5 Signs Your Crush is Hiding Their Feelings For You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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im going to vent a little but chances are, ima delete this later.
so theres this guy who i have been having mixed feelings for, and just of a month or two ago, ive stopped trying to convince myself i dont like him, and have just accepted that i do. i cant control my feelings, so why should i be scared of them?
he is VERY flirty and ive only ever seen him flirt with me. and its not just little maybe we should hangout stuff, he has said i love you to me, then quickly stated it was too far and he shouldnt have said it, hes said i was technically his girlfriend since im his friend and a girl. he touches me (for example he will play footsie with me and touch my hair in a playful way, or find ways to lean his hand on mine, that kinda stuff) and we always make eye contact in class.
so heres the problem. hes a class clown and pretty attractive so lots of my friends have had feelings for him, or currently do. and one of my closest friends really likes him. i try my best to get them to talk because i want them to be happy, even if that means i loose my crush. and he sometimes act like he likes her aswell, its so painfull to openly ship them and get them to hangout but they seem happy since i do.
so honestly im conviced he likes her, but then he acts like he likes me. and when we all hangout, and my friend trys to talk to him, it seems he always ends up trying to talk to me and ignores her.
i feel bad but at the same time it makes me feel good. help?
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im going to vent a little but chances are, ima delete this later.
so theres this guy who i have been having mixed feelings for, and just of a month or two ago, ive stopped trying to convince myself i dont like him, and have just accepted that i do. i cant control my feelings, so why should i be scared of them?
he is VERY flirty and ive only ever seen him flirt with me. and its not just little maybe we should hangout stuff, he has said i love you to me, then quickly stated it was too far and he shouldnt have said it, hes said i was technically his girlfriend since im his friend and a girl. he touches me (for example he will play footsie with me and touch my hair in a playful way, or find ways to lean his hand on mine, that kinda stuff) and we always make eye contact in class.
so heres the problem. hes a class clown and pretty attractive so lots of my friends have had feelings for him, or currently do. and one of my closest friends really likes him. i try my best to get them to talk because i want them to be happy, even if that means i loose my crush. and he sometimes act like he likes her aswell, its so painfull to openly ship them and get them to hangout but they seem happy since i do.
so honestly im conviced he likes her, but then he acts like he likes me. and when we all hangout, and my friend trys to talk to him, it seems he always ends up trying to talk to me and ignores her.
i feel bad but at the same time it makes me feel good. help?
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psych2go
So for me there's this guy who I know since I was a little girl and it's kind of like an on and off again crush on him. I've been wanting to confess but it seems like it's only one-sided because he doesn't put much of an effort to text me back or sometimes he left leaves me on read but whenever we are on zoom together he like really flirty and used to stay more time that we were supposed to. So last week my friend came over with her brother. I was on zoom and he too he saw that my friend's brother was there and he seemed very uncomfortable by that. Forward to this week when I logged in again he was acting really cold towards me. I think that's why the reason he was cuz he was jealous. I just wish she would say something if he like me but I guess he's really too shy. I kind of stopped trying because I didn't see that he tried very much. I feel like at this rate we're just going to end up drifting apart. I don't really want that to happen but at this point I don't really know what to do. I wish he had the guts to tell me how he felt about me.
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So for me there's this guy who I know since I was a little girl and it's kind of like an on and off again crush on him. I've been wanting to confess but it seems like it's only one-sided because he doesn't put much of an effort to text me back or sometimes he left leaves me on read but whenever we are on zoom together he like really flirty and used to stay more time that we were supposed to. So last week my friend came over with her brother. I was on zoom and he too he saw that my friend's brother was there and he seemed very uncomfortable by that. Forward to this week when I logged in again he was acting really cold towards me. I think that's why the reason he was cuz he was jealous. I just wish she would say something if he like me but I guess he's really too shy. I kind of stopped trying because I didn't see that he tried very much. I feel like at this rate we're just going to end up drifting apart. I don't really want that to happen but at this point I don't really know what to do. I wish he had the guts to tell me how he felt about me.
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Paphi
The mixed messages are killing me
She knows I like her, I'm very open about it, she says she likes me too, but don't think it's the same way. All is ok, as long as she is honest with me. We talk online daily, we've known each other for 6 years now. We have a very strong relationship, we love eachother deeply. She is somewhat not ready for love, for a relationship, or in denial, or she definitely do not like me, it's not clear. Since two weeks we are in a couple app with a forest and daily questions to know eachother more. But she can go days without login in and answering. I absolutely don't know what to think, the mixed messages are killing me. She knows I love her deeply, I'm crazy about her, I'll do anything for her. She says to me she loves me too, but not in the same way, but the feeling is strong. I don't know, I try not to overthink, I love her so much, I'm patient, I'd wait is she needs time. But I just want to know if I need to move on or not. (sorry not fluent)
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The mixed messages are killing me
She knows I like her, I'm very open about it, she says she likes me too, but don't think it's the same way. All is ok, as long as she is honest with me. We talk online daily, we've known each other for 6 years now. We have a very strong relationship, we love eachother deeply. She is somewhat not ready for love, for a relationship, or in denial, or she definitely do not like me, it's not clear. Since two weeks we are in a couple app with a forest and daily questions to know eachother more. But she can go days without login in and answering. I absolutely don't know what to think, the mixed messages are killing me. She knows I love her deeply, I'm crazy about her, I'll do anything for her. She says to me she loves me too, but not in the same way, but the feeling is strong. I don't know, I try not to overthink, I love her so much, I'm patient, I'd wait is she needs time. But I just want to know if I need to move on or not. (sorry not fluent)
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Turquoisesimmer
None of these. its so unfair. What was the point of me seeing literal sparks if hes not for me. Why would the universe do that to me, a good person just trying to better herself? I wish so much I didnt feel what I felt, that I can let go, but I now its true love & I probably wont see that again in someone. I feel like I was robbed of something thats supposed to be mine. He doesnt even want to be friends & told me he only puts up with me because he thinks Im pitiful. For not having friends, for never having had a bfI broke things off with him & starting tomorrow, the Monday after spring break, I wont ever talk to him or sit next to him again. And I dont want to do that, when I wake up hes the first thing I think about. Before I go to sleep I dream about him next to me, I sleep better because of it. Its just unfair.
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None of these. its so unfair. What was the point of me seeing literal sparks if hes not for me. Why would the universe do that to me, a good person just trying to better herself? I wish so much I didnt feel what I felt, that I can let go, but I now its true love & I probably wont see that again in someone. I feel like I was robbed of something thats supposed to be mine. He doesnt even want to be friends & told me he only puts up with me because he thinks Im pitiful. For not having friends, for never having had a bfI broke things off with him & starting tomorrow, the Monday after spring break, I wont ever talk to him or sit next to him again. And I dont want to do that, when I wake up hes the first thing I think about. Before I go to sleep I dream about him next to me, I sleep better because of it. Its just unfair.
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YukaYuma
It's definitely the flirting and jealousy part that my friend gives. Wants to be near me all the time, and whenever my friends there they get angry. They flirt with me a lot, saying dirty jokes and complimenting me often. I've told them I liked them before, but they said lets just be friends then one time they said they liked me but it was a prank. I'm not sure if they were actually being true or not or if they were just joking. Suspicious feelings of them liking me, I'm not so sure if they told me they liked me because they did but once I said I liked them back they got too scared. Any information you can give to help? Maybe if the things I said does mean they have a crush on me? (sorry about any bad grammar)
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It's definitely the flirting and jealousy part that my friend gives. Wants to be near me all the time, and whenever my friends there they get angry. They flirt with me a lot, saying dirty jokes and complimenting me often. I've told them I liked them before, but they said lets just be friends then one time they said they liked me but it was a prank. I'm not sure if they were actually being true or not or if they were just joking. Suspicious feelings of them liking me, I'm not so sure if they told me they liked me because they did but once I said I liked them back they got too scared. Any information you can give to help? Maybe if the things I said does mean they have a crush on me? (sorry about any bad grammar)
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Average
I have this on repeat with someone. Weve been close for almost 10 years and on/off best friends, and one of us has confessed to liking the other a few times throughout that time - sometimes me, sometimes her, but regardless of who expresses interest first she immediately questions her feelings and breaks things off anywhere from a few hours to a day or so afterwards.
I know its probably my own fault for not moving on, but at this point I find it hard to picture myself with anyone else. I recently started talking to her again when she was ill to try and help her through it, and already I can easily see the whole cycle happening again. Its so confusing.
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I have this on repeat with someone. Weve been close for almost 10 years and on/off best friends, and one of us has confessed to liking the other a few times throughout that time - sometimes me, sometimes her, but regardless of who expresses interest first she immediately questions her feelings and breaks things off anywhere from a few hours to a day or so afterwards.
I know its probably my own fault for not moving on, but at this point I find it hard to picture myself with anyone else. I recently started talking to her again when she was ill to try and help her through it, and already I can easily see the whole cycle happening again. Its so confusing.
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CrossedMasks
This was actually the most helpful video for me so far. I feel like maybe some of the things might be accurate for this one person. they feel very in character for them. I'm not 100% sure though. I have terrible fear of rejection myself, or losing our friendship after telling them how I feel, so I'm definitely not gonna confess to them, not yet at least. I do hope they actually like me back though. To be fair, none of my past crushes/loves ever were as interested in me as they are. Even my toxic ex lol But I'm not sure again, perhaps they're just a really amazing friend. I've been wrong about this before, so yeah,
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This was actually the most helpful video for me so far. I feel like maybe some of the things might be accurate for this one person. they feel very in character for them. I'm not 100% sure though. I have terrible fear of rejection myself, or losing our friendship after telling them how I feel, so I'm definitely not gonna confess to them, not yet at least. I do hope they actually like me back though. To be fair, none of my past crushes/loves ever were as interested in me as they are. Even my toxic ex lol But I'm not sure again, perhaps they're just a really amazing friend. I've been wrong about this before, so yeah,
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Sweet
After watching this video, I realized that I am denying my feelings for others
I do not like this. I want to change this I want to be my own identity but Im unable to find myself. this is very confusing for me.
and Im a 13yrold teen girl
I request you to post a video on what to do to fix myself when Im denying my feelings for others, what could be causing this.
that Video would be Very helpful to me and others also.
If anyone also feels the same pls support this comment
Mostly the relative people might not see the comment.
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After watching this video, I realized that I am denying my feelings for others
I do not like this. I want to change this I want to be my own identity but Im unable to find myself. this is very confusing for me.
and Im a 13yrold teen girl
I request you to post a video on what to do to fix myself when Im denying my feelings for others, what could be causing this.
that Video would be Very helpful to me and others also.
If anyone also feels the same pls support this comment
Mostly the relative people might not see the comment.
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Jake
That's just the story of my whole life. It's one thing to have feelings for someone. It's something else entirely to have a relationship with them. There are so many things that can make a relationship untenable. If it's not ethical boundaries like being coworkers or a nurse/patient relationship, it's other things like distance, life goals, age, or that thing where one of us suffers as we're waiting for the other who was dying since the day they were born. or whatever it was Lisa Loeb was singing in Stay.
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That's just the story of my whole life. It's one thing to have feelings for someone. It's something else entirely to have a relationship with them. There are so many things that can make a relationship untenable. If it's not ethical boundaries like being coworkers or a nurse/patient relationship, it's other things like distance, life goals, age, or that thing where one of us suffers as we're waiting for the other who was dying since the day they were born. or whatever it was Lisa Loeb was singing in Stay.
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Azure
Sometimes you do realize someone you're getting close to and care about isn't the best match. It happens, its not irrational beliefs or denying of feelings. Often it leads to the one side that likes someone becoming unhinged and manipulating because they want to force something that the other person feels will not work out. Thats the definitive nail in that relationship's coffin for sure. I really don't agree with the ending of this video because they don't really cover that.
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Sometimes you do realize someone you're getting close to and care about isn't the best match. It happens, its not irrational beliefs or denying of feelings. Often it leads to the one side that likes someone becoming unhinged and manipulating because they want to force something that the other person feels will not work out. Thats the definitive nail in that relationship's coffin for sure. I really don't agree with the ending of this video because they don't really cover that.
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Jorge.
nah because this girl i like is super physical, she always runs up to hug me and leans on me and stuff and does this to basically everyone but more often me. She always has open body language and constantly compliments me on my looks and such, but right after she says, no homo or some excuse like that. She alwasy reminds me that shes straight and isnt really sure wether or not shes gay, which always throws me off, please help me: (
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nah because this girl i like is super physical, she always runs up to hug me and leans on me and stuff and does this to basically everyone but more often me. She always has open body language and constantly compliments me on my looks and such, but right after she says, no homo or some excuse like that. She alwasy reminds me that shes straight and isnt really sure wether or not shes gay, which always throws me off, please help me: (
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Youtuber
Yes, my very first long term relationship ended in their death, second ended in them running away from me.
I was toxic, abusive and not very aware of these things at the time.
Got help, spent time away and realized some people aren't worth being with and how my first long term relationship had effected me.
I'm a lot better now and don't do those things anymore. It feels nice to be nice
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Yes, my very first long term relationship ended in their death, second ended in them running away from me.
I was toxic, abusive and not very aware of these things at the time.
Got help, spent time away and realized some people aren't worth being with and how my first long term relationship had effected me.
I'm a lot better now and don't do those things anymore. It feels nice to be nice
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E. C-Creeper_Genis
My crush is currently giving me mixed signals. He wants to be away with me in class but when we are alone, he talks to me and hang out with me. He told me that if we sit together or do anything at all together, his friends will snitch on him and tell his parents. We cant even be friends. But he seems happy with me when we are alone please help me because i dont understand this
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My crush is currently giving me mixed signals. He wants to be away with me in class but when we are alone, he talks to me and hang out with me. He told me that if we sit together or do anything at all together, his friends will snitch on him and tell his parents. We cant even be friends. But he seems happy with me when we are alone please help me because i dont understand this
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Indrid
Nobody has any feelings for me. Nobody knows me. I can not risk all I have gained through socially isolating myself, for the off chance of making an amicable or amorous connection with someone I do not even know. My life is far too comfortable, symmetrical, predictable, simple, prosperous, and full of freedom for me to risk losing it by allowing an invader into my life.
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Nobody has any feelings for me. Nobody knows me. I can not risk all I have gained through socially isolating myself, for the off chance of making an amicable or amorous connection with someone I do not even know. My life is far too comfortable, symmetrical, predictable, simple, prosperous, and full of freedom for me to risk losing it by allowing an invader into my life.
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Isabella
Idk if this is too intense of a topic for you guys but could you do a video explaining the difference between consent and coercion? Like especially with physical intimacy? Because sometimes you get manipulated into thinking you are okay with something and you dont know if you can trust yourself or not because their tricks painted things like they were okay
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Idk if this is too intense of a topic for you guys but could you do a video explaining the difference between consent and coercion? Like especially with physical intimacy? Because sometimes you get manipulated into thinking you are okay with something and you dont know if you can trust yourself or not because their tricks painted things like they were okay
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Lebelle
We have both said that we like each other, actually he was the one who asked me if i felt the same as him (which i do. But now its slowly starting to feel like im the one always wanting to talk. I ask for selfies and things and he says he will send but then doesn't. :( He said he still likes me the same but its frustrating and confusing
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We have both said that we like each other, actually he was the one who asked me if i felt the same as him (which i do. But now its slowly starting to feel like im the one always wanting to talk. I ask for selfies and things and he says he will send but then doesn't. :( He said he still likes me the same but its frustrating and confusing
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Mlody
well, the thing is that my crush has like literally ALL the signs that he has feelings for me. But the thing is when he proposes to me to see each other alone and I say yes, always the day just before he says that he can't bc of blabla. So yeah, I'm confused. Can plz someone clarify this situation?
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well, the thing is that my crush has like literally ALL the signs that he has feelings for me. But the thing is when he proposes to me to see each other alone and I say yes, always the day just before he says that he can't bc of blabla. So yeah, I'm confused. Can plz someone clarify this situation?
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Nikki
my crush totally does this. however i he still has feeling for his ex who is abusive to him. hes goes back and forth between us while hes trying to get over her. i had to take a step back and just be his friend. which is super hard because im in love with him. i wonder if he will ever figure it out: (
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my crush totally does this. however i he still has feeling for his ex who is abusive to him. hes goes back and forth between us while hes trying to get over her. i had to take a step back and just be his friend. which is super hard because im in love with him. i wonder if he will ever figure it out: (
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Helena
If you really like someone, getting
mixed signals is part of the process, because you are overthinking every action of yours (true for both sides. However, as long as there is communication happening, it means you still care. My point of view.
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If you really like someone, getting
mixed signals is part of the process, because you are overthinking every action of yours (true for both sides. However, as long as there is communication happening, it means you still care. My point of view.
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Hannah
oh my gosh this sounds exactly like a guy friend I had years ago I could never understand him and he confused me so much pushing me away like that. I love your videos and watch all of them and now I kind of have an idea of what happened lol.
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oh my gosh this sounds exactly like a guy friend I had years ago I could never understand him and he confused me so much pushing me away like that. I love your videos and watch all of them and now I kind of have an idea of what happened lol.
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SkySimmer
He knows I like him, but he never said that he didn't like me back and my friend thinks he does
Can't tell if I'm being rational/reasonable in saying that he doesn't like me, or if I'm just overthinking it and in denial.
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He knows I like him, but he never said that he didn't like me back and my friend thinks he does
Can't tell if I'm being rational/reasonable in saying that he doesn't like me, or if I'm just overthinking it and in denial.
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juan
When you're sat here and watching these types of videos for a month or two. You lose interest in them.
The girl I was seriously into, I now hope she's into the other guy I know instead. I've found a new challenge
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When you're sat here and watching these types of videos for a month or two. You lose interest in them.
The girl I was seriously into, I now hope she's into the other guy I know instead. I've found a new challenge
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Leonardo
I'm not Sherlock Holmes or something like that but judging for the last 5 videos I can presume someone likes her and is trying to deny it. This is the way she can tell yea I know, you can't trick me, fool.
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I'm not Sherlock Holmes or something like that but judging for the last 5 videos I can presume someone likes her and is trying to deny it. This is the way she can tell yea I know, you can't trick me, fool.
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Infj-t
Good, deny them, repel them, push them away, you have a 0% chance of gettin with me anyway, so rip out the feelings you have for me, because you're an idiot for catching feelings for this human
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Good, deny them, repel them, push them away, you have a 0% chance of gettin with me anyway, so rip out the feelings you have for me, because you're an idiot for catching feelings for this human
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Riley
I do sometimes get jealous when my crush hangs out with others
But I know it is not worth pursuing my crush at this moment in time as they have a partner and are fully monogamous
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I do sometimes get jealous when my crush hangs out with others
But I know it is not worth pursuing my crush at this moment in time as they have a partner and are fully monogamous
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