Uncovering Warning Signs of a Toxic Person - Don't Miss This!
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Ratwithswag
So yesterday i had another falling out with my freind while we were on a trip. it was me her and another girl ive known since i was three. i promised my freind i would go with her on the fastest rollercoaster in the uk i think, but then the other girl started shaking and asked me if i could go with her. i asked my freind if i could go with her and she got mad and ran of. when the school met up again, she was telling the yr nines who love her )how i was such a bad freind and how i have no freinds exept her and she only jangs with me bc everyone else in my yr hates her while smiling and glancing at me in a mocking was as if she was saying 'i won again'.
Another incident i had with her was 3 months earlier. she was ranting how much she hated the funniest girl in class while also sucking up to her just bc everyone else was. i wasnt rlly listening and i was just drawing absent mindedly on a orange the whole class was passing around to draw on and she snatched it and ran of. i was gonna eat it cause it was owed to me and i told her to give it back pls, but she just smiled and threw it at me hard. i got a lil angry and asked her why she done it, and she just laughed and ran at me tryna wrestle it out of my hand while pushing me down to the floor aggressively with an elbow. im not usually a physical person, but at that moment i just snapped and smacked her across the face after pushing her away. the teacher saw and we were put in isolatuon for the rest of the day. as well as the next, but u wasnt in for 3 days after the incident bc i was scared she would tell the whole school and make herself look like the victim and me as the horrible freind. and guess what. she did. i didnt stop getting dirty looks thrown at me until she smiled at me and, being the idiot i am, i smiled back. and we were suddenly freinds again.
The worst part of this is that the whole school thinks im this horrible manipulative person whos always starts drama and beefs with the same girl over and over again. its not helping that my twin sister is insesitive and always picking out my insecurities and bringing up some group i used to be part of in primary and how i let everyone trample over me and the fact i have no freinds and i dont have a fixed personality and how i change myself or act a certain way around different people. and what hurts the most is that everything she says is true and i feel completely ussles and unwanted and im going to cry in bed now
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So yesterday i had another falling out with my freind while we were on a trip. it was me her and another girl ive known since i was three. i promised my freind i would go with her on the fastest rollercoaster in the uk i think, but then the other girl started shaking and asked me if i could go with her. i asked my freind if i could go with her and she got mad and ran of. when the school met up again, she was telling the yr nines who love her )how i was such a bad freind and how i have no freinds exept her and she only jangs with me bc everyone else in my yr hates her while smiling and glancing at me in a mocking was as if she was saying 'i won again'.
Another incident i had with her was 3 months earlier. she was ranting how much she hated the funniest girl in class while also sucking up to her just bc everyone else was. i wasnt rlly listening and i was just drawing absent mindedly on a orange the whole class was passing around to draw on and she snatched it and ran of. i was gonna eat it cause it was owed to me and i told her to give it back pls, but she just smiled and threw it at me hard. i got a lil angry and asked her why she done it, and she just laughed and ran at me tryna wrestle it out of my hand while pushing me down to the floor aggressively with an elbow. im not usually a physical person, but at that moment i just snapped and smacked her across the face after pushing her away. the teacher saw and we were put in isolatuon for the rest of the day. as well as the next, but u wasnt in for 3 days after the incident bc i was scared she would tell the whole school and make herself look like the victim and me as the horrible freind. and guess what. she did. i didnt stop getting dirty looks thrown at me until she smiled at me and, being the idiot i am, i smiled back. and we were suddenly freinds again.
The worst part of this is that the whole school thinks im this horrible manipulative person whos always starts drama and beefs with the same girl over and over again. its not helping that my twin sister is insesitive and always picking out my insecurities and bringing up some group i used to be part of in primary and how i let everyone trample over me and the fact i have no freinds and i dont have a fixed personality and how i change myself or act a certain way around different people. and what hurts the most is that everything she says is true and i feel completely ussles and unwanted and im going to cry in bed now
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education
This is a rant because I need to get this out of my system, sorry-
My best friend did all of these, and never took my thoughts into consideration, they were also openly narcissistic, when something bad happened they would just say i dont really care, Ive been through something way worse, or just continue on with what they were saying before. They would also get mad at my other friends and i for talking about something that they werent into and start yelling at us. The last thing Im talking about but not the last thing theyd do was whenever I had confronted them they kept gaslighting me, saying I was a terrible friend when i mostly just stayed quiet and blamed everything they did on their anger issues, and whenever we talked to them about it saying they cant keep doing this and expecting everyone to just go with it without wanting to stop doing that, they got mad at us saying that its not their fault and they dont f care about what we think.
The thing is, that they made it seem so normal, that when i met my now ex( still friends tho) i was so confused about how they treated me because it was actually healthy for once-
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This is a rant because I need to get this out of my system, sorry-
My best friend did all of these, and never took my thoughts into consideration, they were also openly narcissistic, when something bad happened they would just say i dont really care, Ive been through something way worse, or just continue on with what they were saying before. They would also get mad at my other friends and i for talking about something that they werent into and start yelling at us. The last thing Im talking about but not the last thing theyd do was whenever I had confronted them they kept gaslighting me, saying I was a terrible friend when i mostly just stayed quiet and blamed everything they did on their anger issues, and whenever we talked to them about it saying they cant keep doing this and expecting everyone to just go with it without wanting to stop doing that, they got mad at us saying that its not their fault and they dont f care about what we think.
The thing is, that they made it seem so normal, that when i met my now ex( still friends tho) i was so confused about how they treated me because it was actually healthy for once-
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Jamison
This doesn't relate to this video, but I've been wondering about this for a while and you seem like the right person to go to. What if she sprays her perfume on you and ascts goofy around you sometimes. Is cool with hanging out and is up for it, but never really shows up or actually follows through with it. Sometimes she does but idk. Is kind and laughs with me. Plays with some random stuff of mine like my popsocket or Keychain. She never really answers my texts much and leaves me on opened sometimes. Shes the kind of person who takes a while to warm up to people, only recently has she started really conversating with me at during our lunch period. She seems interested but also not at the same time. And I could use a little extra help understand what's going on. Maybe I smell bad? Maybe I'm just fun to be around? Idk. I know I don't smell bad though. I shower and put deodorant on. Idk if I want to tell her how I feel cause it's confusing and idk if I should make a move or not until im sure we're both somewhat interested in each other. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP. IM TERRIFIED
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This doesn't relate to this video, but I've been wondering about this for a while and you seem like the right person to go to. What if she sprays her perfume on you and ascts goofy around you sometimes. Is cool with hanging out and is up for it, but never really shows up or actually follows through with it. Sometimes she does but idk. Is kind and laughs with me. Plays with some random stuff of mine like my popsocket or Keychain. She never really answers my texts much and leaves me on opened sometimes. Shes the kind of person who takes a while to warm up to people, only recently has she started really conversating with me at during our lunch period. She seems interested but also not at the same time. And I could use a little extra help understand what's going on. Maybe I smell bad? Maybe I'm just fun to be around? Idk. I know I don't smell bad though. I shower and put deodorant on. Idk if I want to tell her how I feel cause it's confusing and idk if I should make a move or not until im sure we're both somewhat interested in each other. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP. IM TERRIFIED
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PJMsDog
Bro, my best friend shows all of these signs, but I kinda can't not forgive her. I always end up forgiving her even though she always does all of these, she likes to control who I spend time with, she wants to phone me every second, even though I told her I can't and the she gets angry and ignores me, the rest of the day. Sometimes I have to hurry or hide because I am scared of what she thinks of me and what she does if she finds out that I have an appointment with other friends. She sometimes steels my success and says it was hers, after she copied it just a few seconds ago. I fear talking to other people than her, because she is always angry afterwards and I don't want her to be angry.
I care about her but I end up with empty hands.
She also sometimes insults my family or my house because I don't have those high standards. She ruins my mood after getting a good grade by saying of course you have a good grade
And I don't want to be complaining because I know that there are people who get treated way worse so I guess, nothing will change
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Bro, my best friend shows all of these signs, but I kinda can't not forgive her. I always end up forgiving her even though she always does all of these, she likes to control who I spend time with, she wants to phone me every second, even though I told her I can't and the she gets angry and ignores me, the rest of the day. Sometimes I have to hurry or hide because I am scared of what she thinks of me and what she does if she finds out that I have an appointment with other friends. She sometimes steels my success and says it was hers, after she copied it just a few seconds ago. I fear talking to other people than her, because she is always angry afterwards and I don't want her to be angry.
I care about her but I end up with empty hands.
She also sometimes insults my family or my house because I don't have those high standards. She ruins my mood after getting a good grade by saying of course you have a good grade
And I don't want to be complaining because I know that there are people who get treated way worse so I guess, nothing will change
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Kiley
honestly its one of those things though where my entire family is toxic, each in their own ways. all of them are draining to be around. my grandma is negative about everything, & if you say you wanna do something she gives you all the reasons why you cant do it. shes a people pleaser but complains non stop about how much she does for people but refuses to say no or stick up for herself. my sister i have to walk on eggshells around, shes so opinionated & emotionally immature that if you disagree with her it starts a fight. or if i make the wrong face, or use the wrong tone of voice, or take too long to respond. she takes almost everything personal, like anything you say is attacking her. my mom is a narcissist who thinks she can do no wrong, that shes perfect & talks about people like she doesnt do the same shit always has cared more about which guy shes gonna date next more than her own kids or parents. & thats literally only 3 of the people in my family. i have a very large family.
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honestly its one of those things though where my entire family is toxic, each in their own ways. all of them are draining to be around. my grandma is negative about everything, & if you say you wanna do something she gives you all the reasons why you cant do it. shes a people pleaser but complains non stop about how much she does for people but refuses to say no or stick up for herself. my sister i have to walk on eggshells around, shes so opinionated & emotionally immature that if you disagree with her it starts a fight. or if i make the wrong face, or use the wrong tone of voice, or take too long to respond. she takes almost everything personal, like anything you say is attacking her. my mom is a narcissist who thinks she can do no wrong, that shes perfect & talks about people like she doesnt do the same shit always has cared more about which guy shes gonna date next more than her own kids or parents. & thats literally only 3 of the people in my family. i have a very large family.
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Jellieeee
Until today im in this long distance relationship with my partner, in this whole year of our relation theres a lot of toxic stuff happend. I sometimes ignore and run away from him bc I am always scared of him, he makes a lot of uncomfortable jokes around me and said a lot of bad stuff even after I told him not to but still continues it. He also always talks about his girl friend but in a flirty way. As his gf ofc I got jealous of how he always praise her and compared her to me, he told me not to be jealous bc she's just a friend. Bc of all of the unnecessary stuff (theres more) he did to me I tend to ignore and even hide from him bc I got too uncomfortable, he got mad at me and telling me that I am ungratefull for not apreciating his time and dont give him the attention he wanted. That words hurts me sm and I start to think that I am the toxic one in this relation. I tried to ask him for a break up but he wont let me go.
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Until today im in this long distance relationship with my partner, in this whole year of our relation theres a lot of toxic stuff happend. I sometimes ignore and run away from him bc I am always scared of him, he makes a lot of uncomfortable jokes around me and said a lot of bad stuff even after I told him not to but still continues it. He also always talks about his girl friend but in a flirty way. As his gf ofc I got jealous of how he always praise her and compared her to me, he told me not to be jealous bc she's just a friend. Bc of all of the unnecessary stuff (theres more) he did to me I tend to ignore and even hide from him bc I got too uncomfortable, he got mad at me and telling me that I am ungratefull for not apreciating his time and dont give him the attention he wanted. That words hurts me sm and I start to think that I am the toxic one in this relation. I tried to ask him for a break up but he wont let me go.
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SwagStorm
I know Im in a toxic friendship with this girl. She never lets me talk to her about serious things, but she vents to me every two seconds and ignores me if I even try to open up about something, or if I am clearly uncomfortable with the subject.
She really scared me last year, yet I gave her a second chance. I regret it. She sent messages and images through discord saying she was going to hurt herself and get high off whip cream. I was super terrified and got my parents and the school involved (because I cant just not tell anyone) and she was mad at me for telling someone, because she was joking around.
Not to mention when I sent her a message explaining why she cant do that, how she cant joke about stuff like that. She never read it, I know because she thought I was APOLOGIZING to HER.
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I know Im in a toxic friendship with this girl. She never lets me talk to her about serious things, but she vents to me every two seconds and ignores me if I even try to open up about something, or if I am clearly uncomfortable with the subject.
She really scared me last year, yet I gave her a second chance. I regret it. She sent messages and images through discord saying she was going to hurt herself and get high off whip cream. I was super terrified and got my parents and the school involved (because I cant just not tell anyone) and she was mad at me for telling someone, because she was joking around.
Not to mention when I sent her a message explaining why she cant do that, how she cant joke about stuff like that. She never read it, I know because she thought I was APOLOGIZING to HER.
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education
I was thinking so many times that if I was this toxic friend when I ended my friendship. And that could be true. because I was always wondering how she was doing, and asking questions where she is and what is going on. But maybe she was toxic person too. She was this kind person who can't say anything bad to people if something is bothering to her. she gossip and was envy to others succes. Life was hard to her, and I feel bad that I leave her in a bad time. But I was so tired of her. I become angry towards her and wondering why things ended like this. But I realized that I can't trust her anymore. I had to avoid certain topics and I always felt I was bothering to her when we finally meet. And she didn't apologise her actions to me anymore. This hard decision was good for both of us.
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I was thinking so many times that if I was this toxic friend when I ended my friendship. And that could be true. because I was always wondering how she was doing, and asking questions where she is and what is going on. But maybe she was toxic person too. She was this kind person who can't say anything bad to people if something is bothering to her. she gossip and was envy to others succes. Life was hard to her, and I feel bad that I leave her in a bad time. But I was so tired of her. I become angry towards her and wondering why things ended like this. But I realized that I can't trust her anymore. I had to avoid certain topics and I always felt I was bothering to her when we finally meet. And she didn't apologise her actions to me anymore. This hard decision was good for both of us.
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aslisanem
I was have a toxic friend and she always wanto be with me anormaly and she always jealouse for others I magnna give you exemple for thet: I was talking one of my classmate she nice to me and I nice to her like normaly we talk but my ex friend Im gonna call her c, c starts be mad at my clasmate for she talk to me I started to see how she getting how annoying c is I talk to my cosien and my family members they said its not good friendshit at all so I stop friend with her but she make some rumors about me and everyone belived her but not me so if someone getting annoying and anormaly jealous end that frickin friendship its not good ( Im from turkiye and I try my best to explain)
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I was have a toxic friend and she always wanto be with me anormaly and she always jealouse for others I magnna give you exemple for thet: I was talking one of my classmate she nice to me and I nice to her like normaly we talk but my ex friend Im gonna call her c, c starts be mad at my clasmate for she talk to me I started to see how she getting how annoying c is I talk to my cosien and my family members they said its not good friendshit at all so I stop friend with her but she make some rumors about me and everyone belived her but not me so if someone getting annoying and anormaly jealous end that frickin friendship its not good ( Im from turkiye and I try my best to explain)
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Betsy
7they totally ack empathy8they accuse u of bein entitled snuty &bratty if&when u express feelings even if A u do it nicely &or b u express positive feelings9they telll u in order to shut if u bring up positibe things like getting more time off specially if yall no longer attend same school10they ruin your reputation if supply runs out for any reason11they name u for everything including things nobody has any control over at all12they wish extremely illl of u13they deny your existance &any history yall ever had13they steal from u14they ruin your reputation15they start doing physical &or medical harm to u &or others.
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7they totally ack empathy8they accuse u of bein entitled snuty &bratty if&when u express feelings even if A u do it nicely &or b u express positive feelings9they telll u in order to shut if u bring up positibe things like getting more time off specially if yall no longer attend same school10they ruin your reputation if supply runs out for any reason11they name u for everything including things nobody has any control over at all12they wish extremely illl of u13they deny your existance &any history yall ever had13they steal from u14they ruin your reputation15they start doing physical &or medical harm to u &or others.
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Up
I am going through a similar thing. I've given her soo many chances. It's always me who has to explain how she was toxic while she said said all of the bad things. She gets upset if we don't meet regularly (which is not possible rn as I have career oriented goals rn. I do have to walk on eggshells around her. She says things that are just unbearable, they just hurt too much. No matter how much effort I put in. She always finds something that I didn't do. But idk. the fact that I am commenting this does make me realise that I should indeed break up with her. But I love her. She doesn't have anyone except me.
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I am going through a similar thing. I've given her soo many chances. It's always me who has to explain how she was toxic while she said said all of the bad things. She gets upset if we don't meet regularly (which is not possible rn as I have career oriented goals rn. I do have to walk on eggshells around her. She says things that are just unbearable, they just hurt too much. No matter how much effort I put in. She always finds something that I didn't do. But idk. the fact that I am commenting this does make me realise that I should indeed break up with her. But I love her. She doesn't have anyone except me.
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education
Am I a toxic friend? I cheated in an exam, then the teacher found it because of me, I lied that my friend cheated on the exam, but she said that we both cheated. The teacher then called my parents, I lied all the time because my parents were very strict, my teacher felt terrible for me so she said that I didn't cheat but taking my friend's notebook to look in a test is not allowed. My friend then told me that she didn't copy, I felt very terrible. I saw her smiled but she was very mad. I said sorry to her but I think she won't let me go easily. What would I do: ?
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Am I a toxic friend? I cheated in an exam, then the teacher found it because of me, I lied that my friend cheated on the exam, but she said that we both cheated. The teacher then called my parents, I lied all the time because my parents were very strict, my teacher felt terrible for me so she said that I didn't cheat but taking my friend's notebook to look in a test is not allowed. My friend then told me that she didn't copy, I felt very terrible. I saw her smiled but she was very mad. I said sorry to her but I think she won't let me go easily. What would I do: ?
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Dilarious
I've learned recently that one of my own toxic traits is not letting people finish before interrupting them, thereby not respecting their time. A trait that I see a lot in my family is people who ask the younger generation to think about what they are doing wrong long before they admit they were wrong. I'm also quick to get angry about things. Boundaries are tough for a lot of us to want to acknowledge sometimes because we're one bug cluster clump just trying to exist in our little vaccum known as our family unit.
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I've learned recently that one of my own toxic traits is not letting people finish before interrupting them, thereby not respecting their time. A trait that I see a lot in my family is people who ask the younger generation to think about what they are doing wrong long before they admit they were wrong. I'm also quick to get angry about things. Boundaries are tough for a lot of us to want to acknowledge sometimes because we're one bug cluster clump just trying to exist in our little vaccum known as our family unit.
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Lu
I used to be in a romantic relationship with a toxic person. At first I called him toxic for always thinking negative to other people, for saying bad things behind their back. But after watching this I kinda confirmed that he is toxic person. He always said that I'm the one making our relationship in a one-way communication, but he's never listening to me, especially when I tried to open to him about my mental health. I made him my priority, but when he's breaking up with me, he said that I didn't love him enough.
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I used to be in a romantic relationship with a toxic person. At first I called him toxic for always thinking negative to other people, for saying bad things behind their back. But after watching this I kinda confirmed that he is toxic person. He always said that I'm the one making our relationship in a one-way communication, but he's never listening to me, especially when I tried to open to him about my mental health. I made him my priority, but when he's breaking up with me, he said that I didn't love him enough.
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RandomPotata
Growing up my family 'played' this 'game' I later dubbed the Blame Game. Any minor inconvenience, or anything negative that happened was always someone's fault and it was everyone had to make sure it wasn't their own. It was awful, and my mom at one point told us we needed to stop it. When she was the one who created it and pitted us against each other in the first place. But to tell her that would be to play the blame game.
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Growing up my family 'played' this 'game' I later dubbed the Blame Game. Any minor inconvenience, or anything negative that happened was always someone's fault and it was everyone had to make sure it wasn't their own. It was awful, and my mom at one point told us we needed to stop it. When she was the one who created it and pitted us against each other in the first place. But to tell her that would be to play the blame game.
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Akira
I am in a toxic relationship but I cant just leave its really hard because the person is my best friend of 8 years we grew up together but she changed a lot she was toxic to begin with but its a lot worse all the thing that were said in this video remind me of her but its really hard to leave a person that u knew for so long so I feel sad and lonely staying but I am scared Ill just feel the same even if I leave.
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I am in a toxic relationship but I cant just leave its really hard because the person is my best friend of 8 years we grew up together but she changed a lot she was toxic to begin with but its a lot worse all the thing that were said in this video remind me of her but its really hard to leave a person that u knew for so long so I feel sad and lonely staying but I am scared Ill just feel the same even if I leave.
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YumYumi
I have this one friend who always make me do their unfinished homework because they didnt do it and didnt want to get in trouble, and if i say no for this, this friend always puts up herself like you want your best friend to get in trouble? or like its gonna be your fault when i get scolded and I always end up helping them. is this also a sign of toxic friends?
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I have this one friend who always make me do their unfinished homework because they didnt do it and didnt want to get in trouble, and if i say no for this, this friend always puts up herself like you want your best friend to get in trouble? or like its gonna be your fault when i get scolded and I always end up helping them. is this also a sign of toxic friends?
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Penguin_urple
What if not really rude about your success but when you; say something that happened thats positive like getting good grades the react not saying you could do better, they say cool. Or nice. With no emotion?
Im trying to see if my friend is toxic or has something wrong with her - shes showing any signs of depression or smth I know she has anxiety.
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What if not really rude about your success but when you; say something that happened thats positive like getting good grades the react not saying you could do better, they say cool. Or nice. With no emotion?
Im trying to see if my friend is toxic or has something wrong with her - shes showing any signs of depression or smth I know she has anxiety.
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Sleepygh0sst
I have an ex ( I just broke up with yesterday) who never respected my boundaries. I dont like public affection and I told him, still did it. Also got mad when I had fictional crushes ( ex: kit walker from American horror story) my ex got so mad when I talked about him. I would always second guess before talking to him.
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I have an ex ( I just broke up with yesterday) who never respected my boundaries. I dont like public affection and I told him, still did it. Also got mad when I had fictional crushes ( ex: kit walker from American horror story) my ex got so mad when I talked about him. I would always second guess before talking to him.
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Nastassia
I USED to be that toxic person. Friends and family I used to hang with were toxic as well. I limit/cut out my time with them and hang out on my own whenever possible. It definitely became more apparent during the pandemic, and they're not worth dying over. Time to move on.
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I USED to be that toxic person. Friends and family I used to hang with were toxic as well. I limit/cut out my time with them and hang out on my own whenever possible. It definitely became more apparent during the pandemic, and they're not worth dying over. Time to move on.
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StrawBRY
I once had a friend that would make me wait for her even though she would most definitely make me late and she would get mad at ME for leaving her and only said sorry once for being late even though shes late all those other times, the nerve of some people
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I once had a friend that would make me wait for her even though she would most definitely make me late and she would get mad at ME for leaving her and only said sorry once for being late even though shes late all those other times, the nerve of some people
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mera15
My last love interest ended the relationship because im to intense. and she felt overwhelm by my feelings and ways of loving her. and she said she felt bad not being able to respond in the ssme way. im tired of feeling weird for having feelings: (
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My last love interest ended the relationship because im to intense. and she felt overwhelm by my feelings and ways of loving her. and she said she felt bad not being able to respond in the ssme way. im tired of feeling weird for having feelings: (
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mayo
I had a toxic friend who basically made our friendship based on secrets. She lied to me about someone I liked, she would lie about what she was doing and who she was with. This led me to have trust issues with one of my actual friends now.
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I had a toxic friend who basically made our friendship based on secrets. She lied to me about someone I liked, she would lie about what she was doing and who she was with. This led me to have trust issues with one of my actual friends now.
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Jelly
one of my old friends had all these signs. She won't let anyone have a life outside of her so our little trio would follow her everywhere and were scared to go out of her control as she'd always be jealous
I'd always get left behind
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one of my old friends had all these signs. She won't let anyone have a life outside of her so our little trio would follow her everywhere and were scared to go out of her control as she'd always be jealous
I'd always get left behind
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Brittany
This video remind me of my ex boyfriend because he would blame me for his actions instead of being responsible for it like if he is talking back to his parents he would want me to get involved in that even though I don't want to be
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This video remind me of my ex boyfriend because he would blame me for his actions instead of being responsible for it like if he is talking back to his parents he would want me to get involved in that even though I don't want to be
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