7 Ways to Get Your Life back on Track
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Happy
I hate this video. I hate it so much because of how true it is, and how I've known some of these for so long, but nothing I ever did fixed anything.
What makes it so painful and difficult for me is that EVERY SINGLE PERSON around me is so successful and happy and content. Damn, even those who say that they are struggling are in an obviously much better position than I am. I feel so hollow, and I have no one. I have a great family, but that's not enough, especially when you can't say anything to them because they are either too young to understand or they don't understand my situation at all. I don't have friends, though I have acquaintances, but I want real friends. I'm an introvert by heart, but not even introverts can survive the pure loneliness. Even introverts have at least one good friend. I have no one.
Everything I ever worked so hard for, all lost. What makes me even more angry and depressed about it is that I can't even do anything about it. Everything that caused me to lose them was out of my control. Either health, or the pandemic, trauma from bullying, etc. And don't tell me, Well it was never in your control, so don't feel so bad, or something along those lines. No. It hurts that it almost feels like fate, that I was meant to be hurt so much in my life, at an early point too (I'm in my 20s.
Ever since, my only dream was to be able to be vulnerable and weak for once. Having to always keep up a strong front and an even stronger persons despite breaking down internally takes do much out of me every single minute that I live. I have endured so much by myself, but I don't have anyone to vent to, and no one to understand me. And you know what makes this all so ironic? People come to me for advice, and I'm constantly a source of strength and wisdom for some people. But the only source of strength for me is myself.
I wish I had the courage to just end it all. But at the same time, I'm even a coward for that, and my brother means the world to me, and I can't bring myself to do something that would scar him for life. But at the same time, all of this feels so pointless. I'm always tired, and I feel so hollow and purposeless outside of being an advisor to others. And it's even more emotionally exhausting trying to keep up a smiling face for others when they find success after success, when I have gone nowhere but spiral downwards into nothingness. You know what others say, Lord, I have seen what you have done for others, so when is it my time?
You might say, You're still young, being just 20. You still have a long life ahead of you and it's all just getting started. I don't buy that. It doesn't help when everyone around me and everyone I meet are happy and never alone.
This is a great video. Honestly, it is. But everything has for me has been so painful, that I find everything said here to be useless and redundant. But hey, if it works for you, then good for you. Unfortunately for me, I may as well be reaching my limit soon, because I don't know how much longer I can endure this torture that you call a life.
Forgive the negativity. For y'all it might not be something you wanna see, especially on a video like this. But I feel like I'm gonna explode.
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I hate this video. I hate it so much because of how true it is, and how I've known some of these for so long, but nothing I ever did fixed anything.
What makes it so painful and difficult for me is that EVERY SINGLE PERSON around me is so successful and happy and content. Damn, even those who say that they are struggling are in an obviously much better position than I am. I feel so hollow, and I have no one. I have a great family, but that's not enough, especially when you can't say anything to them because they are either too young to understand or they don't understand my situation at all. I don't have friends, though I have acquaintances, but I want real friends. I'm an introvert by heart, but not even introverts can survive the pure loneliness. Even introverts have at least one good friend. I have no one.
Everything I ever worked so hard for, all lost. What makes me even more angry and depressed about it is that I can't even do anything about it. Everything that caused me to lose them was out of my control. Either health, or the pandemic, trauma from bullying, etc. And don't tell me, Well it was never in your control, so don't feel so bad, or something along those lines. No. It hurts that it almost feels like fate, that I was meant to be hurt so much in my life, at an early point too (I'm in my 20s.
Ever since, my only dream was to be able to be vulnerable and weak for once. Having to always keep up a strong front and an even stronger persons despite breaking down internally takes do much out of me every single minute that I live. I have endured so much by myself, but I don't have anyone to vent to, and no one to understand me. And you know what makes this all so ironic? People come to me for advice, and I'm constantly a source of strength and wisdom for some people. But the only source of strength for me is myself.
I wish I had the courage to just end it all. But at the same time, I'm even a coward for that, and my brother means the world to me, and I can't bring myself to do something that would scar him for life. But at the same time, all of this feels so pointless. I'm always tired, and I feel so hollow and purposeless outside of being an advisor to others. And it's even more emotionally exhausting trying to keep up a smiling face for others when they find success after success, when I have gone nowhere but spiral downwards into nothingness. You know what others say, Lord, I have seen what you have done for others, so when is it my time?
You might say, You're still young, being just 20. You still have a long life ahead of you and it's all just getting started. I don't buy that. It doesn't help when everyone around me and everyone I meet are happy and never alone.
This is a great video. Honestly, it is. But everything has for me has been so painful, that I find everything said here to be useless and redundant. But hey, if it works for you, then good for you. Unfortunately for me, I may as well be reaching my limit soon, because I don't know how much longer I can endure this torture that you call a life.
Forgive the negativity. For y'all it might not be something you wanna see, especially on a video like this. But I feel like I'm gonna explode.
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Christina_YJ
I havent been watching psych2go videos because Im coping well in life though I sometimes go extreme measures to help myself like my friend misunderstood the situation and anyhow assume about me and I tried to ignore it bur it still pressured me but it last for a day and she was wrong so other than that, I lack in communication in my relationships because Im not good with talking with thoughts and emotions properly. Its kind of a problem but Im trying to improve that weakness.
And I said that out of nowhere again: D
Ill never be a normal human being
Im too different from everyone in my surroundings
I still have a problem with love. I hate physical touch and there are many times when my family members or cousins touch me and I went out of control like violent. I dont know why but I just really hate physical touch but I think theres more to it and I dont know what is it.
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I havent been watching psych2go videos because Im coping well in life though I sometimes go extreme measures to help myself like my friend misunderstood the situation and anyhow assume about me and I tried to ignore it bur it still pressured me but it last for a day and she was wrong so other than that, I lack in communication in my relationships because Im not good with talking with thoughts and emotions properly. Its kind of a problem but Im trying to improve that weakness.
And I said that out of nowhere again: D
Ill never be a normal human being
Im too different from everyone in my surroundings
I still have a problem with love. I hate physical touch and there are many times when my family members or cousins touch me and I went out of control like violent. I dont know why but I just really hate physical touch but I think theres more to it and I dont know what is it.
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Potato
Ty, I started discovering myself as genderfluid and people prejudice started getting highlighted in every video that I go, life seems to don't make sense, and I still didn't get over Techno's death, I just don't feel safe in my own skin no more, idk why I'm trusting the internet more then my own friends and family, I just wish I could say all that is coming on my mind without an I can relate or all that vent from me to my friend become their vent to me, I wish it I could end, that I could feel safe in my own skin, I can't stop overthinking everything, I live in the country that most kill LGBTQUIA+ people and I just feel that. I can't explain, im rlly sorry for this becoming a vent im just tired to be the happy girl that makes everyone laugh, I needed to vent, and u guys don't know who i am so I kinda feel safe in here.
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Ty, I started discovering myself as genderfluid and people prejudice started getting highlighted in every video that I go, life seems to don't make sense, and I still didn't get over Techno's death, I just don't feel safe in my own skin no more, idk why I'm trusting the internet more then my own friends and family, I just wish I could say all that is coming on my mind without an I can relate or all that vent from me to my friend become their vent to me, I wish it I could end, that I could feel safe in my own skin, I can't stop overthinking everything, I live in the country that most kill LGBTQUIA+ people and I just feel that. I can't explain, im rlly sorry for this becoming a vent im just tired to be the happy girl that makes everyone laugh, I needed to vent, and u guys don't know who i am so I kinda feel safe in here.
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the
I know u and many others are likely not to see this but if u do please help
I have a friend i met like 2 weeks ago. she has just admitted to loving me but seems. off. like shes despite for me. her dog us being put down and shes not doing amazingly in school. i feel like this is her problem, i currently feel not love for her because i do not know her well enough yet but i want to try and help her
Your videos have taught me alot but u are likely to know more. please help.
Im lucky enough to have access to a counselor and personal connections with netsafe a organization in my country that helps with online snd sometimes irl safety and stuff so i do have back ups but i want your opinion
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I know u and many others are likely not to see this but if u do please help
I have a friend i met like 2 weeks ago. she has just admitted to loving me but seems. off. like shes despite for me. her dog us being put down and shes not doing amazingly in school. i feel like this is her problem, i currently feel not love for her because i do not know her well enough yet but i want to try and help her
Your videos have taught me alot but u are likely to know more. please help.
Im lucky enough to have access to a counselor and personal connections with netsafe a organization in my country that helps with online snd sometimes irl safety and stuff so i do have back ups but i want your opinion
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Cyber
I didn't have to watch this video to let you know that getting your life back on track is just a person getting back on the path of whatever goals they decide have value or purpose, but no matter what life itself can interfere with this process, so getting back on track is really just accepting our lack of control, vanity in everything, and the really weird one where AI bots mock literally every millisecond of your day to day actions(still getting used to this one personally) I'd say nice video, but I didn't watch it.
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I didn't have to watch this video to let you know that getting your life back on track is just a person getting back on the path of whatever goals they decide have value or purpose, but no matter what life itself can interfere with this process, so getting back on track is really just accepting our lack of control, vanity in everything, and the really weird one where AI bots mock literally every millisecond of your day to day actions(still getting used to this one personally) I'd say nice video, but I didn't watch it.
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Patches
I heard somewhere a person asked, would you take 10mil$ today but it would mean that you wouldn't wake up tomorrow would you take it? My first thought was where is my 10mil.
What the outcome is suppose to put into perspective that life does not have menetory value, apparently 90% of people would want to wake up as they belive thier life is worth more than money.
I don't know why but the more I think of it the less I feel like I value this version of me. Its a bad a sad spiral
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I heard somewhere a person asked, would you take 10mil$ today but it would mean that you wouldn't wake up tomorrow would you take it? My first thought was where is my 10mil.
What the outcome is suppose to put into perspective that life does not have menetory value, apparently 90% of people would want to wake up as they belive thier life is worth more than money.
I don't know why but the more I think of it the less I feel like I value this version of me. Its a bad a sad spiral
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bruha
I am watching this during a difficult yet challenging meeting to remind myself to breathe and joke to keep the conversation light but staying true to myself.
These videos are like having your BFF in class with you making silly faces at you while taking a huge test. Except now the tests are really just life being life. Thank You.
They saw my true self
They felt heard
Walls came down and the connections were built
#my super power
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I am watching this during a difficult yet challenging meeting to remind myself to breathe and joke to keep the conversation light but staying true to myself.
These videos are like having your BFF in class with you making silly faces at you while taking a huge test. Except now the tests are really just life being life. Thank You.
They saw my true self
They felt heard
Walls came down and the connections were built
#my super power
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Michelle
Thanks for al these Videos its like im in my self i want to let my sad Person go but i can't bc when i Show everyone my Real me then they will hate and Judg me. and when i Do smth wrong my sis is yelling at me like i Do everything wrong.
The problem is i can't let the things that happend go. my anxiety is killing me my anxiety wont let me go.
At the end i want to say smth good ig im clean from sh for 12 days rn: D
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Thanks for al these Videos its like im in my self i want to let my sad Person go but i can't bc when i Show everyone my Real me then they will hate and Judg me. and when i Do smth wrong my sis is yelling at me like i Do everything wrong.
The problem is i can't let the things that happend go. my anxiety is killing me my anxiety wont let me go.
At the end i want to say smth good ig im clean from sh for 12 days rn: D
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Annelise
and then u realize ur not a positive person and just wanna sleep all day and not care about anything. I dont wanna hear: a bit of resting is good and so on cuz the thing is- i dont wanna rest a bit. I wanna rest for at least a year straight. I don't want ppl telling me what to do or suggest me what i should do with my life. I want to cut everyone out, live only with my dogs and sleep every second possible
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and then u realize ur not a positive person and just wanna sleep all day and not care about anything. I dont wanna hear: a bit of resting is good and so on cuz the thing is- i dont wanna rest a bit. I wanna rest for at least a year straight. I don't want ppl telling me what to do or suggest me what i should do with my life. I want to cut everyone out, live only with my dogs and sleep every second possible
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MNTE
Thank you so much, I can't thank you enough, seriously! I have had such a shitty life recently, I felt there has been no meaning in anything, and finally, for once, I have felt positive for the future and that I will be able to be better and finally find love with the woman of my dreams and finally be successful in the sport I love and the activities I love!
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Thank you so much, I can't thank you enough, seriously! I have had such a shitty life recently, I felt there has been no meaning in anything, and finally, for once, I have felt positive for the future and that I will be able to be better and finally find love with the woman of my dreams and finally be successful in the sport I love and the activities I love!
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bajatruckguy
I just want to thank you guys and gals for helping me wake up to my problems. I've always thought I was strong enough to deal with it, but I was wrong. I am going to see a professional for my problems. I am surprised by how many people care about my well-being, other than my parents. I matter, I am loved, it will be OK, I am not alone.
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I just want to thank you guys and gals for helping me wake up to my problems. I've always thought I was strong enough to deal with it, but I was wrong. I am going to see a professional for my problems. I am surprised by how many people care about my well-being, other than my parents. I matter, I am loved, it will be OK, I am not alone.
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Erakko
The past is really past. But the Feeling Brains wouldn't care less. Human brains are like an operating system, more specifically the Thinking Brains. While the Feeling Brains are like a virus that wipes everything from the Thinking Brains. MEMZ virus would be a perfect description about the Feeling Brains. Darwin and buddies, really funny!
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The past is really past. But the Feeling Brains wouldn't care less. Human brains are like an operating system, more specifically the Thinking Brains. While the Feeling Brains are like a virus that wipes everything from the Thinking Brains. MEMZ virus would be a perfect description about the Feeling Brains. Darwin and buddies, really funny!
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Gyrfalcon312
Thank you, Psych2Go staff, for these reminders. Just recently had my birthday. and was being plain brutal on myself for many of the things y'all cite.
Sure, I was telling myself that it's a new year, with new chances to turn life around, but it always hits different when someone else tells me.
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Thank you, Psych2Go staff, for these reminders. Just recently had my birthday. and was being plain brutal on myself for many of the things y'all cite.
Sure, I was telling myself that it's a new year, with new chances to turn life around, but it always hits different when someone else tells me.
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Lufty
Thanks for this video, I find myself coming back to watch it when I'm struggling with the points made. The big ones for me have been letting go of regrets, realizing nobody owns me, and giving up on overthinking. That last one in particular has plagued me for most of my teen/adult life.
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Thanks for this video, I find myself coming back to watch it when I'm struggling with the points made. The big ones for me have been letting go of regrets, realizing nobody owns me, and giving up on overthinking. That last one in particular has plagued me for most of my teen/adult life.
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Oataro
a few quotes I like to think of is A life without regrets isnt a life worth living as well as Life is just too uncertain to have regrets, for all we know what you did was the best move who knows what couldve happened whenever I begin to question previous actions/decisions
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a few quotes I like to think of is A life without regrets isnt a life worth living as well as Life is just too uncertain to have regrets, for all we know what you did was the best move who knows what couldve happened whenever I begin to question previous actions/decisions
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Semangka
I've been feeling stuck for this past 6 months. I isolate myself and everyday feels like hell because I can't stop overthinking about the future and being depressed about my past. I know I should stop this, but it is so hard even just to get up from my bed
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I've been feeling stuck for this past 6 months. I isolate myself and everyday feels like hell because I can't stop overthinking about the future and being depressed about my past. I know I should stop this, but it is so hard even just to get up from my bed
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200
I want to people see this comment so im commenting now
I don't know it is good or bad idea we should create some discord group or something like that for children who are suffering from the pressure created by parents or who are in depression
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I want to people see this comment so im commenting now
I don't know it is good or bad idea we should create some discord group or something like that for children who are suffering from the pressure created by parents or who are in depression
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Saykan
I can't help but cry because i regret so much and thinking everything would be better if i were never born what brings my point to hear that someone says you should go forward is so awesome, Thank you so much.
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I can't help but cry because i regret so much and thinking everything would be better if i were never born what brings my point to hear that someone says you should go forward is so awesome, Thank you so much.
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Alex
I don't think Just stop overthinking by distracting yourself is helpful really. Overthinkers already do that. They want to fix the reason they're overthinking. Distractions just delays the problem at best
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I don't think Just stop overthinking by distracting yourself is helpful really. Overthinkers already do that. They want to fix the reason they're overthinking. Distractions just delays the problem at best
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Abin_fgs
I recently found out she is in love with somone else idk wht to do. I'm broken. We were not in a relationship or anything we broke up lond ago but i was still loving her silently but now it's over.
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I recently found out she is in love with somone else idk wht to do. I'm broken. We were not in a relationship or anything we broke up lond ago but i was still loving her silently but now it's over.
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MrGaminDuck
Hey, been watching some of your videos about depression and other things and got a quick question, what is the difference between a therapist and a counselor?
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Hey, been watching some of your videos about depression and other things and got a quick question, what is the difference between a therapist and a counselor?
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kaboomslays
So technical if I were to go back, I would change by not being as caring as I were before and never save lives that ended up back stabbing me later
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So technical if I were to go back, I would change by not being as caring as I were before and never save lives that ended up back stabbing me later
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Jwanie
The last two points are the hardest ones for me. I keep underestimating my strength and I seem to find something new to worry about constantly
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The last two points are the hardest ones for me. I keep underestimating my strength and I seem to find something new to worry about constantly
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Phng
Excuse me! I'm learning English, so I don't really know what she said in the video at 1: 24 ('become a constant? ') Could anyone tell me please?
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Excuse me! I'm learning English, so I don't really know what she said in the video at 1: 24 ('become a constant? ') Could anyone tell me please?
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Islamic
Iam disturbed iam not behaving bad in my daily life i feel alone and i think no body loves or understand me i need help to get out from this
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Iam disturbed iam not behaving bad in my daily life i feel alone and i think no body loves or understand me i need help to get out from this
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