8 Signs of Antisocial Personality Disorder
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Date: 2023-08-20
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shovvxa
ever since i was a teenager i always knew something was just off. like- i always wondered why i would lie about everything or never take responsibility and never really feel bad if i inconvenienced someone and made someone else take the blame for my mistakes. im now almost 23 and nothing has changed. ive never ruined relationships because of it though. relationships to me are crucial and a must but unfortunately, a lot of my relationships are built around refusing to end up a loner. i keep people around so that i can hopefully get help from them in the future. im trying really hard to not use the word use but honestly, it just sounds like that. i lie and i manipulate because i try my hardest to my life as easy as possible. i dont WANT to hurt people. only when theyve hurt me or like the video said, when ive read in between the lines then i will go above and beyond to make their lives a living hell. for so long ive always thought that maybe ive either had BPD or ASPD but either way, i know there is something off.
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ever since i was a teenager i always knew something was just off. like- i always wondered why i would lie about everything or never take responsibility and never really feel bad if i inconvenienced someone and made someone else take the blame for my mistakes. im now almost 23 and nothing has changed. ive never ruined relationships because of it though. relationships to me are crucial and a must but unfortunately, a lot of my relationships are built around refusing to end up a loner. i keep people around so that i can hopefully get help from them in the future. im trying really hard to not use the word use but honestly, it just sounds like that. i lie and i manipulate because i try my hardest to my life as easy as possible. i dont WANT to hurt people. only when theyve hurt me or like the video said, when ive read in between the lines then i will go above and beyond to make their lives a living hell. for so long ive always thought that maybe ive either had BPD or ASPD but either way, i know there is something off.
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D3
You know a lot of us actually just care about our perceived notion of right and wrong and are actually considered very caring and loving people with good energy. Yes, unfortunately we need to remind ourselves that our perception is not always the correct one, and should reconsider other peoples opinions and societal norms before even thinking of putting forward an egocentric and anecdotal opinion presented as truth. Criminality comes in when one tries to enforce this false sense of justice on others again based on personal anecdotal situations. I have ASPD and im fully aware of this and im very conscious and careful to do the absolute best i possibly can to only use positive good healthy energy and forces to drive my thoughts and actions. Therefore im considered safe and my opinion can be fully discarded as just thoughts of a mentally ill person with a warped reality. Thanks, since everyone else has it all figured out right?
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You know a lot of us actually just care about our perceived notion of right and wrong and are actually considered very caring and loving people with good energy. Yes, unfortunately we need to remind ourselves that our perception is not always the correct one, and should reconsider other peoples opinions and societal norms before even thinking of putting forward an egocentric and anecdotal opinion presented as truth. Criminality comes in when one tries to enforce this false sense of justice on others again based on personal anecdotal situations. I have ASPD and im fully aware of this and im very conscious and careful to do the absolute best i possibly can to only use positive good healthy energy and forces to drive my thoughts and actions. Therefore im considered safe and my opinion can be fully discarded as just thoughts of a mentally ill person with a warped reality. Thanks, since everyone else has it all figured out right?
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Sir
I literally have no idea whats going on with my mental health, Ive been shedding tears for no reason, loss of appetite. I constantly lie about petty things and its uncontrollable, I lie to try and make myself feel better towards other individuals, but I just feel worse about myself, lying has become an addiction, Im afraid to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of this issue. Im not only hurting myself but Ive hurt a lot of other people which makes me feel guilty, this kind of character thats built up inside of me is horrible, Really need someone to talk to about this feeling, the only ones who truly understand are the ones that are going through this disorder, I feel alone whenever I try to talk to someone about my mental issues nobody seems to understand.
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I literally have no idea whats going on with my mental health, Ive been shedding tears for no reason, loss of appetite. I constantly lie about petty things and its uncontrollable, I lie to try and make myself feel better towards other individuals, but I just feel worse about myself, lying has become an addiction, Im afraid to continue my relationship with my girlfriend because of this issue. Im not only hurting myself but Ive hurt a lot of other people which makes me feel guilty, this kind of character thats built up inside of me is horrible, Really need someone to talk to about this feeling, the only ones who truly understand are the ones that are going through this disorder, I feel alone whenever I try to talk to someone about my mental issues nobody seems to understand.
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LowKey
I hate that these kinds of video do not understand APD and what it's like to live with it. I think most of us have cognitive empathy, we know when someone was wronged and if we find it unfair we will help them, not for any emotional reason like neurotypical people, but because it is the right thing to do. Also neurotypical people will always avoid the weird kid in class or anyone suffering, because they fear that it is a disease that can be caught, while we don't judge and will hang out with them and treat them with dignity and respect, because we know what it's like to be ostracized.
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I hate that these kinds of video do not understand APD and what it's like to live with it. I think most of us have cognitive empathy, we know when someone was wronged and if we find it unfair we will help them, not for any emotional reason like neurotypical people, but because it is the right thing to do. Also neurotypical people will always avoid the weird kid in class or anyone suffering, because they fear that it is a disease that can be caught, while we don't judge and will hang out with them and treat them with dignity and respect, because we know what it's like to be ostracized.
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AllOuttaEnemies
I've had my diagnosis switch between ASPD and Borderline Personality Disorder (Manic Depression. It's really frustrating being around others unless I am medicated or content. I don't wanna hurt anybody, and I can't help these intense feelings to deflect and lash out at others.
I cope in most social situations by shutting down and ignoring everything around me. And I intentionally try to get lost in my own thoughts. I feel like I'm a huge burden on everyone and I just wish I never existed
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I've had my diagnosis switch between ASPD and Borderline Personality Disorder (Manic Depression. It's really frustrating being around others unless I am medicated or content. I don't wanna hurt anybody, and I can't help these intense feelings to deflect and lash out at others.
I cope in most social situations by shutting down and ignoring everything around me. And I intentionally try to get lost in my own thoughts. I feel like I'm a huge burden on everyone and I just wish I never existed
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Norma
A lot of these things that are mentioned in this video do happen to me. There hasn't been a get together that I have attended where people have treated me this way. I thought that I was hallucinating, but either people don't have manners, or just plain do things so you never want to be around them. I got the message in every gathering. In many instances I stopped attending. I just don't have the need to keep bumping into the same wall over, and over. People just push me away with their attitudes.
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A lot of these things that are mentioned in this video do happen to me. There hasn't been a get together that I have attended where people have treated me this way. I thought that I was hallucinating, but either people don't have manners, or just plain do things so you never want to be around them. I got the message in every gathering. In many instances I stopped attending. I just don't have the need to keep bumping into the same wall over, and over. People just push me away with their attitudes.
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Chloe
wish more ppl knew this is 99% of the time a brains coping strat for survival during trauma in childhood. id say, without any malice, the one word for ASPD (sociopathy) is self gratification. could be the same for NPD, but no. its not the same kind of manipulation or self interest/serving. its incredible and sad what the brain does to cope with horrible trauma
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wish more ppl knew this is 99% of the time a brains coping strat for survival during trauma in childhood. id say, without any malice, the one word for ASPD (sociopathy) is self gratification. could be the same for NPD, but no. its not the same kind of manipulation or self interest/serving. its incredible and sad what the brain does to cope with horrible trauma
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Nope. Cntl+N
I think i probably have this but also i very much feel like its an adaptation. I feel like a lot of these behaviors and attitudes are not always wrong when the context of reality and society is added. Ive stolen food to get by while society through rampant capitalist greed and artificial inflation have stolen my ability to do anything else
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I think i probably have this but also i very much feel like its an adaptation. I feel like a lot of these behaviors and attitudes are not always wrong when the context of reality and society is added. Ive stolen food to get by while society through rampant capitalist greed and artificial inflation have stolen my ability to do anything else
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EMS
Does anyone really suffer from ego-syntonic disorders though? If I had to choose between the commonplace but excruciating mental illnesses I've had and a ego-syntonic disorder like AsPD, i think i would choose AsPD.
I know. They often end up in jail. Or dead. But to not be plagued by constant mental anguish sounds like relief to me.
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Does anyone really suffer from ego-syntonic disorders though? If I had to choose between the commonplace but excruciating mental illnesses I've had and a ego-syntonic disorder like AsPD, i think i would choose AsPD.
I know. They often end up in jail. Or dead. But to not be plagued by constant mental anguish sounds like relief to me.
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Elena
I had a 3 year relationship with someone with ASPD and it was a living hell. He tried to kill me and he really abused me in different ways. He had no empathy and could even sell his mom for money. It is on a spectrum, and unfortunately I had the most awful experience with someone with ASPD. A crazy person that needs to be locked up.
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I had a 3 year relationship with someone with ASPD and it was a living hell. He tried to kill me and he really abused me in different ways. He had no empathy and could even sell his mom for money. It is on a spectrum, and unfortunately I had the most awful experience with someone with ASPD. A crazy person that needs to be locked up.
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jlovesj333
I honestly hit all of them but was worse when I was a kid. I went through a self transformation and wrote down morals I should have and what I will and will not do. I walk a straighter line than I used to. I choose not to cheat. I choose not to steal, etc. I think I am a better person than I used to be.
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I honestly hit all of them but was worse when I was a kid. I went through a self transformation and wrote down morals I should have and what I will and will not do. I walk a straighter line than I used to. I choose not to cheat. I choose not to steal, etc. I think I am a better person than I used to be.
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Paul
I only react very little with empathy, and i'm not wanted for a crime i will never commit. And i've never blamed others on my actions unless they got involved with what i do by volunteer. And, i am logical and try my best to avoid doing silly things. Sorry this isn't 100% accurate.
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I only react very little with empathy, and i'm not wanted for a crime i will never commit. And i've never blamed others on my actions unless they got involved with what i do by volunteer. And, i am logical and try my best to avoid doing silly things. Sorry this isn't 100% accurate.
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William
Anti social personity disorder has risky behaviors with repeats?
Their real risk is getting killed by wrong people with bullying, after the cheating, corruptions and self victiming alot before the victims never talk about and confessed their wrong doings.
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Anti social personity disorder has risky behaviors with repeats?
Their real risk is getting killed by wrong people with bullying, after the cheating, corruptions and self victiming alot before the victims never talk about and confessed their wrong doings.
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Syrabliss
I don't think I have this. I was diagnosed with it before ASD diagnosis and now wondering if it's still valid because I've seen some ASPD diagnosed people talk about their antisocial stuff and I was like. wait, this is normal. or not?
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So yeah
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I don't think I have this. I was diagnosed with it before ASD diagnosis and now wondering if it's still valid because I've seen some ASPD diagnosed people talk about their antisocial stuff and I was like. wait, this is normal. or not?
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So yeah
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Chasity
As someone that was recently diagnosed with depressive and psychotic mania bipolar disorder Ive always thought I was something different. After doing research and now watching this, it leads me to believe I might have aspd. That or Im just going crazy
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As someone that was recently diagnosed with depressive and psychotic mania bipolar disorder Ive always thought I was something different. After doing research and now watching this, it leads me to believe I might have aspd. That or Im just going crazy
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Random
ASPD is just regular people but more honest and more extreme. Everyone puts on an outer face to get along and has their own internal self they keep private. There is always an element of dishonesty, even in interactions between regular people.
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ASPD is just regular people but more honest and more extreme. Everyone puts on an outer face to get along and has their own internal self they keep private. There is always an element of dishonesty, even in interactions between regular people.
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education
hey yall don't trust these videos, they villainize people with the quote on quote bad mental disorders and just are real jerks. try treating those with ALL mental illnesses with respect, not just demonizing the stereotyped ones.
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hey yall don't trust these videos, they villainize people with the quote on quote bad mental disorders and just are real jerks. try treating those with ALL mental illnesses with respect, not just demonizing the stereotyped ones.
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Octavius
I feel like you're personally attacking people with schizophrenia or autism by comparing the symptoms to the personality traits of sociopaths, such as the schizophrenic paranoia or the autistic social difficulties
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I feel like you're personally attacking people with schizophrenia or autism by comparing the symptoms to the personality traits of sociopaths, such as the schizophrenic paranoia or the autistic social difficulties
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EJ
Not one to diagnose but Darrel Brooks the guy whos being trialed for several counts of vehicular manslaughter in Waukesha brought me here. His behavior seems quite on par with those that some people ASPD have.
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Not one to diagnose but Darrel Brooks the guy whos being trialed for several counts of vehicular manslaughter in Waukesha brought me here. His behavior seems quite on par with those that some people ASPD have.
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Samuel
Be careful. These aren't DSM 5 criteria! With this explanation there is a lot of overlap with depression, schizophrenia and anxiety.
Everyone with mental illness misunderstands people's intentions.
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Be careful. These aren't DSM 5 criteria! With this explanation there is a lot of overlap with depression, schizophrenia and anxiety.
Everyone with mental illness misunderstands people's intentions.
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Caleb
I feel like testing and diagnostic should be free of charge why is so common for health professionals to have the skill and knowledge to help the world but keep it lock behind a pay wall
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I feel like testing and diagnostic should be free of charge why is so common for health professionals to have the skill and knowledge to help the world but keep it lock behind a pay wall
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ManneredCheetah
Pretty sure this is me. Never been diagnosed but i do almost all these things. But i don't really treat others badly unless they do it to me first. I mostly keep to myself
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Pretty sure this is me. Never been diagnosed but i do almost all these things. But i don't really treat others badly unless they do it to me first. I mostly keep to myself
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MitzyCasanova
Lol youve described what is known as a jackass
ASPD is not a real diagnosis and if you have been diagnosed with it by a doctor then seriously, find a new doctor.
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Lol youve described what is known as a jackass
ASPD is not a real diagnosis and if you have been diagnosed with it by a doctor then seriously, find a new doctor.
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deletekeys
These random facts about ASPD from people who dont have it and have most of their research from low functioning criminals in prison. my how misleading.
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These random facts about ASPD from people who dont have it and have most of their research from low functioning criminals in prison. my how misleading.
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RITIKA
I think I have a antisocial personality disorder. Hmm I can't handle my relationship. and also my mom used to say me that I am heartless and aggressive.
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I think I have a antisocial personality disorder. Hmm I can't handle my relationship. and also my mom used to say me that I am heartless and aggressive.
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