9 Reasons Why You Feel Lonely
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Lee
hey can anyone pls give me some advice I'll really appreciate it. So for some days there is that strong feeling of loneliness. I have friends but no one talks to me much, there is little interactions with me. I am the one who normally starts it off before they ever talk to me. I don't really have a good lasting convo it dies out less than a minute. Whenever a person in a group set up a date for all of us to hang out, I wouldn't get the info of date and time bc no one texts me. Legit I have contacts but no one talks to me literally. I sent a message saying hi but they just completely ignored me. Now I feel like an irrelevant, unimportant person. I've recently lost favour of 2 of my closest friends cus they favored her more. Deep down I feel lonely and empty despite the fact that I sat in a table of 6 people. I have no close friends no best friends, just friends that I never really talk to. HOW DOES SOME OF MY EXTROVERTED FRIENDS HAVE SOME SORT OF A ABILITY TO HAVE LOADS OF GREAT FRIENDS! infact she is friends like almost everyone.
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hey can anyone pls give me some advice I'll really appreciate it. So for some days there is that strong feeling of loneliness. I have friends but no one talks to me much, there is little interactions with me. I am the one who normally starts it off before they ever talk to me. I don't really have a good lasting convo it dies out less than a minute. Whenever a person in a group set up a date for all of us to hang out, I wouldn't get the info of date and time bc no one texts me. Legit I have contacts but no one talks to me literally. I sent a message saying hi but they just completely ignored me. Now I feel like an irrelevant, unimportant person. I've recently lost favour of 2 of my closest friends cus they favored her more. Deep down I feel lonely and empty despite the fact that I sat in a table of 6 people. I have no close friends no best friends, just friends that I never really talk to. HOW DOES SOME OF MY EXTROVERTED FRIENDS HAVE SOME SORT OF A ABILITY TO HAVE LOADS OF GREAT FRIENDS! infact she is friends like almost everyone.
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HeyLuv17
Loneliness is killing me like a slow poison I. have been suffering since childhood till now!
I don't mind being single, But I need Feiends, good friends!
I'm all alone shut home, I'm like I'm not part of my family eventhough I live them my family! No one is there for me! I wish there is someone, especially I'm suffering from severe depression for past 1 year due to a problem, I have none to help me out, Even If I need anything I can't ask! I'm Suffering from mental pain! It's been months Since I genuinely laughed from my heart! My Virtual Friendly Hugs to Everyone out there suffering from Loneliness & depression U're not alone Buddy!
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Loneliness is killing me like a slow poison I. have been suffering since childhood till now!
I don't mind being single, But I need Feiends, good friends!
I'm all alone shut home, I'm like I'm not part of my family eventhough I live them my family! No one is there for me! I wish there is someone, especially I'm suffering from severe depression for past 1 year due to a problem, I have none to help me out, Even If I need anything I can't ask! I'm Suffering from mental pain! It's been months Since I genuinely laughed from my heart! My Virtual Friendly Hugs to Everyone out there suffering from Loneliness & depression U're not alone Buddy!
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Adaleigh
Ive felt lonely for so long Its been hitting kind of hard lately, because I broke up with my boyfriend nearly a month ago. When school starts back up again, I should feel better (hopefully) but for now, I dont have many distractions. When I am alone its overwhelming. And even with people I have so many doubts I assume nobody likes me, my esteem is so low: . I am also judgemental and picky, therefore I am miserable. I have been trying my best lately to not judge and simply talk to people. Its hard but I hope I will get better at it, and meet someone who will treat me better than he did.
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Ive felt lonely for so long Its been hitting kind of hard lately, because I broke up with my boyfriend nearly a month ago. When school starts back up again, I should feel better (hopefully) but for now, I dont have many distractions. When I am alone its overwhelming. And even with people I have so many doubts I assume nobody likes me, my esteem is so low: . I am also judgemental and picky, therefore I am miserable. I have been trying my best lately to not judge and simply talk to people. Its hard but I hope I will get better at it, and meet someone who will treat me better than he did.
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Crimson
Hey, I suffer from loneline-
Literraly Everyone: we dont give a shit stop talking you annoying worm
I am at the edge of going postal. No, I have gone postal. I hate this skin that latches itself to my bones, I hate these eyes that show me lies, I hate these organs that forced me to be miserable. I hate it all. I hate having to keep giving in life to get nothing back in life. It's like paying the IRS but your a meaningless slave to society.
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Hey, I suffer from loneline-
Literraly Everyone: we dont give a shit stop talking you annoying worm
I am at the edge of going postal. No, I have gone postal. I hate this skin that latches itself to my bones, I hate these eyes that show me lies, I hate these organs that forced me to be miserable. I hate it all. I hate having to keep giving in life to get nothing back in life. It's like paying the IRS but your a meaningless slave to society.
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Indrid
Loneliness merely means you are doing the right thing to maximise your safety from the cruelty and violence of others. Whenever I feel el lonely, know I have done the right thing. There are very few people worth having for an amicable or amorous relationship. Only about 1 in 1000 people are worth having in your life. The other 999 can put you through a lot of pain before finding the right one. It is simply not worth it to be social anymore.
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Loneliness merely means you are doing the right thing to maximise your safety from the cruelty and violence of others. Whenever I feel el lonely, know I have done the right thing. There are very few people worth having for an amicable or amorous relationship. Only about 1 in 1000 people are worth having in your life. The other 999 can put you through a lot of pain before finding the right one. It is simply not worth it to be social anymore.
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chromaticdragon
Codependency is devastating when you realize that that person does only contact you when something is wrong and they need you to fix it. Once it's fixed, they are gone again. I've come to this conclusion here recently. with someone that use to be closest to me. I still hold them in high esteem and try to reach out to them, all I get is silence. until they need me to spend money on a problem or they need to vent about their day. :(
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Codependency is devastating when you realize that that person does only contact you when something is wrong and they need you to fix it. Once it's fixed, they are gone again. I've come to this conclusion here recently. with someone that use to be closest to me. I still hold them in high esteem and try to reach out to them, all I get is silence. until they need me to spend money on a problem or they need to vent about their day. :(
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SwirlDip82
I always make mistakes so much that everyone judges that I just completely separate myself from everyone and even if I go to events, I just dont feel the connection with anybody people do try to, but I kind of push away and just be introverted but it really sucks when you kind of feel left out and pushed away but all of a sudden you get irritable and take it out on the wrong things then you decide to isolate yourself from everything.
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I always make mistakes so much that everyone judges that I just completely separate myself from everyone and even if I go to events, I just dont feel the connection with anybody people do try to, but I kind of push away and just be introverted but it really sucks when you kind of feel left out and pushed away but all of a sudden you get irritable and take it out on the wrong things then you decide to isolate yourself from everything.
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Stuart
I have been screwed over so many times by so many people that I am okay with being alone. I do have some friends, but I do have boundaries. It is a crazy world and you have to be careful. Life is not a Hallmark movie. Those movies are just entertainment. Be strong with your self. Love your self. Your self is really and truly the only person you can depend on. Once you except that and can forgive other, you can be okay with being alone.
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I have been screwed over so many times by so many people that I am okay with being alone. I do have some friends, but I do have boundaries. It is a crazy world and you have to be careful. Life is not a Hallmark movie. Those movies are just entertainment. Be strong with your self. Love your self. Your self is really and truly the only person you can depend on. Once you except that and can forgive other, you can be okay with being alone.
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Arya
I read a quote that says, when the universe wants you to change for the better, it makes your current situation very uncomfortable such that you don't stay in that state or situation with the people around you. It could be your friends, family, people at work etc. So, we happen to feel lonely for that duration of time when the change happens. Embrace this change if you're in this phase.
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I read a quote that says, when the universe wants you to change for the better, it makes your current situation very uncomfortable such that you don't stay in that state or situation with the people around you. It could be your friends, family, people at work etc. So, we happen to feel lonely for that duration of time when the change happens. Embrace this change if you're in this phase.
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Nillborg101
I have one or two close friends and some other friends that i dont know how and cant seem to get close to. They'll make plans and if im not physically present or if i dont make the plans myself, they wont invite me and then just tell me about it or how fun it was like i wouldn't have wanted to be a part of it or like I'm not even an option. Idk. Its like im no one to them.
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I have one or two close friends and some other friends that i dont know how and cant seem to get close to. They'll make plans and if im not physically present or if i dont make the plans myself, they wont invite me and then just tell me about it or how fun it was like i wouldn't have wanted to be a part of it or like I'm not even an option. Idk. Its like im no one to them.
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Claude
Being lonely was worse when I was a child. Being the only child was rough. But as I got older it wasnt as bad. I finally got use to it. I got married and my wife and I had two children. Even though were divorced now we still stay in touch. Any thing youer not use to at first always seems hard but after time, youll get use to it. At least thats how it was for me.
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Being lonely was worse when I was a child. Being the only child was rough. But as I got older it wasnt as bad. I finally got use to it. I got married and my wife and I had two children. Even though were divorced now we still stay in touch. Any thing youer not use to at first always seems hard but after time, youll get use to it. At least thats how it was for me.
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Beatrix
1 you dont know how to connect with people
2 youre afraid of intimacy
3 youre going through a lot of change
4 you struggle with codependency
5 youve lost touch with yourself
6 youre feeling misunderstood
7 youre struggling to feel worthy
8 youre spending time with the wrong people
9 you have depression
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1 you dont know how to connect with people
2 youre afraid of intimacy
3 youre going through a lot of change
4 you struggle with codependency
5 youve lost touch with yourself
6 youre feeling misunderstood
7 youre struggling to feel worthy
8 youre spending time with the wrong people
9 you have depression
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Tiago
I Just miss having someone here who realy likes me Company, a friend, a girlfriend whathaver i Just really want to have a Constant someone who Wil be there every day no Mater what someone who Will not leave, i hate the fact that i am always the one who is left behind
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I Just miss having someone here who realy likes me Company, a friend, a girlfriend whathaver i Just really want to have a Constant someone who Wil be there every day no Mater what someone who Will not leave, i hate the fact that i am always the one who is left behind
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rasper
The human animal is amazing. it has morals and understands what is good and bad. I think it is very important for us to understand we are being led by psychopaths that will use our morality to divide us and make us feel alone. Divide and rule is the game.
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The human animal is amazing. it has morals and understands what is good and bad. I think it is very important for us to understand we are being led by psychopaths that will use our morality to divide us and make us feel alone. Divide and rule is the game.
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Aradhya
After my sister moved to other place for her studies i really feels so lonely
Even I don't want to watch TV without her now
Just now I was listening songs on TV (after 2 years literally) and I felt so lonely watching songs alone
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After my sister moved to other place for her studies i really feels so lonely
Even I don't want to watch TV without her now
Just now I was listening songs on TV (after 2 years literally) and I felt so lonely watching songs alone
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Goodnight
This year I feel very lonely like alot I feel like no one really care about me expect myself when I say people don't care about it is that they make me go alone like I don't have anyone but I do very hard to explain
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This year I feel very lonely like alot I feel like no one really care about me expect myself when I say people don't care about it is that they make me go alone like I don't have anyone but I do very hard to explain
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Shoumik
For me its like I would have people I would consider best friends only to realize that to them Im not that close to them in that way. And that kinda started it for me. Im basically a background friend.
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For me its like I would have people I would consider best friends only to realize that to them Im not that close to them in that way. And that kinda started it for me. Im basically a background friend.
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erica
I know my family loves me but ive never had any friends or social life so i just can't let anyone in. My mom made me so scared someone will just hurt me. Not just her but everyone around me did the same.
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I know my family loves me but ive never had any friends or social life so i just can't let anyone in. My mom made me so scared someone will just hurt me. Not just her but everyone around me did the same.
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Psych2Go
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Osbaldo
People dont feel lonely because they have nobody. They feel lonely because at one point of their
Life they did have someone, there was a person or friends that are no longer part of the journey.
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People dont feel lonely because they have nobody. They feel lonely because at one point of their
Life they did have someone, there was a person or friends that are no longer part of the journey.
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ATransSylveon
Like I just feel lonely around my friends
I feel like they don't want to talk to me or care the I am there, but I know that isn't true but I keep telling my self it is and it hurts
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Like I just feel lonely around my friends
I feel like they don't want to talk to me or care the I am there, but I know that isn't true but I keep telling my self it is and it hurts
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LUAP
I feel like I have got no real friends in my class and I don't know like I'm so confused about these friendly relationships like my classmates don't want to spend their time with me, Idk
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I feel like I have got no real friends in my class and I don't know like I'm so confused about these friendly relationships like my classmates don't want to spend their time with me, Idk
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John
This is 100% me. I knew I was lonely but this confirms it. I dont know who I am or what I want. No one does understand me, or even wants to. No one cares. Im just here to pay the bills.
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This is 100% me. I knew I was lonely but this confirms it. I dont know who I am or what I want. No one does understand me, or even wants to. No one cares. Im just here to pay the bills.
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education
I feel lobely bc ive never had anyone to love. I always put in everything for eveyone else but often get nothing in return. I hate this life and i wish someone will lvoe me
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I feel lobely bc ive never had anyone to love. I always put in everything for eveyone else but often get nothing in return. I hate this life and i wish someone will lvoe me
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Ernest
2nd Reason is not for me am not a love person and every who i love are already married also i only i have one mum every one else left me to die it doesn't suit me
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2nd Reason is not for me am not a love person and every who i love are already married also i only i have one mum every one else left me to die it doesn't suit me
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