6 Signs You're Incompatible With Someone
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Date: 2023-08-20
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oreo
I broke up with my boyfriend today and the last one about not being able to tolerate them showed that were just not for each other.
Ive dated this guy on and off for three years. I had a crush on him three years till he asked me out.
Hes cheated on me multiple times. I forgave him. But today was the last straw. Hed continuously contact his ex girlfriends when I expressed to him that I felt uncomfortable.
Trust was broken and I shouldve left him already. He cheated on me with one of his exes, so I no longer could believe him. I became full of jealousy. Things were going well for a while, but one day he just decided to contact all his exes.
I was super patient with him. Every time I was angry, I became calm and talked nicely to him. But I couldnt handle it anymore. I was like a ticking time bomb. I exploded today.
He told me while he was contact his exes that this would be my test. A test to see if I could trust him. I dont think its ever right to test your significant other. Especially if youve been told multiple times that they feel uncomfortable about something. He never cared about how I felt.
So then, I broke it off. Three years all gone. Wasted it all.
Its so weird hearing him say that he feels guilty for putting me through this. Only if he cared while we dated. He took advantage of me.
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I broke up with my boyfriend today and the last one about not being able to tolerate them showed that were just not for each other.
Ive dated this guy on and off for three years. I had a crush on him three years till he asked me out.
Hes cheated on me multiple times. I forgave him. But today was the last straw. Hed continuously contact his ex girlfriends when I expressed to him that I felt uncomfortable.
Trust was broken and I shouldve left him already. He cheated on me with one of his exes, so I no longer could believe him. I became full of jealousy. Things were going well for a while, but one day he just decided to contact all his exes.
I was super patient with him. Every time I was angry, I became calm and talked nicely to him. But I couldnt handle it anymore. I was like a ticking time bomb. I exploded today.
He told me while he was contact his exes that this would be my test. A test to see if I could trust him. I dont think its ever right to test your significant other. Especially if youve been told multiple times that they feel uncomfortable about something. He never cared about how I felt.
So then, I broke it off. Three years all gone. Wasted it all.
Its so weird hearing him say that he feels guilty for putting me through this. Only if he cared while we dated. He took advantage of me.
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Leah
I have a friend who I believe I am incompatible with and they are possibly a toxic person, I've been trying to end the relationship for a while now, but our other friend who believes that we should still be friends always comes in and fixes everything between me and her. I've told them that our relationship isn't meant to be, but they still try to fix things anyways. This has been going on for so long and I am so desperate to end the relationship that I have been trying to start arguments between me and her to try and end the relationship, but as if that wasn't bad enough SHE also trys to apologize to me. Once I told her I was done, I avoided her at all costs, but that only lasted like 2 days because she kept chasing me and telling me she was sorry, between my other friend trying to get us back together and he apologizing I just gave up. What should I do?
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I have a friend who I believe I am incompatible with and they are possibly a toxic person, I've been trying to end the relationship for a while now, but our other friend who believes that we should still be friends always comes in and fixes everything between me and her. I've told them that our relationship isn't meant to be, but they still try to fix things anyways. This has been going on for so long and I am so desperate to end the relationship that I have been trying to start arguments between me and her to try and end the relationship, but as if that wasn't bad enough SHE also trys to apologize to me. Once I told her I was done, I avoided her at all costs, but that only lasted like 2 days because she kept chasing me and telling me she was sorry, between my other friend trying to get us back together and he apologizing I just gave up. What should I do?
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PAY
I need help. I am a firm believer of the pandemic being real, and I think quarantine and social distancing are important. In contrast, he thinks that the pandemic is fake, and strict quarantine is not necessary. We had a couple of constructive debates on this issue. Theres no name calling and yelling but I start to feel tired. Tonight we talked about how Singapore was doing the quarantine for travellers-giving them wristband thats linked to an app so that the government is sure that the travellers are doing their quarantine. He asked me for my POV, and to which I said its necessary. Then he got upset, and he said he had no idea why someone would think thats okay. And he ended the phone call early.
Are we compatible? Im lost
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I need help. I am a firm believer of the pandemic being real, and I think quarantine and social distancing are important. In contrast, he thinks that the pandemic is fake, and strict quarantine is not necessary. We had a couple of constructive debates on this issue. Theres no name calling and yelling but I start to feel tired. Tonight we talked about how Singapore was doing the quarantine for travellers-giving them wristband thats linked to an app so that the government is sure that the travellers are doing their quarantine. He asked me for my POV, and to which I said its necessary. Then he got upset, and he said he had no idea why someone would think thats okay. And he ended the phone call early.
Are we compatible? Im lost
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Vanessa
It's been 1 month old since we're being a couple. He is my first boyfriend. For me it wasn't an easy journey, cause I found my self had a hard time to open to him. He's a straightforward person and I'm a very sensitive one. That makes me uncomfortable to show my true self, cause Im afraid of his judgment and his strong words that mostly can make me sad or even cry. I know he was just saying the truth, i already explain to him about this and he's been trying to fix that too. But why I still feel scared and other negative feeling? Am I just overthinking? Or is it too early to make a conclusion like this? And is it normal to feel boredom in the relationship by this early?
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It's been 1 month old since we're being a couple. He is my first boyfriend. For me it wasn't an easy journey, cause I found my self had a hard time to open to him. He's a straightforward person and I'm a very sensitive one. That makes me uncomfortable to show my true self, cause Im afraid of his judgment and his strong words that mostly can make me sad or even cry. I know he was just saying the truth, i already explain to him about this and he's been trying to fix that too. But why I still feel scared and other negative feeling? Am I just overthinking? Or is it too early to make a conclusion like this? And is it normal to feel boredom in the relationship by this early?
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yokuyoku
I have a friend. and I've recently started to realise that we are so different. like our values are different. we don't agree with each other. and we have quarrelled a lot. he always tries to make efforts in the friendship. on the other hand I have stopped doing that. it upsets him. but that's the truth even tho we might have known each other since childhood. we have an unhealthy friendship and I can't tolerate that anymore. and I know we are going to stop talking to each other one day without giving each other any explanation. I can just see it coming. And yes I just want him gone from my life. but he is not a bad person. That's just an incompatible friendship
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I have a friend. and I've recently started to realise that we are so different. like our values are different. we don't agree with each other. and we have quarrelled a lot. he always tries to make efforts in the friendship. on the other hand I have stopped doing that. it upsets him. but that's the truth even tho we might have known each other since childhood. we have an unhealthy friendship and I can't tolerate that anymore. and I know we are going to stop talking to each other one day without giving each other any explanation. I can just see it coming. And yes I just want him gone from my life. but he is not a bad person. That's just an incompatible friendship
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huffle
I find that me and my brother are really different but really simaler at the same time here are some examples: I wear super casual clothes and he wears suits and stuff one day I noticed that I was wearing black genes and he was wearing black suit pants I was wearing a jumper with a jacket over it and the hood over the jacket he was wearing a sweater vest with a blazer on and my shoes were black and his boots were black (like the points were in a triangle shape kid of like cowboy shoes) I like alternative rock and some times rerly metaish rock he listens to this alternative pop kind of thing and some times pop rock, pretty interesting stuff in my opinion.
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I find that me and my brother are really different but really simaler at the same time here are some examples: I wear super casual clothes and he wears suits and stuff one day I noticed that I was wearing black genes and he was wearing black suit pants I was wearing a jumper with a jacket over it and the hood over the jacket he was wearing a sweater vest with a blazer on and my shoes were black and his boots were black (like the points were in a triangle shape kid of like cowboy shoes) I like alternative rock and some times rerly metaish rock he listens to this alternative pop kind of thing and some times pop rock, pretty interesting stuff in my opinion.
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Sidewalk
hey I just had this great conversation with someone in class, I found out that we have a lot in common the conversation went great it has been a long time since I have found someone so in tune with myself i and I felt very happy but after ending the conversation and going home I've had this constant feeling of anxiety and embarrassment and impending fear that I came off too strong or that I had over shared
though college is coming and I have only a couple of months left a school I still want to make the most out of this newfound friendship
so how do I get rid of this bad feeling
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hey I just had this great conversation with someone in class, I found out that we have a lot in common the conversation went great it has been a long time since I have found someone so in tune with myself i and I felt very happy but after ending the conversation and going home I've had this constant feeling of anxiety and embarrassment and impending fear that I came off too strong or that I had over shared
though college is coming and I have only a couple of months left a school I still want to make the most out of this newfound friendship
so how do I get rid of this bad feeling
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Chic
Thank you for your great contents. I would like to suggest to you that you may want to improve your sound quality as in the way you voice over the videos. They are muffled and when you talk, sentences sounded stick together. I understand you are trying to do the soothing way of talking. But when is unclear, it may defeat the purpose. Not everybody watch YT videos with headphones, hence, when your video is on normal PC or Mac speaker, they all sounded muffled and unclear. Many thanks and keep up the good work. Cheerios.
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Thank you for your great contents. I would like to suggest to you that you may want to improve your sound quality as in the way you voice over the videos. They are muffled and when you talk, sentences sounded stick together. I understand you are trying to do the soothing way of talking. But when is unclear, it may defeat the purpose. Not everybody watch YT videos with headphones, hence, when your video is on normal PC or Mac speaker, they all sounded muffled and unclear. Many thanks and keep up the good work. Cheerios.
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serene
this is what I been saying to my boyfriend, we've been together for 3 months its so fast but we fight a lot and how we face the problems and fights really different
its sad bc I love him so much, but I been thinking about our indifference and I don't want him to change of who he is, I'm the calm one and yeah I'm so sad that I can't work this out with him, I want to stay with him long, forever even but I feel like we're not that compatible even tho he always said we are
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this is what I been saying to my boyfriend, we've been together for 3 months its so fast but we fight a lot and how we face the problems and fights really different
its sad bc I love him so much, but I been thinking about our indifference and I don't want him to change of who he is, I'm the calm one and yeah I'm so sad that I can't work this out with him, I want to stay with him long, forever even but I feel like we're not that compatible even tho he always said we are
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Lee
Unfortunately I don't think I'm compatible with anyone. I'm a pretty selfish person, and honestly I hate it. I want to change it and have tried, but I have no idea how to. I usually warn girls and tell them from the beginning that my selfishness can get in the way of my feelings and actions. I almost want to say it's not my fault because I truly want to change, but I'd be lying to myself.
I'm at the point now where I just avoid dating altogether so I don't hurt anyone.
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Unfortunately I don't think I'm compatible with anyone. I'm a pretty selfish person, and honestly I hate it. I want to change it and have tried, but I have no idea how to. I usually warn girls and tell them from the beginning that my selfishness can get in the way of my feelings and actions. I almost want to say it's not my fault because I truly want to change, but I'd be lying to myself.
I'm at the point now where I just avoid dating altogether so I don't hurt anyone.
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Naa
Im seeing a lot of comments saying Im incompatible with everyone!
Well Im glad to tell you all that if you think a little bit its our differences that unite us and make someone attractive
(not just romantically ) youre supposed to be incompatible so you can complete the other side of the other person. just my opinion
Good video though to help out couples that cant communicate anymore, Im just saying its not always bad!
Be safe yall
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Im seeing a lot of comments saying Im incompatible with everyone!
Well Im glad to tell you all that if you think a little bit its our differences that unite us and make someone attractive
(not just romantically ) youre supposed to be incompatible so you can complete the other side of the other person. just my opinion
Good video though to help out couples that cant communicate anymore, Im just saying its not always bad!
Be safe yall
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nevaeh: D
Me realizing my best friend and I are completely not compatible: but really I dont want to start drama but I might try and distance myself a little bc I dont really like being around her anymore even though I love her a lot of course. But I love to be around her just not for a long period of time like 3 days or with someone else around. Is it bad that I cant really hang out with my best friend and another person like that?
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Me realizing my best friend and I are completely not compatible: but really I dont want to start drama but I might try and distance myself a little bc I dont really like being around her anymore even though I love her a lot of course. But I love to be around her just not for a long period of time like 3 days or with someone else around. Is it bad that I cant really hang out with my best friend and another person like that?
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Mauricio
I feel like this happening to very slight degree with my dad, im trying to solve it and make him understand things of my interest that he doesnt like because hea so afraid of losing what he wants me to be. Hes one of those who thinks hes right, proud, a lot of prejudgement and doesnt accept much feedback from people.
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I feel like this happening to very slight degree with my dad, im trying to solve it and make him understand things of my interest that he doesnt like because hea so afraid of losing what he wants me to be. Hes one of those who thinks hes right, proud, a lot of prejudgement and doesnt accept much feedback from people.
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angelina
Omg that's literally the friendship I'm having with my BFF. she is the reckless one while I am the cold one. she is the early birdie and I'm the night owl. we always have trouble communicating and get in a lot of text fights. We used to be fine, the Quarantine has messed up everything.
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Omg that's literally the friendship I'm having with my BFF. she is the reckless one while I am the cold one. she is the early birdie and I'm the night owl. we always have trouble communicating and get in a lot of text fights. We used to be fine, the Quarantine has messed up everything.
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Gabby
My cousin and I dont get along when we argue (I pretend to not hold a grudge)
She is emotion driven and exxagerates what she says and lies too much.
I am more logical and try not to exaggerate.
She has normal parents
I have an abusive one.
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My cousin and I dont get along when we argue (I pretend to not hold a grudge)
She is emotion driven and exxagerates what she says and lies too much.
I am more logical and try not to exaggerate.
She has normal parents
I have an abusive one.
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Ain
We were compatible. until I lost myself and changed into a different person over the span of one year. And I'm exhausted. He keeps saying saka, and I kept telling him it's God, but then logic speaks to me and it might have just been us as incompatible.
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We were compatible. until I lost myself and changed into a different person over the span of one year. And I'm exhausted. He keeps saying saka, and I kept telling him it's God, but then logic speaks to me and it might have just been us as incompatible.
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Bibliophile_evonne
When that person just happens to be the sister youve been stuck with in quarantine and you dont even have your own room so you sleep on the floor of another cold room to avoid them because they piss you off if you simply hear them.
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When that person just happens to be the sister youve been stuck with in quarantine and you dont even have your own room so you sleep on the floor of another cold room to avoid them because they piss you off if you simply hear them.
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Cat
Omg so me being the cold one and my bff are the most incompatible ever but like we still trust each other and have fun being together even if we don't like and do the same things, we're always up to new activities
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Omg so me being the cold one and my bff are the most incompatible ever but like we still trust each other and have fun being together even if we don't like and do the same things, we're always up to new activities
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Sonicz
One of my parents is my exact opposite we don't have good conversations I'm extremely depressed so does not help. I can't take medications because underlying health condition and one is nor really fixable.
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One of my parents is my exact opposite we don't have good conversations I'm extremely depressed so does not help. I can't take medications because underlying health condition and one is nor really fixable.
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Davis85
This video really made me realized that my companion isnt compatible with me, same with the girl that wants to date me. Some people just like to waste time and stay in their comfort zone
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This video really made me realized that my companion isnt compatible with me, same with the girl that wants to date me. Some people just like to waste time and stay in their comfort zone
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You
if you think your incompatible then you PROBABLY are if you think your compatible then you PROBABLY are and if think its any of the middle spots AT ALL then those are PROBABLY accurate
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if you think your incompatible then you PROBABLY are if you think your compatible then you PROBABLY are and if think its any of the middle spots AT ALL then those are PROBABLY accurate
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Mr
I feel like all but the last of these problems can be overcome by just communication and understanding.
The last one being when the other person refuses to do that.
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I feel like all but the last of these problems can be overcome by just communication and understanding.
The last one being when the other person refuses to do that.
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Joy
Fighting is the way me and that person have fun.
We actually like arguing with each other because it's interesting.
Does that count or no?
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Fighting is the way me and that person have fun.
We actually like arguing with each other because it's interesting.
Does that count or no?
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You
in grade school you learn fact vs opinion and incompatibility compatibility and literally all of the middle spots did do and/or probably will VARY
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in grade school you learn fact vs opinion and incompatibility compatibility and literally all of the middle spots did do and/or probably will VARY
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