
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James
When people try to play mind games with me, I just tell them to go away and go bother someone else because I don't want to waste my time with that nonsense.
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When people try to play mind games with me, I just tell them to go away and go bother someone else because I don't want to waste my time with that nonsense.
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Uptown
He only text back at convenient times and said I love you and would you date me but when I say yes or respond says I was joking. Long distance doesnt work
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He only text back at convenient times and said I love you and would you date me but when I say yes or respond says I was joking. Long distance doesnt work
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