6 Signs You're Secretly Lonely
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Lilith
If you see this text please help me.
I relate completely to all of this. I'm jealous of other people dating when I have noone, I often do feel like oversharing with my friends but I get so stressed that I don't even turn to anyone, not even my mom. I often hold in my emotions and say I'm fine, or Today was good, when really I let it out in my bathroom or bedroom, crying, talking to myself, or even getting angry, but silently. I often get bored really fast even after doing the funnest thing I can think of. I even tried finding therapy multiple times but they never helped. At all. I tried making friends and I have a bunch, I'm pretty popular at school, but I always preferred to be alone or not talk at all some days. I feel dead and numb inside. Anytime I'm in the slightest bad situation, I burst out crying, hiding my face, and sometimes not even answering when someone says Are you ok? I say I'm fine. When I say fine or good, I lie. My mom tells me a bunch of information but she refused to believe mine. I told her I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 8, she denied. She says I'm fine and she still wonders why my feelings explode in disgust or frustration. I need advanced therapy, anything that will help with the severe stress I'm experiencing. My mental health is holding on to one thread, and that thread is wearing out so much, I might go crazy one day. No matter what I do, I can't heal or hold on to that thread any longer. Please get me help, I feel like I have smiling depression and I question and answer to myself everyday. Am I gonna die? That would be great.
Nevermind I'm good.
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If you see this text please help me.
I relate completely to all of this. I'm jealous of other people dating when I have noone, I often do feel like oversharing with my friends but I get so stressed that I don't even turn to anyone, not even my mom. I often hold in my emotions and say I'm fine, or Today was good, when really I let it out in my bathroom or bedroom, crying, talking to myself, or even getting angry, but silently. I often get bored really fast even after doing the funnest thing I can think of. I even tried finding therapy multiple times but they never helped. At all. I tried making friends and I have a bunch, I'm pretty popular at school, but I always preferred to be alone or not talk at all some days. I feel dead and numb inside. Anytime I'm in the slightest bad situation, I burst out crying, hiding my face, and sometimes not even answering when someone says Are you ok? I say I'm fine. When I say fine or good, I lie. My mom tells me a bunch of information but she refused to believe mine. I told her I was diagnosed with anxiety when I was 8, she denied. She says I'm fine and she still wonders why my feelings explode in disgust or frustration. I need advanced therapy, anything that will help with the severe stress I'm experiencing. My mental health is holding on to one thread, and that thread is wearing out so much, I might go crazy one day. No matter what I do, I can't heal or hold on to that thread any longer. Please get me help, I feel like I have smiling depression and I question and answer to myself everyday. Am I gonna die? That would be great.
Nevermind I'm good.
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Tobster
The part with Jealousy of others having fun and Oversharing really made my heart sink.
I have been feeling lonely for the past 4 years and the only times I have been feeling normal, is when I am head deep in work.
I dont really have any real or close friends because of my fear of rejection, social anxiety and lack of confidence.
I tend to get quickly agitated from being in company with others and that just stopped me from making good connections with people my age.
I only talk freely when Im with my parents, but I have a habit of talking so much to the point that they get very annoyed, so I just stopped sharing things I am struggling with because I feel ashamed of talking too much.
This made me isolate myself completely both on social media and in real life because it just hurts so much to see other people you know are having a blast without you while sitting at home by yourself in the dark.
it made me realize that people like me are maybe not meant to have any real friends.
I know I am not the only one feeling like this, but I just wanted to get this off my shoulders in a place where I maybe have something in common with others.
Thank you for making these videos, they are very well made and helps a lot.
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The part with Jealousy of others having fun and Oversharing really made my heart sink.
I have been feeling lonely for the past 4 years and the only times I have been feeling normal, is when I am head deep in work.
I dont really have any real or close friends because of my fear of rejection, social anxiety and lack of confidence.
I tend to get quickly agitated from being in company with others and that just stopped me from making good connections with people my age.
I only talk freely when Im with my parents, but I have a habit of talking so much to the point that they get very annoyed, so I just stopped sharing things I am struggling with because I feel ashamed of talking too much.
This made me isolate myself completely both on social media and in real life because it just hurts so much to see other people you know are having a blast without you while sitting at home by yourself in the dark.
it made me realize that people like me are maybe not meant to have any real friends.
I know I am not the only one feeling like this, but I just wanted to get this off my shoulders in a place where I maybe have something in common with others.
Thank you for making these videos, they are very well made and helps a lot.
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Classical
I have one friend. One very close friend who I can talk to about anything, and can count on her confidentiality. The only drawback is that I almost never see her because we are both homeschooled and shes always busy so its hard to get together or text. I have always suffered from loneliness. I am in the middle of a very big family and Im not very close in age to most of my siblings. I really love Reading and used to say that books were my friends, because I didnt have any for a long time. I choked up a little watching this video because I realized how many of these points I can relate too. I have always felt like the outcast, no one really tries to approach me or smile at me. And its hard, when your just trying to fit in and the only person you can talk too in this world is always away. My mom always says I can talk to her about anything. But she always blames all my problems on my phone, and Im kinda sick of hearing that. You know its sad when you cant even talk to your mom about your problems because you feel like all she wants to do is find a way to lecture you on the evils of technology. Whats worse is that she doesnt even like my friend.
Thanks to anyone who read my comment. Have a beautiful day
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I have one friend. One very close friend who I can talk to about anything, and can count on her confidentiality. The only drawback is that I almost never see her because we are both homeschooled and shes always busy so its hard to get together or text. I have always suffered from loneliness. I am in the middle of a very big family and Im not very close in age to most of my siblings. I really love Reading and used to say that books were my friends, because I didnt have any for a long time. I choked up a little watching this video because I realized how many of these points I can relate too. I have always felt like the outcast, no one really tries to approach me or smile at me. And its hard, when your just trying to fit in and the only person you can talk too in this world is always away. My mom always says I can talk to her about anything. But she always blames all my problems on my phone, and Im kinda sick of hearing that. You know its sad when you cant even talk to your mom about your problems because you feel like all she wants to do is find a way to lecture you on the evils of technology. Whats worse is that she doesnt even like my friend.
Thanks to anyone who read my comment. Have a beautiful day
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Revtale
1: 12, This.
I may see, on my tab, two of my closest friends playing together, And when I see It, My heart clenches.
I have told myself: Why am I like this, they are allowed to play with others, NOT EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND YOU! But I can't help It, and It doesn't help I have a crush on her. (the one who's playing)
And I never had many friends growing up, combine that with a narcissistic father emotionally abusing my mother, and the fact that my mum has been my voice for most of my life I suppose I just shut down to ignore the pain
And what's worse?
I feel left out anyway, Whenever we aren't on voice chat, I begin assuming they either didn't call 'cause they thought I didn't want to, Or 'cause I didn't ask, and that they might be talking to each other!
I hate the fact I am being paranoid, but I just can't help It, I WANT, To be closer, I just don't know how.
Either way, This video matches what I feel DAILY.
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1: 12, This.
I may see, on my tab, two of my closest friends playing together, And when I see It, My heart clenches.
I have told myself: Why am I like this, they are allowed to play with others, NOT EVERYTHING REVOLVES AROUND YOU! But I can't help It, and It doesn't help I have a crush on her. (the one who's playing)
And I never had many friends growing up, combine that with a narcissistic father emotionally abusing my mother, and the fact that my mum has been my voice for most of my life I suppose I just shut down to ignore the pain
And what's worse?
I feel left out anyway, Whenever we aren't on voice chat, I begin assuming they either didn't call 'cause they thought I didn't want to, Or 'cause I didn't ask, and that they might be talking to each other!
I hate the fact I am being paranoid, but I just can't help It, I WANT, To be closer, I just don't know how.
Either way, This video matches what I feel DAILY.
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sonicgalaxy27
Being depressed is a huge struggle for people like me. I was depressed and lonely for 3 years now since summer of 2019 and no good things never happened to me for once. I do have families and friends I truly care about everyday but, there is one special puzzle piece that I need in my life which is still out there for me and it's really hard to look for it these days. It really is. Most artists, gamers and everyone else has one but not me. it's just not fair. It's never going to be me. They have a special puzzle piece in their life everyday but not me.
I just wish I had that special puzzle piece in my life so I will figure out what it is for me and see what it's like so I can know what it means. I'm just a unhappy artist who is trying to do better for myself and still trying so hard to do so. I hate being defeated like this. I hate being lonely. Felt like I'm feeling empty inside. What did I do to deserve this.
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Being depressed is a huge struggle for people like me. I was depressed and lonely for 3 years now since summer of 2019 and no good things never happened to me for once. I do have families and friends I truly care about everyday but, there is one special puzzle piece that I need in my life which is still out there for me and it's really hard to look for it these days. It really is. Most artists, gamers and everyone else has one but not me. it's just not fair. It's never going to be me. They have a special puzzle piece in their life everyday but not me.
I just wish I had that special puzzle piece in my life so I will figure out what it is for me and see what it's like so I can know what it means. I'm just a unhappy artist who is trying to do better for myself and still trying so hard to do so. I hate being defeated like this. I hate being lonely. Felt like I'm feeling empty inside. What did I do to deserve this.
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Yuri
I always overshare my problems with my best friend. I have no one else to turn to. If I turn to my brother, I feel afraid to voice out my problems, so I always end up keeping my mouth shut around them, but my mouth wide open and spewing out words whenever I'm around my best friend. She just. she just snapped earlier, telling me that no one's patient enough to listen to my babbles, that I'm lucky to have met her, a person who's patient enough to listen. She told me that she won't talk to me. I don't know for how long or when she'll open up to me again. Seeing her message instantly made my chest ache--like a literal pain in the chest. I'm not sure if this is stress or just a pulled muscle, but I always feel lonely whenever she tells me that.
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I always overshare my problems with my best friend. I have no one else to turn to. If I turn to my brother, I feel afraid to voice out my problems, so I always end up keeping my mouth shut around them, but my mouth wide open and spewing out words whenever I'm around my best friend. She just. she just snapped earlier, telling me that no one's patient enough to listen to my babbles, that I'm lucky to have met her, a person who's patient enough to listen. She told me that she won't talk to me. I don't know for how long or when she'll open up to me again. Seeing her message instantly made my chest ache--like a literal pain in the chest. I'm not sure if this is stress or just a pulled muscle, but I always feel lonely whenever she tells me that.
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Tyasia
I guess. I'm lonely and depressed then. I was watching a lot of things to do with depression and I have depression so I thought I would check it out. My family is never home and it feels worse because it kind of feels like my step-dad is replacing my biological dad, who killed himself in 2012 which was 2 years after my birth, and since I found out what happened, I just fell really depressed, and my mum also fell depressed but it felt like she didn't understand what I was feeling because whenever I try to explain what's wrong, it always escalates to a tearful argument where all it is is yelling while I'm having a mental break down.
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I guess. I'm lonely and depressed then. I was watching a lot of things to do with depression and I have depression so I thought I would check it out. My family is never home and it feels worse because it kind of feels like my step-dad is replacing my biological dad, who killed himself in 2012 which was 2 years after my birth, and since I found out what happened, I just fell really depressed, and my mum also fell depressed but it felt like she didn't understand what I was feeling because whenever I try to explain what's wrong, it always escalates to a tearful argument where all it is is yelling while I'm having a mental break down.
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FellerMister
This video is almost all me. I am lonely, and I know it. Because I didn't hang out after school, I don't have many friends. And the few friends I do have, are former classmates, and former coworkers. I didn't have a social life growing up, because I had older cousins that lived in the same building that I lived in, that was my second home, and was unknowingly obligated to hang out with, whenever it was not a workday or school day. I am a full grown adult, but yet, I don't go out of my way to make new friends, because I don't know how to make new friends. God, I am a sad case, ain't I?
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This video is almost all me. I am lonely, and I know it. Because I didn't hang out after school, I don't have many friends. And the few friends I do have, are former classmates, and former coworkers. I didn't have a social life growing up, because I had older cousins that lived in the same building that I lived in, that was my second home, and was unknowingly obligated to hang out with, whenever it was not a workday or school day. I am a full grown adult, but yet, I don't go out of my way to make new friends, because I don't know how to make new friends. God, I am a sad case, ain't I?
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Songbird
This is surprisingly accurate with how I'm feeling at times lately, and I have ended up making friends with fictional characters from a video game that I've gotten into. (Which you have even made a few references in your drawings, and I really like that. But I was wondering what is your take on using video games (or any other media) as coping to the point of completely immersing yourself.
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This is surprisingly accurate with how I'm feeling at times lately, and I have ended up making friends with fictional characters from a video game that I've gotten into. (Which you have even made a few references in your drawings, and I really like that. But I was wondering what is your take on using video games (or any other media) as coping to the point of completely immersing yourself.
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Lillia
Im not secretly lonely. i think i really im i have family. i have few friends but im too afraid to tell them how i feel i tried but they always said: ,You Are Okay Or, Im sorry Or, I have Harder life than you
they never helped me and im sick of it, cry every day and overthing everything ive have done like bad decisions. i really don't have someone who i can tell how lonely and sad i feel
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Im not secretly lonely. i think i really im i have family. i have few friends but im too afraid to tell them how i feel i tried but they always said: ,You Are Okay Or, Im sorry Or, I have Harder life than you
they never helped me and im sick of it, cry every day and overthing everything ive have done like bad decisions. i really don't have someone who i can tell how lonely and sad i feel
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Sev
I feel like (have the feeling) I deserve to be lonely, to be that background character, that another player on the leaderboard or that another player to fill the steam charts statistics, I say Jealousy is pathetic, for me it shows you don't have the full loyalty to your friends, if I get to know somebody I know is Jealous on me I get dissapointed and reason it out otherwise I turn hostile
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I feel like (have the feeling) I deserve to be lonely, to be that background character, that another player on the leaderboard or that another player to fill the steam charts statistics, I say Jealousy is pathetic, for me it shows you don't have the full loyalty to your friends, if I get to know somebody I know is Jealous on me I get dissapointed and reason it out otherwise I turn hostile
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maverick
Outside of family, I have no friends whatsoever. I don't feel comfortable in social situations and prefer to stay at home, rather than go to social events or parties, they exhaust me. Everytime people try to get to know me, I reject them or just brush them off. I've become so used to it that it's become a way of life, an I a freak?
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Outside of family, I have no friends whatsoever. I don't feel comfortable in social situations and prefer to stay at home, rather than go to social events or parties, they exhaust me. Everytime people try to get to know me, I reject them or just brush them off. I've become so used to it that it's become a way of life, an I a freak?
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aquariusgwen
Guess I've been feeling lonely since I was a child. All these emotion never ends despite me going into adulthood.
It just amplifies when your family members repeating reminded you that you are not their first priority, even though you have been making effort to be there.
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Guess I've been feeling lonely since I was a child. All these emotion never ends despite me going into adulthood.
It just amplifies when your family members repeating reminded you that you are not their first priority, even though you have been making effort to be there.
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Ela
I do and feel all these kind of stuffs, I've tried to do anything just to be noticed by persons i wanted to be with but there's nothing i can do if they don't really want me: ( it's sad how i can't the time to go together with some of my friends. I was always so lonely
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I do and feel all these kind of stuffs, I've tried to do anything just to be noticed by persons i wanted to be with but there's nothing i can do if they don't really want me: ( it's sad how i can't the time to go together with some of my friends. I was always so lonely
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Darkz_Beatz
My whole life ive always been lonely it causes me depression i dont wish my life on my worst enemy i dont know what i did in my past life to deserve to suffer like this but whatever reason their has to be a good reason why im suffering
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My whole life ive always been lonely it causes me depression i dont wish my life on my worst enemy i dont know what i did in my past life to deserve to suffer like this but whatever reason their has to be a good reason why im suffering
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Gay
I have most of these signs, and. it's painful, yes i have mnay friends, but i don't feel connected, i think i'm just afraid of talkingnto much and be annoying, i want to be way more social but i'm just scared, my advice? Express yourself more.
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I have most of these signs, and. it's painful, yes i have mnay friends, but i don't feel connected, i think i'm just afraid of talkingnto much and be annoying, i want to be way more social but i'm just scared, my advice? Express yourself more.
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psych2go
lol i fit everything on the list. i just wish my parents interacted with me more, but then again i have nothing to say. i dont really talk much to my parents, i just kinda listen to how their day was when i get the chance.
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lol i fit everything on the list. i just wish my parents interacted with me more, but then again i have nothing to say. i dont really talk much to my parents, i just kinda listen to how their day was when i get the chance.
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masih
Oh damn, i hope i have friends.
all of my classmates have their own circles, and me?
im alone.
But i did all my best.
I tried being the funny one, i tried being the smart one.
but what a waste of time.
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Oh damn, i hope i have friends.
all of my classmates have their own circles, and me?
im alone.
But i did all my best.
I tried being the funny one, i tried being the smart one.
but what a waste of time.
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SledgeBear
I just went through a tough breakup. My gf would always talk about other guys, wasnt equal, and spent a ton of time with other guys as well. Ive been feeling sad about it for the past month, with no happiness.
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I just went through a tough breakup. My gf would always talk about other guys, wasnt equal, and spent a ton of time with other guys as well. Ive been feeling sad about it for the past month, with no happiness.
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I just realized something. I will talk with videos if nobody is with me.
Sometimes I will say, Hi or Good to see you or something at the beginning and then talk back to whatever I hear in the rest of the video.
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I just realized something. I will talk with videos if nobody is with me.
Sometimes I will say, Hi or Good to see you or something at the beginning and then talk back to whatever I hear in the rest of the video.
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Nia
For all those lonely ppl out there, loneliness is almost like poverty. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Sad fact of life. There isn't an equal distribution of anything in this world, not even love.
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For all those lonely ppl out there, loneliness is almost like poverty. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Sad fact of life. There isn't an equal distribution of anything in this world, not even love.
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ALFRED
Comparisons between signs and myself
1) bored (kinda )
2)jealous of others having fun not really just jealous their life good
3) long shower not really
4) oversharing. 100%
5) NO
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Comparisons between signs and myself
1) bored (kinda )
2)jealous of others having fun not really just jealous their life good
3) long shower not really
4) oversharing. 100%
5) NO
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SpookyDraws
I feel very lonely most the time, a lot of my online friends dont play with me anymore or when I want them to pay attention they bring up their own thing and Im left alone.
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I feel very lonely most the time, a lot of my online friends dont play with me anymore or when I want them to pay attention they bring up their own thing and Im left alone.
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education
Thank you you for creating the content that you do Psych2Go. It truly helps to see and realize things about ourselves and others as a community in order to open up and grow
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Thank you you for creating the content that you do Psych2Go. It truly helps to see and realize things about ourselves and others as a community in order to open up and grow
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Oxie
I have people to turn to, I just dont, because complaining about my actual problems makes me feel bad. Other than that the only one that doesnt fit me is always buying stuff.
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I have people to turn to, I just dont, because complaining about my actual problems makes me feel bad. Other than that the only one that doesnt fit me is always buying stuff.
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