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For People Feeling Behind In Life

For People Feeling Behind In Life

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Do you ever feel lost? Maybe you cant help but feel the looming presence of depression riding on your shoulder. Have you ever have thoughts like MaxGamer07: I'm 16, and somehow, I'm both well supported and alone at the same time. Physically, I have good amounts of support. But emotionally. It's as if to others, my emotions don't exist. I'm doing fine physically, therefore there couldn't be anything wrong with me emotionally, right? Oh, if only others knew just how wrong that was. And I can't just tell them. Nobody believes me. I'm just seeking attention or being overdramatic. I have zero emotional support. I went to a therapist once, and just as we finally started making progress, it was canceled. Health insurance stopped paying for it, and my parents didn't want to pay for it, so they put a stop to it. And I don't think they're willing to start that back up again. I was diagnosed with ADHD many years ago, and something I will say is this: Whoever came up with the idea that you will grow out of ADHD, they LIED. Many depressive symptoms have also sneaked their way in. And it doesn't help that I recently lost someone too. (Before you ask, yes, I had depressive symptoms before the loss) I don't know how to move forward. The physical answer is easy. Focus in school, and do your- wait a minute. How am I meant to focus with all this going on? It's too much, yet it's also nothing at the same time. I feel everything, yet I also feel empty. When I don't feel empty, it's usually me being angry at games. To the point where I spam Alt+F4 the moment something happens. I regret it each and every time, yet I can't get myself to stop doing it. I feel motivated to play certain games, yet also hate myself for it, as those are the exact games that make me unfathomably angry every time I play them. I feel sucked in, yet disinterested at the same time. And it goes past games. It goes to the point where everything I do either seems normal, or is such a big mistake that it has altered the course of the rest of the day. There's never a positive. It's always just me getting through the day, my sanity barely intact. By the time I get home, I'm so mentally exhausted that I immediately feel the need to get my mind off the day. So, I do what a normal person would do and try to enjoy some games. You already saw how that goes. I have so much, yet also nothing at the same time. I feel as if I am in my own special kind of hell, where I'm just trapped in an infinite loop of invisible suffering. And I know, we can't always be happy, since happy would just become neutral. And believe me, I want to be happy. I've tried so hard to just be happy. But I can't. And it's been so long, I hardly remember what it feels like. Can't remembered the last time I had a genuine smile in a family photo. I know for a fact that happiness is not neutral. It's just not there. Emotions are like rain. Too much of it, there's a flood. But, if there isn't enough of it for long enough, there's a drought. I have been in a very long drought, with the occasional bucket of anger being poured over my head.
Edit: Fixed a typo

Date: 2023-08-20

Comments and reviews: 24


This video made me get tears in my eyes. I've been feeling so sad for a while, and even lonely even if I'm really not. I've been struggling to see worth in myself and the future seems dark to me. I'm a very insecure and depressed person but I'm really trying to change that, this videos give me hope because they remind me things that i already know but have a hard time believing, like accepting and pushing through my mistakes and not hating myself more for them. Most of the videos i see with this kinda content seem to be kinda rushed or commercial, but these are just perfect, they're gentle and calming which is just what i need.
College has been giving me a very diffiult time. I don't know what to do in the future and I'm terrified. I'm studying a degree I don't enjoy at all and my grades are mediocre/bad. Next year, I'm planning to go to something I actually enjoy and my parents are quite supportive but I still feel somewhat embarrassed. Tbh I put more pressure in myself than anyone else I know and that's just not okay If I wouldn't treat someone else like this, then why do I torture myself this way? The human mind is always trying to make sense of things and only makes them worse. sucks LOL but I'm not planning on giving up. I have to keep on living, if it's not for myself, then. for my family members who I love unconditionally and my 4 pets. I've been able to push myself from these difficult and scary situations before, and I'll be able to do so again.
Good luck to everyone! and to me, too! We'll all get through these tough times. Life gets better and you all know it.

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I never felt so left behind in my life. Both of my bestfriend (we interact online) have already had people who liked them and relationships. Both have a strong support system towards their careers. Both have close real life friends. Both have complete families. I used to have a complete family until my mother died a year ago. I've been especially jealous of one best friend but after losing my mom and my only real life support, my mental health went downhill even as my body continues to do chores, study, work, and other responsibilities.
I feel like life has given me the shorter end of the stick and I feel furious towards my circumstances. Seeing my best friend, as much as I love them, are a reminder of what I can't have. I feel so left behind. On a happier note, I'm able to push my thoughts and control my reactions to a big extent. Now I'm trying to heal from my frustrations while finding a way out of my circumstances.

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The hopelessness of being behind in life is painful. However, I have come to realise that I did not ask to live, nor exist. If I am behind in life, it is not my fault. I should have remained non-existant. I did not invent the expectations for the standards of life. This is was all forced on me. Thus, do not put expectations on me for something I never wanted nor was even asked if I wanted. I will live at my pace whether it is approved by the masses or not. I could return to not existing in an instant. But I have chosen just to ignore the masses. That eases the desire to expedite returning to nothingness. Death will come as my reward for existing in due time. For now, I will wait.
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I think that constantly challenging these negative thought patterns and how rational they really are would help. Since our minds focus on the negative more than the positive, this might be a long process since i'm currently struggling even when I try to do this, but I truly believe it can help. Playing out scenarios of how your feeling and commenting on how valid it really is goes with what you mentioned, being an observer in your life. But also acting upon this would help too, and I want to act, but I don't know how, since I keep observing but not doing. I know what to do but not how to do it.
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Call it click bait. Call it God. But this title. Is the reason why I suffer. I'm currently caught up in old behavior and ways of thinking. Because. Of this. I am at a point in my life where I've gotten past My ts. But. When rejection comes up too much. I fall back. And because I got to see this video, it has reminded me how far I've come. And ended my tenacious depression. I wanted to say thank you. I'm trying to learn how to live Grey and unbiased. I think I've figured it out. Now. That I have broken this mood, spawned depression, I should finally be ok.
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I had a job interview today, I'm 18 by now and in my country you got the opportunity to start when you're 16 but I couldn't make it earlier. The woman that was talking to me about the job told me that I should be studying or working in that conditions but I wasn't so something was wrong. I felt really sad to know that I was getting older and still depending on my parents to live, I can't describe how lost I felt, felt like a shame and so behind: ( but thank you, Psy2go, thank you for making me feel better
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I just got rejected From Oxford University which Was My only dream since i Was born i guess. Now i Don't think i have the motivation or the money to study for any other University. Now the only logical explanation is i Will not get a living and I'll become a Burden to my parents and they are not doing well with their Finances. No Bright side available.
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I just failed a final exam that was of my favourite subject. And idk anymore how to feel, a subject your usually good at, but weren't this time due to Ur own mistakes and wasting of time well idk how to feel anymore. You know it's your fault and your guilty abt it yet it still feels wrong to feel bad about it since in the end you're the one who caused it.
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2: 50 3: 50 You know some people never get better, so it didn't pass for them.
5: 20 I can't even get to the bare minimum.
6: 10 I don't lie to myself, I either know or have the opinion of those negative things about myself.
Survivor of suicide is a contradiction, it's not a thing. What you mean is survivor of suicide attempts.

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For People Feeling Behind In Life
6 Things to Remember when you feel like your life is over
Life isn't always happy
Everything in life is sure to pass
Acknowledge the good in your life
Write your own life
Your mind can lie and knows how best how to convince you
There is. Or can be someone out there who loves you

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Bro, I'm 18 years old, yet no job, still live with my parents, everytime I see someone on Social Media living a good life, I feel crushed. I need help man, everytine I try to solve these issues, it always fails, since I rush to achieve those goals, and never feel good about it. maybe I need help. it sounds pathetic, I know.
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Im so thankful for finding your account your videos have helped me a lot by understanding myself and others better and giving me some hope when I needed it most, thank you for making these important videos and helping me and countless others keep doing this your videos are important and makes this world better
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31 and basically done nothing since I was 19. 12 years behind on jobs, relationships, mental health, everything. 1 short vacation, no relationships, work 2 days a week, smoke, drink, no friends, 2 nights out in that time. I love my family though. They're why I'm here. Stay strong everyone
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Ive been bingeing yalls videos about self harm and coping skills for ADHD, and I wanna thank you so much for everything youve done for my life and the lives of others
Also, is it just me or does the person in the video look like the main character from the show Over The Garden Wall?

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Just remember you're not alone. We have listed helpline in the description box. Disclaimer: Video is made for educational purposes and do not substitute for professional advice. Please reach out to a qualified healthcare provider or mental health professional if you are struggling.
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Honestly I'm not even sure anymore because I don't want to do anything. I don't want to go anywhere. I just want to sit and bed but I don't want to sit in bed sometimes. I don't really feel like I want to be here anymore but at the same time what if it gets better. I just don't know
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This is a rough time for me. It just seems like for the past two months the tears have been unending. I feel like a scared little girl again, wishing her dad would protect her instead of hurt her. But he never protected me, if anything he used me as a weapon or a shield.
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I dont know how much longer I can put up with my life everything when down hill in 2020 and has just been getting progressively worse since no matter how hard I try to make change it never pans out for me just failure after failure, I feel like Im stuck in this endless cycle
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I must firmly protest the This to will pass. A difficulty may pass with intolerable suffering and death, such as a terminal disease. A brutal as assault one one's self or loved one. A paralyzing accident. No, the This is too. may well be passed by.
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I appreciate all that was said. Unfortunately we don't acknowledge who truly wants to harm us, or sabotage us even harm us. It is called the devil and his demons. I understand why we try to allude that there aren't other entities trying to harm us.
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I'm between appointments with my therapist/ counselor, and this message hit me hard, your mind lies to you. and knows how best to convince you
Thank you for reminding me how true this is, and that I don't have to listen to it.

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I feel like i always lack information about what's happening around the world. And it scares me knowing i might not know something so important that might be helpful someday. I'm a coward. Afraid of the unknown and death.
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Still, I watch all these videos saying life it's not over and it's not that bad. But none manage to convince me. The only thing keeping me from doing that is that I have a mother that relies on me. Well her and my cats.
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My life pretty much depends on the grades of my exams. But since my depression got so bad that i can't even try doing anything not even studying so my exams that decide if my life is worth living aren't going great.
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