What Happens When Two Dark Empaths Meet?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Stephen
If I had to guess based on how I used to be Im probably somewhat of a dark empath. But over the years Ive slowly been changing and it started way back when suddenly for whatever reason I just wasnt outgoing anymore and just kinda started becoming a loner watching and listening. I dont mind people just if I dont know you I dont feel a reason to talk unless I feel like it lol.
Anyways my final mistake was meeting someone who I truly actually loved and we were almost identical so I started changing for them, not really towards others, just them. Turns out they werent serious(she is probably dark empath as well Im sure, plus we are practically identical on everything from the way we act and think. At first because I wasnt changing looking back Id say the first half of not more I had the control in the relationship basically even though mentally it wasnt the direct intention just how it was. When I started changing and trying to care more thats when I eventually got hurt and I still havent recovered from the blindside betrayal.
As much as I hate to say it, since then Ive basically just been ran over only doing the running over once in a blue moon when I sort of need to. Relationship wise for example I mean staying single for like 1-2 years and deciding I want to actually be with someone for a while, after a while when Ive had my fill(usually when they get too clingy) I end it, sometimes gets too draining. I know its not right but I guess at least its been like 2-3 years since I have done that.
But any time Ive tried to be genuine I get ran over so honestly it makes me just wanna go back to how I was before even if its at the expense of others because right now Im far better to others than I was but at my own expense of my own happiness. Guess Id rather run over others if Im just going to get run over myself. Hate to think that way but thats how it is, just wish it was easier to go back.
Sorry for the novel
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If I had to guess based on how I used to be Im probably somewhat of a dark empath. But over the years Ive slowly been changing and it started way back when suddenly for whatever reason I just wasnt outgoing anymore and just kinda started becoming a loner watching and listening. I dont mind people just if I dont know you I dont feel a reason to talk unless I feel like it lol.
Anyways my final mistake was meeting someone who I truly actually loved and we were almost identical so I started changing for them, not really towards others, just them. Turns out they werent serious(she is probably dark empath as well Im sure, plus we are practically identical on everything from the way we act and think. At first because I wasnt changing looking back Id say the first half of not more I had the control in the relationship basically even though mentally it wasnt the direct intention just how it was. When I started changing and trying to care more thats when I eventually got hurt and I still havent recovered from the blindside betrayal.
As much as I hate to say it, since then Ive basically just been ran over only doing the running over once in a blue moon when I sort of need to. Relationship wise for example I mean staying single for like 1-2 years and deciding I want to actually be with someone for a while, after a while when Ive had my fill(usually when they get too clingy) I end it, sometimes gets too draining. I know its not right but I guess at least its been like 2-3 years since I have done that.
But any time Ive tried to be genuine I get ran over so honestly it makes me just wanna go back to how I was before even if its at the expense of others because right now Im far better to others than I was but at my own expense of my own happiness. Guess Id rather run over others if Im just going to get run over myself. Hate to think that way but thats how it is, just wish it was easier to go back.
Sorry for the novel
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n0l1f34
I (high in empathy) had a friend once who was so perfect in everything he did. How he acted with each group, how everyone did his bidding while not feeling its against their will, knowing what to say to make people do or not do things, knowing what to say to make someone feel good. Once he knew exactly what to say to break someone down who is known for being on the stoic side, making him loser his temperament and eventually shed tears (in front of the group)
He knew everything about communication. Eventually he revealed himself to be a dark empath to me, but I had suspected it really. Sometimes he had this ruthlessly cold glare in his eyes, but only for a blink of an eye. Then it was back to Mr. Charm and witt himself.
Now we are in different classes, but I wouldn't necessarily say he is a bad guy. He knows communication to an absurd degree. I thought I knew how it works, but I was barely able to follow everything he is doing while observing him. Also had a chat with him once, he was way more nihilistic than expected. But because he saw no reason in anything, he also saw no reason in hurting others for no reason (funny to put it that way no)
He also did none of these behaviours mentioned here, I'd rather put those in the narcissist category.
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I (high in empathy) had a friend once who was so perfect in everything he did. How he acted with each group, how everyone did his bidding while not feeling its against their will, knowing what to say to make people do or not do things, knowing what to say to make someone feel good. Once he knew exactly what to say to break someone down who is known for being on the stoic side, making him loser his temperament and eventually shed tears (in front of the group)
He knew everything about communication. Eventually he revealed himself to be a dark empath to me, but I had suspected it really. Sometimes he had this ruthlessly cold glare in his eyes, but only for a blink of an eye. Then it was back to Mr. Charm and witt himself.
Now we are in different classes, but I wouldn't necessarily say he is a bad guy. He knows communication to an absurd degree. I thought I knew how it works, but I was barely able to follow everything he is doing while observing him. Also had a chat with him once, he was way more nihilistic than expected. But because he saw no reason in anything, he also saw no reason in hurting others for no reason (funny to put it that way no)
He also did none of these behaviours mentioned here, I'd rather put those in the narcissist category.
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Becca
Listen this is when we have been abused we can feel everything but we are so numb inside! Empaths real empaths can switch it on and off! I cant stand the stigma of empaths being these fairy tales rays of light! A lot of us have a dark side we suppress because we use our empathy to feel others and that is how we get abused it usually starts at home! We just want to make our caregivers happy because we are extremely unusual and we either feel a zen like state when we are in our own energy a chaotic feeling when in a toxic environment or others feelings on steroids! We can use our powers for good or evil or in between. Usually weaker make childish empath show more egotistical characteristics because we usually like to date narcissistic and we want to empress them! Once we get confident and mature and stop people pleasing we become much stronger! The cry baby empaths are not empaths they are covert narcissists!
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Listen this is when we have been abused we can feel everything but we are so numb inside! Empaths real empaths can switch it on and off! I cant stand the stigma of empaths being these fairy tales rays of light! A lot of us have a dark side we suppress because we use our empathy to feel others and that is how we get abused it usually starts at home! We just want to make our caregivers happy because we are extremely unusual and we either feel a zen like state when we are in our own energy a chaotic feeling when in a toxic environment or others feelings on steroids! We can use our powers for good or evil or in between. Usually weaker make childish empath show more egotistical characteristics because we usually like to date narcissistic and we want to empress them! Once we get confident and mature and stop people pleasing we become much stronger! The cry baby empaths are not empaths they are covert narcissists!
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Tazaur
If the definition of dark empath is get what you want by knowing how they work.
What if i manipulate them to have a better life?
I often try to figure out the inner workings of people, so i can trick them into making smarter choices. I use tricks like subtly complimenting positive behaviors, while ignoring negative ones. I earn their trust, then use that trust to convince them to try out new things (like exercising, eating healthier, dressing better. Ive been doing it for years, and im starting to get good at it. These are always things that bring no benefits to myself. i just thrive off of seeing my work bring joy to another life.
Is this just an empath? Or like. a 'reverse' dark empath?
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If the definition of dark empath is get what you want by knowing how they work.
What if i manipulate them to have a better life?
I often try to figure out the inner workings of people, so i can trick them into making smarter choices. I use tricks like subtly complimenting positive behaviors, while ignoring negative ones. I earn their trust, then use that trust to convince them to try out new things (like exercising, eating healthier, dressing better. Ive been doing it for years, and im starting to get good at it. These are always things that bring no benefits to myself. i just thrive off of seeing my work bring joy to another life.
Is this just an empath? Or like. a 'reverse' dark empath?
EDIT: words
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Nimshy
I've been researching and trying to find an answer and no luck so far or I can't find a direct answer. Basically my best friend has been dating and he's living with her and I believe he is definitely a dark empath just like they say in this video and other videos and stuff online I've come across he has all the symptoms and plus I am a little sensitive myself and I can feel that he is a dark empath he puts off this pushing hateful energy I can just feel it when he comes in the room. what I'm trying to find out is does anybody know how to stop a dark empath shut him down defeat, banish him make him go get away and give up without having to do it the legal way of course?
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I've been researching and trying to find an answer and no luck so far or I can't find a direct answer. Basically my best friend has been dating and he's living with her and I believe he is definitely a dark empath just like they say in this video and other videos and stuff online I've come across he has all the symptoms and plus I am a little sensitive myself and I can feel that he is a dark empath he puts off this pushing hateful energy I can just feel it when he comes in the room. what I'm trying to find out is does anybody know how to stop a dark empath shut him down defeat, banish him make him go get away and give up without having to do it the legal way of course?
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Arfelt
I met one before but i thought I would lose a lot and it did not gain anything for me, of course the exit is needed to look like they're the fool one instead.
But when i committed, i probably would have had an upper hand since I purposely lied about my vulnerability, to gain something you must lose something it's basic in exchange even for information.
So they got dud information and i probably got some of it real (you know two people can play the same games)
Fyi, i saved all the data on my head. I can even remember the conversation a few weeks ago.
But other than that I can't remember other things very well, i guess it takes loads of memory
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I met one before but i thought I would lose a lot and it did not gain anything for me, of course the exit is needed to look like they're the fool one instead.
But when i committed, i probably would have had an upper hand since I purposely lied about my vulnerability, to gain something you must lose something it's basic in exchange even for information.
So they got dud information and i probably got some of it real (you know two people can play the same games)
Fyi, i saved all the data on my head. I can even remember the conversation a few weeks ago.
But other than that I can't remember other things very well, i guess it takes loads of memory
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Rest
As a Semi-Narcissist my experience with a possible dark empath was honestly just me being the only one seeing their bs. They always self diagnosed themselves with all these disorders in order to get attention in empathy. Obviously it never worked on me. Im not a full blown Narc but show a lot of the traits. Im self conscious and study other people sometimes too. Only when Im bored. I compared her display with the symptoms and quickly knew she was faking. Honestly, I expected d. e. s to be more formidable and less. Pathetic? Wannabes like them arent the ones to watch out for.
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As a Semi-Narcissist my experience with a possible dark empath was honestly just me being the only one seeing their bs. They always self diagnosed themselves with all these disorders in order to get attention in empathy. Obviously it never worked on me. Im not a full blown Narc but show a lot of the traits. Im self conscious and study other people sometimes too. Only when Im bored. I compared her display with the symptoms and quickly knew she was faking. Honestly, I expected d. e. s to be more formidable and less. Pathetic? Wannabes like them arent the ones to watch out for.
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Lea
As a person who discovering that I struggle with lack of emotion and empathy, this was strangely a comforting video. I have always struggles with narcissism (due to being put on a pedestal by the adults in my life) as well as having Machiavellian tendencies. I worry and second guess myself a lot with my motivations towards others, and often worry that I'm manipulating them. Is worrying about manipulating others a good sign or a bad one? I guess I don't have a lot of empathy, and have more sympathy, but I understand peoples' emotions extremely well
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As a person who discovering that I struggle with lack of emotion and empathy, this was strangely a comforting video. I have always struggles with narcissism (due to being put on a pedestal by the adults in my life) as well as having Machiavellian tendencies. I worry and second guess myself a lot with my motivations towards others, and often worry that I'm manipulating them. Is worrying about manipulating others a good sign or a bad one? I guess I don't have a lot of empathy, and have more sympathy, but I understand peoples' emotions extremely well
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God
At the end of the day, this exercise teaches us that, in many cases, looking loveable in public isnt as bad as we believe. Sure, we might get some looks and giggles, but these dont hurt, now do they? The Cynic philosopher Diogenes of Sinope used to sleep in a barrel on the streets, walking around in ragged clothes, pleasured himself in public, and insulted people who walked past him. He didnt care what people thought of him. Therefore, no one was able to hurt him.
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At the end of the day, this exercise teaches us that, in many cases, looking loveable in public isnt as bad as we believe. Sure, we might get some looks and giggles, but these dont hurt, now do they? The Cynic philosopher Diogenes of Sinope used to sleep in a barrel on the streets, walking around in ragged clothes, pleasured himself in public, and insulted people who walked past him. He didnt care what people thought of him. Therefore, no one was able to hurt him.
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education
Thanks, with every videos you shared I noticed I can change into a dark empath if someone had been toxic with me for too long.
It's weird though.
It sounds like a weird success on video games.
Dark Empath side unlocked
But I'm glad its only a part of me people might unlock if they're toxic with me for too long.
It would be too unfair if honest and kind and healthy people have to deal with that side too.
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Thanks, with every videos you shared I noticed I can change into a dark empath if someone had been toxic with me for too long.
It's weird though.
It sounds like a weird success on video games.
Dark Empath side unlocked
But I'm glad its only a part of me people might unlock if they're toxic with me for too long.
It would be too unfair if honest and kind and healthy people have to deal with that side too.
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Mega
Yeah these people I meet dark empaths who act in this way as I thought being dark ment you are sad on the inside but keep it toyourself, without hurting others. vs evil being sad on the inside and hurting others so you can feel better about yourself. But I assure you, I am a warrior and even thought I dont like to fight. I love it when Im fighting. Hard to explain.
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Yeah these people I meet dark empaths who act in this way as I thought being dark ment you are sad on the inside but keep it toyourself, without hurting others. vs evil being sad on the inside and hurting others so you can feel better about yourself. But I assure you, I am a warrior and even thought I dont like to fight. I love it when Im fighting. Hard to explain.
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Mega
Ive met other empaths even dark ones. Unless you are aligned evil, you are okay however. if I get hit with any of your psycic attacks. I absorb it. Imagite you imagined a hand to hit me with then i chopped it off and ate it. Thus increasing my power and severly weakening yours. Be careful about even considering using your god born naturual powers for evil.
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Ive met other empaths even dark ones. Unless you are aligned evil, you are okay however. if I get hit with any of your psycic attacks. I absorb it. Imagite you imagined a hand to hit me with then i chopped it off and ate it. Thus increasing my power and severly weakening yours. Be careful about even considering using your god born naturual powers for evil.
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Ana
Lol dark empathy and all these types of people are just everyone labeling people to ignore the fact every single person on the planet is evil and full of hate. So retarded and the voice is so annoying can she like spit and not drink water b4 doing a video or maybe stop trying to whistle while she talks. She must be a a dark empath, that's how they talk
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Lol dark empathy and all these types of people are just everyone labeling people to ignore the fact every single person on the planet is evil and full of hate. So retarded and the voice is so annoying can she like spit and not drink water b4 doing a video or maybe stop trying to whistle while she talks. She must be a a dark empath, that's how they talk
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Kim
What is the difference from a psychopath this description fits all my psychopathic friends maybe they are all dark empath that would not be impossible I'm hardly a qualified psychologist myself and have just learned of dark empath. So to clarify my ramblings would the there be a significant difference from a normal psychopath and what would that be?
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What is the difference from a psychopath this description fits all my psychopathic friends maybe they are all dark empath that would not be impossible I'm hardly a qualified psychologist myself and have just learned of dark empath. So to clarify my ramblings would the there be a significant difference from a normal psychopath and what would that be?
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william
dark empaths are not part narcissist, they have a grandiose sense of self but simply being grandiose and having grandiose narcissism are 2 entirely different things. tbh the only part this video got right is the 1st one. and dont forget there are 7 types of narcissism, grandiose, vulnerable, benign, malignant, negligent, and generational
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dark empaths are not part narcissist, they have a grandiose sense of self but simply being grandiose and having grandiose narcissism are 2 entirely different things. tbh the only part this video got right is the 1st one. and dont forget there are 7 types of narcissism, grandiose, vulnerable, benign, malignant, negligent, and generational
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Adria
Now I'm curious, what would happen if a dark empath met a regular empath?
And in another video, you mention something about why sociopath isn't part of the dark triad? Perhaps it isn't in order for a dark empatb to exist in terms if scoring. But what if you score low in the dark triad and empathy?
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Now I'm curious, what would happen if a dark empath met a regular empath?
And in another video, you mention something about why sociopath isn't part of the dark triad? Perhaps it isn't in order for a dark empatb to exist in terms if scoring. But what if you score low in the dark triad and empathy?
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Rusher
i was being friend with dark emapths from last 5 years and it took me straight 5 years to really recognise him being me emapths he manipulated me so well but at the end i left him
well idk what to say sounds unfair how we humans can have different personalities and we becomes slaved to it
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i was being friend with dark emapths from last 5 years and it took me straight 5 years to really recognise him being me emapths he manipulated me so well but at the end i left him
well idk what to say sounds unfair how we humans can have different personalities and we becomes slaved to it
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Sharaszan
Sounds more like someone a little too high on the scale of narcissism to me than dark empathy. Antagonizing behaviour often is a response as a means to set the scales, not so much to self regulate. Thats more something a full blown narc would do imo. Missing a little nuance in this video.
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Sounds more like someone a little too high on the scale of narcissism to me than dark empathy. Antagonizing behaviour often is a response as a means to set the scales, not so much to self regulate. Thats more something a full blown narc would do imo. Missing a little nuance in this video.
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Gho5tfac3
Maybe I'm a empath who got beaten down by my family and friends with nothing to show for it at 25. I don't know if I'm a dark empath or just a regular guy who got hurt, developed social anxiety and get angry easily because I can't seem to trust or connect with people anymore.
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Maybe I'm a empath who got beaten down by my family and friends with nothing to show for it at 25. I don't know if I'm a dark empath or just a regular guy who got hurt, developed social anxiety and get angry easily because I can't seem to trust or connect with people anymore.
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Raydon
I'm not a dark empath but i do know what makes people tick and know how to act around them to get the best results the only differance is that i dont manipulate and leave people. I try to build a long lasting friendship and try and help them. What am I? I have a lot of empathy.
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I'm not a dark empath but i do know what makes people tick and know how to act around them to get the best results the only differance is that i dont manipulate and leave people. I try to build a long lasting friendship and try and help them. What am I? I have a lot of empathy.
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Sara
I fear to be a dark empath. How can I be sure? I don't enjoy create caos, to me it creates only stress and anxiety. And I learned that speaking behind people backs can only cause drama so I HATE IT now, I prefer to talk about games or other things.
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I fear to be a dark empath. How can I be sure? I don't enjoy create caos, to me it creates only stress and anxiety. And I learned that speaking behind people backs can only cause drama so I HATE IT now, I prefer to talk about games or other things.
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The
So, I'm genuinely curios, is there a place online that anyone knows of that you can meet other dark empaths? Not ones who are trying to be better or any of that but people who are happy being a dark empath and just enjoy talking to others like them?
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So, I'm genuinely curios, is there a place online that anyone knows of that you can meet other dark empaths? Not ones who are trying to be better or any of that but people who are happy being a dark empath and just enjoy talking to others like them?
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Kaneki
I think I know someone that might be dark empath and my friend might psychopath. I'm curious to know how would that interaction work. Because they're pure chaos, hate and sarcasm with each other. But, you know they still friends. it is confusing
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I think I know someone that might be dark empath and my friend might psychopath. I'm curious to know how would that interaction work. Because they're pure chaos, hate and sarcasm with each other. But, you know they still friends. it is confusing
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Airen
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1. It feels like a never-ending game of 20 questions
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2. They begin playing the Tit for Tat game
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3. The Pity Party
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4. One-upping
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5. Things may not end on a positive note
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0: 23
1. It feels like a never-ending game of 20 questions
1. 05
2. They begin playing the Tit for Tat game
1: 39
3. The Pity Party
2: 05
4. One-upping
2: 38
5. Things may not end on a positive note
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Neon
I'm not sure if I am a dark empath or not. I mean, I may not try to use my empathy and understanding of people to get what I want, but I will use someone's past trauma and insecurities against them the minute they betray my trust.
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I'm not sure if I am a dark empath or not. I mean, I may not try to use my empathy and understanding of people to get what I want, but I will use someone's past trauma and insecurities against them the minute they betray my trust.
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