7 Habits of Healthy Relationships
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Kaja3
Resolve Conflicts: Haven't been in the relationship long enough to see this play out, but I'm very confident we can do this well. We're content with doing virtually whatever we want, and our mutual indecision makes disagreements few, far between, and easy to resolve. However, my gf is ex-friends with one of my two closest friend groups, and I know that will inevitably need to be resolved.
Compromise: We've nailed this flawlessly so far. We always split bills on dates and alternate between our friend circles in lunch. Will probably be put to the test by the aforementioned friend politics, but I think we have the right mindset to handle this.
Unconditional Love: My family and I believe in a concept of conditional love with very small conditions (just don't be an evil person. In practice, it's basically unconditional love with common sense, so I consider this a success.
Trust Each Other: Besides trusting each other to keep up the fundamentals of a relationship (ex. showing up to dates, not cheating on each other, etc, which we have a perfect track record, there aren't many times where this is even a factor. We're still high school sweethearts, and neither of us or our families are in desperate need of support. I guess trusting each other's driving also counts?
Be Kind: We sometimes tease each other, but at the end of the day we're both just cuddle bugs!
Seek Comfort: Again, we're just cuddle bugs! Besides literally, this hasn't really been put to the test yet - nothing extremely overwhelming has happened to either of us yet.
Independent: We're both extremely content with doing whatever, and this often leads to a lot of indecision. Think situations like this: Where do you want to sit? Wherever you want to sit I don't care Me neither. Besides this cute little loop that a friend usually has to break, we can both be extremely decisive when needed.
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Resolve Conflicts: Haven't been in the relationship long enough to see this play out, but I'm very confident we can do this well. We're content with doing virtually whatever we want, and our mutual indecision makes disagreements few, far between, and easy to resolve. However, my gf is ex-friends with one of my two closest friend groups, and I know that will inevitably need to be resolved.
Compromise: We've nailed this flawlessly so far. We always split bills on dates and alternate between our friend circles in lunch. Will probably be put to the test by the aforementioned friend politics, but I think we have the right mindset to handle this.
Unconditional Love: My family and I believe in a concept of conditional love with very small conditions (just don't be an evil person. In practice, it's basically unconditional love with common sense, so I consider this a success.
Trust Each Other: Besides trusting each other to keep up the fundamentals of a relationship (ex. showing up to dates, not cheating on each other, etc, which we have a perfect track record, there aren't many times where this is even a factor. We're still high school sweethearts, and neither of us or our families are in desperate need of support. I guess trusting each other's driving also counts?
Be Kind: We sometimes tease each other, but at the end of the day we're both just cuddle bugs!
Seek Comfort: Again, we're just cuddle bugs! Besides literally, this hasn't really been put to the test yet - nothing extremely overwhelming has happened to either of us yet.
Independent: We're both extremely content with doing whatever, and this often leads to a lot of indecision. Think situations like this: Where do you want to sit? Wherever you want to sit I don't care Me neither. Besides this cute little loop that a friend usually has to break, we can both be extremely decisive when needed.
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Mr.
So I have an interest in a friend but she has no interest in dating at the moment but we play video games together, talk on the phone, tease each other and whatnot but we're in two different places. She likes being independent and doing her own thing. She says she doesn't really talk to people much but she's always messaging me be it for a couple days or we don't talk to each other for a few days and then message each other like nothing happened. I think she's a splendid person even though we can't really meet. We don't really have a bunch of conflict but we sure don't agree 100% on everything however we refuse to let that alter how we see the other person because we know that overall we care for each other (she tends to tell me I'm a great guy when I don't really feel like it and this conflicts internally because I have a hard time accepting positive things but I am so grateful for her regardless because I don't feel threatened by her)
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So I have an interest in a friend but she has no interest in dating at the moment but we play video games together, talk on the phone, tease each other and whatnot but we're in two different places. She likes being independent and doing her own thing. She says she doesn't really talk to people much but she's always messaging me be it for a couple days or we don't talk to each other for a few days and then message each other like nothing happened. I think she's a splendid person even though we can't really meet. We don't really have a bunch of conflict but we sure don't agree 100% on everything however we refuse to let that alter how we see the other person because we know that overall we care for each other (she tends to tell me I'm a great guy when I don't really feel like it and this conflicts internally because I have a hard time accepting positive things but I am so grateful for her regardless because I don't feel threatened by her)
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Robert
I'm Fonn and posting on his phone. He is my friend. He was my lover for 12 ys. He makes me feel secure, but I put him in the friend zone because of his obsessive, possessive jealousy. Hes a shy guy and I'm a singer/musician. Never shall the Twain shall meet. I'm learning to go do my gigs while he weeps and wails(fill in the blanks. hes so insecure he wont even go with me to be my bodyguard! He wants me to be close to him but because of all his negativity and criticisms I've had to get my own apt. and set up boundaries. Romantic relationships dont always work, especially with sad-sackers.
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I'm Fonn and posting on his phone. He is my friend. He was my lover for 12 ys. He makes me feel secure, but I put him in the friend zone because of his obsessive, possessive jealousy. Hes a shy guy and I'm a singer/musician. Never shall the Twain shall meet. I'm learning to go do my gigs while he weeps and wails(fill in the blanks. hes so insecure he wont even go with me to be my bodyguard! He wants me to be close to him but because of all his negativity and criticisms I've had to get my own apt. and set up boundaries. Romantic relationships dont always work, especially with sad-sackers.
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Brian
Healthy relations are when two volks are the right personality not sure how to say this with so mucho wrong these days in the world and volks only out for themselves 100 x true no but so mucho of it t makes me nervous at times I wonder where to go or not to avoid tickets vandalism theft have had half full beer bottles thrown at me four cop cars where I use to live not nursing home is everywhere this bad depends I never said I know all answers every day bad but do your best to avoid it areal shame you never know makes it harder to get more done enjoy life senor senora amigos dates or more
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Healthy relations are when two volks are the right personality not sure how to say this with so mucho wrong these days in the world and volks only out for themselves 100 x true no but so mucho of it t makes me nervous at times I wonder where to go or not to avoid tickets vandalism theft have had half full beer bottles thrown at me four cop cars where I use to live not nursing home is everywhere this bad depends I never said I know all answers every day bad but do your best to avoid it areal shame you never know makes it harder to get more done enjoy life senor senora amigos dates or more
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education
My gf is going thru major changes in life and we're in an LDR. She says she's socially drained n can't talk and sometimes talks to me but that too in an uneven way where she ends the convo abruptly with a reason like she's too tired, or has some work.
We had a few fights regarding these but she doesn't seem to make compromises on her part and her tone is dull(as if uninterested) talking to me.
She's also making new frnds. Should I be worried she's losing interest in me? Or might cheat on me? Or is it just a phase. I'm worried
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My gf is going thru major changes in life and we're in an LDR. She says she's socially drained n can't talk and sometimes talks to me but that too in an uneven way where she ends the convo abruptly with a reason like she's too tired, or has some work.
We had a few fights regarding these but she doesn't seem to make compromises on her part and her tone is dull(as if uninterested) talking to me.
She's also making new frnds. Should I be worried she's losing interest in me? Or might cheat on me? Or is it just a phase. I'm worried
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Lali
I agree with everything in this video, but I do think that the term unconditional love is maybe a bit too broad o: because my love is very conditional for my partner and the conditions are that they treat me with respect and put in effort for me as I do for them. I believe only children get to receive unconditional love as they owe their parents nothing and never asked to be put on this Earth c: my two cents. Great video otherwise!
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I agree with everything in this video, but I do think that the term unconditional love is maybe a bit too broad o: because my love is very conditional for my partner and the conditions are that they treat me with respect and put in effort for me as I do for them. I believe only children get to receive unconditional love as they owe their parents nothing and never asked to be put on this Earth c: my two cents. Great video otherwise!
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Shane
This seems like sound advice overall. If it wasn't said clearly in the video, these things should come pretty naturally. Relationships do take effort, but if these things come easily for both people, it's a good sign.
In my experience, if both people are kind to each other and care about each other because they feel that way naturally, nothing will ever get in the way of the relationship.
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This seems like sound advice overall. If it wasn't said clearly in the video, these things should come pretty naturally. Relationships do take effort, but if these things come easily for both people, it's a good sign.
In my experience, if both people are kind to each other and care about each other because they feel that way naturally, nothing will ever get in the way of the relationship.
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purple
I just want your opinion on this thing
Actually i have a crush on someone and one day at night he texted me he liked me but then he deleted the message and when i confessed my feelings towards me he told me he just want to be single and he doesn't have any feelings for me
What do you guys think it could be possible
someone would have given him a dare to text me that?
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I just want your opinion on this thing
Actually i have a crush on someone and one day at night he texted me he liked me but then he deleted the message and when i confessed my feelings towards me he told me he just want to be single and he doesn't have any feelings for me
What do you guys think it could be possible
someone would have given him a dare to text me that?
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Rikki
Hi All! I need some quick help: I'm doing some research on Toxic Love Relationships and would love to do a 20 minute interview with anyone who has dealt with, or is dealing with, this issue. I promise I'm NOT selling anything! I just want to learn from your wisdom. Comment here if you are willing, and I will then DM you. Thank you!
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Hi All! I need some quick help: I'm doing some research on Toxic Love Relationships and would love to do a 20 minute interview with anyone who has dealt with, or is dealing with, this issue. I promise I'm NOT selling anything! I just want to learn from your wisdom. Comment here if you are willing, and I will then DM you. Thank you!
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ctrlpsycho
guys I need help!
so I'm in love with this online guy and he is into me too I mean we confessed to each other but we aren't dating but we're constantly flirting and etc
and I have to admit that I have gotten too attached to him!
I need advice on what I should do?
(I'm a Gemini woman and he's a Leo man)
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guys I need help!
so I'm in love with this online guy and he is into me too I mean we confessed to each other but we aren't dating but we're constantly flirting and etc
and I have to admit that I have gotten too attached to him!
I need advice on what I should do?
(I'm a Gemini woman and he's a Leo man)
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Don
Just saying I read in a book about relationships it said in the book if both partners had any kind of addictions also even if one of the partners had an addiction in the relationship this relationship would never last my guess would because the relationship would be TOXIC and not a Healthy Relationship INIT just saying.
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Just saying I read in a book about relationships it said in the book if both partners had any kind of addictions also even if one of the partners had an addiction in the relationship this relationship would never last my guess would because the relationship would be TOXIC and not a Healthy Relationship INIT just saying.
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Jedimario88
Theres a girl I know who I feel like my friendship with her meets all of these. Im not certain whether she finds comfort in it quite like I do but the rest of them apply at least. Its not really in the cards right now, but I really hope I can move the relationship closer in the future.
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Theres a girl I know who I feel like my friendship with her meets all of these. Im not certain whether she finds comfort in it quite like I do but the rest of them apply at least. Its not really in the cards right now, but I really hope I can move the relationship closer in the future.
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Tinnixi
watching this, ive been in way too many unhealthy and downright toxic relationships, mainly because i was very young and so were my partners
but now, finally, after working on myself and maturing mentally, ive been dating the best and healthiest partner ive ever had for over a year now!
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watching this, ive been in way too many unhealthy and downright toxic relationships, mainly because i was very young and so were my partners
but now, finally, after working on myself and maturing mentally, ive been dating the best and healthiest partner ive ever had for over a year now!
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Indrid
#1 should have been, it was founded in the mid 20th century. Today, your chances of a successful relationship are near nil, unless it is a relationship of an enemy and their tormented victim. Those almost always work out. Even friendships do not work anymore. Why even try?
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#1 should have been, it was founded in the mid 20th century. Today, your chances of a successful relationship are near nil, unless it is a relationship of an enemy and their tormented victim. Those almost always work out. Even friendships do not work anymore. Why even try?
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Don
Healthy relationships takes both partners to work towards this to be a team, to be Lovers and to be best friends. Understanding, respect, kindness, caring sharing, a Good Healthy Relationship is possible as long as both partners want to make work and last.
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Healthy relationships takes both partners to work towards this to be a team, to be Lovers and to be best friends. Understanding, respect, kindness, caring sharing, a Good Healthy Relationship is possible as long as both partners want to make work and last.
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Kornilia
I do really appreciate my relationship when watching these videos, i feel we check all the marks But I do struggle a bit with building self-love and not seeking validation from my partner or friends Could you make a video touching on the subject?
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I do really appreciate my relationship when watching these videos, i feel we check all the marks But I do struggle a bit with building self-love and not seeking validation from my partner or friends Could you make a video touching on the subject?
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Mansi
Lol. Recent break up
Related with no signs instead it was the opposite of whatever these signs are.
Turns out it was a narcissistic abusive relationship. Didn't even know what that was until recently.
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Lol. Recent break up
Related with no signs instead it was the opposite of whatever these signs are.
Turns out it was a narcissistic abusive relationship. Didn't even know what that was until recently.
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Rakiya
Im so happy to watch this video and to be able to relate to everything with my current relationship Im so glad to have met my kind and loving boyfriend where were able to have a relationship like this
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Im so happy to watch this video and to be able to relate to everything with my current relationship Im so glad to have met my kind and loving boyfriend where were able to have a relationship like this
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Denisa
My boyfriend and I. are having an healthy relantionship just like this. We're in a 4 year distance relantionship because he had to go to university in another town, but we are more bounded than ever
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My boyfriend and I. are having an healthy relantionship just like this. We're in a 4 year distance relantionship because he had to go to university in another town, but we are more bounded than ever
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Bart
Thank god my new relationship is better than my last one, its funny that me and my bf sometimes say the EXACT same thing in some conversations, and we call ourselves interwined because of it
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Thank god my new relationship is better than my last one, its funny that me and my bf sometimes say the EXACT same thing in some conversations, and we call ourselves interwined because of it
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Frey
Back then, we aren't in the list til we almost broke up, that's where we were at our lowest, I was so miserable and so was he but we were willing to fix it and understand each other more.
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Back then, we aren't in the list til we almost broke up, that's where we were at our lowest, I was so miserable and so was he but we were willing to fix it and understand each other more.
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Starite
been 3 years togheter, all of the things listed has been true since the beggining, we are always changing from adventure to another and always seeking for the better for both of us
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been 3 years togheter, all of the things listed has been true since the beggining, we are always changing from adventure to another and always seeking for the better for both of us
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Chrissie
My marriage ticks all these boxes, but to be honest, I didn't need this video to know how compatible I am with my husband
MAY WE ALL FIND THE LOVE THAT WE NEED MOST IN LIFE!
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My marriage ticks all these boxes, but to be honest, I didn't need this video to know how compatible I am with my husband
MAY WE ALL FIND THE LOVE THAT WE NEED MOST IN LIFE!
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education
psych2go not sure whether you can do a video on unconditional love please? A lot of people misunderstood the term unconditional, and can cause abusive relationship. Thanks!
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psych2go not sure whether you can do a video on unconditional love please? A lot of people misunderstood the term unconditional, and can cause abusive relationship. Thanks!
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Emily
I relate to these for the first time ever. I do struggle with codependency but thats something Im actively working on. I love him so much and want to keep growing.
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I relate to these for the first time ever. I do struggle with codependency but thats something Im actively working on. I love him so much and want to keep growing.
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