8 Signs You're Secretly Disliked By Others
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Date: 2023-08-20
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kashish
I am having trouble getting people like me for 24 years of my life. I can have little interaction with everyone, but not so much that someone starts liking me. I am worried that why it always happens to me. Because not even a single person I have known till now including my family likes me for who I am. I am also not so good at making friends. People leave me even after I do my best to be nice and whoever accepts me, may consider me the last priority in their life. I need help but don't know how to get it. All I feel is that I am too old for not being good at social skills and not having close friends. I have passed my school and undergraduate college. I also have a job that I have joined recently. Still, my social skills are the same, I feel. I fail to impress people. I need very much help with this, but I don't know where to get it. I have tried self-love too, but people find me selfish whenever I do it more. I also tried helping many people but they just stay there until I am of use and leave me whenever they find that they don't need me anymore. This is also negatively affecting my health and productivity at work.
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I am having trouble getting people like me for 24 years of my life. I can have little interaction with everyone, but not so much that someone starts liking me. I am worried that why it always happens to me. Because not even a single person I have known till now including my family likes me for who I am. I am also not so good at making friends. People leave me even after I do my best to be nice and whoever accepts me, may consider me the last priority in their life. I need help but don't know how to get it. All I feel is that I am too old for not being good at social skills and not having close friends. I have passed my school and undergraduate college. I also have a job that I have joined recently. Still, my social skills are the same, I feel. I fail to impress people. I need very much help with this, but I don't know where to get it. I have tried self-love too, but people find me selfish whenever I do it more. I also tried helping many people but they just stay there until I am of use and leave me whenever they find that they don't need me anymore. This is also negatively affecting my health and productivity at work.
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Rasmita
I do some or most of these but it isn't because I don't like you. It's just that I have undiagnosed ADHD, I am socially awkward and anxious 24/7. All my life my family has called me crazy and dumb. It got to a point, I stopped going out of my house. I would find excuses so that I don't have to face the world and try hard to hide the fact that I am not normal. I lock myself up inside and then expect to be accepted with open arms whenever I go out ending up feeling left behind, it's like I feel what they think of me but I cant tell them my struggles. The fear of rejection is too strong. I feel like everytime I try to let myself out, things get worse. So I have just gotten used to being with myself, being selfish. Maybe they will forever think of me as an indifferent person but maybe it's better this way. It's better me being by myself cuz they will never understand me anyway. How can I expect them to understand, when my family, even me myself don't understand
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I do some or most of these but it isn't because I don't like you. It's just that I have undiagnosed ADHD, I am socially awkward and anxious 24/7. All my life my family has called me crazy and dumb. It got to a point, I stopped going out of my house. I would find excuses so that I don't have to face the world and try hard to hide the fact that I am not normal. I lock myself up inside and then expect to be accepted with open arms whenever I go out ending up feeling left behind, it's like I feel what they think of me but I cant tell them my struggles. The fear of rejection is too strong. I feel like everytime I try to let myself out, things get worse. So I have just gotten used to being with myself, being selfish. Maybe they will forever think of me as an indifferent person but maybe it's better this way. It's better me being by myself cuz they will never understand me anyway. How can I expect them to understand, when my family, even me myself don't understand
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Azura's
i hate 2 confess 2 millions but. yeah i feel i could be hated by a friend(aka Friend A) since im going threw a very odd depression state and struggling to help my self and help my friend's sanity (Friend B) (no1 will be named or gendered due 2 privacy reasons) friend A hasnt spoken with me much since i took the break and after it (it failed badly but wut can u do when u got a friend who's fam keeps attacking em daily 4 nothing. anywho i feel friend A feels they got replaced with friend B but i feel friend A replaced me in a way with some1 i dislike who is a boarder line narcs. (ppl who act like they own everything and has 2 be told and in every tiny thing). idk what 2 do on it ngl and would love 2 open up maybe more to a place like 'My Story Animated' or something but idk. should i?
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i hate 2 confess 2 millions but. yeah i feel i could be hated by a friend(aka Friend A) since im going threw a very odd depression state and struggling to help my self and help my friend's sanity (Friend B) (no1 will be named or gendered due 2 privacy reasons) friend A hasnt spoken with me much since i took the break and after it (it failed badly but wut can u do when u got a friend who's fam keeps attacking em daily 4 nothing. anywho i feel friend A feels they got replaced with friend B but i feel friend A replaced me in a way with some1 i dislike who is a boarder line narcs. (ppl who act like they own everything and has 2 be told and in every tiny thing). idk what 2 do on it ngl and would love 2 open up maybe more to a place like 'My Story Animated' or something but idk. should i?
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Talpa
I want to add:
If only a few signs are fitting, it can also be that the other person does not dislike you, but just likes you less than other friends. For example, I do like all my friends, but there are some who I just like more, for different reasons. So my behaviour is different towards them. Doesn't mean I dislike them.
Same is true for them. I do realise/ notice who meets with whom more often. Yes, sometimes I feel excluded, but sometimes they feel excluded, too, I guess.
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I want to add:
If only a few signs are fitting, it can also be that the other person does not dislike you, but just likes you less than other friends. For example, I do like all my friends, but there are some who I just like more, for different reasons. So my behaviour is different towards them. Doesn't mean I dislike them.
Same is true for them. I do realise/ notice who meets with whom more often. Yes, sometimes I feel excluded, but sometimes they feel excluded, too, I guess.
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antics4
Hey Psych2go. I have someone I dislike and hate the most. Atomic is his name. And he loves to do good deeds for everyone except me. I ran towards him and stop when I was about 1 feet away or approximately 30 and a half centimeters away from him. And say I hate you! to him and then he said I hAtE yOu ToO. And then I screamed I HATE YOU SO MUCH MF to him and then he said If YoU dOnt LiKe Me ThEn NoBoDy LiKeS yOu. I dont just dislike him, I HATE him.
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Hey Psych2go. I have someone I dislike and hate the most. Atomic is his name. And he loves to do good deeds for everyone except me. I ran towards him and stop when I was about 1 feet away or approximately 30 and a half centimeters away from him. And say I hate you! to him and then he said I hAtE yOu ToO. And then I screamed I HATE YOU SO MUCH MF to him and then he said If YoU dOnt LiKe Me ThEn NoBoDy LiKeS yOu. I dont just dislike him, I HATE him.
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T0NiXiUM
So like am I the only person seeing a lot of these signs in myself even towards people I do like? Im autistic, so the reason I do those things is not because I dislike the personits usually because making eye contact is hard for me, crossing my arms is more comfortable than letting them hang at times, I dont know what to say so my replies are short, etc. etc. I do always try to explain why I act that way, though.
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So like am I the only person seeing a lot of these signs in myself even towards people I do like? Im autistic, so the reason I do those things is not because I dislike the personits usually because making eye contact is hard for me, crossing my arms is more comfortable than letting them hang at times, I dont know what to say so my replies are short, etc. etc. I do always try to explain why I act that way, though.
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Randy
I keep my so-called friends at arms length because of all the abuse I took from my father, my brothers, and dads side of the family (with a few exceptions. In short, with those few exception, I went no-contact with both sides of the family since mom passed away. Its bad enough I hate myself at the best of times: I dont need the vitriol from everyone and their brother.
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I keep my so-called friends at arms length because of all the abuse I took from my father, my brothers, and dads side of the family (with a few exceptions. In short, with those few exception, I went no-contact with both sides of the family since mom passed away. Its bad enough I hate myself at the best of times: I dont need the vitriol from everyone and their brother.
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Miss_Coconut_Chan
This. This video. Clearly described one of my best friend. Some of my friends told me when I talk about her that our relation looks like a toxic one, but I don't really listened to them, thinking that she was just in bad days and that's why she's not kind with me. But. In fact I know now that it's not. It hurts deeply. I've trusted her. It hurts.
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This. This video. Clearly described one of my best friend. Some of my friends told me when I talk about her that our relation looks like a toxic one, but I don't really listened to them, thinking that she was just in bad days and that's why she's not kind with me. But. In fact I know now that it's not. It hurts deeply. I've trusted her. It hurts.
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Jai
For some odd reason, some of my enemies want to be friends with me because they heard I suffer from PTSD and EUPD. Personally I think its so they can get a laugh, but I really dislike them. I don't wanna talk to them. I'm also aware I have 2 friends who secretly hate me so I don't talk to them. They only talk when they want something
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For some odd reason, some of my enemies want to be friends with me because they heard I suffer from PTSD and EUPD. Personally I think its so they can get a laugh, but I really dislike them. I don't wanna talk to them. I'm also aware I have 2 friends who secretly hate me so I don't talk to them. They only talk when they want something
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owlstronomy
psy, your boyfriend's here
but seriously, thanks for this vid! as a person in a friendship full of drama, it's easy to say some folk MAY have a secret phobia of me.
edit: for the part with the short convos, i personally agree! i see someone i dislike, i harden up and my answers become stiff and vague.
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psy, your boyfriend's here
but seriously, thanks for this vid! as a person in a friendship full of drama, it's easy to say some folk MAY have a secret phobia of me.
edit: for the part with the short convos, i personally agree! i see someone i dislike, i harden up and my answers become stiff and vague.
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William
I had a worse pain around my life, when jerkwads secretly disliked me for no reason.
But lucky thanks to the aftermath, I become lovable person with real honest, loyal, generous real citizen gentleman like.
Before both me and others don't feel bad them, must be too much bullying habits. Sad.
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I had a worse pain around my life, when jerkwads secretly disliked me for no reason.
But lucky thanks to the aftermath, I become lovable person with real honest, loyal, generous real citizen gentleman like.
Before both me and others don't feel bad them, must be too much bullying habits. Sad.
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Apsaras
If they wanna dislike or like me idc tbh, at least i already do my best to treat u and i lazy to please people waste my time, if u being bish to me then get ready to cut off since yea people now a day can't be trusted, u good to me then i will appreciate ur existence simple as this
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If they wanna dislike or like me idc tbh, at least i already do my best to treat u and i lazy to please people waste my time, if u being bish to me then get ready to cut off since yea people now a day can't be trusted, u good to me then i will appreciate ur existence simple as this
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sof
wow i wish i saw this video many many years ago.
From 1st - 8th grade, i had a best friend. We were truly friends until around 5th and 6th grade. And then most of the aspects mentioned in the video started to happen. It didn't take me 2 - 3 years to stop being friends with her.
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wow i wish i saw this video many many years ago.
From 1st - 8th grade, i had a best friend. We were truly friends until around 5th and 6th grade. And then most of the aspects mentioned in the video started to happen. It didn't take me 2 - 3 years to stop being friends with her.
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Voidwraith
This is not true. Especially the first two parts about fake smiles and body language. Those two things are the most common in people with poor body image, anxiety, or social awkwardness and those people often do those things around everyone; not just people they dislike.
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This is not true. Especially the first two parts about fake smiles and body language. Those two things are the most common in people with poor body image, anxiety, or social awkwardness and those people often do those things around everyone; not just people they dislike.
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Gacha
Honestly, most of these signs, I had acted them all out to an ex friend. She was my bestie but when she started being toxic. I started distancing her and disliking her ish. And these signs were exactly what I was doing. Not to show off or anything, I just wanted to comment
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Honestly, most of these signs, I had acted them all out to an ex friend. She was my bestie but when she started being toxic. I started distancing her and disliking her ish. And these signs were exactly what I was doing. Not to show off or anything, I just wanted to comment
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Joseph
This just sounds like a person in your group that doesn't like you don't consider everyone in your group a real friend just because you hangout with the same people do you consider somebody being a fake friend to you and they my not consider you to be their friend at all
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This just sounds like a person in your group that doesn't like you don't consider everyone in your group a real friend just because you hangout with the same people do you consider somebody being a fake friend to you and they my not consider you to be their friend at all
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possum
I just realized I do a lot of this stuff around my friend but I don't dislike her I am just bad at interacting with people. Eye contact and even being just a bit too close to someone are some things I can't stand, but it doesn't mean I dislike the person I'm talking to.
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I just realized I do a lot of this stuff around my friend but I don't dislike her I am just bad at interacting with people. Eye contact and even being just a bit too close to someone are some things I can't stand, but it doesn't mean I dislike the person I'm talking to.
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Nightmare
I feel like this video was a kind of a sign when I found it on my fyp. And I clicked this video just because I was ACTUALLY doubting relationships with my classmates. Turns out that there may be a person or two that dislikes me according to these signs
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I feel like this video was a kind of a sign when I found it on my fyp. And I clicked this video just because I was ACTUALLY doubting relationships with my classmates. Turns out that there may be a person or two that dislikes me according to these signs
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education
I have always noticed things too easily from people in my class that they arent interested in me or hatred forwards me which has always been difficult to accept and even still its a hard thing to accept, and I dont really know what to do about it
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I have always noticed things too easily from people in my class that they arent interested in me or hatred forwards me which has always been difficult to accept and even still its a hard thing to accept, and I dont really know what to do about it
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education
im literally the sweetest person ever, but feel like everyone dislikes me all the time. i can think of so many people who probably dislike me and i dont deserve it. its because theyre inherently so mean: / i just want (a) true friend(s.
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im literally the sweetest person ever, but feel like everyone dislikes me all the time. i can think of so many people who probably dislike me and i dont deserve it. its because theyre inherently so mean: / i just want (a) true friend(s.
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Alexis
this has just described how I act with everyone when I feel anxious, which recently is a lot, to so basically going on this thesis I dislike absolutely every human in the planet including the ones I love life is so hard and complicated
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this has just described how I act with everyone when I feel anxious, which recently is a lot, to so basically going on this thesis I dislike absolutely every human in the planet including the ones I love life is so hard and complicated
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Friday
Great. I always felt like there were something of with the way my friends at school treats me. Now I know why. All of them got all of these, towards me and me only. What the hell do I do now? Anyway, thanks a lot. I mean it.
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Great. I always felt like there were something of with the way my friends at school treats me. Now I know why. All of them got all of these, towards me and me only. What the hell do I do now? Anyway, thanks a lot. I mean it.
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Carlos
Yeah my mom shows a lot of these towards me, its hard to ask her if she does dislike me since her answer is always I love you more than you know but like she doesnt show it nor makes me feel it lol sucks to suck
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Yeah my mom shows a lot of these towards me, its hard to ask her if she does dislike me since her answer is always I love you more than you know but like she doesnt show it nor makes me feel it lol sucks to suck
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Wolf
Some of these I disagree with and it doesn't mean a person dislikes someone but it might be a cultural difference. Not everyone is tactile. Some of the signs people dislike you are not mentioned on the list.
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Some of these I disagree with and it doesn't mean a person dislikes someone but it might be a cultural difference. Not everyone is tactile. Some of the signs people dislike you are not mentioned on the list.
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Rubot
The the longest time I swore that a friend disliked me but our mutual friends would say that it wasnt like that and make excuses for them. They checked off most of these points tho
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The the longest time I swore that a friend disliked me but our mutual friends would say that it wasnt like that and make excuses for them. They checked off most of these points tho
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