7 Signs You Lack Confidence
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Life
Because of my low self esteem it's really hard for me to go outside and play- I can't talk to people normally- when guests visit to my house I lock myself inside my room- even right now I'm sitting inside my room and locked myself- I don't really talk to my parents even if we're living in the same house- I don't have friends- I always look down whenever I'm at my school to avoid contact with students and teachers- lack of low self esteem also led me to score low marks in my exams- yesterday my class teacher asked me to call her in the phone cuz she wanted to talk to me I was nervous af- my hands were shaking- whenever I'm outside I never open my mask in front of anyone cuz I think that I'm really very ugly: (
I fail in every exam- I think I'm a Failure that's why I can't even make an eye contact with the toppers- I feel like I can't match my standards with them-: (
Life is really very hard for me
I can't look at myself in the mirror-
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Because of my low self esteem it's really hard for me to go outside and play- I can't talk to people normally- when guests visit to my house I lock myself inside my room- even right now I'm sitting inside my room and locked myself- I don't really talk to my parents even if we're living in the same house- I don't have friends- I always look down whenever I'm at my school to avoid contact with students and teachers- lack of low self esteem also led me to score low marks in my exams- yesterday my class teacher asked me to call her in the phone cuz she wanted to talk to me I was nervous af- my hands were shaking- whenever I'm outside I never open my mask in front of anyone cuz I think that I'm really very ugly: (
I fail in every exam- I think I'm a Failure that's why I can't even make an eye contact with the toppers- I feel like I can't match my standards with them-: (
Life is really very hard for me
I can't look at myself in the mirror-
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Ki11ua7_7_7
Dannnnngggggggg you got me good 1, 2, 4, 6, 7 all my problems 7 is the worst of all of my problems I have distance myself from my friends and family only people I hang with anymore is my two best friends and I only hang out with my friends once a week because they come at my house all day and won't leave until dinner one time one of my friends stayed outside of my house until 2 am when I finally invited her in it took me 16 hours to work up the bravery to let her in BTW I had a really hard week my nerve was dropped badly after getting embarrassed in front of the whole school
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Dannnnngggggggg you got me good 1, 2, 4, 6, 7 all my problems 7 is the worst of all of my problems I have distance myself from my friends and family only people I hang with anymore is my two best friends and I only hang out with my friends once a week because they come at my house all day and won't leave until dinner one time one of my friends stayed outside of my house until 2 am when I finally invited her in it took me 16 hours to work up the bravery to let her in BTW I had a really hard week my nerve was dropped badly after getting embarrassed in front of the whole school
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LogeyPerogi
Its hard for me to believe in myself and have confidence when, whenever I turn on my PS4 to play games or tell a joke or eat a snack, my sister makes me feel like Im a screwup
I dont have a girlfriend? Guess shes gotta make fun of that
I dont have a job currently? Youre just being lazy!
I like to talk about video game and movie lore? Youre a nerd that no one wants to talk to
Its hard to have confidence, when whenever you start to build it up, someone comes to break it down
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Its hard for me to believe in myself and have confidence when, whenever I turn on my PS4 to play games or tell a joke or eat a snack, my sister makes me feel like Im a screwup
I dont have a girlfriend? Guess shes gotta make fun of that
I dont have a job currently? Youre just being lazy!
I like to talk about video game and movie lore? Youre a nerd that no one wants to talk to
Its hard to have confidence, when whenever you start to build it up, someone comes to break it down
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sugalicious
Hey pls is it only me?
The 2nd one. I always used to find myself a friend to go anywhere even in my all the coachings I studied I had my best friend. but now it's the time of seperation. we are in 11th we all aren't in same stream so now I have to go to another coaching which is in main city and I'm fvkin crying cuz I'm litteraly afraid. I dunno why I'm scared I even cried for hours. I'm just so scared to be alone I dunno why it's 2am but I'm thinking how I'll survive tommorow
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Hey pls is it only me?
The 2nd one. I always used to find myself a friend to go anywhere even in my all the coachings I studied I had my best friend. but now it's the time of seperation. we are in 11th we all aren't in same stream so now I have to go to another coaching which is in main city and I'm fvkin crying cuz I'm litteraly afraid. I dunno why I'm scared I even cried for hours. I'm just so scared to be alone I dunno why it's 2am but I'm thinking how I'll survive tommorow
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Different
I was raised sheltered. I love being in my room playing video games but I notice that now that I'm much older, I have been trying to date and I have been noticing that I lack confidence. I find myself seeking validation from anyone I am talking to. If they don't reply to a text message then I will just start to fall apart and wonder if I am the problem. This video helped me realize where I am going wrong and I would love to put in the work to change that mind-set.
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I was raised sheltered. I love being in my room playing video games but I notice that now that I'm much older, I have been trying to date and I have been noticing that I lack confidence. I find myself seeking validation from anyone I am talking to. If they don't reply to a text message then I will just start to fall apart and wonder if I am the problem. This video helped me realize where I am going wrong and I would love to put in the work to change that mind-set.
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Protego
I was bullied all throughout my school years of 3rd-10th grade but when I tried reporting it to teachers they didn't believe me.
I had crying sessions in the bathroom nearly every day. My school figured something was wrong until after I self harmed they just talked to me and that was it, nothing was done. This destroyed my confidence, and to this day in my adult life I still find it really hard to talk to other people and live a life.
Sorry, vent over.
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I was bullied all throughout my school years of 3rd-10th grade but when I tried reporting it to teachers they didn't believe me.
I had crying sessions in the bathroom nearly every day. My school figured something was wrong until after I self harmed they just talked to me and that was it, nothing was done. This destroyed my confidence, and to this day in my adult life I still find it really hard to talk to other people and live a life.
Sorry, vent over.
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Shiva
My self-confidence is extremely low. well, not really, I mean, if I rate it, I would rate it a 2/10, at the most. I'm introverted, and I don't go out much, only to my college and back home because i see myself the ugliest person in the world, appearences wise, but that's just how I see myself, hints the low self confidence, but I'm accepting it and im not too concerned about how my family would feel about what i say because it's my opinion.
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My self-confidence is extremely low. well, not really, I mean, if I rate it, I would rate it a 2/10, at the most. I'm introverted, and I don't go out much, only to my college and back home because i see myself the ugliest person in the world, appearences wise, but that's just how I see myself, hints the low self confidence, but I'm accepting it and im not too concerned about how my family would feel about what i say because it's my opinion.
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Dr.
1 You have poor posture. Yes, I do that consciously. I feel it's less intimidating that way.
2 You don't go out alone? no.
3 You can't say no? no.
4 You seek validation from others? no.
5 You're indecisive? not really.
6 You don't prioritize self-care? yes. I'm making progress.
7 You isolate yourself? yes. well no.
Thanks for the video, now I understand why sometimes I get told I'm lacking confidence.
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1 You have poor posture. Yes, I do that consciously. I feel it's less intimidating that way.
2 You don't go out alone? no.
3 You can't say no? no.
4 You seek validation from others? no.
5 You're indecisive? not really.
6 You don't prioritize self-care? yes. I'm making progress.
7 You isolate yourself? yes. well no.
Thanks for the video, now I understand why sometimes I get told I'm lacking confidence.
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Xanderson
Its even more sad for men because we are supposed to be confident. I dont understand why I struggle so much with this. Im 22 and have extreme social anxiety. I can barely talk to anyone and I always feel like someone is watching me. When Im driving I feel like every single car is full of people staring at me and watching my every move. If I walk my dog I feel like every house is giant eyeballs looking at me
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Its even more sad for men because we are supposed to be confident. I dont understand why I struggle so much with this. Im 22 and have extreme social anxiety. I can barely talk to anyone and I always feel like someone is watching me. When Im driving I feel like every single car is full of people staring at me and watching my every move. If I walk my dog I feel like every house is giant eyeballs looking at me
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Nadine
My selfiteem for the past 8 years is like a dim light bulb or I also describe it as a dark room with a on in off switch that can't put any effort into turning it's light back on because the light bulbs dim and won't give off any light no matter how much or how little energy I put into trying to gain back confidence and selfiteem I just can't wake myself up and see the light
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My selfiteem for the past 8 years is like a dim light bulb or I also describe it as a dark room with a on in off switch that can't put any effort into turning it's light back on because the light bulbs dim and won't give off any light no matter how much or how little energy I put into trying to gain back confidence and selfiteem I just can't wake myself up and see the light
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what
Ive always been indecisive but as i got older and lost confidence i struggled with decision making as i always feared making the wrong decision and would use bad decisions to question my overall abilities. i still struggle with this but Im trying hard to not let my lack of confidence take over my life: ( thank you for this informative video: >
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Ive always been indecisive but as i got older and lost confidence i struggled with decision making as i always feared making the wrong decision and would use bad decisions to question my overall abilities. i still struggle with this but Im trying hard to not let my lack of confidence take over my life: ( thank you for this informative video: >
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OhItsKiki
Well I used to be like really shy I barely talked to anyone. Sooner I got more confident about myself but I got talkative- Well I always answer questions and is really loud and clumsy. Im afraid because some people say shy people are more attractive and better Which makes me insecure and yeah-
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Well I used to be like really shy I barely talked to anyone. Sooner I got more confident about myself but I got talkative- Well I always answer questions and is really loud and clumsy. Im afraid because some people say shy people are more attractive and better Which makes me insecure and yeah-
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elaine
Hi, Psych2Go! My name is Mellysa, I'm a highschool student, I'm fluent both in English and Indonesian, I'm interested to translate your videos into Indonesian so that fellow Indonesians can enjoy and get the impact of Psych2Go's videos! Where should I apply? Thank you!
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Hi, Psych2Go! My name is Mellysa, I'm a highschool student, I'm fluent both in English and Indonesian, I'm interested to translate your videos into Indonesian so that fellow Indonesians can enjoy and get the impact of Psych2Go's videos! Where should I apply? Thank you!
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elaine
Hi, Psych2Go! My name is Mellysa, I'm a highschool student, I'm fluent both in English and Indonesian, I'm interested to translate your videos into Indonesian so that fellow Indonesians can enjoy and get the impact of Psych2Go's videos! Where should I apply? Thank you!
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Hi, Psych2Go! My name is Mellysa, I'm a highschool student, I'm fluent both in English and Indonesian, I'm interested to translate your videos into Indonesian so that fellow Indonesians can enjoy and get the impact of Psych2Go's videos! Where should I apply? Thank you!
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WIANKAY
Third point is what i suffer most
Sometimes I go for someone even in fever condition.
I can't say no
But if I say no I doubt that I made a mistake by saying no.
I m 25 and jobless, no relationship, burden on parents, zero enthusiasm towards life.
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Third point is what i suffer most
Sometimes I go for someone even in fever condition.
I can't say no
But if I say no I doubt that I made a mistake by saying no.
I m 25 and jobless, no relationship, burden on parents, zero enthusiasm towards life.
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Ben
I don't think I have ever had confidence outside of spurts here and there for a day. When you hate yourself and feel as others look down on you or think you're ugly or unattractive it's hard when your perceptions are that you're never good enough.
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I don't think I have ever had confidence outside of spurts here and there for a day. When you hate yourself and feel as others look down on you or think you're ugly or unattractive it's hard when your perceptions are that you're never good enough.
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Abhishek
6 out of total are true for me
I don't like going out alone, my mom tell me not to wear the same t-shirt again, i keep myself isolated wherever I go, I feel like lazy and tasteless most of the time
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6 out of total are true for me
I don't like going out alone, my mom tell me not to wear the same t-shirt again, i keep myself isolated wherever I go, I feel like lazy and tasteless most of the time
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Jesper
1 - Check.
2 - Absolutely.
3 - Oh yea.
4 - Oh HELL yea.
5 - Uhm. Yea?
6 - Guilty.
7 - Check, check and double check!
Yea, so the answer is? Toooooo not slouch?
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1 - Check.
2 - Absolutely.
3 - Oh yea.
4 - Oh HELL yea.
5 - Uhm. Yea?
6 - Guilty.
7 - Check, check and double check!
Yea, so the answer is? Toooooo not slouch?
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education
Im finally moving out in a month. I dont have to deal with constant degradation and everyones frustration directed at me. I hope i can finally be normal after leaving my house.
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Im finally moving out in a month. I dont have to deal with constant degradation and everyones frustration directed at me. I hope i can finally be normal after leaving my house.
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psych2go
1: 05 Okay that one feels like a set up cause I'd go on walks and do things alone all the time if it wasn't so god damn dangerous around I hardly even do it with weapons on me.
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1: 05 Okay that one feels like a set up cause I'd go on walks and do things alone all the time if it wasn't so god damn dangerous around I hardly even do it with weapons on me.
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bepis
Isolation yes, slouching yes, I wear the same shirt to work because it's not a clean environment. I do things by myself in public because I don't really have friends.
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Isolation yes, slouching yes, I wear the same shirt to work because it's not a clean environment. I do things by myself in public because I don't really have friends.
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Dreamseeker234
I do not relate to any of these thankfully, but I was curious after the end of my 8 yr relationship. So I really appreciate this video, thanks
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I do not relate to any of these thankfully, but I was curious after the end of my 8 yr relationship. So I really appreciate this video, thanks
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DERRICK
The last point is all me. I don't even have the friends in the first place. I fear rejection and as an African guy, u can't speak about how u feel
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The last point is all me. I don't even have the friends in the first place. I fear rejection and as an African guy, u can't speak about how u feel
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Bunni
Naming someone who needs this video me. Can't say no, when I get compliments, I say your supposed to say that, you're biased cause you're my mom.
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Naming someone who needs this video me. Can't say no, when I get compliments, I say your supposed to say that, you're biased cause you're my mom.
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Hu
Im starting to see myself improving because I always say yes before even when im really busy and this video made me realize I have a development
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Im starting to see myself improving because I always say yes before even when im really busy and this video made me realize I have a development
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