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6 Signs You Have Toxic Friends, NOT Real Friends

6 Signs You Have Toxic Friends, NOT Real Friends

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If you had a friend for a while, but feel something is off, chances are your friend might actually be toxic friends. Toxic friendships are actually more common than you think. Toxic friends may end up betraying you when you need them most. If you are wondering if all my friends are toxic, then this video may be for you. However, if none of these signs are there, then maybe, you have a real friend. Real friends are hard to find, so treasure them when you do have them. Real friends will look after your mental health when you need them most
Date: 2023-08-20

Comments and reviews: 25


My friend does some of this, I was in a class with her for 2 years bc we happened to be in the same classes, the first year we were super good friends, the next year I found a friend who I will call A, (also the friend Im having problems with is C) I started to hang out with her and also C, a while later me, C, and A were playing a game, C asked me to talk privately so I left A for a bit in the grass, I went over and she said that she didnt like that I was letting A play with us and she wanted just me and her to play together, I told her I understand that but that I also want to play with A and you, C said that she (A) might be bothered by me asking her to play before we ended the conversation, we all went under a tree and A left to do something else, I asked C if she wanted to go play with A and she said no and I said politely Im gonna go play with A, she said it was fine so I went over to A, after a while I asked A if she was bothered by me asking her to play with us since C had brought it up, A responded saying no and I felt good after that, C got so mad that she stopped playing with me, I wasnt really bothered bc I knew she was mad and she wanted to be alone, before I met A I met B, my other friend) so she was always a pick up after school, one day the teacher said she was gonna be on my bus and I had to show her where the bus is bc at the time nobody else in our class was on my bus, she happened to sit right next to me on the bus, we never really talked until one day she said hi and I said hi back and we started talking, we actually happened to be very alike, we are best friends rn, anyways she had 2 friends named S and AD (I say AD bc those are the 2 first letters of her name and so she doesnt get confused with my friend A) which were mean to her, she asked me about it and I told her to ditch them, she left them and they called her mean and a traitor, we both hate them, anyways C started hanging out with them and one day I was playing with B and C came over as said she was upset I wasnt playing with her and she wants me to play with her, I told her I wanted to play with B and she said that she was sad and that I was a bad friend, she was basically trying to guilt trip me, I stood up and said that I wanted to play with B, she walked away to play with S and AD, I wasnt bothered bc she was rude to me, C sat with S and AD at lunch instead of me, and guilt tripped me whenever I played with anyone who wasnt her still even though she already doesnt play with me, one day A also started hanging out with C, S, and AD, I wasnt bothered bc A was also starting to become rude, one day at lunch she came over to me and said we werent friends anymore, I responded with cool but I dont care because at this point I didnt even like her anymore nor C, I told B about it and she comforted me and I also told my parents, one day she (A) started hanging out with me again and then one day said that I was rude and thats why we arent friends anymore and I just said good! I dont wanna be friends with you anyways! But she didnt hear me, one day she wanted to friend me on Roblox and I said sure, she doesnt even text me and literally I just unfriended her bc I dont like her anyways, the rest of the year I pretended to be friends with C and was happy to get away from her at the end of the year, the only friend from those 3 who was nice to me and Im still friends with is B, we text each other and call each other a lot, A and C were my toxic friends and Im so glad I never have to see them again
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The only time Ive had a fake or toxic friend was an online friend, and the 2nd thing is MORE then accurate to what she did and I didnt even realize how bad she was until I actually did something about it. So a few months ago this girl was my best friend, but there we some things I noticed that I thought were okay just because she had a hard life and which btw just because someone has/had a hard life doesnt mean they can do bad things to you but she would always vent to my abt stuff and I would try to give her advice but her response would be NOOO you dont understand! Which was really annoying and you shouldnt vent to someone if your not gonna take their advice and just say they dont understand. But something she would ALWAYS do was say nobody cared abt her or loved her (which was BS when I told her I cared abt her literally everyday) like she was trying to get attention and it really irritated me. Another thing she did was when I told her I was irritated, sad, mad etc. shed ask why but whenever I told her why shed just overreact and get mad at me for nothing. One day she quit and before she completely left I decided to tell her why I was irritated (which she asked to know earlier) and instead of her asking for an explanation and stuff her reply was just pure guilt tripping and then my other friend sent me a photo and apparently it was my bff saying that IM the reason shes quitting when I did nothing wrong. Then she messaged me from a different account and then it started up again and she kept guilt tripping me and denying it but then later said she knows shes doing it and will and just refused to admit she was in the wrong. A month later she apologized and she didnt give me any BS with it and made sure her apology was an actual apology and Im glad she knew I did not plan on forgiving her which I didnt and probably never will
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Two friends i cared about a lot used to be genuine friends to me and helped me a bit with mental health, and I helped them a with a lot of personal and professional stuff, but since I quit my job (we all used to work together) and they'vegotten closer and closer (they are dating and just moved in together) I feel like they've cared less and less about me. I hardly ever get invited out when they go and do stuff anymore, it takes them days or even over a week to even open my messages and half the time I won't even get a response. If I go out with one of them but not both they always want to leave early to get back to the other as soon as possible. It feels like i'm being cut out. I've needed a lot of support recently as I had a problem with alcoholism and depression, I've quit drinking and its been almost 2 months now and I assumed their growing distant to me was related to those things. We did get closer again for a little while but now I just feel like im being left out again and I don't kow what to do. They no longer seem to take any interest in me at all and I don't know what to do. A standout moment of this was when I went on holiday for a few weeks, when I came back we met up and i asked how things had been at work etc and we talked about that. But then rather than asking me about my holiday they just wanted to get out a set of cards and play games instead. I don't mind playing games with them but to not show any interest about anything I'd done over the last few weeks hurt.
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i was best friends with this girl since 2nd grade and i am talking about grade 8.
i sat with someone else for a day and even i didnt know i was gonna so anyways she sat with another girl and just like that we drifted apart in 2 weeks
she asked me to get up so that she could sit with the other girl and only came over once and like even the other girl said to me that she is not treating me nicely in front and behind my back.
then guess what
i tried to sort it and then (let the girl i sat with be x and the toxic bff y)
due to both being my friends, x and y started talking and then suddenly we were a trio where i was being extremely left out and all of this shit was happening literally 6/6
and then i confornted y she was like
you gotta include yourself bro I TRIED OKAY
I TRIED FOR FRIKIN 3 MONTHS
YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW PATHETIC, DESPERATE, DUMB AND INSECURE YOU MADE ME FEEL OK SO I LIKE COLD COFFEE YOU DONT WHAT IS ACTUALLY WRONG WITH YOU YOU BOTH SUCK

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I have this one friend (Friend 1, we'll say)in my friend group we've been friends for years and the past year I kind of felt like she's becoming kinda toxic. She made this friend this year(Which by the way, I really don't care about their friendship) and if I don't come to be her partner soon enough, her friend and her partner up. and these days, they ONLY partner up with each other. Me, friend 1's best friend for about 3 years and counting is being replaced by her new best friend for less than 1 year. I also have these other friends that have been made along those 3 years of me and her being friends, she said she could never drop (Two other friends of ours friend 2 and friend 3. Ok cool, but there's 5 of us total and she says it in front of me and Friend 4. I feel like can't not be her friend anymore because then my other friends might side with her, and I'll be friendless again, so I feel kind of stuck. what do I do-
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These fit my best friend perfectly. We have been besties for seven years now, but its been a long time since i had a fun time with her. She constantly talks roughly to me and sometimes hits me. Once she played with my feelings, when i had a huge crush on this boy. She acted like she liked her too, even tho she didnt. She was just bored, and it causef very many hard feelings with me. Its true that sometimes shes nice, but mostly i dont feel comfortable around her. But its too hard for me to end our friendship, as i think that its just her personality. And she relly seems to think as me as her best friend. I dont know what to do
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I had a 'friend' called Tom. He is a toxic person that doesn't even care about me. He always talked about himself and never apologized when he is in t he wrong. Tom qualifies in all of these signs. Tom never says sorry and if he does say it, it doesn't sound genuine. He always talked about his life and how hard it is to have 'depression' and having a sibling. But when i asked his brother, he said that Tom was normal and didn't cry that much. I am so glad that i found this video to know who is a toxic friend or not. Keep up with the content,
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All 6 signs match my ex-best friend. She once called me untrustworthy and a bad friend right in front of my friend group. She called me untrustworthy twice even when we werent friends. I was still kinda talking to her because I had friends that she was friends with.
It was so bad that I was starting to think that I was the problem of everything and think that Im a bad person. I never told my friend group because half of them were also fake so I dropped two of them and stayed friends with the other two

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I think I have a friend who is turning toxic because of her i get very insecure but it's very hard to get rid of her because she is in my friend group i don't want to ruin our friend group so i am trying by making new friends telling my group about things i suffer and don't feel comfortable now and i also not liking my group how i used to it's just everywhere it's even in my self anyway i just come here to tell my experience got no one to tell this so think why not share this to internet
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Ive known the guy for more than 10 years. we were kids when we became friends but since the last few years he has been acting distant and only ever contacting me when his gf is offline or he needs some help. I know keeping scores is bad but as much as i know he has been only using me throughout the few years. I feel really distant from him. He actually has all those 6 signs in the video. Additionally he treats me like a sidekick to show off himself
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Another sign is if your friend always makes frowns at you every time they look at you and you look at the person then theyre a fake friend and if they say I am not friends with you anymore and they ask, can we be friends again there also a fake friend and when they always ask, can I be friends with you again you always have to say no because if you want them to bully you more then say yes, but if you want them to bully you less then say no
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Ik you made this a year ago but if you're able to answer this thank you
What if it's your best friend doing making jokes Abt myself we do that alot it's normal for a best friend right? I have a friend that I've been friend for a year but not really talk that much she do those things but she makes me feel happy as if she really cares but are she loyal? I am loyal to her but not really the same to me I don't know what to do really

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I guess all my friends are toxic- I feel all of this around them
Every time I say something I feel like their criticizing me or just talking about me behind my back
Like if I even try to get a word in nobody will listen. All my friends just tell me Im complaining or lying and always end up leaving me
Ive only ever had 2 people I could talk ti about my life to who listen. And Im glad for that.

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4: 49 my friend pulled my hair started to get annoying and is a bully one time i took out my napkin cause i had something one me and then he said Aww are you a baby is that your bib like mckenzie He just made fun of me and his best friend one time i just poked his whiteboard drawing he was mad bro i just got rid off i spec like 1% and the next day he god rid of 90% off my drawing
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i have this story of me and my friend (i wont give names) me and him where friends since we where 2yrs old and when we reached 10 ish he started being a absolute jerk like making fun of me randomly shoving me on the ground and even made fun of my turtle dying by saying and i quote oh you should have took care of him (B WORD, and thats when i decided the friendship was over.
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It's not just a friend. listen I have a friend who always is jealous when I talk to my other friends and always cries when I don't hang out with her and forces me to hang out. please someone tell me what to do it's giving me anxiety and thats not the worst part She allways balls out tears wen i try to stop being freinds. i-i-i just want IT TO ALL STOP please.
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Well today with my friend group we decided to swing and most swings were taken there's five but one of us wasn't there there were four swings at the beginning but they went to the end so me and my bff went to the beginning and they said sorry we didn't see them they sounded a bit sarcastic to me but I'm not sure
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I have a friend named Victoria she always talk about her self and when I try to talk to her she ignore me and brings another topic but she never seems to not be my friend anymore because she talks alot and people don't like her I'm her only friend and when I get mad she becomes dramatic
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Well one time at school at pe in the school I want to play tug-of-war with a my friend I poured real hard with my hand then when I was done he told the pe Teacher you know he bullied me Im just in 1st he was in the same class as me and after that last time he did it I Never ever again
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The their not reliable one is me and my best friend Javion when I have a problem I take my anger out on him but later that day I tell him what's wrong and now I am more calm and I don't take my anger out on him now so everything is okay
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Idk why me and my friend fight a lot and its mostly bc of me and I almost do all of these but I do care about my friend and I listen to her but most of them were correct about me but for some reason I like being friends with her
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Thank you so much for this video. This helped me realize that most of my friends are toxic. and I have been as well. Thanks to this I can see what I've done wrong and what I need to work on to be a better friend. Thanks again!
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I already knew the new girl I became friends with in 3rd grade was toxic and fake so I just cut her out idc that my other friends talk to her because I'm mainly with only 3-5 of my friends all the time.
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Poor uh, wait whats the plant on the dude?
A seed?
Ima call it a seed.
Poor seed man, always getting the middle from luck,
But hey, they push through it, so theyre epic in my standards!

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Although you may not recognize it right off the bat if they're a false friend as opposed to a real friend in time you'll come to realize you needed them like a bull elk needs a hat rack.
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