6 Types of Emotional Abuse
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Maria
Emotional abuse verbal emotional abused its mistreatment. It's not nice behavior at all.
1. Force people do what they don't want to stay with is abuse.
Imgore the victims boundaries standards. Without regard of how the victims feels.
Lash out verbally abuse. Belittling labeling blaming bullying.
Ingore you on purpose because they want to manipulate the victims.
Emotional abuse verbal abuse mistreated people isolation loneliness treat victims like their in prison or like a slave.
The abusers shift blaming gaslighting manipulation critizing belittling disrespectful controlling manipulation unpredictable behavior and wouldn't get better from reliving the past all ready happened. Behavior is toxic behavior unhealthy behavior of the abusers to treat the victims this way.
Most victims feel miserable worst about themselves in toxic relationship and environment and rather make changes and get out of toxic environment toxic relationship breakup with toxic boyfriend and move on forward instead.
Cannot change anyone but yourself and can't change the past it already happened. If a narcissistic guy abuse you better off without him. Why would anyone want to stay with devilish people their not even a good people at all seriously. They even kill their own girlfriends or own children if they had to. Why suffer from abuse when your better off being without them.
More on without toxic people. Just block them go no contact with narcissistic abusers guy. Move on forward without them either way.
Go to therapy counseling get better heal from traumatized experience cptsd symptoms and mental illness symptoms and ptsd syndromes because it's healthy way to heal. Learn to self care about yourself and forget about the jerk who abused you.
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Emotional abuse verbal emotional abused its mistreatment. It's not nice behavior at all.
1. Force people do what they don't want to stay with is abuse.
Imgore the victims boundaries standards. Without regard of how the victims feels.
Lash out verbally abuse. Belittling labeling blaming bullying.
Ingore you on purpose because they want to manipulate the victims.
Emotional abuse verbal abuse mistreated people isolation loneliness treat victims like their in prison or like a slave.
The abusers shift blaming gaslighting manipulation critizing belittling disrespectful controlling manipulation unpredictable behavior and wouldn't get better from reliving the past all ready happened. Behavior is toxic behavior unhealthy behavior of the abusers to treat the victims this way.
Most victims feel miserable worst about themselves in toxic relationship and environment and rather make changes and get out of toxic environment toxic relationship breakup with toxic boyfriend and move on forward instead.
Cannot change anyone but yourself and can't change the past it already happened. If a narcissistic guy abuse you better off without him. Why would anyone want to stay with devilish people their not even a good people at all seriously. They even kill their own girlfriends or own children if they had to. Why suffer from abuse when your better off being without them.
More on without toxic people. Just block them go no contact with narcissistic abusers guy. Move on forward without them either way.
Go to therapy counseling get better heal from traumatized experience cptsd symptoms and mental illness symptoms and ptsd syndromes because it's healthy way to heal. Learn to self care about yourself and forget about the jerk who abused you.
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Angel
People used to treat me like crap when I was younger. They bullied me and criticised my appearance, ignored me until they wanted something from me, and when they got what they wanted they went right back to treating me like dirt. Some people see kindness as a sign of weakness and believe that kind people are there for them to exploit. Dont take it personally. Its their problem not yours. Imagine what's the mindset of people like these? They want attention and due to their insecurities they think they are not getting any attention when they are receiving normal attention. And then this feeling turns into desperation and they think the only way to get noticed is bullying or mistreatment. This helps them always be in the lime light. They will also get attention when people will fear them. Even if they know your worth, due to jealous and hatred, they would treat you in a bad way. For the most part people treat others like garbage because they have a hard time living with themselves. Actions and attitudes that are hurtful and damaging are expressions of trauma. They come from pain, fear, they are defensive reaction, lashing out out of misery. Often, most of the time, those who treat others like garbage are completely unconscious of their own trauma so it doesnt show. Never make yourself negative and stressed due to them.
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People used to treat me like crap when I was younger. They bullied me and criticised my appearance, ignored me until they wanted something from me, and when they got what they wanted they went right back to treating me like dirt. Some people see kindness as a sign of weakness and believe that kind people are there for them to exploit. Dont take it personally. Its their problem not yours. Imagine what's the mindset of people like these? They want attention and due to their insecurities they think they are not getting any attention when they are receiving normal attention. And then this feeling turns into desperation and they think the only way to get noticed is bullying or mistreatment. This helps them always be in the lime light. They will also get attention when people will fear them. Even if they know your worth, due to jealous and hatred, they would treat you in a bad way. For the most part people treat others like garbage because they have a hard time living with themselves. Actions and attitudes that are hurtful and damaging are expressions of trauma. They come from pain, fear, they are defensive reaction, lashing out out of misery. Often, most of the time, those who treat others like garbage are completely unconscious of their own trauma so it doesnt show. Never make yourself negative and stressed due to them.
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Olivia
I just want to emphasize that its not always even this blatant in the sense that sometimes abuse is subtle. For example, you may think, Well, this cant be abuse because theyre not yelling at me or swearing at me. But hurtful things that are said to you under the guise of being a joke or even subtle phrasing is also abuse. Another example is that they may not come out and say in such direct wording that theyre going to hurt themselves if you break up with them. I told a partner I was leaving because I was scared he was going to hurt me. He said, Youre not the one who needs to worry about getting hurt. He didnt blatantly come out and say he was going to hurt himself or kill himself which made it very confusing and maddening, but ultimately thats what he was saying. Dont get caught up in thinking everything youre going through needs to match these things youre watching and reading exactly. If it makes you feel bad, its bad.
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I just want to emphasize that its not always even this blatant in the sense that sometimes abuse is subtle. For example, you may think, Well, this cant be abuse because theyre not yelling at me or swearing at me. But hurtful things that are said to you under the guise of being a joke or even subtle phrasing is also abuse. Another example is that they may not come out and say in such direct wording that theyre going to hurt themselves if you break up with them. I told a partner I was leaving because I was scared he was going to hurt me. He said, Youre not the one who needs to worry about getting hurt. He didnt blatantly come out and say he was going to hurt himself or kill himself which made it very confusing and maddening, but ultimately thats what he was saying. Dont get caught up in thinking everything youre going through needs to match these things youre watching and reading exactly. If it makes you feel bad, its bad.
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Brianna
So I don't know if this is considered emotional abuse or not, but I want someone who I don't know to tell me if it is or not. So currently I have been feeling very stressed with school, and when I open up to her about how stressed I am she proceeds to tell me to suck it up. She than procceds to tell me that work for her is so much worse than school. But the thing is, is she's not working at all. Not right now at least. The way she goes about saying these things makes me feel like my emotions are invalid and like my problems and worries don't come even close to matching hers. She always plays the victim in every situation and the older I get the more I realize it. So, is this abuse? Or not?
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So I don't know if this is considered emotional abuse or not, but I want someone who I don't know to tell me if it is or not. So currently I have been feeling very stressed with school, and when I open up to her about how stressed I am she proceeds to tell me to suck it up. She than procceds to tell me that work for her is so much worse than school. But the thing is, is she's not working at all. Not right now at least. The way she goes about saying these things makes me feel like my emotions are invalid and like my problems and worries don't come even close to matching hers. She always plays the victim in every situation and the older I get the more I realize it. So, is this abuse? Or not?
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Kotoko
How unhealthy is it for someone to be a witness of their parents emotionally abusing each other? When I was younger, during one of my parents bigger arguments, I remember my mother threatening to commit suicide if my dad left her. Also my mom pulled a knife on my father, but that was before I was born. My father also has locked my mom out of the house, hit her (only once though, and tells her that shes rude to everyone and that no one cares about her. To make matters worse, my mother has been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and adhd. I guess what Im asking is how will it affect you to witness your parents abuse each other like that?
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How unhealthy is it for someone to be a witness of their parents emotionally abusing each other? When I was younger, during one of my parents bigger arguments, I remember my mother threatening to commit suicide if my dad left her. Also my mom pulled a knife on my father, but that was before I was born. My father also has locked my mom out of the house, hit her (only once though, and tells her that shes rude to everyone and that no one cares about her. To make matters worse, my mother has been diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and adhd. I guess what Im asking is how will it affect you to witness your parents abuse each other like that?
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BG
Thank you for this. I had a girlfriend that did a ton of these things. Eventually my family got me out of it. I was in a black hole of despair when I was with this person and I never understood why I fell for it until I watched this video. I am a seasoned litigator and I was always ashamed that I fell for her tricks. I still miss her cats though! They used to sleep on me and not her which pissed her off to no end! I guess the cats knew I was a good dude and she was kind of a B. Also I was the only one changing their litter!
Also when they wanted stuff they would lick me in the nose sometimes at 3am! I still got up and did it for them.
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Thank you for this. I had a girlfriend that did a ton of these things. Eventually my family got me out of it. I was in a black hole of despair when I was with this person and I never understood why I fell for it until I watched this video. I am a seasoned litigator and I was always ashamed that I fell for her tricks. I still miss her cats though! They used to sleep on me and not her which pissed her off to no end! I guess the cats knew I was a good dude and she was kind of a B. Also I was the only one changing their litter!
Also when they wanted stuff they would lick me in the nose sometimes at 3am! I still got up and did it for them.
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Cooper
My ex girlfriend threatened to kill her self when I told her I was going to break up with her aft5er I had been subjected to emotional and verbal abuse constantly for months. During which she yell, scream, and tell to leave and then would get mad when I was going to. I have been suffering from depression for most o0f my life i got so low to the point i started hurting myself. Cutting, punching, and drinking. I would do anything to escape the feeling of being numb. What she did didn't help. She would take advantage of my poor memory and would try to present her feelings as facts. I am now getting help and have left that relationship.
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My ex girlfriend threatened to kill her self when I told her I was going to break up with her aft5er I had been subjected to emotional and verbal abuse constantly for months. During which she yell, scream, and tell to leave and then would get mad when I was going to. I have been suffering from depression for most o0f my life i got so low to the point i started hurting myself. Cutting, punching, and drinking. I would do anything to escape the feeling of being numb. What she did didn't help. She would take advantage of my poor memory and would try to present her feelings as facts. I am now getting help and have left that relationship.
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SOS_Ali
I never used to understand when someone who was physically abused would say the emotional and verbal abuse hurt more until I was in a relationship with someone who is emotionally abusive with me, I would wish he'd just punch me in the face so the pain would show and heal. I get that he had lived in an emotionally abusive relationship for so long that he thought that was how our relationship should work as well, but it is his responsibility NOT MINE to get help to heal and develop his healthy functional coping skills for a mature relationship. My job is to protect myself from abuse.
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I never used to understand when someone who was physically abused would say the emotional and verbal abuse hurt more until I was in a relationship with someone who is emotionally abusive with me, I would wish he'd just punch me in the face so the pain would show and heal. I get that he had lived in an emotionally abusive relationship for so long that he thought that was how our relationship should work as well, but it is his responsibility NOT MINE to get help to heal and develop his healthy functional coping skills for a mature relationship. My job is to protect myself from abuse.
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Olivia
i dont like sharing this at all but no one knows who i am on here so. my last relationship was very toxic. after watching this i realized that it was emotional abuse. he used to body shame me and then when id get upset hed ignore me then apologize days later. eventually back in may he broke up with me for being too insecure. he tried to manipulate me and tell me that he was glad he ended things and that i was exhausting. i havent been in another relationship since and am so scared of putting myself out there again.
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i dont like sharing this at all but no one knows who i am on here so. my last relationship was very toxic. after watching this i realized that it was emotional abuse. he used to body shame me and then when id get upset hed ignore me then apologize days later. eventually back in may he broke up with me for being too insecure. he tried to manipulate me and tell me that he was glad he ended things and that i was exhausting. i havent been in another relationship since and am so scared of putting myself out there again.
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Carissa
Im a freshmen in high school and my mother has been emotionally abusive since I can remember. Whenever I tell her about it she turns it around and says im ungrateful and disrespectful, im so tired of constantly walking on egg shells around her. I want to live with my dad full time ( I go to my dads every other week) but I cant because my mom has to take me to school, my dad lives to far to take me to school and has work early in the morning. Please tell me what I should do
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Im a freshmen in high school and my mother has been emotionally abusive since I can remember. Whenever I tell her about it she turns it around and says im ungrateful and disrespectful, im so tired of constantly walking on egg shells around her. I want to live with my dad full time ( I go to my dads every other week) but I cant because my mom has to take me to school, my dad lives to far to take me to school and has work early in the morning. Please tell me what I should do
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Gissel021g
Just throwing this out there to the void. I don't know if anyone will see this or if anyone will care. My family is trying to make me get a master's degree and I don't want to get it. My family wants me to be a CNA but that isn't the job I want. The only reason I'm going to do it is so that they can have a little more faith and confidence in me so I could gain a little more say for my own and get a little bit of freedom as well.
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Just throwing this out there to the void. I don't know if anyone will see this or if anyone will care. My family is trying to make me get a master's degree and I don't want to get it. My family wants me to be a CNA but that isn't the job I want. The only reason I'm going to do it is so that they can have a little more faith and confidence in me so I could gain a little more say for my own and get a little bit of freedom as well.
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He
My mom is kind of verbally abusive. She constantly critises me for little things. One time, she made me stand infront of a mirror and pointed out all my flaws. By that time i was already very very insecure so that made me feel sad. She also threatens me and my sister by saying that she will kick us out of the house (im 13 so i need a house to stay in)
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My mom is kind of verbally abusive. She constantly critises me for little things. One time, she made me stand infront of a mirror and pointed out all my flaws. By that time i was already very very insecure so that made me feel sad. She also threatens me and my sister by saying that she will kick us out of the house (im 13 so i need a house to stay in)
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education
im literally on the bathroom floor crying about to get in the shower because my dad ripped apart my frog earrings on purpose and everyone is screaming at me and its an everyday thing and i hate going to school acting like im happy when im secretly thinking about what happened that night. :(
Edit: my dad has thrown a chair at me before
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im literally on the bathroom floor crying about to get in the shower because my dad ripped apart my frog earrings on purpose and everyone is screaming at me and its an everyday thing and i hate going to school acting like im happy when im secretly thinking about what happened that night. :(
Edit: my dad has thrown a chair at me before
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Ghosted
I have been the victim of a lot of emotional abuse (from many people. I mostly just watched this video to remind myself that I'm not just being oversensitive about it and that this is what it was. Thank you for helping people realize that its a real thing, and that the victims aren't at fault
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I have been the victim of a lot of emotional abuse (from many people. I mostly just watched this video to remind myself that I'm not just being oversensitive about it and that this is what it was. Thank you for helping people realize that its a real thing, and that the victims aren't at fault
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education
I had a few pretty toxic friends back in elementary school and middle school. A lot of the time I worry that I'm copying their behavior towards people who I care about without realizing it. The its not your fault part actually made me feel a lot better. Thank you so much.
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I had a few pretty toxic friends back in elementary school and middle school. A lot of the time I worry that I'm copying their behavior towards people who I care about without realizing it. The its not your fault part actually made me feel a lot better. Thank you so much.
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KEN
. now that i think about it, i often have thoughts on wanting to use others for my selfish goal, but i always stop because either im too lethargic, or the guilt already weighs heavy even before attempting to commit said actions.
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. now that i think about it, i often have thoughts on wanting to use others for my selfish goal, but i always stop because either im too lethargic, or the guilt already weighs heavy even before attempting to commit said actions.
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micheel
both are the same my mom was abused by her mom she favorti my little brother and mentaly abuses me but i dont think she knows she does it me amd my brother are running away to day but i dont think it is the best idea
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both are the same my mom was abused by her mom she favorti my little brother and mentaly abuses me but i dont think she knows she does it me amd my brother are running away to day but i dont think it is the best idea
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Aishwarya
First day of relationship and my boyfriend asked for nudes. When I got triggered, he said he didn't mean it like that. That was my first relationship. He ruined my first experience of being in a relationship.
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First day of relationship and my boyfriend asked for nudes. When I got triggered, he said he didn't mean it like that. That was my first relationship. He ruined my first experience of being in a relationship.
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Subliminal. Spirit
Okay but, what if you've been verbally abused and are now showing signs of verbally abusive behaviour, what do you do then? Even if it's unintentional or something like that idk?
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Okay but, what if you've been verbally abused and are now showing signs of verbally abusive behaviour, what do you do then? Even if it's unintentional or something like that idk?
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Ivey
Ill admit. I will sometimes lash out in an argument when I start to get insecure about something but I need to work on my anger/insecurities because I dont want to hurt the other person.
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Ill admit. I will sometimes lash out in an argument when I start to get insecure about something but I need to work on my anger/insecurities because I dont want to hurt the other person.
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L00NAxH4RDC0RE
What if my stepfather calls me fat?
What if he doesn't accept my interests that aren't hurting anybody
My mom blames it on him messing with me.
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What if my stepfather calls me fat?
What if he doesn't accept my interests that aren't hurting anybody
My mom blames it on him messing with me.
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Luli48
that moment when you know exactly that whatever signs would apply to a certain someone. sigh its time for round 473738 of convincing mom to leave dad already
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that moment when you know exactly that whatever signs would apply to a certain someone. sigh its time for round 473738 of convincing mom to leave dad already
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$savepoetry
Relationships are like a nightmare when the girl is more harder than softer. A softer will become abusive when they sense you're harming harmony.
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Relationships are like a nightmare when the girl is more harder than softer. A softer will become abusive when they sense you're harming harmony.
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expresso
Im in an emotional abusive relationship and I just wanna get out of it but I dont know how I wanna tell my parents but its so hard to talk to them
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Im in an emotional abusive relationship and I just wanna get out of it but I dont know how I wanna tell my parents but its so hard to talk to them
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Sunny
I've been emotionally abused by a friend. He treated me so nice and suddenly changed: (
Everything is okay now because I reported him to the cops
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I've been emotionally abused by a friend. He treated me so nice and suddenly changed: (
Everything is okay now because I reported him to the cops
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