9 Comforting Things Introverts Would Like To Hear
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Stanton
Introverts introverts because they don't know how to have the authority in conversation giving away and within conversation people give each other away by allowing the third person into the conversation and that just totally gives the introvert away and if people would recognize and and actually hold on to the fact that there is an authority within conversation and one is trusting another one with that authority by engaging in a conversation not to allow the third person or anybody just to jump in and just say hey can I have authority over either of you and somebody without letting the other one no saying yeah you can have the authority over me and I'll give him a p. m. to or her to that's why introverts are introverts cuz they don't know how to have the authority comfortably and they don't know how to trust anybody with that authority and that's what it takes to be out socially as you got to be able to be comfortable by having that authority given away and that's not always done if you have a caretaker that doesn't teach you that
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Introverts introverts because they don't know how to have the authority in conversation giving away and within conversation people give each other away by allowing the third person into the conversation and that just totally gives the introvert away and if people would recognize and and actually hold on to the fact that there is an authority within conversation and one is trusting another one with that authority by engaging in a conversation not to allow the third person or anybody just to jump in and just say hey can I have authority over either of you and somebody without letting the other one no saying yeah you can have the authority over me and I'll give him a p. m. to or her to that's why introverts are introverts cuz they don't know how to have the authority comfortably and they don't know how to trust anybody with that authority and that's what it takes to be out socially as you got to be able to be comfortable by having that authority given away and that's not always done if you have a caretaker that doesn't teach you that
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Jessica
. from my understanding, most of these things go for most people, not just introverts, but they're more specific to people with social anxiety. Being introverted and having social anxiety aren't the same thing, and a lot of habits socially anxious people have are frequently categorized into being introverted; introversion simply means you essentially gain social energy from alone time, and you can get drained quickly from being around people. Introverts can actively enjoy parties and be very outgoing, just as extroverts can actively dislike parties and be shy. For example, I'm extremely introverted, antisocial, and asocial, and I also have (diagnosed) social anxiety; on the other side, my partner is quite extroverted but they're very shy. Introverted tendencies and socially anxious tendencies are largely viewed as the same thing, and I think it's important to understand that they're not. tldr; introverts and socially anxious people aren't always the same thing
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. from my understanding, most of these things go for most people, not just introverts, but they're more specific to people with social anxiety. Being introverted and having social anxiety aren't the same thing, and a lot of habits socially anxious people have are frequently categorized into being introverted; introversion simply means you essentially gain social energy from alone time, and you can get drained quickly from being around people. Introverts can actively enjoy parties and be very outgoing, just as extroverts can actively dislike parties and be shy. For example, I'm extremely introverted, antisocial, and asocial, and I also have (diagnosed) social anxiety; on the other side, my partner is quite extroverted but they're very shy. Introverted tendencies and socially anxious tendencies are largely viewed as the same thing, and I think it's important to understand that they're not. tldr; introverts and socially anxious people aren't always the same thing
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Nobody
Im i a introvert? Im not sure.
I like listening to music
And i also like reading(Kinda)
I like being alone. i dont really like speaking to people i just like listening not talking
Im very very very shy. i dont talk to my friends that much. i only talk to my parents though sometimes i still get shy around my parents, i dont speak to much. i like spending my time alone in the dark in a corner just listening to music sometimes even dancing only if no one is looking. i like imagining am in a different dimension hanging out with my imaginary friends while listening to a random music music any kinda of music. im not smart like the others. i like watching anime, having attension is kinda fun for me sometimes not really. and last, i think thats all
Hm i think im not a introvent
im just a crazy person.
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Im i a introvert? Im not sure.
I like listening to music
And i also like reading(Kinda)
I like being alone. i dont really like speaking to people i just like listening not talking
Im very very very shy. i dont talk to my friends that much. i only talk to my parents though sometimes i still get shy around my parents, i dont speak to much. i like spending my time alone in the dark in a corner just listening to music sometimes even dancing only if no one is looking. i like imagining am in a different dimension hanging out with my imaginary friends while listening to a random music music any kinda of music. im not smart like the others. i like watching anime, having attension is kinda fun for me sometimes not really. and last, i think thats all
Hm i think im not a introvent
im just a crazy person.
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Florian
Well it is true, the few times I get a good coment for the things I do feel like got supercharged and full of energie. For the points of helping others and caring for yourself I try to help everyone and feel kind of drained to fall over and the one time I say sorry I can't help you right now I get a backlash at it finest. I also double as anchor and rock in the waves for those I care and little do they know about the tornado in a bottle that lies beneath the calm surface.
Sorry for the ranting needed to vent for a moment, on another note english isn't my mother language so if you find grammar or spelling mistakes please don't get mad. Thank you for your attention.
Have a nice day.
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Well it is true, the few times I get a good coment for the things I do feel like got supercharged and full of energie. For the points of helping others and caring for yourself I try to help everyone and feel kind of drained to fall over and the one time I say sorry I can't help you right now I get a backlash at it finest. I also double as anchor and rock in the waves for those I care and little do they know about the tornado in a bottle that lies beneath the calm surface.
Sorry for the ranting needed to vent for a moment, on another note english isn't my mother language so if you find grammar or spelling mistakes please don't get mad. Thank you for your attention.
Have a nice day.
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Celine
Letting me go is my number 1. I live in Mexico. Latin Americans always want to be together and do things ALL. DAY. LONG. Whenever I want to go they always say, No, don't go! I know they mean well, but it really bothers me. It's like they don't respect my own time. I also hate being pressured into doing activities I'm not interested in (I don't know if that's an introverted thing or just me. Many times I'm pressured to participate and socialize, but I'd rather be alone at home than at someone's house playing a board game. I don't like being on my phone for many hours and being next to them either; I just want to go home.
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Letting me go is my number 1. I live in Mexico. Latin Americans always want to be together and do things ALL. DAY. LONG. Whenever I want to go they always say, No, don't go! I know they mean well, but it really bothers me. It's like they don't respect my own time. I also hate being pressured into doing activities I'm not interested in (I don't know if that's an introverted thing or just me. Many times I'm pressured to participate and socialize, but I'd rather be alone at home than at someone's house playing a board game. I don't like being on my phone for many hours and being next to them either; I just want to go home.
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Indrid
I am an introvert. I like to hear nothing from the social people except:
1. Excuse me, if someone bumps into me.
2. I beg your pardon, if someone bumps into me.
3. Pardon me, if someone bumps into me.
4. The total of a transaction so I may pay the total at a store.
That is about all an introvert wants to hear. We we are not social to want to hear familiarities from anybody. A familiarity heard from someone has to have alternative reasons. Nobody knows me to give a comment of friendly familiarity to me.
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I am an introvert. I like to hear nothing from the social people except:
1. Excuse me, if someone bumps into me.
2. I beg your pardon, if someone bumps into me.
3. Pardon me, if someone bumps into me.
4. The total of a transaction so I may pay the total at a store.
That is about all an introvert wants to hear. We we are not social to want to hear familiarities from anybody. A familiarity heard from someone has to have alternative reasons. Nobody knows me to give a comment of friendly familiarity to me.
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Braeden
I do like when my insight is appreciated but I don't know how to respond to compliments, i just say thank you but feel like it isn't enough and feel bad, for me I love it when someone listens to me talk about something I'm really interested in and ask a question that shows they listened, when people just say stuff like oh, that's really interesting it doesn't feel like they listened, but I'm so used to that response that showing that you listened feels like an incredible privilege now and I'm not sure if it is.
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I do like when my insight is appreciated but I don't know how to respond to compliments, i just say thank you but feel like it isn't enough and feel bad, for me I love it when someone listens to me talk about something I'm really interested in and ask a question that shows they listened, when people just say stuff like oh, that's really interesting it doesn't feel like they listened, but I'm so used to that response that showing that you listened feels like an incredible privilege now and I'm not sure if it is.
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Rachel
Commenting on number 7, I remember at one point I walked into class and saw someone had written The quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog. I changed it to jumps, because that's what it needs to become what it's supposed to be, a pangram (sentence with all the letters of the alphabet in it. I explained, at least 3 times at that, but my fellow classmates refused to admit I was correct, even though I had analyzed that sentence many times before, and even just then to notice so quickly the error.
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Commenting on number 7, I remember at one point I walked into class and saw someone had written The quick brown fox jumped over the lazy dog. I changed it to jumps, because that's what it needs to become what it's supposed to be, a pangram (sentence with all the letters of the alphabet in it. I explained, at least 3 times at that, but my fellow classmates refused to admit I was correct, even though I had analyzed that sentence many times before, and even just then to notice so quickly the error.
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emad
Actually one can be an introvert but still have so high social skills and be powerful, confident and able to stand up for what they believe in. without caring whatever any insecure person says.
With some work and training you can be the best introvert in the world. and have all the qualities of an extrovert and even be better than extrovert at their thing.
That's when you're an ambivert. and that's the best social status a matured can be in.
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Actually one can be an introvert but still have so high social skills and be powerful, confident and able to stand up for what they believe in. without caring whatever any insecure person says.
With some work and training you can be the best introvert in the world. and have all the qualities of an extrovert and even be better than extrovert at their thing.
That's when you're an ambivert. and that's the best social status a matured can be in.
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Kayla
This video hits on so many levels. Im an extroverted introvert. I can socialize with people to a point, but when I need my alone time, I really need my alone time. People dont understand how my mind works because of it. And its frustrating. Ive been told that Im not introverted when Im obviously am and those comments hurt my psyche.
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This video hits on so many levels. Im an extroverted introvert. I can socialize with people to a point, but when I need my alone time, I really need my alone time. People dont understand how my mind works because of it. And its frustrating. Ive been told that Im not introverted when Im obviously am and those comments hurt my psyche.
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Lavenderrose73
I'm (borderline)NFP. I thrive on fellowship, but it depends on who I'm around as to how open I will be. I need to know that I am welcome around those I'm with. I imagine if I'm around someone who has hurt me in the past, I will fall _very_ quiet, especially if it's someone I care about!
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I'm (borderline)NFP. I thrive on fellowship, but it depends on who I'm around as to how open I will be. I need to know that I am welcome around those I'm with. I imagine if I'm around someone who has hurt me in the past, I will fall _very_ quiet, especially if it's someone I care about!
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Synd
This video describes me so much, it's almost creepy. Unfortunately, no one cares about me enough to tell me these things, no one ever has. No one appreciates me, ask if i'm okay, say hi, or compliment me in any way. I don't feel like anyone cares about me at all, it's quite sad to be honest.
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This video describes me so much, it's almost creepy. Unfortunately, no one cares about me enough to tell me these things, no one ever has. No one appreciates me, ask if i'm okay, say hi, or compliment me in any way. I don't feel like anyone cares about me at all, it's quite sad to be honest.
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Fabola
I wish my friends would know English well, so they could understand this video! Im sure Ill not translate this one just to make them know what I would love to hear.
I agree with every topic approach. Hearing that I was right on my observations is better than a material gift, for sure!
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I wish my friends would know English well, so they could understand this video! Im sure Ill not translate this one just to make them know what I would love to hear.
I agree with every topic approach. Hearing that I was right on my observations is better than a material gift, for sure!
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psych2go
omg I am an extrovert dating my first introvert. This explains a lot and I will sit myself down from trying to make him be anything other than who He is.
thank you so much I appreciate the insight and I realize how much she really does care about me and now I can care for him.
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omg I am an extrovert dating my first introvert. This explains a lot and I will sit myself down from trying to make him be anything other than who He is.
thank you so much I appreciate the insight and I realize how much she really does care about me and now I can care for him.
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dgthe3
Didn't quite agree with the first two. The various 'thinking' ones were nice. But the 'feel so comfortable around you' really hit home. Being truly comfortable with someone is rare for an introvert. So to hear that someone is comfortable with me? It's extremely liberating.
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Didn't quite agree with the first two. The various 'thinking' ones were nice. But the 'feel so comfortable around you' really hit home. Being truly comfortable with someone is rare for an introvert. So to hear that someone is comfortable with me? It's extremely liberating.
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The
Hey introverts, this video is a gem! It's like they're reading our minds and hearts. Finally, someone gets us! These comforting words are exactly what we need to hear to feel understood and valued. Share this with your loved ones and let the introvert appreciation begin!
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Hey introverts, this video is a gem! It's like they're reading our minds and hearts. Finally, someone gets us! These comforting words are exactly what we need to hear to feel understood and valued. Share this with your loved ones and let the introvert appreciation begin!
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warlord
I get anxious when talking to certain people that are assholes who disregard what they do. They always assume that you are doing something different when in fact you are doing something noble and kind even if you don't like them.
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I get anxious when talking to certain people that are assholes who disregard what they do. They always assume that you are doing something different when in fact you are doing something noble and kind even if you don't like them.
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Lixon
Yeah, the many time when i hear conversation, and i know the answer, i know they are very wrong, but they don't listen to me, don't trust me. It cuts deep. Nobody trusts the introverts opinions as they are not that forward with it.
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Yeah, the many time when i hear conversation, and i know the answer, i know they are very wrong, but they don't listen to me, don't trust me. It cuts deep. Nobody trusts the introverts opinions as they are not that forward with it.
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Disciple
my personal opinion as an introvert myself is
1. is true
2. is okay sometimes
3. is most of the time true
4. is true
5. is true
6. can be embarrassing most of the time
7. is true
8. is true
9. is true
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my personal opinion as an introvert myself is
1. is true
2. is okay sometimes
3. is most of the time true
4. is true
5. is true
6. can be embarrassing most of the time
7. is true
8. is true
9. is true
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patryn36
i wonder what that says when i do not fear or care about backlash about my thoughts. Not sure i fit the introvert genre, typical pattern is there are a few molds that are close but i never seem to fit any of them exactly.
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i wonder what that says when i do not fear or care about backlash about my thoughts. Not sure i fit the introvert genre, typical pattern is there are a few molds that are close but i never seem to fit any of them exactly.
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Obeluskepusken
2: 37 for me i feel like its the introverts that a loved for their personality and i as an extrovert feels that people gets easlily annoyed when i am around and that i want to be an introvert some times
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2: 37 for me i feel like its the introverts that a loved for their personality and i as an extrovert feels that people gets easlily annoyed when i am around and that i want to be an introvert some times
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Luzita
Ok I'm subbing. I going to use these methods more often until we go on our end of school trip to Cardiff in Wales in may. I'll tell you all in a comment where this goes after that. Cuz I'm confessing that day.
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Ok I'm subbing. I going to use these methods more often until we go on our end of school trip to Cardiff in Wales in may. I'll tell you all in a comment where this goes after that. Cuz I'm confessing that day.
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silver
My whole life i think ive been introverted, but i also have social anxiety, so now im kinda seeing that i could possibly be and extrovert, but idk, i definitely feel like an introvert! Ah pls help!
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My whole life i think ive been introverted, but i also have social anxiety, so now im kinda seeing that i could possibly be and extrovert, but idk, i definitely feel like an introvert! Ah pls help!
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Present
I HATE comofrting people and I HATE people comforting me, I mean im fine with saying you good? And then they say yeah, but like it feels so weird- JAJAJA- BC I DONT KNOW HOW TO COMFORT PEOPLE-
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I HATE comofrting people and I HATE people comforting me, I mean im fine with saying you good? And then they say yeah, but like it feels so weird- JAJAJA- BC I DONT KNOW HOW TO COMFORT PEOPLE-
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EXPRESSION
Being an introvert has it's upsides and downsides. Being misunderstood while being the most understanding person can weigh me and other introverts down. It can also be frustrating too.
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Being an introvert has it's upsides and downsides. Being misunderstood while being the most understanding person can weigh me and other introverts down. It can also be frustrating too.
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