6 Signs You Are Too Depressed To Do Anything
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Aki
I am tired so0 mcuh that when i wake from those awful dreams i ahrdly to cuz i just wanna slepe and not be there. Many symtoms ocur but im so exousted to even look for something in my room i need, this can change only by really comforting another person its so extrreme and even after it and specific plac ei need to be to feel safe and somewhat like things ar efine and i can make some goals, yeah i never do them, i cant sremin stable, symtoms got unnabured and mor ei tried to help myself the less i could, i am tired jsu tof everything, i tried at leas tmaking a routine of sleep and getting showers since this symtoms make me feel afwull about myself but i truly cant with no proper help to do anything, i did therpy it doesnt seem to work latly my self worth is highly damage dim so talented artist im so good at my job but desprate for people to hire me or work any of my hobbys with me in order for me to regain whats left of my life it sbeen so long its been so long, tho i can hate myself jsut typing this becaus ei sound whinny for myself and that doesnt change anything either that doesnt make people step in to help with things i truly need, i wa sleft alone becaus eof my symtoms by even fmaily members i wa sfighitng of just urges to suicide so long bu t, no matter how mu ch i try i still suffer. any compession for me any, help andyone that cna detroy a bit of my imposter syndrome jsut anything, not a day for years now wasnt without suffering i used to try all things i used to be very angry about it, now i jsut got reactionless since i think that i try somethign i cant archive, that people hav eon daily basises, some peopel terorise me and blame me for my symtoms i never akwnolage it on time, i am a tthe point i did wished i was in bad doing anythign tha twont provocate anxiety sid eof it becaus ei cant deal with multiple conditions even tho even like that i was suppose dto be on disability it gone wrong even person who could help me, but its all jsut drifting directions and i dont undertand myself, what truly tars me apart is few conditions not just depression so i never have stable self not even in mood. im tired im tired, i never told about degree of my urges of suicid ei do not want thei rhelp that is oppsoite of what i need -safity and friend family and warmt support it will be just like the others where they added more trauma to existing one, i hatte myslef constantly for whining i hat emyself for all my symtoms i know i desrved more but i dont feel it in the same time, been so desprate, but all people told me seems always out of line its nto what i want or need, and now they all hav ething in head of what you might need instead of actually giving you and lsitening what you actually need, even if tha twould save me suffering for one day, it gone to far, for a while now it is too far.
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I am tired so0 mcuh that when i wake from those awful dreams i ahrdly to cuz i just wanna slepe and not be there. Many symtoms ocur but im so exousted to even look for something in my room i need, this can change only by really comforting another person its so extrreme and even after it and specific plac ei need to be to feel safe and somewhat like things ar efine and i can make some goals, yeah i never do them, i cant sremin stable, symtoms got unnabured and mor ei tried to help myself the less i could, i am tired jsu tof everything, i tried at leas tmaking a routine of sleep and getting showers since this symtoms make me feel afwull about myself but i truly cant with no proper help to do anything, i did therpy it doesnt seem to work latly my self worth is highly damage dim so talented artist im so good at my job but desprate for people to hire me or work any of my hobbys with me in order for me to regain whats left of my life it sbeen so long its been so long, tho i can hate myself jsut typing this becaus ei sound whinny for myself and that doesnt change anything either that doesnt make people step in to help with things i truly need, i wa sleft alone becaus eof my symtoms by even fmaily members i wa sfighitng of just urges to suicide so long bu t, no matter how mu ch i try i still suffer. any compession for me any, help andyone that cna detroy a bit of my imposter syndrome jsut anything, not a day for years now wasnt without suffering i used to try all things i used to be very angry about it, now i jsut got reactionless since i think that i try somethign i cant archive, that people hav eon daily basises, some peopel terorise me and blame me for my symtoms i never akwnolage it on time, i am a tthe point i did wished i was in bad doing anythign tha twont provocate anxiety sid eof it becaus ei cant deal with multiple conditions even tho even like that i was suppose dto be on disability it gone wrong even person who could help me, but its all jsut drifting directions and i dont undertand myself, what truly tars me apart is few conditions not just depression so i never have stable self not even in mood. im tired im tired, i never told about degree of my urges of suicid ei do not want thei rhelp that is oppsoite of what i need -safity and friend family and warmt support it will be just like the others where they added more trauma to existing one, i hatte myslef constantly for whining i hat emyself for all my symtoms i know i desrved more but i dont feel it in the same time, been so desprate, but all people told me seems always out of line its nto what i want or need, and now they all hav ething in head of what you might need instead of actually giving you and lsitening what you actually need, even if tha twould save me suffering for one day, it gone to far, for a while now it is too far.
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yeckiLP
I am in more or less in active treatment (currently in the process of switching therapist, which leaves a bit of a gap, getting medication (though, when I listen to other people and how medication affected them, I couldn't reliably say wether it's doing anything for me, and I have gone through a good chunk of the list.
In my circle of contacts I find that the hard part is not others not recognizing the difference of depression/laziness, but having to navigate that distinction myself. Am I being lazy, or is it a symptom of my depression. Or am I allowing myself to be lazy with depression as an excuse is a discussion I often have in my thoughts. That becomes especially hard to differentiate, when I can't look back to a time where I 'functioned correctly'.
My earliest memories contain quite a lot of moments of me circumnavigating one task or another. I mean the first time I got homework (colour in this drawing) I just gave each part a line of colour and called it done (my reasoning was along the lines of, I assigned each part a colour, you can imagine the rest)
While I haven't given up hope completely, every step that I take, stumble and (as a pattern) gave up on, dims that light of hope.
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I am in more or less in active treatment (currently in the process of switching therapist, which leaves a bit of a gap, getting medication (though, when I listen to other people and how medication affected them, I couldn't reliably say wether it's doing anything for me, and I have gone through a good chunk of the list.
In my circle of contacts I find that the hard part is not others not recognizing the difference of depression/laziness, but having to navigate that distinction myself. Am I being lazy, or is it a symptom of my depression. Or am I allowing myself to be lazy with depression as an excuse is a discussion I often have in my thoughts. That becomes especially hard to differentiate, when I can't look back to a time where I 'functioned correctly'.
My earliest memories contain quite a lot of moments of me circumnavigating one task or another. I mean the first time I got homework (colour in this drawing) I just gave each part a line of colour and called it done (my reasoning was along the lines of, I assigned each part a colour, you can imagine the rest)
While I haven't given up hope completely, every step that I take, stumble and (as a pattern) gave up on, dims that light of hope.
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LenalovesBooks
I've been like this for the past three weeks. I haven't been to work, I hate my job. I don't like my colleagues. It's hard to get out of bed. I don't do any housework. Like none. Usually I kinda love doing it because it feels good. But right now it's hard. I live in Germany and here it's really hard to get the right help because there are not enough open spaces. Like you have to wait between 1 and 2 years if you're unlucky. I am on two waiting lists but that doesn't help me right now.
I am thinking about quitting my job and looking for something else but I am scared. But I know my current job makes me even sicker. so I dont know. It's just hard because society doesn't really see depression as something so severe. And I've never been this bad before. Like I had my downs and stuff. Even suicidal thoughts but right now I can't seem to get out of this extreme down.
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I've been like this for the past three weeks. I haven't been to work, I hate my job. I don't like my colleagues. It's hard to get out of bed. I don't do any housework. Like none. Usually I kinda love doing it because it feels good. But right now it's hard. I live in Germany and here it's really hard to get the right help because there are not enough open spaces. Like you have to wait between 1 and 2 years if you're unlucky. I am on two waiting lists but that doesn't help me right now.
I am thinking about quitting my job and looking for something else but I am scared. But I know my current job makes me even sicker. so I dont know. It's just hard because society doesn't really see depression as something so severe. And I've never been this bad before. Like I had my downs and stuff. Even suicidal thoughts but right now I can't seem to get out of this extreme down.
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Priya
If ur family is toxic then u wld definitely be depressed eventually, but I try to motivate others in depression coz little kind words can surely help a depressed person to make them feel wanted, but first step is to listen to that person who is depressed and say nothing while they r slowly opening up, just a smile and a hug can be more fruitful than ur suggestion not to think about it, coz my sibling is shizoprenic so I feel depressed almost all the time, but I motivate others when I feel they r depressed coz I can feel their pain, sibling having mental disorder can affect another sibling and that can lead to depression, but helping others to be out of depression makes me feel better as it gives me satisfaction that atleast I can help a depressed person to come out of depression immediately
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If ur family is toxic then u wld definitely be depressed eventually, but I try to motivate others in depression coz little kind words can surely help a depressed person to make them feel wanted, but first step is to listen to that person who is depressed and say nothing while they r slowly opening up, just a smile and a hug can be more fruitful than ur suggestion not to think about it, coz my sibling is shizoprenic so I feel depressed almost all the time, but I motivate others when I feel they r depressed coz I can feel their pain, sibling having mental disorder can affect another sibling and that can lead to depression, but helping others to be out of depression makes me feel better as it gives me satisfaction that atleast I can help a depressed person to come out of depression immediately
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Mustafas
My problems are personal to me so I am not gonna say them but I know where my sadness comes from and I cant do anything about it which is what I hate so much.
Genuinely good luck to whoever is going through this same feeling. I want someone to understand me but at the same time I dont want someone to understand me. They will just make fun of me for being all emo depressed because Gen Z but at the same time I want someone to know how it feels because I dont like being the only one to feel this pain. If anyone knew how I felt and somehow found a way to not make fun of me for it my life would be straighter then an AI-generator line
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My problems are personal to me so I am not gonna say them but I know where my sadness comes from and I cant do anything about it which is what I hate so much.
Genuinely good luck to whoever is going through this same feeling. I want someone to understand me but at the same time I dont want someone to understand me. They will just make fun of me for being all emo depressed because Gen Z but at the same time I want someone to know how it feels because I dont like being the only one to feel this pain. If anyone knew how I felt and somehow found a way to not make fun of me for it my life would be straighter then an AI-generator line
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Madison
It feels like Im lost, and I dont know who I am anymore Im lonely I have no friends no one to talk to about how I feel and even if tried to talk to my family they think Im pretending so at this point I dont even know what to do with my life anymore and it also feels like Even tho Im 15 and I barely talk people think thats normal and I cry about it sometimes I think what is crying going to do so right now i stay in bed my family thinks Im lazy so hopefully I can get help soon I dont think Im going to
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It feels like Im lost, and I dont know who I am anymore Im lonely I have no friends no one to talk to about how I feel and even if tried to talk to my family they think Im pretending so at this point I dont even know what to do with my life anymore and it also feels like Even tho Im 15 and I barely talk people think thats normal and I cry about it sometimes I think what is crying going to do so right now i stay in bed my family thinks Im lazy so hopefully I can get help soon I dont think Im going to
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Aveira
I'm not really sure whether I have depression or not. Once, I told my parents I might have it cause I show a lot of signs, but all they did was laugh at me and told me that I was overthinking it. They do have a point tho I have a nice school with friends, both my parents, and we're financially stable, but I don't know why I still feel so sad. I wanna tell someone what I'm feeling but I can't either because I don't know how to express it or just feel like I will be more of a problem for them.
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I'm not really sure whether I have depression or not. Once, I told my parents I might have it cause I show a lot of signs, but all they did was laugh at me and told me that I was overthinking it. They do have a point tho I have a nice school with friends, both my parents, and we're financially stable, but I don't know why I still feel so sad. I wanna tell someone what I'm feeling but I can't either because I don't know how to express it or just feel like I will be more of a problem for them.
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CosmicStickman
Can you help me please idk why i keep getting angry at my brothers and keep crying inside and very sad but whenever i go to my friends i just feel happier but with my brothers because my brothers keep on treating me like im nothing but with my friends i just feel happier whenever i joke around with my friends they can relate im very sad rn because ive been feeling like im out of the picture of my family and my brothers are like not friends but enemies so can you pls help me
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Can you help me please idk why i keep getting angry at my brothers and keep crying inside and very sad but whenever i go to my friends i just feel happier but with my brothers because my brothers keep on treating me like im nothing but with my friends i just feel happier whenever i joke around with my friends they can relate im very sad rn because ive been feeling like im out of the picture of my family and my brothers are like not friends but enemies so can you pls help me
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rene_axele
Most people don't realize that depression is really serious because of how common it is. A lot of people with depression may just push it off as laziness or 'not in the mood' leaving their true feelings unattended which just worsens their symptoms. If you notice you're often feeling burnt out, unmotivated, and gloomy, consecutively over weeks, then you may just have depression. Mental health is important- DON'T IGNORE THE SIGNS! Anyways, have a good day, and keep healthy!
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Most people don't realize that depression is really serious because of how common it is. A lot of people with depression may just push it off as laziness or 'not in the mood' leaving their true feelings unattended which just worsens their symptoms. If you notice you're often feeling burnt out, unmotivated, and gloomy, consecutively over weeks, then you may just have depression. Mental health is important- DON'T IGNORE THE SIGNS! Anyways, have a good day, and keep healthy!
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Random
Everything I do is useless I use to be so cheerfull I can wake up go to school. But now I feel lazy lonely and sad I get bullied often I want to reach out for help but I'm still young. I did reach out once. They just said ridiculous your just a child just over it I became denser and heavier. I don't want to experience this I want my old friends my best friends. Even my sister doesn't care about me anymore I just want to be apart of something I'm empty.
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Everything I do is useless I use to be so cheerfull I can wake up go to school. But now I feel lazy lonely and sad I get bullied often I want to reach out for help but I'm still young. I did reach out once. They just said ridiculous your just a child just over it I became denser and heavier. I don't want to experience this I want my old friends my best friends. Even my sister doesn't care about me anymore I just want to be apart of something I'm empty.
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ItzTocaOlive
I feel I need help, but Im to young to go out for my self, I do things around my house to please my family, but I cant do things for my self or feed my self, feeling like I dont need to eat or go for a run. Its like watching these types of videos make me feel that a loved one is going to just carry me under their wing without me saying anything. But thats not the case. If you feel the same, like this comment
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I feel I need help, but Im to young to go out for my self, I do things around my house to please my family, but I cant do things for my self or feed my self, feeling like I dont need to eat or go for a run. Its like watching these types of videos make me feel that a loved one is going to just carry me under their wing without me saying anything. But thats not the case. If you feel the same, like this comment
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jen
Do you have any advice of how to deal with a partner with anger issues? My partner gets really mad and loud and says bad things and slams their fist on table tops. It gives me lots of anxiety. They always apologize but it doesn't stop it from happening again. When I bring up them going to therapy they say they have too much on their plate right now. I just don't know how to approach it or what to do.
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Do you have any advice of how to deal with a partner with anger issues? My partner gets really mad and loud and says bad things and slams their fist on table tops. It gives me lots of anxiety. They always apologize but it doesn't stop it from happening again. When I bring up them going to therapy they say they have too much on their plate right now. I just don't know how to approach it or what to do.
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Ann_le_weido
I'm experiencing these signs everyday and the feeling only gets worse. I tell myself I'm fine and it'll all go away in time but it's not. I've been wanting to get professional help but it's hard to find any in my country. and for the ones that are here, they're mad expensive so even though I know that's what I need I can't get help. so I'm just stuck waiting to see how it'll all end for me
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I'm experiencing these signs everyday and the feeling only gets worse. I tell myself I'm fine and it'll all go away in time but it's not. I've been wanting to get professional help but it's hard to find any in my country. and for the ones that are here, they're mad expensive so even though I know that's what I need I can't get help. so I'm just stuck waiting to see how it'll all end for me
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Shrayas
I used to match with every point in this video. Feeling less motivated, thinking everything going to be worse, blaming myself for every little thing and feeling that everyone was better without me. Thankfully I have gotten over from that feeling. I still wonder if I had Not gotten out of it. At the time I had no idea how dangerous it was or how toxic my mind was.
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I used to match with every point in this video. Feeling less motivated, thinking everything going to be worse, blaming myself for every little thing and feeling that everyone was better without me. Thankfully I have gotten over from that feeling. I still wonder if I had Not gotten out of it. At the time I had no idea how dangerous it was or how toxic my mind was.
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-K.
I dont know but I just always dont want to do anything. Literally I always dont want to do anything. My room is a mess, I dont take care of myself, I dont do my art, none of that. I barely feel anything but I only express anger and happiness. I dont express anything else. I think I do have clinical depression I dont know? I just dont know.
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I dont know but I just always dont want to do anything. Literally I always dont want to do anything. My room is a mess, I dont take care of myself, I dont do my art, none of that. I barely feel anything but I only express anger and happiness. I dont express anything else. I think I do have clinical depression I dont know? I just dont know.
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WCH
I am not sure if I really depressed but tbh since unknown time I started to afraid of everything new including my work finding. My sisters always think I'm lazy and they always said just try something new. I knew it but idk why I can't really do it.
Edit: I have all of these points except point 3 but really I am getting to this point.
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I am not sure if I really depressed but tbh since unknown time I started to afraid of everything new including my work finding. My sisters always think I'm lazy and they always said just try something new. I knew it but idk why I can't really do it.
Edit: I have all of these points except point 3 but really I am getting to this point.
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Keyma
I feel this way most of the time no interest in people or being around people I stay to myself majority of the time its like I dont exist I feel numb inside I feel a lot of pain worthlessness but I make laugh all the time but I feel like I just dont wanna be around anymore Ive been alone for so long it feel normal a lot of pain I feel
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I feel this way most of the time no interest in people or being around people I stay to myself majority of the time its like I dont exist I feel numb inside I feel a lot of pain worthlessness but I make laugh all the time but I feel like I just dont wanna be around anymore Ive been alone for so long it feel normal a lot of pain I feel
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Emlls
Every time I have a plan I always thing right before going that I shouldnt go, that is better to dont go outside and keep inside my house, I lost 3 whole years without hanging out with friends, I just go out of my house for school or maybe once or twice a year, I really miss being able to go outside with people
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Every time I have a plan I always thing right before going that I shouldnt go, that is better to dont go outside and keep inside my house, I lost 3 whole years without hanging out with friends, I just go out of my house for school or maybe once or twice a year, I really miss being able to go outside with people
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Pumpkinbricks
I would never say i have depression though i have a shocking amount of the symptoms. Especially lately ive been feeling as lonely as 1 can be and i cannot get myself to start doing anything because even a videogame feels like a chore lately. Though i must say i think i know why i feel this way
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I would never say i have depression though i have a shocking amount of the symptoms. Especially lately ive been feeling as lonely as 1 can be and i cannot get myself to start doing anything because even a videogame feels like a chore lately. Though i must say i think i know why i feel this way
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MF107
Regardless of what you want to call it, the solution to depression/laziness is to will yourself into taking action, eating well, avoiding screen time, getting some sun light, stop complaining, changing your negative narratives and so on. Don't let these people convince you that only meds can help.
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Regardless of what you want to call it, the solution to depression/laziness is to will yourself into taking action, eating well, avoiding screen time, getting some sun light, stop complaining, changing your negative narratives and so on. Don't let these people convince you that only meds can help.
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Madison
I have no one to help me get through this I barely socialize Im with my family 24/7 because I do school at home Im 15 but it feels like Im stressed out about life I dont even know what to do anymore Im trying to keep making good decisions but its hard
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I have no one to help me get through this I barely socialize Im with my family 24/7 because I do school at home Im 15 but it feels like Im stressed out about life I dont even know what to do anymore Im trying to keep making good decisions but its hard
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Kylee
I can't get anything done lately. I don't have time to sit around and do nothing all day. And I hate doing nothing day after day. but it's not changing, for the last month or two. I just sit there, listing off the things I need to do. and never do them
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I can't get anything done lately. I don't have time to sit around and do nothing all day. And I hate doing nothing day after day. but it's not changing, for the last month or two. I just sit there, listing off the things I need to do. and never do them
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Tove_draws: D
This is actually the exact thing Ive been going through. Plus lately I had no excuse to leave bed at all since school was canceled. I stayed in bed for like i week straight it sucks. It made things easier seeing this video though. Thanks
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This is actually the exact thing Ive been going through. Plus lately I had no excuse to leave bed at all since school was canceled. I stayed in bed for like i week straight it sucks. It made things easier seeing this video though. Thanks
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education
Ive been feeling super tired, less motivated, and I get angry at very little things and Ive been thinking violent stuff lately, and I just cant control my thoughts and a have been crying a lot do you guys think I might havethe blues?
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Ive been feeling super tired, less motivated, and I get angry at very little things and Ive been thinking violent stuff lately, and I just cant control my thoughts and a have been crying a lot do you guys think I might havethe blues?
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education
Im not sure how this entirely works, Im not sure if Im depressed or smth else, but I always feel sad and I cant start a conversation with any of my friends anymore, and Im acting a lot more lazy, does that make me depressed or what.
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Im not sure how this entirely works, Im not sure if Im depressed or smth else, but I always feel sad and I cant start a conversation with any of my friends anymore, and Im acting a lot more lazy, does that make me depressed or what.
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