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7 Habits That Make People DISLIKE You

7 Habits That Make People DISLIKE You

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Do you ever wonder if others hate you even though you are just being yourself? Even though you try to be more friendly and likeable, but others seem to distance themselves from you. There are common habits that can make others dislike you. As social creatures, we all have deep desires to be liked, how to attract others, and how to make friends. Let's check out these common habits that can unintentionally drive others away
Date: 2023-08-20

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I don't ever feel that way. I have a strong constitution now.
Growing up timid and a people-pleaser and even a story-teller/liar made me miserable.
You like me or you don't. Simple.
I don't really care. I will however put in the effort to give you a good time on this roller coaster of life that we share together. If you want to leave, that's cool.
Worrying about if people like your or not is silly, the only opinion that should matter is your own. Love and enjoy yourself. Life is short, don't be a doorknob where everyone gets a turn. Most of us don't even wash our hands after we wipe.
Take it easy homie, life may or may not get better for you. Just remember all those problems no matter small or big, are insignificant when you've got flaming hot cheetos, peanut butter, and a race car in life.
Love yourself.

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Smiling has been very true for me. Im generally a quiet person who doesnt talk much or at all irl, so all I do is rely on facial expressions, especially smiling. A teacher even once told me If you werent so smiley Id be more pissed that you didnt do your hw and scolding you wouldnt feel so light hearted. She didnt say it in eng so this is just a rough translation of wat she said. But yea, a smile can go a long way. I make friends easily because of this too. But although a smile and laughter is great to brighten the mood, you should also do it carefully according to the right situation. You might accidentally piss off the person instead for being silly and brash in serious situations. Dont smile when someones telling u about sth bad that happened to them
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You don't need 7 habits. You just need to be yourself and society will not like you. We are dealing with a society today, that has pretty unrealistic expectations on just about everything. People want the ideal - Colleague, Husband, Wife, Lover, Friend and Job, but nobody wants to put in the ideal amount of work for these things. So no matter how awesome and genuine you may be, you will always be judged as per someone's unfair preconceived notions, which are often based on delusional conclusions regarding the way life and people SHOULD be around them, while they are at the center of the universe.
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Or it could be what others all did and the fact that I am busy and I'm not fake and I am sorry but I have had no working phone that wasn't hacked where they prevent me from getting calls and I have been really alone for so so long and NO ONE absolutely no one has communicated directly to me at all for dates now and I just found out a bunch of loved ones have been killed so please stop!
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No one likes me and I have no clue why. I'm not doing any of the things in this video but I'm excluded from everything and everyone seems to be annoyed just with me being nearby them. I'm not mean, and I don't act rudely or anything similar. I have a deep and sightly scary voice, but I barely ever speak because no one cares when I do. What am I doing wrong?
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Twas bored so I tried finding the moons (theres 5)
1. 0: 58
2. 1: 14
3. 2: 38
4. 3: 19
5. 4: 16
One for each minute (sorta)
Like if you forget about seconds, 1. is at 0 minutes 2, at 1 minutes, 3 at 2, 4 and 3, and 5 and 4. And (without the seconds) there is only 4 minutes in the video so yea

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Hi guys, here is a thing that I learned not long ago that helped me: Place your opinion above others opinion. It may sound very narcassistic, but it helps a ton. Nobody knows you fully, not even you, but you know yourself the best. Why expect people to have accurate opinions about you?
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I don't know dude. From what I see around me (at work) there is this sheep mentality of liking somebody, because all the rest likes them, even though these persons are braggers, or bullies, or whatever. Then again there is this saying: either you are liked by many, or you have character.
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I feel like I relate to a lot of the topics you mentioned, but now I am thinking about it, I am going to try and improve all of these things. thank you so much, your videos and posts have helped me so so so much on sharpening my personality and being able to interact more with people
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I have social anxiety and usually when someone approaches me I panic and don't know how to act so I sometimes say things that I don't mean to say or reject and ignore them unintentionally. That's why I sit at school alone under the stairs and my classmates stay away from me: (
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When you're fake: be you
When you're you: don't be you
When you're noisy: be quiet
When you're quiet: what's wrong with you
If you don't feel happy don't smile it's just a face mask that leads to depression. BE YOU.
I've got this problem as an ISTJ also.

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Tip number 4 has me thinking: Why would anyone willingly spill their secrets to their friends regardless of how long theyve known each other? The secrets in question have a high likelihood of being dark or threatening, and thats a sign that they need serious help.
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there are always gonna be people who just dislike you. You may be the juciest orange on the tree, but some just dont be like orages. However dont try to be something you arent because you might make yourself the rotten fruit of da tree
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The Moons:
00: 59 Up on the right
01: 17 Left photo, left corner down
02: 39 Down on the right
03: 22 On the sushi box
04: 19 On the T-shirt
Yes I really wasted my time for this. I am competitive.

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Okay fine, you want people to NOT like you! Read them! Judge them! They will tell you straight up how much of a jerk you really are looking down on them all the while you never got your life together! They hate that!
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Being a introvert and socially anxious number 2 and 3 are definitely me. It's hard for me to smile naturally and I definitely do not initiate conversations first it is always my colleagues who says hi first.
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1st it says being fake then the last one says be yourself: 'D but yeah I understand, people' s personality are different so therefore, some people act very rude and mean when they are being themselves
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The moons, yes. I saw them they were there. I did not count them because I was reading the subtitles. But I wonder why the creator did this? To encourage people to comment? Or am I over-thinking this?
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Number 1 tells me to not be a fake but number 3 says for me to smile. Well if im not typically big smiler should I fake one or should I be myself and not fake it? As number 1 and 7 suggests?
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8. Always turning the conversation towards yourself.
If someone is telling you something about themselves, just listen and comment on THEIR story. Stop bringing back to you.

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#7 is so true. Sometimes you just don't get along with people. It's not a failure on anyone's part. It's just nature. (This is not an excuse for racism or the like)
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I have some serious mental depression because i cant make true friends they all forget about me and collage didnt care about me either it hurts alot
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I love your content!
Funny little game with the moons, keeps me focused on the video, but kinda distracts me from the reason why i watched it

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A note on the not-smiling part: 1. it's culturaly related and 2. The older I get, the less I trust fake smiling people, I prefer a neutral face.
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This video: leaks my entire personal information
APRIL FOOLS
This comment won't age well until about 365 days after this was posted

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