8 Reasons To Break Up With Someone
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Date: 2023-08-20
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M.
I entered the relationship being a teenager and stuff. We had a more solid begging than most teenager couples. Things went awry, we talked them. We made wonderful memories. However, I'm the insecure oke in the relationship (at first, it was him but I gave him all of my love and support. I learned to not care so much about the little bad things and enjoy the little good things. I ignored too many little things, which got bigger because of my insecurities and i lost interest, started seeing him less attractive, et et. I communicated about it a little, but kept most of my guilt inside. In a month, it explodedand together with the dependency issues I had gained recently. I didn't want to dump all the bad shit on him so I broke up. Thing is, you should give it your all in a relationship and if it doesn't work, then break up. After breaking up, I feel so guilty for not giving it a try, but I thought I had been a terrible girlfriend, that i should prioritie my studies etc etc. Lie. s. a good relationship can be maintained alongside everything. I was just making excuses. I lied to myself and now dealing with the consequences. I don't want pity, but to warn you all. But also, don't say in a relationship because you feel obligated. Also, a piece of advice won't fit all couples. You gotta search your Truth
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I entered the relationship being a teenager and stuff. We had a more solid begging than most teenager couples. Things went awry, we talked them. We made wonderful memories. However, I'm the insecure oke in the relationship (at first, it was him but I gave him all of my love and support. I learned to not care so much about the little bad things and enjoy the little good things. I ignored too many little things, which got bigger because of my insecurities and i lost interest, started seeing him less attractive, et et. I communicated about it a little, but kept most of my guilt inside. In a month, it explodedand together with the dependency issues I had gained recently. I didn't want to dump all the bad shit on him so I broke up. Thing is, you should give it your all in a relationship and if it doesn't work, then break up. After breaking up, I feel so guilty for not giving it a try, but I thought I had been a terrible girlfriend, that i should prioritie my studies etc etc. Lie. s. a good relationship can be maintained alongside everything. I was just making excuses. I lied to myself and now dealing with the consequences. I don't want pity, but to warn you all. But also, don't say in a relationship because you feel obligated. Also, a piece of advice won't fit all couples. You gotta search your Truth
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Teumessian
I truly dont even know why Im still in this relationship. Even before we were dating, I was the only one making an effort in our friendship. I know almost everything about him, but hes never asked me anything. He has no clue what my interests are. I confused the constant struggle to get to know him + being around him so often, as feelings. If I dont start the conversation, there wont be one at all. Hes kind at times, but not very conscientious. Its more like cluelessness/unawareness. Hes also pointed out features about my body, such as my face and weight (Im 110lb and 55. I feel like they arent insults, but he just points them out like wow youre really heavy or yeah those are just the scars(when someone said I had something on my face. I have no idea how to set boundaries and I feel like the one in the wrong for not letting him know whats bugging me. I really dont know what to make of whats going on. I hope I can figure it out soon though.
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I truly dont even know why Im still in this relationship. Even before we were dating, I was the only one making an effort in our friendship. I know almost everything about him, but hes never asked me anything. He has no clue what my interests are. I confused the constant struggle to get to know him + being around him so often, as feelings. If I dont start the conversation, there wont be one at all. Hes kind at times, but not very conscientious. Its more like cluelessness/unawareness. Hes also pointed out features about my body, such as my face and weight (Im 110lb and 55. I feel like they arent insults, but he just points them out like wow youre really heavy or yeah those are just the scars(when someone said I had something on my face. I have no idea how to set boundaries and I feel like the one in the wrong for not letting him know whats bugging me. I really dont know what to make of whats going on. I hope I can figure it out soon though.
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Lou
As soon as the summer was over and school started again we drifted apart. He had many other interests, and he would rather be out partying. When we were together he was almost always annoyed and after he broke up with me he never gave an explanation and invited me to a party at his home. Here he forced me to listen as he told his cousin that we were broken up and when we said goodbye he was so cold and careless. After I had gotten home from his place which takes three hours he wrote if was home safe and I of course replied and took it as a sign he would stay in touch. Now he never texts me but always replies to my texts. But after that text where he made sure I got home he seemed so angry all the time. I kind of get it since he was busy and being heartbroken was not something he had time for. We have this shared playlist on Spotify see comment
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As soon as the summer was over and school started again we drifted apart. He had many other interests, and he would rather be out partying. When we were together he was almost always annoyed and after he broke up with me he never gave an explanation and invited me to a party at his home. Here he forced me to listen as he told his cousin that we were broken up and when we said goodbye he was so cold and careless. After I had gotten home from his place which takes three hours he wrote if was home safe and I of course replied and took it as a sign he would stay in touch. Now he never texts me but always replies to my texts. But after that text where he made sure I got home he seemed so angry all the time. I kind of get it since he was busy and being heartbroken was not something he had time for. We have this shared playlist on Spotify see comment
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Chikenology
I havent felt what is like to be adored or love by someone who I love so much. Everytime I felt so alone even though I have them around, mybe bc lack of effort or hes just genuinely not interested in me at all. I need someone to tell me what I should do, I cant see myself doing this for a long period of time, Ive tried to call it quits several times but he just keep on giving me big hopes and promises. I still couldnt feel the happiness although weve been together for a quite long time on and off. Everytime he made a mistake, hell gives me more promises and hope, and eventually the cycle keep repeating. I feel depressed and really sad, Im currently struggling with my mental health and school, hes done nothing but making it worse. Please help
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I havent felt what is like to be adored or love by someone who I love so much. Everytime I felt so alone even though I have them around, mybe bc lack of effort or hes just genuinely not interested in me at all. I need someone to tell me what I should do, I cant see myself doing this for a long period of time, Ive tried to call it quits several times but he just keep on giving me big hopes and promises. I still couldnt feel the happiness although weve been together for a quite long time on and off. Everytime he made a mistake, hell gives me more promises and hope, and eventually the cycle keep repeating. I feel depressed and really sad, Im currently struggling with my mental health and school, hes done nothing but making it worse. Please help
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Amblehhh
Im so confused. My partner has been so caring, really supportive and all that. I heard from my friends that hes so happy to be with me. He was my ex, i broke up with him and confessed again. So were trying again. I thought it would be different but. i feel suffocated, obligated to make him a part of my priority. Hes not saying anything bad at all. Im the problem. I think I cant handle relationships yet esp because this is ldr too. I dont wanna break ip with him again cuz i dont want to hurt him. He deserves so much but. idk why i feel this way.
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Im so confused. My partner has been so caring, really supportive and all that. I heard from my friends that hes so happy to be with me. He was my ex, i broke up with him and confessed again. So were trying again. I thought it would be different but. i feel suffocated, obligated to make him a part of my priority. Hes not saying anything bad at all. Im the problem. I think I cant handle relationships yet esp because this is ldr too. I dont wanna break ip with him again cuz i dont want to hurt him. He deserves so much but. idk why i feel this way.
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Labrador
Chloe called me 'Clumsy-Boots',
And Claire said I was dim.
Cheryl took me by the hand,
Then tore me limb from limb.
Cindy thought my handiwork
Left much to be desired,
While Cherry sent me up the creek -
The paddle long retired.
Cathy smashed the dinner plates,
And Connie threw a cup!
Christine bought me jockey shorts,
So Clara cut them up.
One day I'll find a kinder girl
Who sees the kinder 'me':
A lady with a heart of gold.
(Whose name begins with 'C')
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Chloe called me 'Clumsy-Boots',
And Claire said I was dim.
Cheryl took me by the hand,
Then tore me limb from limb.
Cindy thought my handiwork
Left much to be desired,
While Cherry sent me up the creek -
The paddle long retired.
Cathy smashed the dinner plates,
And Connie threw a cup!
Christine bought me jockey shorts,
So Clara cut them up.
One day I'll find a kinder girl
Who sees the kinder 'me':
A lady with a heart of gold.
(Whose name begins with 'C')
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JakeCherry97
This video was an eye opener for me and was one of these, that helped me end toxic relationship I've been in, but I have done that far too late and I feel my mental health has already been damaged as my psychiatrist has diagnosed me with social anxiety soon after my breakup. I hate my ex for what he was doing to me, especially playing on my emotions and psyching me out. I think I should break up with him far long ago when he cheated on me.
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This video was an eye opener for me and was one of these, that helped me end toxic relationship I've been in, but I have done that far too late and I feel my mental health has already been damaged as my psychiatrist has diagnosed me with social anxiety soon after my breakup. I hate my ex for what he was doing to me, especially playing on my emotions and psyching me out. I think I should break up with him far long ago when he cheated on me.
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Yurinxx
I have to admit, I have been staying away quite a bit, but she just gets too close to me. I had a sleepover party, I was really tired so I went to sleep, and I told everyone to give me privacy, but she came in ever 2 minutes, and I was just trying to sleep, I have some thing that makes it so I cant be tired, I explained that to her, but she didnt care
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I have to admit, I have been staying away quite a bit, but she just gets too close to me. I had a sleepover party, I was really tired so I went to sleep, and I told everyone to give me privacy, but she came in ever 2 minutes, and I was just trying to sleep, I have some thing that makes it so I cant be tired, I explained that to her, but she didnt care
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Mia
Anytime I express my hurt feelings, no matter how I try to present it, I always end up wrong, hung up on, and ghosted. Sometimes Im the one apologizing based off of having my feelings hurt. Im tired. I even found him messaging a girl who didnt know me, calling me toxic and he told her that he appreciated herhes never said he appreciated me for anything
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Anytime I express my hurt feelings, no matter how I try to present it, I always end up wrong, hung up on, and ghosted. Sometimes Im the one apologizing based off of having my feelings hurt. Im tired. I even found him messaging a girl who didnt know me, calling me toxic and he told her that he appreciated herhes never said he appreciated me for anything
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Yurinxx
I used to want to be an actor, but then my girlfriend told me I cant act, or sing or do anything and that she was better than me. I gave up and now I have decided to become a surgeon, digital artist and animator! She told me, stop being unrealistic and think of real dreams, she said to me, Be a painter and stop these unrealistic dreams!
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I used to want to be an actor, but then my girlfriend told me I cant act, or sing or do anything and that she was better than me. I gave up and now I have decided to become a surgeon, digital artist and animator! She told me, stop being unrealistic and think of real dreams, she said to me, Be a painter and stop these unrealistic dreams!
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education
Number 7 really hit home for me, it was the reason I had to end things between me and my now Ex. The hardest part is now dealing with missing that relationship and those emotions and feelings and even worse was they thought we were doing great, better than ever. Which only screamed more to me how they didnt recognize the relationship.
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Number 7 really hit home for me, it was the reason I had to end things between me and my now Ex. The hardest part is now dealing with missing that relationship and those emotions and feelings and even worse was they thought we were doing great, better than ever. Which only screamed more to me how they didnt recognize the relationship.
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Yukta
However I don't see any of this signs in my case still i don't want to stay with him. Because for the first time in my mind I decided to choose myself over somebody else and I wish this decision of my life will worth it.
It's hard it's really tough to leave someone you love but still loving your mental healthis way more important
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However I don't see any of this signs in my case still i don't want to stay with him. Because for the first time in my mind I decided to choose myself over somebody else and I wish this decision of my life will worth it.
It's hard it's really tough to leave someone you love but still loving your mental healthis way more important
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hqnqko
i want to break up with them, not bc theyre mean to me (they kind of are) but more like im mean to them and dont want them to deal with someone who doesnt love them back, its not healthy to hv a relationship thays only one sided but i cant do it yet, i dont love her and i dont want to spend the rest of my life with her as lovers,
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i want to break up with them, not bc theyre mean to me (they kind of are) but more like im mean to them and dont want them to deal with someone who doesnt love them back, its not healthy to hv a relationship thays only one sided but i cant do it yet, i dont love her and i dont want to spend the rest of my life with her as lovers,
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Buffs
Definitely disagree with #2. Unless your health is being seriously impacted by something, don't try to change someone's habits that they more than likely had before they met you. They need to want to do it on their own, not with nagging or manipulation. If you don't approve of their habits, don't start dating them to begin with.
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Definitely disagree with #2. Unless your health is being seriously impacted by something, don't try to change someone's habits that they more than likely had before they met you. They need to want to do it on their own, not with nagging or manipulation. If you don't approve of their habits, don't start dating them to begin with.
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Tavkitty
For me, it's not that I don't love them, I love being their friend and I love hanging out with them. But as a friend, I want some time to figure out myself and my mental health and I need to focus on myself and I can't do that when I'm dating someone no matter how hard I try because I'll put them over myself.
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For me, it's not that I don't love them, I love being their friend and I love hanging out with them. But as a friend, I want some time to figure out myself and my mental health and I need to focus on myself and I can't do that when I'm dating someone no matter how hard I try because I'll put them over myself.
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psych2go
I broke up with my partner cause I felt we weren't good for each other. We didn't talk as much as we used to, and we never really did talk about anything important. Just cuddled and kissed but that was it. I really care about her, but I just felt we weren't good for one another. Did I do the right thing?
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I broke up with my partner cause I felt we weren't good for each other. We didn't talk as much as we used to, and we never really did talk about anything important. Just cuddled and kissed but that was it. I really care about her, but I just felt we weren't good for one another. Did I do the right thing?
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Riley
The 5th reason is the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend today, we went from talking hours a day to them sending me a message or 2 a day, and he never spends time with me anymore and I tried to get him to spend more time with me but he refuses to make the effort
Edit: we are just friends now
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The 5th reason is the reason why I broke up with my boyfriend today, we went from talking hours a day to them sending me a message or 2 a day, and he never spends time with me anymore and I tried to get him to spend more time with me but he refuses to make the effort
Edit: we are just friends now
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Angelika
2 and 5 pass to my current relationship. I considered breaking up a few times because I feel like hes nit making me his priority. But he still shows me that he loves me and we have fun together, so I dont know what to do. Its like a 50/50 situation and I dont know if Im more happy or sad anymore
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2 and 5 pass to my current relationship. I considered breaking up a few times because I feel like hes nit making me his priority. But he still shows me that he loves me and we have fun together, so I dont know what to do. Its like a 50/50 situation and I dont know if Im more happy or sad anymore
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Jackson
My gf broke up with me today because she thought our different personalities would cause our relationship to crash and burn. I respect it, but she is taking it a little too seriously. She decided to block me for a week and said we might still be friends but it depends on a variety of factors.
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My gf broke up with me today because she thought our different personalities would cause our relationship to crash and burn. I respect it, but she is taking it a little too seriously. She decided to block me for a week and said we might still be friends but it depends on a variety of factors.
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6OPHIA
At this point Im expecting to cry about my relationship everyday because I feel left out constantly. I gave them 2 chances and Im giving them their 3rd now. Im gonna give them a letter, and talk about it more with them in person. If they dont change what theyre doing after a week, Im done.
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At this point Im expecting to cry about my relationship everyday because I feel left out constantly. I gave them 2 chances and Im giving them their 3rd now. Im gonna give them a letter, and talk about it more with them in person. If they dont change what theyre doing after a week, Im done.
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Hannah
Multiple reasons. 1. I graduate in a year from college, and he will soon be in a nursing home due to severe disability.
2. With that, I feel we drift away from each other. He talks about video games, and I talk about reality.
As soon I finish and move on, he goes.
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Multiple reasons. 1. I graduate in a year from college, and he will soon be in a nursing home due to severe disability.
2. With that, I feel we drift away from each other. He talks about video games, and I talk about reality.
As soon I finish and move on, he goes.
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WallStreet
Number 2 is not a good one. This concept of someone having to change Can lead to controlling and manipulating with ultimatums. Honestly, if you tell someone you like or love them and then hand them a list of things to change, you probably arent really into them.
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Number 2 is not a good one. This concept of someone having to change Can lead to controlling and manipulating with ultimatums. Honestly, if you tell someone you like or love them and then hand them a list of things to change, you probably arent really into them.
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lemonshark
9. they aren't ready for a relationship
. this hurts. the love of my life and I had to break up, because he wasn't ready for a relationship after all. he gets the needed help, I'll be there for him and. we might have a chance in the future.
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9. they aren't ready for a relationship
. this hurts. the love of my life and I had to break up, because he wasn't ready for a relationship after all. he gets the needed help, I'll be there for him and. we might have a chance in the future.
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blossomcutegem
I love my boyfriend. But I feel like sometimes I he doesnt love me. I really feel like I need to break up with him. But its gonna hurt me so much if I do. He is constantly hurting my feelings and all we do is fight. What should I do?
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I love my boyfriend. But I feel like sometimes I he doesnt love me. I really feel like I need to break up with him. But its gonna hurt me so much if I do. He is constantly hurting my feelings and all we do is fight. What should I do?
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marley
The guy Im dating doesnt compliment me unless he is calling me hot or compliment my butt, I dont want a relationship like that. I want a guy that will open the door for me compliment me as a person. but I dont know how to break up with him
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The guy Im dating doesnt compliment me unless he is calling me hot or compliment my butt, I dont want a relationship like that. I want a guy that will open the door for me compliment me as a person. but I dont know how to break up with him
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