7 Reasons Why We Hate Ourselves
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Date: 2023-08-20
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I think you missed the elephant in the room here: your self love depends MAINLY on how much your own actions allign with your morals. If you shake all responsibility and blame your problems on others, you're also giving the solution away from yourself. If you're doing things you know to be wrong and procrastinating the ones you should be doing, your self love will fall of a cliff. If you start slowly doing the opposite, your self love will start to grow. Guys TAKE RESPONSIBILITY, take control! Only you have the power to improve your situation and turn your worst struggles into the best turning points of your life.
This video is taking all power away from you, it's doing way more harm than good
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I think you missed the elephant in the room here: your self love depends MAINLY on how much your own actions allign with your morals. If you shake all responsibility and blame your problems on others, you're also giving the solution away from yourself. If you're doing things you know to be wrong and procrastinating the ones you should be doing, your self love will fall of a cliff. If you start slowly doing the opposite, your self love will start to grow. Guys TAKE RESPONSIBILITY, take control! Only you have the power to improve your situation and turn your worst struggles into the best turning points of your life.
This video is taking all power away from you, it's doing way more harm than good
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YABO! SH33N
I relate to pretty much every one of these. I grew up in a family that argued a lot, Ive been bullied at school (not often, but it did happen, I struggle with the loss of one of my loved ones, one of which I still feel guilty about, despite not having been at fault, and I have a negative self image. I also sometimes feel numb, and I often compare myself to others, especially in a creative context. The only thing I dont relate to is not having social support. I have people I talk to about my mental health, and I have friends I can rely on to be there for me in times of need. Question is, how can I figure out the source of my self hatred?
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I relate to pretty much every one of these. I grew up in a family that argued a lot, Ive been bullied at school (not often, but it did happen, I struggle with the loss of one of my loved ones, one of which I still feel guilty about, despite not having been at fault, and I have a negative self image. I also sometimes feel numb, and I often compare myself to others, especially in a creative context. The only thing I dont relate to is not having social support. I have people I talk to about my mental health, and I have friends I can rely on to be there for me in times of need. Question is, how can I figure out the source of my self hatred?
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Corbin
That's how I feel all the time I just feel sorry for myself every day I feel like I'm not important even though I don't think I am but I am important but I just don't see it in me why do I even hate myself for? Idk I just don't like myself in general because I'm a very insecure person by having autism and even I'm insecure of how my overall appearances I compare myself a lot to other people and I've always felt like a totally loser my entire life and it's like I'm not so special. I wish I don't have these feelings. I wish I don't feel this way I shouldn't feel this way but unfortunately I hate myself I wish I don't but I do
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That's how I feel all the time I just feel sorry for myself every day I feel like I'm not important even though I don't think I am but I am important but I just don't see it in me why do I even hate myself for? Idk I just don't like myself in general because I'm a very insecure person by having autism and even I'm insecure of how my overall appearances I compare myself a lot to other people and I've always felt like a totally loser my entire life and it's like I'm not so special. I wish I don't have these feelings. I wish I don't feel this way I shouldn't feel this way but unfortunately I hate myself I wish I don't but I do
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xLxcy_edits
I do hate myself. Why, you ask?
-I used to be a bully
-I always feel awful because of my past mistakes
-I always feel constant guilt to those I have hurt in the past
-I do have some trauma. My BEST friend moved schools 3 years ago, and it's not the same without her. I used to bully because it made me feel good about myself but now I know it's something terrible to do. I've learned from it now. If you're a bully, please reconsider your actions and ask yourself if its even worth it. Remember that your mistakes exist for a reason. For you to learn and grow to become a better version of yourself
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I do hate myself. Why, you ask?
-I used to be a bully
-I always feel awful because of my past mistakes
-I always feel constant guilt to those I have hurt in the past
-I do have some trauma. My BEST friend moved schools 3 years ago, and it's not the same without her. I used to bully because it made me feel good about myself but now I know it's something terrible to do. I've learned from it now. If you're a bully, please reconsider your actions and ask yourself if its even worth it. Remember that your mistakes exist for a reason. For you to learn and grow to become a better version of yourself
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GreenP3bblGTAG
#1 true for me: My father would never come around to see him, then my mother died when i was 5 and my father took me place to place and the whole time was faking being my friend
#2 true for me: my entire school hates my guts except for 6 people. (and another school i was at, i had NO friends but 1)
#3 true for me: this would basically be a 1 hour movie extended version of #1
#4 75% true.
#5 50% true: i do have emotional suppourt now. but it kinda sorta didnt come before i got too far down the rabbit hole.
#6 true for me ( >< ) [infinity to the infinitieth power]
#7 true for me.
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#1 true for me: My father would never come around to see him, then my mother died when i was 5 and my father took me place to place and the whole time was faking being my friend
#2 true for me: my entire school hates my guts except for 6 people. (and another school i was at, i had NO friends but 1)
#3 true for me: this would basically be a 1 hour movie extended version of #1
#4 75% true.
#5 50% true: i do have emotional suppourt now. but it kinda sorta didnt come before i got too far down the rabbit hole.
#6 true for me ( >< ) [infinity to the infinitieth power]
#7 true for me.
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Syn
Ever since I was a little boy I had low self esteem and self hate. I felt like I always fell short of the goals I set for myself. And I always compared myself to my friends. I have a friend that runs a diesel repair shop out of his garage and hes got money like nobodies business. I have another friend whos a rockstar and climbing his way to fame. I have other friends in the Army and Marine corp who are out doing amazing things. And then. theres me. Ive been at the same place of employment for 3 years and I get payed very little, I still live with my parents and Im mediocre at everything I do
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Ever since I was a little boy I had low self esteem and self hate. I felt like I always fell short of the goals I set for myself. And I always compared myself to my friends. I have a friend that runs a diesel repair shop out of his garage and hes got money like nobodies business. I have another friend whos a rockstar and climbing his way to fame. I have other friends in the Army and Marine corp who are out doing amazing things. And then. theres me. Ive been at the same place of employment for 3 years and I get payed very little, I still live with my parents and Im mediocre at everything I do
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Violet
I have no friends, literally none. I have no connections to people who care about me. Relatives are indifferent to me and so am I to them, the only person who catches me when I finally fall is me. I dont know why, why Im not enough for people to stay and enjoy me in their lives, why I am not worth the time or effort of any person around me why no one values my existence enough to be part of my life. Thats why I hate myself because until every gets a book on inner emotions and their meaning of life and I get one Ill never know why Im alone. Unless its me, the reason no one stands me
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I have no friends, literally none. I have no connections to people who care about me. Relatives are indifferent to me and so am I to them, the only person who catches me when I finally fall is me. I dont know why, why Im not enough for people to stay and enjoy me in their lives, why I am not worth the time or effort of any person around me why no one values my existence enough to be part of my life. Thats why I hate myself because until every gets a book on inner emotions and their meaning of life and I get one Ill never know why Im alone. Unless its me, the reason no one stands me
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Oxy
I feel like I dont deserve to live here. That when (if ever) I find that other half, shell betray me or leave me for someone better (which isnt difficult. I dont want anyone who is close to me to carry this burden, because they have enough on their plate. MY PARENTS DONT NEED TO KNOW THAT THEIR KID DOESNT TRULY FEEL OK OR THER HES BROKEN! They would blame themselves, I DONT WANT THAT! I have to be self sufficient, I HAVE TO BE ABLE to fight this on my own. I cant make them waste mo et or resources like this.
I just wanna scream and cry somewhere where no one can hear me.
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I feel like I dont deserve to live here. That when (if ever) I find that other half, shell betray me or leave me for someone better (which isnt difficult. I dont want anyone who is close to me to carry this burden, because they have enough on their plate. MY PARENTS DONT NEED TO KNOW THAT THEIR KID DOESNT TRULY FEEL OK OR THER HES BROKEN! They would blame themselves, I DONT WANT THAT! I have to be self sufficient, I HAVE TO BE ABLE to fight this on my own. I cant make them waste mo et or resources like this.
I just wanna scream and cry somewhere where no one can hear me.
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Hafsa
I have feelings of self hatred currently because i think that no one likes me and becasueni think im not comfortable in social situations. So i always compare myself to this popular girl who talks in class confidently and has a lot of self love. She is really nice but i feel really bad about myself for not being the same. On days that i feel confident. i actually am not affected by the popular people and feel that i love myself. I hate me because its hard to stand up for myself since idk how or when to if its just a joke.
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I have feelings of self hatred currently because i think that no one likes me and becasueni think im not comfortable in social situations. So i always compare myself to this popular girl who talks in class confidently and has a lot of self love. She is really nice but i feel really bad about myself for not being the same. On days that i feel confident. i actually am not affected by the popular people and feel that i love myself. I hate me because its hard to stand up for myself since idk how or when to if its just a joke.
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Ay
I hate myself because when i did something simple wrong, i already give up. And i think people just using me. They told me to do everything. And i hate myself for that. I can deny them. But i just can't. I don't have courage to do that. I did everything wrong. I did embarrissing things. Just like how i spell embarrissing. I don't know how to spell it and i despite myself. I wanna tell someone how i felt. But they just leave me like i was nothing. I just want a good day
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I hate myself because when i did something simple wrong, i already give up. And i think people just using me. They told me to do everything. And i hate myself for that. I can deny them. But i just can't. I don't have courage to do that. I did everything wrong. I did embarrissing things. Just like how i spell embarrissing. I don't know how to spell it and i despite myself. I wanna tell someone how i felt. But they just leave me like i was nothing. I just want a good day
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G16
Thank you for this video! I have found this video relatable in many ways, I would say that it is really hard to stop hating oneself, but it is a long process. I don't really know when it will be, but I hope that too all of us who have experienced this, I hope and wish that you know that you are loved and cared for. Sure, it doesn't sound believable, but trust me, things will get better. Have a blessed day to all of you!
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Thank you for this video! I have found this video relatable in many ways, I would say that it is really hard to stop hating oneself, but it is a long process. I don't really know when it will be, but I hope that too all of us who have experienced this, I hope and wish that you know that you are loved and cared for. Sure, it doesn't sound believable, but trust me, things will get better. Have a blessed day to all of you!
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Just
I hate myself because I overshare and I'm very loud. I hate myself for speaking before thinking. I hate myself for not being able to have control over my life. I hate how everyone else seem to love what they're doing when I can barely keep a hobby. I hate how easily I give up. I don't hate how I look I hate how I don't think I hate how much little control I have I hate how I overshare to stay relevant.
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I hate myself because I overshare and I'm very loud. I hate myself for speaking before thinking. I hate myself for not being able to have control over my life. I hate how everyone else seem to love what they're doing when I can barely keep a hobby. I hate how easily I give up. I don't hate how I look I hate how I don't think I hate how much little control I have I hate how I overshare to stay relevant.
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MiniLopka
I mostly relate to number 2, because they made me feel like nobody cares about me, and give me thoughts such as: Who would love a Croatian 13 year old who likes to draw and animate, play with puppets, listen to music and like old technology? Nobody! I am totally worthless! I didn't want to comment in the first place because I'm feeling that even this comment is worthless.
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I mostly relate to number 2, because they made me feel like nobody cares about me, and give me thoughts such as: Who would love a Croatian 13 year old who likes to draw and animate, play with puppets, listen to music and like old technology? Nobody! I am totally worthless! I didn't want to comment in the first place because I'm feeling that even this comment is worthless.
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-Ninjo-
I hate it when people always give negative saying to others your fate, or youre so skinny! They could be making their negative thoughts worse of their body. I hate it so much, I wish the world was better, but thatll never happen, I doesnt matter whats outside of you its whats inside personalty, good thoughts, and etc I hope everything works out. Take care
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I hate it when people always give negative saying to others your fate, or youre so skinny! They could be making their negative thoughts worse of their body. I hate it so much, I wish the world was better, but thatll never happen, I doesnt matter whats outside of you its whats inside personalty, good thoughts, and etc I hope everything works out. Take care
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Duck
I hate myself because I always quit at the finishing line
My shitty personality
Me knowing Ill never succeed no matter what or how hard I try
Being an Alcoholic
Having no choice but Working dead end jobs that barely pay the bills.
Thats what scares me the most though. always being the servant. Always just being the guy behind the counter
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I hate myself because I always quit at the finishing line
My shitty personality
Me knowing Ill never succeed no matter what or how hard I try
Being an Alcoholic
Having no choice but Working dead end jobs that barely pay the bills.
Thats what scares me the most though. always being the servant. Always just being the guy behind the counter
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ClashColors
i hate myself because
- i have no hobbies and there is nothing interesting about me
- im really really unfunny
- im incredibly boring
- i cant hold a conversation
- im obsessed about what people think of me
- i give up so easily
- i have no fashion taste
- i procrastinate so much
- etc
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i hate myself because
- i have no hobbies and there is nothing interesting about me
- im really really unfunny
- im incredibly boring
- i cant hold a conversation
- im obsessed about what people think of me
- i give up so easily
- i have no fashion taste
- i procrastinate so much
- etc
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haha
Yeah so what? Who cares? Parents just wants marks, friends just want us when we can benefit them, teachers like us only if we score good, siblings always just brag how good they are and how bad we are, anything I do just doesn't get done. It's like streching a rubber band that u can't stretch no matter how much you pull it
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Yeah so what? Who cares? Parents just wants marks, friends just want us when we can benefit them, teachers like us only if we score good, siblings always just brag how good they are and how bad we are, anything I do just doesn't get done. It's like streching a rubber band that u can't stretch no matter how much you pull it
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Eddcentric
Honestly if I had the chance and there was a perfect clone of myself in front of me, I would beat him within an inch of his life. I don't care what idiotic cute shit people say like Ohh but you're a good person It's not true it's literally not true and I know exactly why, but I'm too disgusted to say it.
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Honestly if I had the chance and there was a perfect clone of myself in front of me, I would beat him within an inch of his life. I don't care what idiotic cute shit people say like Ohh but you're a good person It's not true it's literally not true and I know exactly why, but I'm too disgusted to say it.
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ThunderKatz
I never had a bad childhood especially compared to my friends I seem perfect but I feel like its my fault my closest friends are suicidal and also with me trying to be friends with people i question is it that they dont like me is it because Im not popular but I realize I dont have anything in common
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I never had a bad childhood especially compared to my friends I seem perfect but I feel like its my fault my closest friends are suicidal and also with me trying to be friends with people i question is it that they dont like me is it because Im not popular but I realize I dont have anything in common
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Dragonmark909
I hate myself because of the failure and shell that I am. I don't see myself as a positive role model for my younger siblings and frankly just feel like a mech pilot trying to move an inoperable mobile suit. I've never felt a taste of freedom and I don't deserve it with my financial track record.
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I hate myself because of the failure and shell that I am. I don't see myself as a positive role model for my younger siblings and frankly just feel like a mech pilot trying to move an inoperable mobile suit. I've never felt a taste of freedom and I don't deserve it with my financial track record.
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Lucia
I don't care about the reason, I just want to know how to fix it! From very young i've learnt from other people how much of a bad person I am, i've grown up hearing bad things about me all the time and it just repeats over in my head. I'm sick of it. I just want to believe that they were wrong.
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I don't care about the reason, I just want to know how to fix it! From very young i've learnt from other people how much of a bad person I am, i've grown up hearing bad things about me all the time and it just repeats over in my head. I'm sick of it. I just want to believe that they were wrong.
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Evan
I hate myself because I'm an evil POS who has screwed people over all my life, and tried to hide from it by being 'good'. Now I accept this part of myself, not sure what to do with it through since I also have a conscience and don't want to actually hurt people.
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I hate myself because I'm an evil POS who has screwed people over all my life, and tried to hide from it by being 'good'. Now I accept this part of myself, not sure what to do with it through since I also have a conscience and don't want to actually hurt people.
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Bunny
Did you know that a person who lives without friends and a person who has many, but smokes, has the same health? Loneliness can be just as physically and emotionally unhealthy for people. There are always people in your life who love you. It will be ok!
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Did you know that a person who lives without friends and a person who has many, but smokes, has the same health? Loneliness can be just as physically and emotionally unhealthy for people. There are always people in your life who love you. It will be ok!
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Kashyap
Life is so unfair universe has given us everything yet some past trauma guide you to new turn for life from there on you lose yourself from within only completing the life is your main motive rest everyday brings a new day to end and then repeat
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Life is so unfair universe has given us everything yet some past trauma guide you to new turn for life from there on you lose yourself from within only completing the life is your main motive rest everyday brings a new day to end and then repeat
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ts25679
I love loads of things about myself, the problem is that almost all of those points aren't valued by anyone else. It turns out that if I were the exact opposite I would have all the things I've ever wanted, only, I wouldn't want them anymore.
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I love loads of things about myself, the problem is that almost all of those points aren't valued by anyone else. It turns out that if I were the exact opposite I would have all the things I've ever wanted, only, I wouldn't want them anymore.
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