7 Signs of an Incompatible Relationship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Raph
I love my gf, weve been together for 3 years now, and the problem is, idk if the kind of guy I am can be in a relationship, because after spending a weekend at her house I already feel the need of coming back home to do my hobbies, because seeing their routine it seems like I couldnt do my stuff there, such as music, painting, studying, Im a guy who loves my time alone, but I also love her and this past week I was so into all of these things that I barely talked to her and she was so sad saying I was distant, I felt horrible, she gave an idea and said she wants me to live with her and her grandmother, but as I am a guy always singing, playing the guitar, getting messy with the paintings, Im not sure if this could work as her grandma is always there, it wouldnt feel like home and I wouldnt feel so comfortable, and I fear I would live unhappy, getting home from working all day, then giving attention to them, doing things for the house, and what about the time for my hobbies that make me so happy? Sometimes I make a mess with my tools and when its time to go to bed in my bedroom I leave it all there because nobody cares, I can take care of the it the next day, but when you are living in someone elses house its different, idk Im lost, I like the idea of doing what I like to do when I feel the need and nobody complaining because they need attention or because its too late to make a mess with my tools, it scares me idk what to do anymore, I fear leaving my family to live with her family and do not be able to feel like home, feel miserable because I cant do my stuff, and I feel so selfish saying this but it does help my mental health these things and I bet she gets mad when I say these things help me the most than being with her around
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I love my gf, weve been together for 3 years now, and the problem is, idk if the kind of guy I am can be in a relationship, because after spending a weekend at her house I already feel the need of coming back home to do my hobbies, because seeing their routine it seems like I couldnt do my stuff there, such as music, painting, studying, Im a guy who loves my time alone, but I also love her and this past week I was so into all of these things that I barely talked to her and she was so sad saying I was distant, I felt horrible, she gave an idea and said she wants me to live with her and her grandmother, but as I am a guy always singing, playing the guitar, getting messy with the paintings, Im not sure if this could work as her grandma is always there, it wouldnt feel like home and I wouldnt feel so comfortable, and I fear I would live unhappy, getting home from working all day, then giving attention to them, doing things for the house, and what about the time for my hobbies that make me so happy? Sometimes I make a mess with my tools and when its time to go to bed in my bedroom I leave it all there because nobody cares, I can take care of the it the next day, but when you are living in someone elses house its different, idk Im lost, I like the idea of doing what I like to do when I feel the need and nobody complaining because they need attention or because its too late to make a mess with my tools, it scares me idk what to do anymore, I fear leaving my family to live with her family and do not be able to feel like home, feel miserable because I cant do my stuff, and I feel so selfish saying this but it does help my mental health these things and I bet she gets mad when I say these things help me the most than being with her around
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Лера
I broke up with my boyfriend recently, and we were sooo different from each other. So I have some really good experience to share. Our biggest problem was tge absence of communication. We didn't get each other completely. Each our meeting/date my thoughts were like: OMG, what are we gonna talk about? We didn't really know each other, we had been in a relationship 1 year though. So, guys, shared values are important for sure, BUT DO NOT FORGET ABOUT FCKING communication! If u do not know how to communicate with each other, u have two main paths:
1. Learn and discuss this problem with ur partner and find a solution together (in my opinion, it's the hard way, especially, if u don't really know each other and don't have similar interests)
2. (Not recommended to do till u try first one) just broke up.
My partner and me tried solve our problem, but in my opinion, our values are too different. So now, we are trying to move on. Okay, I am. He already start to fall in love with another girl and I am truly happy for him. At the same time, I am stuck. Just didn't accept the fact of breaking up yet.
So yes, it was my story and my experience. Hope, it will help someone don't repeat our mistakes.
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I broke up with my boyfriend recently, and we were sooo different from each other. So I have some really good experience to share. Our biggest problem was tge absence of communication. We didn't get each other completely. Each our meeting/date my thoughts were like: OMG, what are we gonna talk about? We didn't really know each other, we had been in a relationship 1 year though. So, guys, shared values are important for sure, BUT DO NOT FORGET ABOUT FCKING communication! If u do not know how to communicate with each other, u have two main paths:
1. Learn and discuss this problem with ur partner and find a solution together (in my opinion, it's the hard way, especially, if u don't really know each other and don't have similar interests)
2. (Not recommended to do till u try first one) just broke up.
My partner and me tried solve our problem, but in my opinion, our values are too different. So now, we are trying to move on. Okay, I am. He already start to fall in love with another girl and I am truly happy for him. At the same time, I am stuck. Just didn't accept the fact of breaking up yet.
So yes, it was my story and my experience. Hope, it will help someone don't repeat our mistakes.
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Tanvi
NO couples on this earth carry same set of thinking or ideology. even brothers and sisters from the same womb don't carry same thinking. every individual is different. that doesn't mean that all relationships are fake or incompatible. opposites attract each other. people with same vibes, same match, same thinking can't grow. such couples, they will start their journey in one room kitchen and stay there in that small room till they grow old. nothing changes. bec there is no critic to judge you. the other half needs to be a critic. sometimes the husband needs to criticize and sometimes the wife. if the husband wants to invest money somewhere or may be in friends business, the wife should think the opposite. bec when somebody makes you realise that think twice or save your money. that's the hint may be the universe wants you to save you from getting fooled or going into loss. if the husband still goes ahead and invest that money. later he shud not get frustrated on family or wife.
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NO couples on this earth carry same set of thinking or ideology. even brothers and sisters from the same womb don't carry same thinking. every individual is different. that doesn't mean that all relationships are fake or incompatible. opposites attract each other. people with same vibes, same match, same thinking can't grow. such couples, they will start their journey in one room kitchen and stay there in that small room till they grow old. nothing changes. bec there is no critic to judge you. the other half needs to be a critic. sometimes the husband needs to criticize and sometimes the wife. if the husband wants to invest money somewhere or may be in friends business, the wife should think the opposite. bec when somebody makes you realise that think twice or save your money. that's the hint may be the universe wants you to save you from getting fooled or going into loss. if the husband still goes ahead and invest that money. later he shud not get frustrated on family or wife.
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piece
How can I learn to separate feelings of deep platonic love from the attraction I feel?
I think Im in love with a guy Ive known for several months and I think about him all the time. I keep telling myself I dont think we would really be able to work if we ended up getting married. I dont think were endgame for each other, but every time that I think about him or talk to him, I feel such a deep care, love, and appreciation for him that I have never felt before. I dont want to end our friendship just because I cant get over the romantic ideals, but I dont know how or if these feelings will ever go away.
If anyone has advice, please help lol
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How can I learn to separate feelings of deep platonic love from the attraction I feel?
I think Im in love with a guy Ive known for several months and I think about him all the time. I keep telling myself I dont think we would really be able to work if we ended up getting married. I dont think were endgame for each other, but every time that I think about him or talk to him, I feel such a deep care, love, and appreciation for him that I have never felt before. I dont want to end our friendship just because I cant get over the romantic ideals, but I dont know how or if these feelings will ever go away.
If anyone has advice, please help lol
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Steaks4Ketu
I think the most important lesson I learned as a young adult is that true love goes both ways. You can have someone obsessed with you, who thinks youre perfect for them, and thinks youre their soulmate; but if you dont feel the same way back theres no way its going to work. Dating someone out of pity is not only insulting, but incredibly harmful to them. If you know its not going to work out, just be up front and tell it to then straight. The pain they feel now will fade a lot quicker than the betrayal theyll suffer if you feign romantic feelings for them.
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I think the most important lesson I learned as a young adult is that true love goes both ways. You can have someone obsessed with you, who thinks youre perfect for them, and thinks youre their soulmate; but if you dont feel the same way back theres no way its going to work. Dating someone out of pity is not only insulting, but incredibly harmful to them. If you know its not going to work out, just be up front and tell it to then straight. The pain they feel now will fade a lot quicker than the betrayal theyll suffer if you feign romantic feelings for them.
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Jenesis
I met a guy this year who seems to be my type in first glance. However he was peacocking right from the start (sending a whole bunch of photos of him half naked running biking swimming. I was a bit put off so I took time to watch read and listen. After 2 months keeping this guy at arms length I am sure we are not compatible in personality. He is rather rigid in his mind. I am still curious to explore new knowledge. I still dont like him peacocking his triathlon accomplishments and body. I am glad I listened to my doubt, not rushing into relationships.
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I met a guy this year who seems to be my type in first glance. However he was peacocking right from the start (sending a whole bunch of photos of him half naked running biking swimming. I was a bit put off so I took time to watch read and listen. After 2 months keeping this guy at arms length I am sure we are not compatible in personality. He is rather rigid in his mind. I am still curious to explore new knowledge. I still dont like him peacocking his triathlon accomplishments and body. I am glad I listened to my doubt, not rushing into relationships.
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Exelited
I really messed up, I was broken up with a few days ago and I understand why now, we would argue too much and it was a lot of the time me being the problems because I have some anger issues, but your videos are really helping me out, I'm gonna try to start making times where we can call each other and talk about problems we had and I'm trying to work on myself mentally to be happy with myself. I hope that in a year or a bit less maybe me and her can trey again because I really do want to be the one to marry her and grow old together.
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I really messed up, I was broken up with a few days ago and I understand why now, we would argue too much and it was a lot of the time me being the problems because I have some anger issues, but your videos are really helping me out, I'm gonna try to start making times where we can call each other and talk about problems we had and I'm trying to work on myself mentally to be happy with myself. I hope that in a year or a bit less maybe me and her can trey again because I really do want to be the one to marry her and grow old together.
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Andrs
My relationship with a partner just ended. Having seen this video, I have realised we are NOT that INCOMPATIBLE. We have been growing together, we have our differences, but not substantial ones, we have our disagreements, but almost never addressed in a toxic way, we have our non-common friends that we hang out with independently.
However, even this might not be enough. Distance, some signs and discussions, and problems from both of us, have prevented us from having a healthy relationship in the end.
Keep strong
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My relationship with a partner just ended. Having seen this video, I have realised we are NOT that INCOMPATIBLE. We have been growing together, we have our differences, but not substantial ones, we have our disagreements, but almost never addressed in a toxic way, we have our non-common friends that we hang out with independently.
However, even this might not be enough. Distance, some signs and discussions, and problems from both of us, have prevented us from having a healthy relationship in the end.
Keep strong
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Anna
Its always so difficult to understand whether you have to work on and improve your relationship or just leave it there and run. Where does this doubt belong to? What are these questions to answer yourself if its just a matter of self growth or you are entering a toxic addiction
Thank you for this video
I believe one of the keys is to feel a partnership, if you do not feel like a team and neither you or your loved one is gonna choose each other to solve the challenge, the point of the relationship is gone
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Its always so difficult to understand whether you have to work on and improve your relationship or just leave it there and run. Where does this doubt belong to? What are these questions to answer yourself if its just a matter of self growth or you are entering a toxic addiction
Thank you for this video
I believe one of the keys is to feel a partnership, if you do not feel like a team and neither you or your loved one is gonna choose each other to solve the challenge, the point of the relationship is gone
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Lane
#1 & #3 for me i broke it off a little over a week ago. if we got each other in this one significant way, there wouldnt be any need to request change and i probably wouldve married him. but this one difference is too large and too hard to change for someone else. im heartbroken bc i still love him so much and were still so compatible in all these other ways. i just know it wasnt sustainable bc of the one incompatibility ):
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#1 & #3 for me i broke it off a little over a week ago. if we got each other in this one significant way, there wouldnt be any need to request change and i probably wouldve married him. but this one difference is too large and too hard to change for someone else. im heartbroken bc i still love him so much and were still so compatible in all these other ways. i just know it wasnt sustainable bc of the one incompatibility ):
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Ian
I have been waitin and hoping for my 25 year relationship to resolve arguments so we can be happier together. She, an educationalist, thinks psychology is all mumbo jumbo! I dont think this at all. Then when I look at everything else between us, there is always arguments. we only have to separate and we would both be immediately happy. So why don't we separate? Lol. codependancy. How do you reeolve this?
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I have been waitin and hoping for my 25 year relationship to resolve arguments so we can be happier together. She, an educationalist, thinks psychology is all mumbo jumbo! I dont think this at all. Then when I look at everything else between us, there is always arguments. we only have to separate and we would both be immediately happy. So why don't we separate? Lol. codependancy. How do you reeolve this?
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Tanvi
This thing keeps popping up on my news feed. pressurizing the viewers by constantly hammering that your current relationship is incompatible. why don't you straightforward suggest for separation. no need to keep hammering by showing who is right or who is narcissist. at the end give solution. whether to stay or get separated. stop this business of manipulating the minds of the people
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This thing keeps popping up on my news feed. pressurizing the viewers by constantly hammering that your current relationship is incompatible. why don't you straightforward suggest for separation. no need to keep hammering by showing who is right or who is narcissist. at the end give solution. whether to stay or get separated. stop this business of manipulating the minds of the people
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ChildLostInChina
I got alll these signs with my girl besides 3 and 5, but mostly cuz im a high iq high functioning autistic and she has fas and adhd. The subconscious habits she does annoys me and vice versa. Although we know we both have problems and need to know that we have be aware of each others emotions because our disorders we are highly emotional beings.
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I got alll these signs with my girl besides 3 and 5, but mostly cuz im a high iq high functioning autistic and she has fas and adhd. The subconscious habits she does annoys me and vice versa. Although we know we both have problems and need to know that we have be aware of each others emotions because our disorders we are highly emotional beings.
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Olive
Someone who doesnt share the same interests, values principles, is vastly different than someone who doesnt share the same hobbies in music and movies.
When can argue that interest would be in a category with movies and music what is important is the values and principles and that cannot be determined by superficial things like music and movies
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Someone who doesnt share the same interests, values principles, is vastly different than someone who doesnt share the same hobbies in music and movies.
When can argue that interest would be in a category with movies and music what is important is the values and principles and that cannot be determined by superficial things like music and movies
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Rini
im currently seeing someone and we are very compatiable and we can joke (somewhat) but there is just no physical attraction for me. Its hard for me to say no to this relationship bc it seems like im throwing a good relationship away but it also hard to say yes bc i dont even enjoy kissing with them.
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im currently seeing someone and we are very compatiable and we can joke (somewhat) but there is just no physical attraction for me. Its hard for me to say no to this relationship bc it seems like im throwing a good relationship away but it also hard to say yes bc i dont even enjoy kissing with them.
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education
If only there was a fix for any of this because my partner and I show all of these signs aside from knowing each other's friends/family me and her don't share any interests we fight all of the time barely have passion for each other and the like I would love to know what to do
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If only there was a fix for any of this because my partner and I show all of these signs aside from knowing each other's friends/family me and her don't share any interests we fight all of the time barely have passion for each other and the like I would love to know what to do
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charles
Mine is if I leave I dont know where to go I have no family here in Arizona and no friends to talk too, I feel like Im trapped, not happy. Im a very emotional person, Im honestly not happy guys! She has family and friends who support her, its makes my stomach so sick.
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Mine is if I leave I dont know where to go I have no family here in Arizona and no friends to talk too, I feel like Im trapped, not happy. Im a very emotional person, Im honestly not happy guys! She has family and friends who support her, its makes my stomach so sick.
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Bringing
It is hard to be completely honest with someone.
But you should atleast try.
If you want a healthy relationship follow this -
Realize - Accept - Rectify
Once you do this you'll have a better relationship with anyone.
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It is hard to be completely honest with someone.
But you should atleast try.
If you want a healthy relationship follow this -
Realize - Accept - Rectify
Once you do this you'll have a better relationship with anyone.
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illegaltrophy
i totally agree with the last one, having no romance/chemistry with someone and suddenly bcome ur life partner will never work out. it's just dumb that u never try to know each other first, b4 being together. the awkwardness.
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i totally agree with the last one, having no romance/chemistry with someone and suddenly bcome ur life partner will never work out. it's just dumb that u never try to know each other first, b4 being together. the awkwardness.
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Alan
I think some of them are normal in every relationship, everybody is different, even siblings who were raised the same have differences, its completely normal to expect someone from a whole different enviorement to be different
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I think some of them are normal in every relationship, everybody is different, even siblings who were raised the same have differences, its completely normal to expect someone from a whole different enviorement to be different
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Rupankar
I guess modern day romantic relationship is overrated. doesn't make sense if we consider risk to benefit ratio. Feelings can change, in modern day it changes more frequently. Love is so unsure, frustrating and stressful
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I guess modern day romantic relationship is overrated. doesn't make sense if we consider risk to benefit ratio. Feelings can change, in modern day it changes more frequently. Love is so unsure, frustrating and stressful
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Aly-marie
I love him i truly do but idk if were trulyyt meant to be together. I just think about the potential of what he could be and not love him for who he is now. Ive changed a lot since i meant him and i dont love myself
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I love him i truly do but idk if were trulyyt meant to be together. I just think about the potential of what he could be and not love him for who he is now. Ive changed a lot since i meant him and i dont love myself
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Mohammed
My ex was the opposite we seemed to be compatible according to this. Its funny how Im thinking about how were meant to and knowing we should be together shows that we will and i know this video confirms it.
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My ex was the opposite we seemed to be compatible according to this. Its funny how Im thinking about how were meant to and knowing we should be together shows that we will and i know this video confirms it.
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Fundi
I love my partner, but we seem incompatible, I don't know how to break up with her, because of course it'll hurt me too. We've been dating for a month and 2 weeks, I guess I jumped in too soon.
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I love my partner, but we seem incompatible, I don't know how to break up with her, because of course it'll hurt me too. We've been dating for a month and 2 weeks, I guess I jumped in too soon.
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Smoke
It's crazy cause you really will make up excuses for them doing the stuff they do and it feels like legit reasons. And hide aspects of your relationship too I've been through this
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It's crazy cause you really will make up excuses for them doing the stuff they do and it feels like legit reasons. And hide aspects of your relationship too I've been through this
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