5 Habits That Attract People The Most
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Livvy
After watching this video I realize that I'm really not as ok as I thought I was. I am only 15 right now but I have social anxiety and really bad self esteem. My parents are generally pretty happy people and have not experienced much to do with anxiety themselves (that I know of, so my logic was that they wouldn't understand why I'm like this so we would all be better off to just not say anything because I could handle it on my own. I also thought that it would make things weird between me and my family if I said anything about what is going on with me. I have been 'handling' it for over a year now and it honestly it has only been getting worse. My social anxiety has stayed about the same (hasn't gotten worse) but I have been getting worse at handling my emotions because they have been stored in me for so long without venting them to literally anyone (not even my best friend. This whole time I assumed that if I don't think about the problem, it will go away. My younger brother has also contributed significantly to my mental health in a bad way (my brother is on the autism spectrum, he gets very angry very quickly over small things. When me and my brother fight it isn't just bickering and getting over it, he HAS to be right 100% of the time and when he's not that just makes him more mad. He is demanding, manipulaive, never apologises, he doesn't listen, he is ALWAYS the victim. There is SO much more that my brother does but I'm not going to explain my entire relationship with him here. I love him very very much because he is my little brother and when he isnt in a bad mood we have a lot of fun (when he isnt annoying me. But back to the point. I started crying as I watched through this video and I realized that 99% of this relates to me. I don't even know what to do though because obviously I can't change my brother so he will continue doing what he always does, but I don't know if I should tell my parents or something but I am still worried that things will be weird or they will brush it off because my brother is worse than me and needs more attention. I just don't know what to do honestly. If you read the whole thing, thanks for listening to my story
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After watching this video I realize that I'm really not as ok as I thought I was. I am only 15 right now but I have social anxiety and really bad self esteem. My parents are generally pretty happy people and have not experienced much to do with anxiety themselves (that I know of, so my logic was that they wouldn't understand why I'm like this so we would all be better off to just not say anything because I could handle it on my own. I also thought that it would make things weird between me and my family if I said anything about what is going on with me. I have been 'handling' it for over a year now and it honestly it has only been getting worse. My social anxiety has stayed about the same (hasn't gotten worse) but I have been getting worse at handling my emotions because they have been stored in me for so long without venting them to literally anyone (not even my best friend. This whole time I assumed that if I don't think about the problem, it will go away. My younger brother has also contributed significantly to my mental health in a bad way (my brother is on the autism spectrum, he gets very angry very quickly over small things. When me and my brother fight it isn't just bickering and getting over it, he HAS to be right 100% of the time and when he's not that just makes him more mad. He is demanding, manipulaive, never apologises, he doesn't listen, he is ALWAYS the victim. There is SO much more that my brother does but I'm not going to explain my entire relationship with him here. I love him very very much because he is my little brother and when he isnt in a bad mood we have a lot of fun (when he isnt annoying me. But back to the point. I started crying as I watched through this video and I realized that 99% of this relates to me. I don't even know what to do though because obviously I can't change my brother so he will continue doing what he always does, but I don't know if I should tell my parents or something but I am still worried that things will be weird or they will brush it off because my brother is worse than me and needs more attention. I just don't know what to do honestly. If you read the whole thing, thanks for listening to my story
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Eric
1) Women often like bad guys that are careless so wheres the point? And it happens cuz women almost never have the task of approaching menso the very moment a guy dont show interest the wiring goes crazy and think: why is he not approaching even after giving green light?
2) Remarking being a good listener is obvious cuz women like to talk about themselves a lot, showing dominance and being able to toss it to somebody else is healthier cuz they have the chance to shine in the conversation
3) Smiling is good but make sure is not a fake smile
4) we cannot know how to avoid overcomplimenting if we dont know about body language behaviorthat will not work with average people as common sense is not accurate enough
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1) Women often like bad guys that are careless so wheres the point? And it happens cuz women almost never have the task of approaching menso the very moment a guy dont show interest the wiring goes crazy and think: why is he not approaching even after giving green light?
2) Remarking being a good listener is obvious cuz women like to talk about themselves a lot, showing dominance and being able to toss it to somebody else is healthier cuz they have the chance to shine in the conversation
3) Smiling is good but make sure is not a fake smile
4) we cannot know how to avoid overcomplimenting if we dont know about body language behaviorthat will not work with average people as common sense is not accurate enough
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cor
i let a little street urchin stay in my house he had no home he instead of be nice he get all uppity like he over GOD or something he don't work he disrespected my parents he just a mooch threw him and the same time i went over this man house he moved in with his mother and lived with him for a month not one time did i disrespect his hospitality you know what i did to him i made him think we brothers and without warning literally just got up and walked out and the tears on his face gave me purpose
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i let a little street urchin stay in my house he had no home he instead of be nice he get all uppity like he over GOD or something he don't work he disrespected my parents he just a mooch threw him and the same time i went over this man house he moved in with his mother and lived with him for a month not one time did i disrespect his hospitality you know what i did to him i made him think we brothers and without warning literally just got up and walked out and the tears on his face gave me purpose
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cor
its difficult to like people that hate themselves you understand\ i am real i do not live in vr like this prior job i had this woman said for 8 hours she was playing vr and her arm was hurting\ that lady dumb i do things that are realistic not virtual reality\ you cannot expect technology to help you that what i mean when i say it has turned love into a disease\ technology has broken the foundations of gender and that is my issue with technology and the religion of the machine
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its difficult to like people that hate themselves you understand\ i am real i do not live in vr like this prior job i had this woman said for 8 hours she was playing vr and her arm was hurting\ that lady dumb i do things that are realistic not virtual reality\ you cannot expect technology to help you that what i mean when i say it has turned love into a disease\ technology has broken the foundations of gender and that is my issue with technology and the religion of the machine
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drm__hoppa
Only someone with strong narcissistic tendencies would create/seek this video out. Encouraging unhealthy thinking patterns. You have to like yourself, it doesn't matter if other people like you or not in a general sense. Only the people whose opinion you value matter. Hearing someone imply they feel needed to be liked in a broad sense immediately makes me see them as conceited and self absorbed
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Only someone with strong narcissistic tendencies would create/seek this video out. Encouraging unhealthy thinking patterns. You have to like yourself, it doesn't matter if other people like you or not in a general sense. Only the people whose opinion you value matter. Hearing someone imply they feel needed to be liked in a broad sense immediately makes me see them as conceited and self absorbed
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cor
what if i can talk really good and i am realistic and yet everyone i talk to is not realistic they talk about stuff that is anachronistic to ethics and being practical ironically i am good at rhetoric despite being severely introverted my mind is not introverted i mainly watch people and see the subtlety with the mundane and honestly i have turned to ancient history for how to live in modern times
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what if i can talk really good and i am realistic and yet everyone i talk to is not realistic they talk about stuff that is anachronistic to ethics and being practical ironically i am good at rhetoric despite being severely introverted my mind is not introverted i mainly watch people and see the subtlety with the mundane and honestly i have turned to ancient history for how to live in modern times
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cor
you want to know how to become more attractive do not prove yourself to someone that only is digging your grave for you
instead intimidate those people with honesty never show any sign of vulnerability to say the ploy of conversation if that person wants words with you they come to you and admit they have any feelings otherwise you waste time with people that hate you more than you hate you
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you want to know how to become more attractive do not prove yourself to someone that only is digging your grave for you
instead intimidate those people with honesty never show any sign of vulnerability to say the ploy of conversation if that person wants words with you they come to you and admit they have any feelings otherwise you waste time with people that hate you more than you hate you
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cor
if people don't talk to you let tell you what to basically get a bottle of water and just throw it at them
i did that bro and that lady spoke to me people thought oh that guy a fool he don't talk and i said ok here we go
she got up and spoke to me i did not say a word to her she ask why i did that i said i don't have to know you proves i can get people to speak despite being a schizoid
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if people don't talk to you let tell you what to basically get a bottle of water and just throw it at them
i did that bro and that lady spoke to me people thought oh that guy a fool he don't talk and i said ok here we go
she got up and spoke to me i did not say a word to her she ask why i did that i said i don't have to know you proves i can get people to speak despite being a schizoid
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cor
so that why i am hostile towards people because they came to me i did not come to them and took advantage of my honor whilst i was just a kind person little rats what they be people that play tabletop roleplaying games and have literally no life people that make a living in a cover band instead of actually making original songs
i used to be real nice but not anymore i am real with you
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so that why i am hostile towards people because they came to me i did not come to them and took advantage of my honor whilst i was just a kind person little rats what they be people that play tabletop roleplaying games and have literally no life people that make a living in a cover band instead of actually making original songs
i used to be real nice but not anymore i am real with you
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cor
never get anyone to like you its not something i pretend to be liked by people or a person
why pretend to people hate everything about you and themselves
learn to be assertive throw water in the face of people use honesty to break these people and see how you will get success because there is no longer a ploy most people plot against you despite you being kind crowds are your enemy
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never get anyone to like you its not something i pretend to be liked by people or a person
why pretend to people hate everything about you and themselves
learn to be assertive throw water in the face of people use honesty to break these people and see how you will get success because there is no longer a ploy most people plot against you despite you being kind crowds are your enemy
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NiallerIsHome
Hii! Thank your for your videos they really are educational for my young brain who is still in school! Im just wondering if you could make a facial dysmorphia video? I have it and one of my friends does too and I just think more people should know about it. And if you want I bet you could use ranboo as an example or side character! With love, Goodbye!
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Hii! Thank your for your videos they really are educational for my young brain who is still in school! Im just wondering if you could make a facial dysmorphia video? I have it and one of my friends does too and I just think more people should know about it. And if you want I bet you could use ranboo as an example or side character! With love, Goodbye!
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cor
like you get a job all the women there fake they catfish they put on a fake image that not them
i see alot of fake eyelashes and phones and i realize oh no i am not getting used by some fake people you know this true
women act like they like you to steal your power and money they wanna use you men do that too but women are experts at this
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like you get a job all the women there fake they catfish they put on a fake image that not them
i see alot of fake eyelashes and phones and i realize oh no i am not getting used by some fake people you know this true
women act like they like you to steal your power and money they wanna use you men do that too but women are experts at this
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DamienDrake
(Smiling) exhibits joy, contentment, and happiness.
That's why I never smile. Cool.
The more I watch these videos the more screwed I realize I am socially. I literally can't get women to give me a second look after they get one good one, but now I know my face is an issue in two ways. Crap.
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(Smiling) exhibits joy, contentment, and happiness.
That's why I never smile. Cool.
The more I watch these videos the more screwed I realize I am socially. I literally can't get women to give me a second look after they get one good one, but now I know my face is an issue in two ways. Crap.
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Doggo4Life
I attracted my ex doing these, we broke up, I ignored her 1 month when she was hating me and she finally stopped and moved on as I did. (When she speaks with me, I straight up ignore her and her desk mate) Just be yourself, don't let other people to change you even if something bad happens.
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I attracted my ex doing these, we broke up, I ignored her 1 month when she was hating me and she finally stopped and moved on as I did. (When she speaks with me, I straight up ignore her and her desk mate) Just be yourself, don't let other people to change you even if something bad happens.
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cor
ladies be catfishing bro
that mean like you see them and that not who they be in real life they fake its on the internet and in real life
women do this and that why i act like that towards them because they being fake
be assertive you have the power they just wanna take your power
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ladies be catfishing bro
that mean like you see them and that not who they be in real life they fake its on the internet and in real life
women do this and that why i act like that towards them because they being fake
be assertive you have the power they just wanna take your power
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cor
i know Herodotus i have listened to his whole book
i know Livy i have listened to Aristotle and works of Plato
i have heard Gregory of Tours i have heard Pliny the Elder
i have heard Thucydides and i talk to people and they have heard modern acronyms of English declension
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i know Herodotus i have listened to his whole book
i know Livy i have listened to Aristotle and works of Plato
i have heard Gregory of Tours i have heard Pliny the Elder
i have heard Thucydides and i talk to people and they have heard modern acronyms of English declension
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cor
when i attract people i do it with my fist
i do not push people away
they push themselves away obviously because the talk is superficial and i am not into that
so i look at the woman and realize your a tool of abuse you cannot expect anyone to be used by your contempt
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when i attract people i do it with my fist
i do not push people away
they push themselves away obviously because the talk is superficial and i am not into that
so i look at the woman and realize your a tool of abuse you cannot expect anyone to be used by your contempt
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cor
you cannot live in anime all your life that what i do not do
people be grown men looking at my little pony that is psychological warfare
something caused a schism in their head i have meant people straight up that grown men into that type of dumb stuff
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you cannot live in anime all your life that what i do not do
people be grown men looking at my little pony that is psychological warfare
something caused a schism in their head i have meant people straight up that grown men into that type of dumb stuff
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cor
i was just walking a random woman sitting by the store had no idea who this was i literally threw water on that lady and she talked to me
one of the best things i have ever done that what you do to women that give you sarcasm give them equal spit
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i was just walking a random woman sitting by the store had no idea who this was i literally threw water on that lady and she talked to me
one of the best things i have ever done that what you do to women that give you sarcasm give them equal spit
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Sirijan
Can you do a video on mental illnesses? I did stress induced psychosis 4 months earlier, due to a long distance relationship, its complex, maybe share what happens, make people aware if theyre falling into it, does it harm brain etc
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Can you do a video on mental illnesses? I did stress induced psychosis 4 months earlier, due to a long distance relationship, its complex, maybe share what happens, make people aware if theyre falling into it, does it harm brain etc
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cor
how do i talk to women when all they do is look at the phone and i say hey how yall doin
and they say were into women and i say yeah i am into women to
mothers and fathers today are not being honored and that is an issue
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how do i talk to women when all they do is look at the phone and i say hey how yall doin
and they say were into women and i say yeah i am into women to
mothers and fathers today are not being honored and that is an issue
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Sarah
Or you could just be yourself you dont need to be someone who youre not dont like you for the way you are then you should just dumped them they dont deserve you find a good friend food like you for you thats what I learned
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Or you could just be yourself you dont need to be someone who youre not dont like you for the way you are then you should just dumped them they dont deserve you find a good friend food like you for you thats what I learned
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Rachel
When you meant listen and you made the small person big and talk about themself. Does that mean dont talk only about yourself? Listen to what people can say?
(Apologies, really. It just got me a little confused )
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When you meant listen and you made the small person big and talk about themself. Does that mean dont talk only about yourself? Listen to what people can say?
(Apologies, really. It just got me a little confused )
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cor
the problem today is the youth refuses to listen to the elder
and the mind inherently is a child as well
and because of this you have urban decay you have people that were once moral now tyrants
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the problem today is the youth refuses to listen to the elder
and the mind inherently is a child as well
and because of this you have urban decay you have people that were once moral now tyrants
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anteopta
Spreading positivity, like your videos do.
Every time I watch one of it, I feel like talking about my problems or simply wanting to smile. Depends on the content of the video.
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Spreading positivity, like your videos do.
Every time I watch one of it, I feel like talking about my problems or simply wanting to smile. Depends on the content of the video.
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