6 Signs Your Relationship Is Over
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Roman
Related to quite a few signs, when she got back from her class trip she spoke about changing our relationship (not being together 24/7, letting eachother know where we are at) to fix our problems, like argueing, lack of respect and trust because we agreed to figure things out by the time she got back. I said we should go our separate ways for some time and work on ourselves and maybe in the near future we can try again but she didn't agree, she said we can work things out while we are together, we just don't see as much, but I don't believe in that for some reason. We have both put a lot of effort in eachother, but the lack of respect and trust has come from her side, I have complained about that multiple times and I feel now it's a little late to start talking about fixing these problems together when we are about to break up. I don't want to break up, because when she's not upset, she is my sunshine, but she is quite volatile. I've lost my trust bit by bit when I've seen her act really selfish and sometimes even mean with other people (couple of times to me aswell.
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Related to quite a few signs, when she got back from her class trip she spoke about changing our relationship (not being together 24/7, letting eachother know where we are at) to fix our problems, like argueing, lack of respect and trust because we agreed to figure things out by the time she got back. I said we should go our separate ways for some time and work on ourselves and maybe in the near future we can try again but she didn't agree, she said we can work things out while we are together, we just don't see as much, but I don't believe in that for some reason. We have both put a lot of effort in eachother, but the lack of respect and trust has come from her side, I have complained about that multiple times and I feel now it's a little late to start talking about fixing these problems together when we are about to break up. I don't want to break up, because when she's not upset, she is my sunshine, but she is quite volatile. I've lost my trust bit by bit when I've seen her act really selfish and sometimes even mean with other people (couple of times to me aswell.
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M.
What if I tried very hard, started feel anxiety, things weren't changing even if both of us were trying stuff, I was miscommunicating but I didn't know, thinkee of myself as a a failure, start relying more on him and hypeefocusing on him, starts seeing him blike he is less attractive then it gets hard to kiss him even if I love him, anxiety won and i exploded in feelings and mentally, took a break which only made me feel worse and unable to think straight and i thought that there wasn't anything that could be done and broke up with him two weeks ago?
I feel like I took him for granted and didn't put the same effort as him in the last month. He believed in us so much and i didn't because of insecurities. I want to help him and i wish he was dong good. But I can't right now, I believe the least I could give him is some space now. Then, we could meet and i could let him express himself as much a sii thought, beacsye he was consoling me in our breakup and i wasn't really listening to him
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What if I tried very hard, started feel anxiety, things weren't changing even if both of us were trying stuff, I was miscommunicating but I didn't know, thinkee of myself as a a failure, start relying more on him and hypeefocusing on him, starts seeing him blike he is less attractive then it gets hard to kiss him even if I love him, anxiety won and i exploded in feelings and mentally, took a break which only made me feel worse and unable to think straight and i thought that there wasn't anything that could be done and broke up with him two weeks ago?
I feel like I took him for granted and didn't put the same effort as him in the last month. He believed in us so much and i didn't because of insecurities. I want to help him and i wish he was dong good. But I can't right now, I believe the least I could give him is some space now. Then, we could meet and i could let him express himself as much a sii thought, beacsye he was consoling me in our breakup and i wasn't really listening to him
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Lazaro
Im with the woman of my dreams And we have a beautiful 2 and a half year old daughter shes our world but the spark we once shared is gone its not her who treats me wrong its me to her and I dont know what to do anymore shes everything I could ask for but everyday is just argument after argument after argument Im not happy Im not where I wanna be in life and I want to leave but I dont want to see her with someone else I know Im the toxic one but its how I feel I love this woman and know the best choice is to go but I cant and I dont know what to do I wish I could just leave let go and not look back but Im scared of being without her Im scared of leaving my daughter Im scared of watching her move on in life and seeing her happy without me Im gonna leave but how do I let go I dont hate her I love her I just want her happy its not fair why cant I be happy too why do I have to leave and then feel like the one who messed up what do I do please someone help me
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Im with the woman of my dreams And we have a beautiful 2 and a half year old daughter shes our world but the spark we once shared is gone its not her who treats me wrong its me to her and I dont know what to do anymore shes everything I could ask for but everyday is just argument after argument after argument Im not happy Im not where I wanna be in life and I want to leave but I dont want to see her with someone else I know Im the toxic one but its how I feel I love this woman and know the best choice is to go but I cant and I dont know what to do I wish I could just leave let go and not look back but Im scared of being without her Im scared of leaving my daughter Im scared of watching her move on in life and seeing her happy without me Im gonna leave but how do I let go I dont hate her I love her I just want her happy its not fair why cant I be happy too why do I have to leave and then feel like the one who messed up what do I do please someone help me
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MJ
I like this video and your series in general.
But to pick a nit, that door definitely could have held them both.
And while Rose went in to have a full life, she never got over Jack, kept that ugly necklace her whole life, only to toss to the watery depths before dying and being reunited with Jack, not her subsequent husband.
Its not the best metaphor and probably not a relationship you want to show case as healthy.
I get why it was used, it was cute, most people know that story, and usefully provided a let it go and its ok to move on and be happy without that person reference point. But its only a step or two up the ladder from Romeo and Juliet as relationship goals go.
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I like this video and your series in general.
But to pick a nit, that door definitely could have held them both.
And while Rose went in to have a full life, she never got over Jack, kept that ugly necklace her whole life, only to toss to the watery depths before dying and being reunited with Jack, not her subsequent husband.
Its not the best metaphor and probably not a relationship you want to show case as healthy.
I get why it was used, it was cute, most people know that story, and usefully provided a let it go and its ok to move on and be happy without that person reference point. But its only a step or two up the ladder from Romeo and Juliet as relationship goals go.
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Kyle
So I've been thinking about the relationship that I'm in currently. There are things that I don't like about my partner. But it's not usually anything that bothers me. However, what I can't seem to get over is financials. I work constantly (and make decent money for my age) and yet, she can blow money and not have a care. Meanwhile, I'm drowning in debt. She's adding to the problem instead of helping. She stays at home to watch her two kids and my daughter, which is fine. But I can't afford for her to keep blowing money recklessly on herself when I can barely scrape up enough to get gas to go to work. What should I do?
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So I've been thinking about the relationship that I'm in currently. There are things that I don't like about my partner. But it's not usually anything that bothers me. However, what I can't seem to get over is financials. I work constantly (and make decent money for my age) and yet, she can blow money and not have a care. Meanwhile, I'm drowning in debt. She's adding to the problem instead of helping. She stays at home to watch her two kids and my daughter, which is fine. But I can't afford for her to keep blowing money recklessly on herself when I can barely scrape up enough to get gas to go to work. What should I do?
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banena
I have trust In her yet she doesn't trust me she goes though my Dms and who asked who every person is she accused my aunt of being a girl on my phone and that night is when I emotionally checked out I have nothing to hide but I enjoy my privacy idk what to do I don't want to hurt her I feel pressured bye her to get married and she holds that and other things over my head and I tried to break up a couple months ago she begged I cracked like and egg I don't want to hurt her but I feel like the love I'm feeling isn't real and is forced
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I have trust In her yet she doesn't trust me she goes though my Dms and who asked who every person is she accused my aunt of being a girl on my phone and that night is when I emotionally checked out I have nothing to hide but I enjoy my privacy idk what to do I don't want to hurt her I feel pressured bye her to get married and she holds that and other things over my head and I tried to break up a couple months ago she begged I cracked like and egg I don't want to hurt her but I feel like the love I'm feeling isn't real and is forced
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Big
Battling with this now 5 years into the madness of this relationship. On the other hand, no one in a successful long term relationship says its easy. Ask anyone whos been married 20+ years and theyll all say its been hell lol. Is part of love pushing through it all for the sake of the love youve developed with that person? Or are all these old married couples just people who were too codependent to leave while they still had some youth in tact?
I cant understand this balance.
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Battling with this now 5 years into the madness of this relationship. On the other hand, no one in a successful long term relationship says its easy. Ask anyone whos been married 20+ years and theyll all say its been hell lol. Is part of love pushing through it all for the sake of the love youve developed with that person? Or are all these old married couples just people who were too codependent to leave while they still had some youth in tact?
I cant understand this balance.
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Harry
The guy I'm dating, he's not toxic or bad, but i feel its just me who's carrying the whole relationship. I always ask to meet, i arrange dates, i gift, i say romantic stuff, i always text first. Apart from these things, he's not much interested in my life. He hardly ask any question or show interest. I wanted to break up with him but he said he can't live without me, he sees a future. I'm so confused about him.
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The guy I'm dating, he's not toxic or bad, but i feel its just me who's carrying the whole relationship. I always ask to meet, i arrange dates, i gift, i say romantic stuff, i always text first. Apart from these things, he's not much interested in my life. He hardly ask any question or show interest. I wanted to break up with him but he said he can't live without me, he sees a future. I'm so confused about him.
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Manpei
I've always felt like I am the only one giving efforts. Even after some bad things happened between us, I still extended her my arms. I think I am just living by the promise I've made to her and that was a mistake. Anytime she needs help I make efforts to be there. But she cuts me off for weeks after that then approach me when she needs help.
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I've always felt like I am the only one giving efforts. Even after some bad things happened between us, I still extended her my arms. I think I am just living by the promise I've made to her and that was a mistake. Anytime she needs help I make efforts to be there. But she cuts me off for weeks after that then approach me when she needs help.
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Rutuja
I am in relationship with someone from around 9 yrs. but now our relationship turned into toxic relationship. I want to move on. but I still care about him. And I know I love him. but things are not going right. for both of us. but I am in confusion like. my mind is saying move on. and heart doesn't allowing me I M stuck here
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I am in relationship with someone from around 9 yrs. but now our relationship turned into toxic relationship. I want to move on. but I still care about him. And I know I love him. but things are not going right. for both of us. but I am in confusion like. my mind is saying move on. and heart doesn't allowing me I M stuck here
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Karen
the selfish part is the hardest one, once i told myself he's the one and I would do anything to be with him. not anymore, can't do it with someone so selfish. so that's correct, there's no trust, no respect and no kindness at all, then why still together? just for the handsome look to show off in public? nah, not worth it
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the selfish part is the hardest one, once i told myself he's the one and I would do anything to be with him. not anymore, can't do it with someone so selfish. so that's correct, there's no trust, no respect and no kindness at all, then why still together? just for the handsome look to show off in public? nah, not worth it
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Jay
Guys if youre talking about your romantic feelings for your best friend then its not a break up and her not putting in the effort of a relationship is perfectly normal because she isnt dating you. Yall need to stop confusing crushes with relationships. And dont make friends with girls you are in love with.
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Guys if youre talking about your romantic feelings for your best friend then its not a break up and her not putting in the effort of a relationship is perfectly normal because she isnt dating you. Yall need to stop confusing crushes with relationships. And dont make friends with girls you are in love with.
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Marne'-lee
I don't mean to be mean to others. I know it hurts when you're going through it. But I love how I can watch this and at every sign go no, we do respect each other. Yes, we have trust. No, we both put in effort and I can point to specific examples on each point.
Edit: typo fixed.
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I don't mean to be mean to others. I know it hurts when you're going through it. But I love how I can watch this and at every sign go no, we do respect each other. Yes, we have trust. No, we both put in effort and I can point to specific examples on each point.
Edit: typo fixed.
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eta.
Its been about 3 months of misery in an already tough relationship and whenever I fix things to rediscover that light at the end of the tunnel, she just breaks another promise or destroys another boundary so i think I'm going to make sure this is what i want then end it.
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Its been about 3 months of misery in an already tough relationship and whenever I fix things to rediscover that light at the end of the tunnel, she just breaks another promise or destroys another boundary so i think I'm going to make sure this is what i want then end it.
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Gadget
She left me after 5 years because of separation anxiety from her family, we moved in together 15 minutes from her parents house but it was enough to make her lose all feelings and walk out on everything we had together just so she could live back with her family
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She left me after 5 years because of separation anxiety from her family, we moved in together 15 minutes from her parents house but it was enough to make her lose all feelings and walk out on everything we had together just so she could live back with her family
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NW1L
You put in all the effort
I should know this for long time ago. She slowly walk away. It's like slowly killing me. Finally, I can't stand this anymore, so I break up with her. But at least it was a good ending, no fight, we both respect each other.
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You put in all the effort
I should know this for long time ago. She slowly walk away. It's like slowly killing me. Finally, I can't stand this anymore, so I break up with her. But at least it was a good ending, no fight, we both respect each other.
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ZimmZi
Were on a short break rn bc things have been very dry and kind of loveless. Ive been really worried that it was getting to be the ens really soon. The only real problem weve had seems to be 6, but i honestly think we have work through it.
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Were on a short break rn bc things have been very dry and kind of loveless. Ive been really worried that it was getting to be the ens really soon. The only real problem weve had seems to be 6, but i honestly think we have work through it.
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LetMeIn
Its hurtful that you do everything in your power to help in love and financially even sacrificing the things that you love to do just to get toxic attitude because you want to spend time with your own MOM! Yeah time to go
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Its hurtful that you do everything in your power to help in love and financially even sacrificing the things that you love to do just to get toxic attitude because you want to spend time with your own MOM! Yeah time to go
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Simon
I wonder if people watch this video in order to justify breaking up. But in reality didn't even try to salvage anything. Would explain my current situation. She didn't put in any effort at all to fix things.
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I wonder if people watch this video in order to justify breaking up. But in reality didn't even try to salvage anything. Would explain my current situation. She didn't put in any effort at all to fix things.
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HappyHaze
POV: you see this in your suggested video.
you and your partner of 4 yrs have been showing all of these signs. Im trying so hard but nope.
We have a 6 month old.
I dont know what to do.
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POV: you see this in your suggested video.
you and your partner of 4 yrs have been showing all of these signs. Im trying so hard but nope.
We have a 6 month old.
I dont know what to do.
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bwatever
Trying too hard and alone to fix the relationship just hit home. breaking up with them just feels like giving up I'm sad about all the effort I put in just went to waste.
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Trying too hard and alone to fix the relationship just hit home. breaking up with them just feels like giving up I'm sad about all the effort I put in just went to waste.
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FrankyboyFloyd
This video is so depressing Like no relationship is possible unless the partners are perfect and are flawless Understanding and forgiveness are important too.
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This video is so depressing Like no relationship is possible unless the partners are perfect and are flawless Understanding and forgiveness are important too.
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Elisabeth
Do you want our friendship be over PH. fine. I felt your heart was not for me anyway, as you have not really proved any affection for me as yet!
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Do you want our friendship be over PH. fine. I felt your heart was not for me anyway, as you have not really proved any affection for me as yet!
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Henrik
#5 hits hard. I wanted to have children, she finally said out loud she probably didn't. We were in a relationship for 6, 5 years, 1 day shy
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#5 hits hard. I wanted to have children, she finally said out loud she probably didn't. We were in a relationship for 6, 5 years, 1 day shy
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Fair
I related to all these signs, and for me all were true. GRATEFUL to be separated from my spouse (of 15 years! Filing for divorce next year.
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I related to all these signs, and for me all were true. GRATEFUL to be separated from my spouse (of 15 years! Filing for divorce next year.
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