7 Signs You Shouldn't End A Friendship
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Date: 2023-08-20
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lumines
I don't want to lose him
He's on the verge of abandoning me
It's online
So there's no way to reach out
I love him, he said he loved me too
I have DID
I hate talking about it
It's such a sensitive subject
But, a persecutor alter
Basically a toxic protector
Pretended to be me, and said the most hurtful things
I had no memory of it besides tiny tiny pieces
And
The past 2 days, I've done nothing but cry and cry and try to show him how much I care and how I never would hurt him again
He's so easily overwhelmed though
Told him, it wasn't me
I would never say things like that to him
He said to me after I told him that yesterday
I wish there was a way for you guys to have your own body and mind, I would gladly take the normal and happy you
Hurts
He's so afraid of being hurt again, and schools starting
He really thinks there's no way to fix it, but I believe we can
I love him so much, more than a friend, he said he did too
He said he missed the old me
I'm still me though.
I'm so scared to lose him
He means everything to me, he said I used to, how all he wanted was to spend his whole day with me, but when things started getting bad, then the other thing happened
He said it really hurt and broke a part of him
I have bpd as well, and he's my fp, so that makes it worse
I just
We both want it good again, and miss how it was, I so badly don't want to lose him
But
I think I am too damaged for him to handle, it hurts beyond bad
I don't want to be abandoned by someone I love again
I've been trying to prepare myself for it
For him leaving
But I just can't
I'm going to give him time
Does any one have advice to help repair us?
Just to build back the trust, and feel happy again
He told me he wants to but he doesn't know how we can
I just
Don't want to let go
I cant handle it again
And would just rather die than experience the same pain and loss again
After him, if there's no way to salvage it, I never want to make a new friend again and will only stick to the people I already know
I just don't know anymore
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I don't want to lose him
He's on the verge of abandoning me
It's online
So there's no way to reach out
I love him, he said he loved me too
I have DID
I hate talking about it
It's such a sensitive subject
But, a persecutor alter
Basically a toxic protector
Pretended to be me, and said the most hurtful things
I had no memory of it besides tiny tiny pieces
And
The past 2 days, I've done nothing but cry and cry and try to show him how much I care and how I never would hurt him again
He's so easily overwhelmed though
Told him, it wasn't me
I would never say things like that to him
He said to me after I told him that yesterday
I wish there was a way for you guys to have your own body and mind, I would gladly take the normal and happy you
Hurts
He's so afraid of being hurt again, and schools starting
He really thinks there's no way to fix it, but I believe we can
I love him so much, more than a friend, he said he did too
He said he missed the old me
I'm still me though.
I'm so scared to lose him
He means everything to me, he said I used to, how all he wanted was to spend his whole day with me, but when things started getting bad, then the other thing happened
He said it really hurt and broke a part of him
I have bpd as well, and he's my fp, so that makes it worse
I just
We both want it good again, and miss how it was, I so badly don't want to lose him
But
I think I am too damaged for him to handle, it hurts beyond bad
I don't want to be abandoned by someone I love again
I've been trying to prepare myself for it
For him leaving
But I just can't
I'm going to give him time
Does any one have advice to help repair us?
Just to build back the trust, and feel happy again
He told me he wants to but he doesn't know how we can
I just
Don't want to let go
I cant handle it again
And would just rather die than experience the same pain and loss again
After him, if there's no way to salvage it, I never want to make a new friend again and will only stick to the people I already know
I just don't know anymore
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A110
recently i've done a joke with one of my friend with wich we are really similar in multiple points like our autism, we played rocket league together and laughed a lot when one of us missed the ball of did some kind of really weird jump by accident but then i did a joke. the joke turned out bad. the joke was that i declared war on him just for fun. i tought it would be a funny mini war between 2 friends looking like if they were 4 y/o kids. but oh god was i wrong. he didn't liked the joke and started a whole argument wich created a lot of tension and instead of a mini 4y/o funny war it transformed into a full scale war. im doing my best to keep him friend as he was a really good friend and our friendship was still compatible prior to this bad joke. hopefully the last message he sent me after i said sorry to him and stuff to fix my errors seem to leave an open door for fixing everything and being friend again. look like he just need some time to breath and that ok. I told him i was gonna give him as much time as he need to breath. still waiting a response. can anyone give me tips on how to react if he comes back with a positive answer? or even a negative one. since i have autism and him too (not huge autism, just enought to have small effects) we are quite bad in social stuff but really good in logical stuff. since human emotions aren't logical i have a lot of dificulties seeing them, interpreting them correctly and then act correctly. so can anyone help, please.
EDIT: in the same day i wrote that comment, he responded me with a picture of him destroying a toxic in rocket league and simply saying bruh and then saying i will call you soon like if nothing happened, i'm pretty sure we might talk about that thing a little in the call but i think i managed to keep the friendship with him. im not saying it is fully restored but it has high chances to. i just need to not screw up everything and i should be fine. could anyone give tips on how to not screw up?
UPDATE: we talked a bit and now everthing is back to normal
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recently i've done a joke with one of my friend with wich we are really similar in multiple points like our autism, we played rocket league together and laughed a lot when one of us missed the ball of did some kind of really weird jump by accident but then i did a joke. the joke turned out bad. the joke was that i declared war on him just for fun. i tought it would be a funny mini war between 2 friends looking like if they were 4 y/o kids. but oh god was i wrong. he didn't liked the joke and started a whole argument wich created a lot of tension and instead of a mini 4y/o funny war it transformed into a full scale war. im doing my best to keep him friend as he was a really good friend and our friendship was still compatible prior to this bad joke. hopefully the last message he sent me after i said sorry to him and stuff to fix my errors seem to leave an open door for fixing everything and being friend again. look like he just need some time to breath and that ok. I told him i was gonna give him as much time as he need to breath. still waiting a response. can anyone give me tips on how to react if he comes back with a positive answer? or even a negative one. since i have autism and him too (not huge autism, just enought to have small effects) we are quite bad in social stuff but really good in logical stuff. since human emotions aren't logical i have a lot of dificulties seeing them, interpreting them correctly and then act correctly. so can anyone help, please.
EDIT: in the same day i wrote that comment, he responded me with a picture of him destroying a toxic in rocket league and simply saying bruh and then saying i will call you soon like if nothing happened, i'm pretty sure we might talk about that thing a little in the call but i think i managed to keep the friendship with him. im not saying it is fully restored but it has high chances to. i just need to not screw up everything and i should be fine. could anyone give tips on how to not screw up?
UPDATE: we talked a bit and now everthing is back to normal
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Mistyylxvv
sometimes friendships are too good to be true
My story:
So when I was younger a had a bestie called A (not saying actual name)
A hung out a lot it w/ me was just the two of us we were really good best friends we never had fights we FaceTimed sometimes she was like the only person I hung out with at break and everything was just fine, UNTIL 1 year later we were not in the same class anymore sadly and she met this other girl named E (not saying name)she started hanging out w/ her she actually introduced her to me as well. We soon all became besties but I started getting a bitter feeling I felt forced to be their friends and I didnt know they werent my true friends I felt shut out and ignored + left out, this CONTINUOUSLY happend and then I introduced some of my besties to E cuz A wasnt active on the internet then sometimes while I was gone My besties and E called while I was gone I thought it was fine at first and then I started feeling annoyed bc it felt like she was stealing my friends, they SOON became besties as well I felt lefout AGAINthey chatted, hung out, FaceTimed & more (also just mentioning E stole 3 of my friends R AU & A
until the year after I found new friends that are pretty nice so Im happier now!
never trust someone until you know you can some friendships are just TOO GOOD to be true at first so just double check before you get betrayed, it can hurt to let them go (Ive had that experience b4) do the right thing
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sometimes friendships are too good to be true
My story:
So when I was younger a had a bestie called A (not saying actual name)
A hung out a lot it w/ me was just the two of us we were really good best friends we never had fights we FaceTimed sometimes she was like the only person I hung out with at break and everything was just fine, UNTIL 1 year later we were not in the same class anymore sadly and she met this other girl named E (not saying name)she started hanging out w/ her she actually introduced her to me as well. We soon all became besties but I started getting a bitter feeling I felt forced to be their friends and I didnt know they werent my true friends I felt shut out and ignored + left out, this CONTINUOUSLY happend and then I introduced some of my besties to E cuz A wasnt active on the internet then sometimes while I was gone My besties and E called while I was gone I thought it was fine at first and then I started feeling annoyed bc it felt like she was stealing my friends, they SOON became besties as well I felt lefout AGAINthey chatted, hung out, FaceTimed & more (also just mentioning E stole 3 of my friends R AU & A
until the year after I found new friends that are pretty nice so Im happier now!
never trust someone until you know you can some friendships are just TOO GOOD to be true at first so just double check before you get betrayed, it can hurt to let them go (Ive had that experience b4) do the right thing
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Christina
Can someone tell me what to do!
I have a Bestie i meet her in middle school, we change our school, both go in the same school, then also in high school.
We're in same section and in one batch 3 peoples are setting together, but we two sit in one batch we're too close people think we're sister. When teacher don't see as together they say there is you're sister.
But now in 10 grade we're in different section we eat lunch at short break, then we go out in Lunch break to have more time. But things are change most of are classmate we all separate, one girl she also have bestfriend but now her bestfriend study in other school.
When lunch break she call my bestie out she say Come let's go out then i am with her my bestie just leave me with my others friends and just go like what the fk.
Now i am in other section i meet my bestfriend, we both bond together really quick i tell her everything and she also the same, i tell her about my situation she say
Why do you spend your time with people don't know you're value.
I have lots of friends but she is my bestie i don't what to do.
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Can someone tell me what to do!
I have a Bestie i meet her in middle school, we change our school, both go in the same school, then also in high school.
We're in same section and in one batch 3 peoples are setting together, but we two sit in one batch we're too close people think we're sister. When teacher don't see as together they say there is you're sister.
But now in 10 grade we're in different section we eat lunch at short break, then we go out in Lunch break to have more time. But things are change most of are classmate we all separate, one girl she also have bestfriend but now her bestfriend study in other school.
When lunch break she call my bestie out she say Come let's go out then i am with her my bestie just leave me with my others friends and just go like what the fk.
Now i am in other section i meet my bestfriend, we both bond together really quick i tell her everything and she also the same, i tell her about my situation she say
Why do you spend your time with people don't know you're value.
I have lots of friends but she is my bestie i don't what to do.
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Ashiqur
I befriended this woman at work 5 years ago. We bonded over video games, retro cartoons, & roller coasters. When she left for Michigan & I was still living in VA, I tried my best to maintain that friendship. Lot of ups and downs, but we repaired things between 2020 till May 2021.
We met up at a park & things got heated when she & her friend wouldnt stop making fun of me, causing me to react & get angry. We didnt speak for a while afterwards, & then my father got sick, so we spoke a few months later.
My dad passed away 8 months later & I was devastated. My friend & I were still at odds due to emotional baggage between us. We recently ended our friendship & its left a gaping hole in my life, cant speak for her. I said hurtful things due to not letting go of the past.
She was an incredible person to have in my life, and it hurts to know Ill never see her again. I dont even know if time & distance will heal things anymore or allow us to rekindle later.
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I befriended this woman at work 5 years ago. We bonded over video games, retro cartoons, & roller coasters. When she left for Michigan & I was still living in VA, I tried my best to maintain that friendship. Lot of ups and downs, but we repaired things between 2020 till May 2021.
We met up at a park & things got heated when she & her friend wouldnt stop making fun of me, causing me to react & get angry. We didnt speak for a while afterwards, & then my father got sick, so we spoke a few months later.
My dad passed away 8 months later & I was devastated. My friend & I were still at odds due to emotional baggage between us. We recently ended our friendship & its left a gaping hole in my life, cant speak for her. I said hurtful things due to not letting go of the past.
She was an incredible person to have in my life, and it hurts to know Ill never see her again. I dont even know if time & distance will heal things anymore or allow us to rekindle later.
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Roy
I was good friends with someone I met at work a few years ago. We hit off right away. Had a lot in common, enjoyed each other's compay. She was going through a bad time and I was there for her. When she went back to work, things changed. We didn't meet up as much since she was working crazy hours. As time went on there was less communication. But it was more one sided since I was the one looking for her and she hardly looked for me or didn't make any time for us. Weeks ago we talked and I asked if she wanted to go with me to a concert. She never got back to me. Weeks went by and she didn't call or text me back. I made the mistake of calling her work and she got back to me and told me our friendship has run its course and she didn't like that I called at her work and to never reach out to her again. It left me devastated, angry, depressed, disbelief, and guilt. I really do feel I have lost the best friend I ever had.
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I was good friends with someone I met at work a few years ago. We hit off right away. Had a lot in common, enjoyed each other's compay. She was going through a bad time and I was there for her. When she went back to work, things changed. We didn't meet up as much since she was working crazy hours. As time went on there was less communication. But it was more one sided since I was the one looking for her and she hardly looked for me or didn't make any time for us. Weeks ago we talked and I asked if she wanted to go with me to a concert. She never got back to me. Weeks went by and she didn't call or text me back. I made the mistake of calling her work and she got back to me and told me our friendship has run its course and she didn't like that I called at her work and to never reach out to her again. It left me devastated, angry, depressed, disbelief, and guilt. I really do feel I have lost the best friend I ever had.
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Jasmin
To EVERYONE commenting here:
It's SO EMBARRASSING
and I mean REALLY EMBARRASSING to read your comments.
Talking about the video: ok
Talking about your feelings: ok
Talking about your experiences: ok
Talking about your opinions: ok
Talking about 'whatever': ok
But JUST STOP talking bad about other people just because they did once something bad to piss you off.
Be it on internet platforms or in puplic.
You can talk about it with your friends or with family members, and maybe even some coworkers. No problem.
And if it gets really ugly and nasty there a also certain hotlines you can vent.
But as long as it's not something were your reputation, job, health or life is on the line, YOU HAVE NO GOD DAMM RIGHT TO SPREAD THINGS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE FOR EVERYONE TO KNOW!
DEAR GOD!
WHAT A BUNCH OF SELF ENTITELED AND SELF RIGHTEOUS BRATS.
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To EVERYONE commenting here:
It's SO EMBARRASSING
and I mean REALLY EMBARRASSING to read your comments.
Talking about the video: ok
Talking about your feelings: ok
Talking about your experiences: ok
Talking about your opinions: ok
Talking about 'whatever': ok
But JUST STOP talking bad about other people just because they did once something bad to piss you off.
Be it on internet platforms or in puplic.
You can talk about it with your friends or with family members, and maybe even some coworkers. No problem.
And if it gets really ugly and nasty there a also certain hotlines you can vent.
But as long as it's not something were your reputation, job, health or life is on the line, YOU HAVE NO GOD DAMM RIGHT TO SPREAD THINGS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE FOR EVERYONE TO KNOW!
DEAR GOD!
WHAT A BUNCH OF SELF ENTITELED AND SELF RIGHTEOUS BRATS.
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Emilla_YT
Hey I doubt someone will respond but I came to this video about a specific online friend,
Lets call em Edda. I met Edda on roblox and now where rlly close friends after almost 2 yrs. But I often find myself being forced to push out other friends, and sometimes they kind of yell at me for the smallest things. I know its because they have anger issues, but I cant rlly confront them because its not there fault. they cant control the fact that there kinda inconsiderate on accident and have bad anger issues.
Then again, I dont feel like friends are supposed to tell you kill yourself for spelling there name wrong when they know your suicidal.
I dont think friends are supposed to force you to spend time with them.
I dont know.
Its not there fault.
But I just keep getting worse and not better.
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Hey I doubt someone will respond but I came to this video about a specific online friend,
Lets call em Edda. I met Edda on roblox and now where rlly close friends after almost 2 yrs. But I often find myself being forced to push out other friends, and sometimes they kind of yell at me for the smallest things. I know its because they have anger issues, but I cant rlly confront them because its not there fault. they cant control the fact that there kinda inconsiderate on accident and have bad anger issues.
Then again, I dont feel like friends are supposed to tell you kill yourself for spelling there name wrong when they know your suicidal.
I dont think friends are supposed to force you to spend time with them.
I dont know.
Its not there fault.
But I just keep getting worse and not better.
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adam
Got friendly with gay guy at a chippy doing deliveries he was kindest person I met in ages but after few months never seen him again contacted his family I never met other friends I know of his asking what happened to him as dont use social media got told he works on British airways. Had a call from him recently he was shocked with what I did said has not fallen out with me saying Iam a good friend to him just to leave his family working business alone in future also not had chance to give him my number should have wrote to him ages ago but have now apologising for my actions and have written to him again that its best to end our friendship as dont think its going to work out. Anyone agree or not as know it was totally selfish what I did to him or just feel like it was waste of time knowing him
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Got friendly with gay guy at a chippy doing deliveries he was kindest person I met in ages but after few months never seen him again contacted his family I never met other friends I know of his asking what happened to him as dont use social media got told he works on British airways. Had a call from him recently he was shocked with what I did said has not fallen out with me saying Iam a good friend to him just to leave his family working business alone in future also not had chance to give him my number should have wrote to him ages ago but have now apologising for my actions and have written to him again that its best to end our friendship as dont think its going to work out. Anyone agree or not as know it was totally selfish what I did to him or just feel like it was waste of time knowing him
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Sunny
I really just see my friend when we're at school, I wanted to hang out on the last day of school but she went home. (I had one week before moving away) She said we'd do a lot of fun stuff this week together and I was happy. She didn't bother to move her schedule, she wanted to hang out with her bf who she talks shit about to be but is all cutesy on social media. We didn't hang out this week. My other friend from school met me even though it was the day before she was going to travel and that really warmed my heart. Sometimes I think my expectations are too high for her but idk man. With other friends I never hate that problem. I am moving back and probably going to that school where she is, same grade. I don't know if I want to be friends with her.
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I really just see my friend when we're at school, I wanted to hang out on the last day of school but she went home. (I had one week before moving away) She said we'd do a lot of fun stuff this week together and I was happy. She didn't bother to move her schedule, she wanted to hang out with her bf who she talks shit about to be but is all cutesy on social media. We didn't hang out this week. My other friend from school met me even though it was the day before she was going to travel and that really warmed my heart. Sometimes I think my expectations are too high for her but idk man. With other friends I never hate that problem. I am moving back and probably going to that school where she is, same grade. I don't know if I want to be friends with her.
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CHARLES
Here is what I tell my subs going the other way--why you should end a friendship. Many times people simply change--you aren't at 35 what you were at 20 and maybe you have nothing in common. Or maybe the person is toxic or in my case we both were and I changed and left a few behind from my old life. But it comes down to this. Do you dread seeing the person and are relieved when you leave? Toxic. Are they a substance abuser? Leave if they won't quit it. Do they carry positivity or negativity with them. If negative--leave. Finally--do they enhance your life? If no then leave. The leaving part is only an uncomfortable few minutes. The relief is long term. Hope that helps---Charles
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Here is what I tell my subs going the other way--why you should end a friendship. Many times people simply change--you aren't at 35 what you were at 20 and maybe you have nothing in common. Or maybe the person is toxic or in my case we both were and I changed and left a few behind from my old life. But it comes down to this. Do you dread seeing the person and are relieved when you leave? Toxic. Are they a substance abuser? Leave if they won't quit it. Do they carry positivity or negativity with them. If negative--leave. Finally--do they enhance your life? If no then leave. The leaving part is only an uncomfortable few minutes. The relief is long term. Hope that helps---Charles
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TastySmores
Well i ended friendships so many times and now i cant prove that i changed. I misunderstood them because they always hanged out with other people and i felt replaced. And now we act like strangers and now its that phase when your lonely again. I mean i still socialise with people around me but it hurts when u see your own best friends hanging out with someone else. And when theres a group project or pair work you have to find somebody to work with instead of easily going to your best friends. Ive said sorry so many times to them but they just ignore me. But like i moved on and im focusing on myself now. It still sucks but thats reality
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Well i ended friendships so many times and now i cant prove that i changed. I misunderstood them because they always hanged out with other people and i felt replaced. And now we act like strangers and now its that phase when your lonely again. I mean i still socialise with people around me but it hurts when u see your own best friends hanging out with someone else. And when theres a group project or pair work you have to find somebody to work with instead of easily going to your best friends. Ive said sorry so many times to them but they just ignore me. But like i moved on and im focusing on myself now. It still sucks but thats reality
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Jevy
im a horrible friend. i left when he was still trying to fix himself but i left bc i was hurting.
he vents to me a lot bc i allowed him but it seems like i over estimated myself of how much i could handle. i thought i could help him handle his burden but all i did was left in the end.
i couldve talked to him about it and how it was affevting me but im a fcking idiot and just left w/o saying anything.
its already been 4 months and ive been wanting to talk to him agains so badly and apologize and walk beside him once again but i feel too ashamed to go back.
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im a horrible friend. i left when he was still trying to fix himself but i left bc i was hurting.
he vents to me a lot bc i allowed him but it seems like i over estimated myself of how much i could handle. i thought i could help him handle his burden but all i did was left in the end.
i couldve talked to him about it and how it was affevting me but im a fcking idiot and just left w/o saying anything.
its already been 4 months and ive been wanting to talk to him agains so badly and apologize and walk beside him once again but i feel too ashamed to go back.
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education
I dont really know what to do with this
I want to use it but my best friend (who is an online friend) is going through something and decided to distance himself permanently, the only reason he expressed to me was that he lost the spark
I want to be there to help him, i thought I could be there to help, and I cant force him to stay, but I wish he had kept me around, i wish we could be there for eachother and that maybe later on in life we can reconect, but at the same time I wonder if that is whats best for him and I
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I dont really know what to do with this
I want to use it but my best friend (who is an online friend) is going through something and decided to distance himself permanently, the only reason he expressed to me was that he lost the spark
I want to be there to help him, i thought I could be there to help, and I cant force him to stay, but I wish he had kept me around, i wish we could be there for eachother and that maybe later on in life we can reconect, but at the same time I wonder if that is whats best for him and I
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Alice
I really like my friend. I met her when her 'friend' was being rude to her and hurt her feelings. (won't get into any details for privacy) We were having a great time, but then she felt bad for her 'friend', bc she seemed lonely. They became friends again and her 'friend' told her multiple times that she should just drop me. Now her 'friend' is making her choose between her or me. I want to leave the friendship bc she (her friend) makes me unhappy & insecure but I don't want to loose my real friend and hurt her feelings.
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I really like my friend. I met her when her 'friend' was being rude to her and hurt her feelings. (won't get into any details for privacy) We were having a great time, but then she felt bad for her 'friend', bc she seemed lonely. They became friends again and her 'friend' told her multiple times that she should just drop me. Now her 'friend' is making her choose between her or me. I want to leave the friendship bc she (her friend) makes me unhappy & insecure but I don't want to loose my real friend and hurt her feelings.
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Sirius
Can some please reply to me!
I have a best friend that is always with me the thing is shes a bit clingy and I have to fake who I am around her but theres another girl Im friends with and I can be myself around and we both have the same sense of humor now I dont know how to end our friendship to go with the another girl or if I should even end it and ive been stressing for many days about it! Im even nervous if the clingy girl will be really annoyed at me I mean Ill still have to see her everyday at school!
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Can some please reply to me!
I have a best friend that is always with me the thing is shes a bit clingy and I have to fake who I am around her but theres another girl Im friends with and I can be myself around and we both have the same sense of humor now I dont know how to end our friendship to go with the another girl or if I should even end it and ive been stressing for many days about it! Im even nervous if the clingy girl will be really annoyed at me I mean Ill still have to see her everyday at school!
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Silver
Between my friends and me:
1. There is no communication
2. They are busy not much but avoid being with me.
3. I wanna works things out i don't think they want to.
4. Idc what ppl say.
5. They can bring me joy, but soon make me so angry and overwhelming
6. We are seniors in high school, so they are studying for careers.
7. They disconnect with me if i am going ahead
8. They are selfish and don't care about me or the days that are imp to me.
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Between my friends and me:
1. There is no communication
2. They are busy not much but avoid being with me.
3. I wanna works things out i don't think they want to.
4. Idc what ppl say.
5. They can bring me joy, but soon make me so angry and overwhelming
6. We are seniors in high school, so they are studying for careers.
7. They disconnect with me if i am going ahead
8. They are selfish and don't care about me or the days that are imp to me.
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RGD
I have one single problem. My best friend/ex best friend, want to talk to me soo much in class with me. He doesn't want me to sit with someone else cause he's insecure. But when it comes to break time. He ignores me completely and runs outta the class to meet his other friend who he goes out with everyday. I asked him if he wannna hang out but he said hes staying home. When i was coming out and just walking around i saw him with his other friend. Yk it hurts me alot
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I have one single problem. My best friend/ex best friend, want to talk to me soo much in class with me. He doesn't want me to sit with someone else cause he's insecure. But when it comes to break time. He ignores me completely and runs outta the class to meet his other friend who he goes out with everyday. I asked him if he wannna hang out but he said hes staying home. When i was coming out and just walking around i saw him with his other friend. Yk it hurts me alot
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Suada
oh bro i have a friend who i love so dearly, but she makes me go crazy. We always argue and i dont understand why i try to tell her about my situation, but sometimes i feel like she has a selective hearing. And then that little miss communication becomes a huge argument. It takes alot of my energy and hers. Lately i feel like our friendship has come to an end. But, then again some leave and new ones come. Circle of life
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oh bro i have a friend who i love so dearly, but she makes me go crazy. We always argue and i dont understand why i try to tell her about my situation, but sometimes i feel like she has a selective hearing. And then that little miss communication becomes a huge argument. It takes alot of my energy and hers. Lately i feel like our friendship has come to an end. But, then again some leave and new ones come. Circle of life
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imnothere
Even long friendships have an expiration date. Be thankful for memories and move one, dont start argumeents on nothing just fade away and better yourself. Cut ties with best friends ive known for +20 years. lonliness can help you grow up more and know what you deserve, also these friendships shape you more to what will come next in life. :) stay positive and just live in the moment not in the past
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Even long friendships have an expiration date. Be thankful for memories and move one, dont start argumeents on nothing just fade away and better yourself. Cut ties with best friends ive known for +20 years. lonliness can help you grow up more and know what you deserve, also these friendships shape you more to what will come next in life. :) stay positive and just live in the moment not in the past
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Shadow
I have a few friends I haven't been able to see very often - like only every 6 months - since my family moved across the country. We're still friendly to each other when we do talk and clearly appreciate each other, but it's not very often, and even when we could be texting we just don't. I'm not sure whether to just let them go or reach out and talk to them more simply about how life's going.
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I have a few friends I haven't been able to see very often - like only every 6 months - since my family moved across the country. We're still friendly to each other when we do talk and clearly appreciate each other, but it's not very often, and even when we could be texting we just don't. I'm not sure whether to just let them go or reach out and talk to them more simply about how life's going.
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yu
I had a really nice friendship, but it all drifted away when i talked to him about my mental health, and just gave him updates when i was just getting better. And told him that things needed to change between us (setting boundaries) He blocked me, and said that he wasn't responsible for it. and that was it. i always think it was a misunderstanding, but i really wish him the best of luck.
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I had a really nice friendship, but it all drifted away when i talked to him about my mental health, and just gave him updates when i was just getting better. And told him that things needed to change between us (setting boundaries) He blocked me, and said that he wasn't responsible for it. and that was it. i always think it was a misunderstanding, but i really wish him the best of luck.
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Camilo
but there is this kid ik and she just calls me her bestfriend and is kinda touchy and annoying she always hugs me and not to be rude has REALLY bad breath
she sometimes even treats me like a god
Ex: she always gives me her food in lunch even when i refuse
she trys to carry my stuff and sometimes even take stuff from my hand to carry it for me
etc.
its just annoying
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but there is this kid ik and she just calls me her bestfriend and is kinda touchy and annoying she always hugs me and not to be rude has REALLY bad breath
she sometimes even treats me like a god
Ex: she always gives me her food in lunch even when i refuse
she trys to carry my stuff and sometimes even take stuff from my hand to carry it for me
etc.
its just annoying
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rory
I have a friend who always is there for me and always listens and always knows what to say to make me feel better, but she wont open up to me at all. And I know it's bc she's afraid of being hurt, but i want to be there for her and shes not letting me, its not her fault at all but i dont want to make her feel bad if I bring it up
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I have a friend who always is there for me and always listens and always knows what to say to make me feel better, but she wont open up to me at all. And I know it's bc she's afraid of being hurt, but i want to be there for her and shes not letting me, its not her fault at all but i dont want to make her feel bad if I bring it up
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marry
Y'all ever sat down and realized how bad you are, and no matter how much you try to change for the better. You always end up failing and hurting your friends again? It's so frustrating. I am so frustrating dang. That's why I'm thinking if I should just end it so I won't hurt them even more.
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Y'all ever sat down and realized how bad you are, and no matter how much you try to change for the better. You always end up failing and hurting your friends again? It's so frustrating. I am so frustrating dang. That's why I'm thinking if I should just end it so I won't hurt them even more.
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