8 Signs You're More Than Just Friends
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Date: 2023-08-20
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DMTdreamz
Reality will always give you girlfriend or something better with a delay. The only thing that seperates real life from a dream is that in a dream when you go lucid and you intend to experience something, it just appears immediately.
In Finding Nemo, Marlin loses his son. He is caught by a fisherman uh or a scientist and he's like taken away on a boat and the point of the movie is that we're trying to find Nemo. That's what Marlin wants to find. His son. Now the problem here is that Marlin doesn't know how to find his son but he just knows Beyond The Shred of a doubt that he's going to find his son because he's a dad and he lost his only son. So his whole life he knows for a fact, his heart and his mind have come into Union, they've both agreed that 100% we're going to find our son but I don't know how. So this is the same for you with your goal. You want something 100% for sure without a doubt but I don't know how I'm going to get it. That's okay normally you don't have to know how to get something. All you need to know is the first step.
This is exactly how reality creation works. You hold your goal (P Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney) in your mind and then you trust that the universe is going to take you there in its own mysterious way.
Trust the universe that it's going to bring you to your goal but you won't know how. On the surface it's going to seem like everything is falling apart but once you look back you're going to say oh I actually needed to go through that failure because now I'm successful but I couldn't have been successful without that failure.
You say oh this is going to bring me to my goal and you just kind of affirm to yourself that the Universe looks out for me and that the universe is on my team and is helping me manifest what I want. You want to be like Dory. You want to have radical trust in the universe and you want to hold in your mind your vision. That's why she keeps repeating P Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney over and over again. Hold your vision in mind and trust that whatever happens you're gonna be brought there. That's how you create your reality using your imagination.
Go after your goal in the same way that you go to get the post from the letterbox.
Stop imagining the post to be a problem and simply put one foot in front of the other in the direction of the letterbox.
Any goal you have if you can think and feel about it the same way as you do when you go to get your post from the mailbox then it's a done deal.
(P Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney)
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Reality will always give you girlfriend or something better with a delay. The only thing that seperates real life from a dream is that in a dream when you go lucid and you intend to experience something, it just appears immediately.
In Finding Nemo, Marlin loses his son. He is caught by a fisherman uh or a scientist and he's like taken away on a boat and the point of the movie is that we're trying to find Nemo. That's what Marlin wants to find. His son. Now the problem here is that Marlin doesn't know how to find his son but he just knows Beyond The Shred of a doubt that he's going to find his son because he's a dad and he lost his only son. So his whole life he knows for a fact, his heart and his mind have come into Union, they've both agreed that 100% we're going to find our son but I don't know how. So this is the same for you with your goal. You want something 100% for sure without a doubt but I don't know how I'm going to get it. That's okay normally you don't have to know how to get something. All you need to know is the first step.
This is exactly how reality creation works. You hold your goal (P Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney) in your mind and then you trust that the universe is going to take you there in its own mysterious way.
Trust the universe that it's going to bring you to your goal but you won't know how. On the surface it's going to seem like everything is falling apart but once you look back you're going to say oh I actually needed to go through that failure because now I'm successful but I couldn't have been successful without that failure.
You say oh this is going to bring me to my goal and you just kind of affirm to yourself that the Universe looks out for me and that the universe is on my team and is helping me manifest what I want. You want to be like Dory. You want to have radical trust in the universe and you want to hold in your mind your vision. That's why she keeps repeating P Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney over and over again. Hold your vision in mind and trust that whatever happens you're gonna be brought there. That's how you create your reality using your imagination.
Go after your goal in the same way that you go to get the post from the letterbox.
Stop imagining the post to be a problem and simply put one foot in front of the other in the direction of the letterbox.
Any goal you have if you can think and feel about it the same way as you do when you go to get your post from the mailbox then it's a done deal.
(P Sherman 42 Wallaby Way Sydney)
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Wendi
This is interesting. I do many of these things with people who are merely only friends. Preening, or as I call it, allogrooming, is common in nonhuman primates to express something as simple as friendship. I have imprinted upon nonhuman primates due to abuse and also autism, and perhaps shiztotypal personality traits skewing my ability to interpret human facial expressions and behaviors. I am a naturally loving person in general.
I tend to get crushy feelings on people that are merely friends, but I have a nasty tendency of blurring the lines between platonic and a crush, espcially if physical contact, even something as light as a hug is involved! Though I think it may have to do with a trauma bond with a member of my family and my desire to find someone who cares for me, and to latch on to them as a way of gaining that feeling of love. Because I had been feeling loved by someone who I thought loved me but didn't, perhaps these feelings are further amplified? So a mechanism of protection from past trauma and to avoid further emotional abuse.
I do think that some of it is natural, as I've been prone to these feelings for as long as I can remember, but they've grown since the emotional abuse. However, I also have a strange, almost paranoid ideations after developing such feelings if I do not know if they feel the same way. The worst is I tend to develop these feelings for people I probably should not. I've avoided going to counseling for the emotional abuse because I can very easily develop crushes on the counselors and misinterpret their suggestions and advice as a sign that they feel the same way, but aren't telling me. Becoming aware of the social taboo also seems to have amplified the anxious emotions of being uncertain of their feelings, if there's any at all. Creepy and a bit disgusting I know. strangely, if I tell people that I'm prone to developing crushes on them, the crush diminishes, or never develop to the intensity of causing the near paranoid feelings.
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This is interesting. I do many of these things with people who are merely only friends. Preening, or as I call it, allogrooming, is common in nonhuman primates to express something as simple as friendship. I have imprinted upon nonhuman primates due to abuse and also autism, and perhaps shiztotypal personality traits skewing my ability to interpret human facial expressions and behaviors. I am a naturally loving person in general.
I tend to get crushy feelings on people that are merely friends, but I have a nasty tendency of blurring the lines between platonic and a crush, espcially if physical contact, even something as light as a hug is involved! Though I think it may have to do with a trauma bond with a member of my family and my desire to find someone who cares for me, and to latch on to them as a way of gaining that feeling of love. Because I had been feeling loved by someone who I thought loved me but didn't, perhaps these feelings are further amplified? So a mechanism of protection from past trauma and to avoid further emotional abuse.
I do think that some of it is natural, as I've been prone to these feelings for as long as I can remember, but they've grown since the emotional abuse. However, I also have a strange, almost paranoid ideations after developing such feelings if I do not know if they feel the same way. The worst is I tend to develop these feelings for people I probably should not. I've avoided going to counseling for the emotional abuse because I can very easily develop crushes on the counselors and misinterpret their suggestions and advice as a sign that they feel the same way, but aren't telling me. Becoming aware of the social taboo also seems to have amplified the anxious emotions of being uncertain of their feelings, if there's any at all. Creepy and a bit disgusting I know. strangely, if I tell people that I'm prone to developing crushes on them, the crush diminishes, or never develop to the intensity of causing the near paranoid feelings.
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Amethyst
My guy friend calls me Mlady and I call him Mr Darling We both lost our phones, so all we can message on now is our laptops on discord, and we are mainly active at night. So we are working on writing paper letters back and forth, and the papers are soaked in coffee and burned a little for an old fashioned look. Once he found out I loved coffee in the morning, he sent me a money to buy coffee. Then one morning he texted me saying something along the lines of. Good morning Mlady, would you like to get some morning coffee with me? and I replied with Of course Mr Darling and he told me alright, go get dressed and tell me when you're ready. One of my friends got a personal message from my guy friend saying It feels like I'm shooting love arrows through her heart everyday, and it feels like she's also shooting arrows at me. Then my friend showed me a screen shot of that message. He is always asking what my outfit is for the day, and he said he wants me to teach me how to slow dance. We say I lava you and the other night on call he said I love you
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My guy friend calls me Mlady and I call him Mr Darling We both lost our phones, so all we can message on now is our laptops on discord, and we are mainly active at night. So we are working on writing paper letters back and forth, and the papers are soaked in coffee and burned a little for an old fashioned look. Once he found out I loved coffee in the morning, he sent me a money to buy coffee. Then one morning he texted me saying something along the lines of. Good morning Mlady, would you like to get some morning coffee with me? and I replied with Of course Mr Darling and he told me alright, go get dressed and tell me when you're ready. One of my friends got a personal message from my guy friend saying It feels like I'm shooting love arrows through her heart everyday, and it feels like she's also shooting arrows at me. Then my friend showed me a screen shot of that message. He is always asking what my outfit is for the day, and he said he wants me to teach me how to slow dance. We say I lava you and the other night on call he said I love you
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Flur-E
ahhhh WHY IS THIS SO CONFUSING! my friend and i went to prom together about a month ago. we've been seeing each other quite frequently for dinner, other events, and now, for today, my sisters birthday. she came over, and we talked for a pretty good amount of time, maybe 30 minutes to an hour, talking about food, how delerious we can get at night, and other fun stuff (i found out today that we both like to eat kiwis cutting them in half and scooping it out with a spoon) after that, we had dinner and then we kinda went and did each of our own things for maybe 20 minutes. when i was outside talking to my other friend, the friend i like came outside and we talked with her, too. when she had to leave, me and her hugged, but this time it felt different from the other times we hugged. this time, we both had both of our arms being used to hug instead of us each hugging with one arm. this SEEMS like we both like each other, but i dont know if she is just being friendly or what is going on. only time can tell, i guess.
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ahhhh WHY IS THIS SO CONFUSING! my friend and i went to prom together about a month ago. we've been seeing each other quite frequently for dinner, other events, and now, for today, my sisters birthday. she came over, and we talked for a pretty good amount of time, maybe 30 minutes to an hour, talking about food, how delerious we can get at night, and other fun stuff (i found out today that we both like to eat kiwis cutting them in half and scooping it out with a spoon) after that, we had dinner and then we kinda went and did each of our own things for maybe 20 minutes. when i was outside talking to my other friend, the friend i like came outside and we talked with her, too. when she had to leave, me and her hugged, but this time it felt different from the other times we hugged. this time, we both had both of our arms being used to hug instead of us each hugging with one arm. this SEEMS like we both like each other, but i dont know if she is just being friendly or what is going on. only time can tell, i guess.
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bearsofix
I have a question, are these signs this guy Ive became recently close with likes me? Im not a lovey person and Ive never really been interested in it
1- Texts me first often
2- Invites me to group chats or to meet his friends
3- Whenever Im not at an event, he tells me things that make it seem like he wanted me to go, how I would have lots of fun and we could spend time together
4- Compliments my outfits
5- very funny!
6- Ive been having tough times and he allows me to vent and I let him vent. So were like eachothers support in a way
7- offers me food
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I have a question, are these signs this guy Ive became recently close with likes me? Im not a lovey person and Ive never really been interested in it
1- Texts me first often
2- Invites me to group chats or to meet his friends
3- Whenever Im not at an event, he tells me things that make it seem like he wanted me to go, how I would have lots of fun and we could spend time together
4- Compliments my outfits
5- very funny!
6- Ive been having tough times and he allows me to vent and I let him vent. So were like eachothers support in a way
7- offers me food
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rumbo
4: 18
we have been friends for over one and a half year now
and we have become really close
altho we have never hugged once, im a very thouch affectionate person so i feel hug deprived.
she is a very shut and closed person with a thing where she doesnt and does like phisical touch from guys
so i dont whant to step of that barrier as any form of physical touch seems to annoy her a bit(many people dont recognise subtle things on someone, but i sometimes do, and this is definately
one of those times)
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4: 18
we have been friends for over one and a half year now
and we have become really close
altho we have never hugged once, im a very thouch affectionate person so i feel hug deprived.
she is a very shut and closed person with a thing where she doesnt and does like phisical touch from guys
so i dont whant to step of that barrier as any form of physical touch seems to annoy her a bit(many people dont recognise subtle things on someone, but i sometimes do, and this is definately
one of those times)
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Otter
I admitted my feelings to my best friend and they said that they feel the same way. I regret not saying it before, and now I can clown on my old self for not saying it.
FYI: If you have feelings for your friend, say it. It will either end great and they like you back, or they will just be considerate and keep the friendship going. If they arent considerate, then you arent real friends, and it is good you admitted to them.
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I admitted my feelings to my best friend and they said that they feel the same way. I regret not saying it before, and now I can clown on my old self for not saying it.
FYI: If you have feelings for your friend, say it. It will either end great and they like you back, or they will just be considerate and keep the friendship going. If they arent considerate, then you arent real friends, and it is good you admitted to them.
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Jerome
Just confessed yesterday. And that was the best day I've ever experienced.
We're talking whole day everyday
Checking each other if we already ate
Hmm flirty. yeah
And more.
Confessing made my heart raise but it's mutual feelings. Hsshhxajsdv
We admit we're backreading our chats always. And the screenshots. Haha
Getting used saying I love you. haha
Sry fr my bad English
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Just confessed yesterday. And that was the best day I've ever experienced.
We're talking whole day everyday
Checking each other if we already ate
Hmm flirty. yeah
And more.
Confessing made my heart raise but it's mutual feelings. Hsshhxajsdv
We admit we're backreading our chats always. And the screenshots. Haha
Getting used saying I love you. haha
Sry fr my bad English
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Dinuli
So I'm friends with this guy and we have soo many things in common and he gives me clues that he may be liking me. But my friends started shippping me with him and then the whole class started shipping us too. They embarrassed us so much. Now we're too embarrassed to talk to each other alot. Does anyone hv any advice on what to do next?
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So I'm friends with this guy and we have soo many things in common and he gives me clues that he may be liking me. But my friends started shippping me with him and then the whole class started shipping us too. They embarrassed us so much. Now we're too embarrassed to talk to each other alot. Does anyone hv any advice on what to do next?
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Ally
to all the ppl out there do not ever date someone who has friend, this huge warning sign avoid avoid, even these sooo called friends don't know their into each other, they only realize after being in relationship please avoid ppl like that and let the friends be together
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to all the ppl out there do not ever date someone who has friend, this huge warning sign avoid avoid, even these sooo called friends don't know their into each other, they only realize after being in relationship please avoid ppl like that and let the friends be together
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LuvxSnow
My crush follows all these signs except that I dont why I feel like she has been trying to avoid me and stays with her friend group most of the time, she texts me a lot but in school she tries to avoid being with me alone, what does this mean?
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My crush follows all these signs except that I dont why I feel like she has been trying to avoid me and stays with her friend group most of the time, she texts me a lot but in school she tries to avoid being with me alone, what does this mean?
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Naex
long ass friendship, had a crush on her in the beginning then managed to forget about it, learned she crushed on me the year after and I feel like l might be catching feelings again but don't know if we're on the same page now
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long ass friendship, had a crush on her in the beginning then managed to forget about it, learned she crushed on me the year after and I feel like l might be catching feelings again but don't know if we're on the same page now
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Jess
Me and my freind recently confessed to each other and we can't tell anyone cause I am closeted. Our other friend knows and set us up and they guessed we liked each other before we barely knew our selves. We are so obvious.
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Me and my freind recently confessed to each other and we can't tell anyone cause I am closeted. Our other friend knows and set us up and they guessed we liked each other before we barely knew our selves. We are so obvious.
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Purplefoxwolf
some signs match with me and my close friend. Well the thing is she doesnt like touch so, i barely get a hug from her. Only once as u can think of. and it kinda leaves me pondering if she is in love with me too?
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some signs match with me and my close friend. Well the thing is she doesnt like touch so, i barely get a hug from her. Only once as u can think of. and it kinda leaves me pondering if she is in love with me too?
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nah'mean
I can bet the majority of you watching this are in your teens or early 20s, and I can promise you this will most likely blow up in your face. You've all watched too many movies and read too many YA novels
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I can bet the majority of you watching this are in your teens or early 20s, and I can promise you this will most likely blow up in your face. You've all watched too many movies and read too many YA novels
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Elena
Once my crush slapped me in the face because they wanted to kill the mosquito that sat on my forehead.
Damn it felt great ahaha
Is this considered cleaning and caring? Should I consider this a sign?
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Once my crush slapped me in the face because they wanted to kill the mosquito that sat on my forehead.
Damn it felt great ahaha
Is this considered cleaning and caring? Should I consider this a sign?
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Erica
Am u the only one sobbing because u and ur bestfriend doesn't have most of these signs (we only have 3/7 if these signs) (but like whenever our friends mention us liking eachother we both deny it)
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Am u the only one sobbing because u and ur bestfriend doesn't have most of these signs (we only have 3/7 if these signs) (but like whenever our friends mention us liking eachother we both deny it)
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The
Im the toxic crush, I'll send them custom quizzes that're like What's your favorite Stellaris empire? And include questions about crushes, and afterwards spy on all their answers
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Im the toxic crush, I'll send them custom quizzes that're like What's your favorite Stellaris empire? And include questions about crushes, and afterwards spy on all their answers
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Viaryth
What if I do all that to everyone as a coming mechanism for my social anxiety? I actually have Philophobia so I'm afraid I am being mean by doing these things
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What if I do all that to everyone as a coming mechanism for my social anxiety? I actually have Philophobia so I'm afraid I am being mean by doing these things
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Seb
Kissed a girl and cuddled with her, still just friends tho: ) (totally didn't demolish my ability to be affectionate with anyone else in the future)
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Kissed a girl and cuddled with her, still just friends tho: ) (totally didn't demolish my ability to be affectionate with anyone else in the future)
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education
My crush thinks that I like him but he already has a crush on another girl and I dont want to tell him because I am afraid of rejection
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My crush thinks that I like him but he already has a crush on another girl and I dont want to tell him because I am afraid of rejection
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Indrid
I have no friends, not even acquaintances. I learned my lesson. Being social is not a, positive thing. It is a very negative thing.
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I have no friends, not even acquaintances. I learned my lesson. Being social is not a, positive thing. It is a very negative thing.
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Greasy_bullet304
I didnt know there were more people in this universe
Forget the MCU I wanna learn more about the cononical Psyc2U
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I didnt know there were more people in this universe
Forget the MCU I wanna learn more about the cononical Psyc2U
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Alex
Instructions unclear: I now have actual friends and healthy relationships but am no closer to knowing if people like me
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Instructions unclear: I now have actual friends and healthy relationships but am no closer to knowing if people like me
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Wedfomi
I lien on everyone, 'cause I can't hear that good. So, I need to get a bit closer to hear what he/she's saying.
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I lien on everyone, 'cause I can't hear that good. So, I need to get a bit closer to hear what he/she's saying.
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