Is Being Single or in a Relationship Better? Here's What You Should Consider
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Hawley
I had a girlfriend once back in the 1980's. No one since. I commute 40 miles to work and leave at 4: 30 in the morning. I get home at 6: 00 at night and virtually always workout (run, bike, or lift at home now since the gym close during the pandemic) I'm still the only person going to the office to keep everything running for all the people who are working from home. I currently don't know any women and don't come in contact with women over the course of my day. When I think of how I'm doing mentally and physically though, I feel like I'm the best I've ever been. I guess it would be nice to have someone care about me, but what does that cost? How much other mental torture comes with that and trying to maintain that? If you want a relationship, you have to live a life that a woman wants to be part of. I suspect I live such a Spartan existence, and am good with it just like this, that it's ridiculous to think it's going to attract someone.
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I had a girlfriend once back in the 1980's. No one since. I commute 40 miles to work and leave at 4: 30 in the morning. I get home at 6: 00 at night and virtually always workout (run, bike, or lift at home now since the gym close during the pandemic) I'm still the only person going to the office to keep everything running for all the people who are working from home. I currently don't know any women and don't come in contact with women over the course of my day. When I think of how I'm doing mentally and physically though, I feel like I'm the best I've ever been. I guess it would be nice to have someone care about me, but what does that cost? How much other mental torture comes with that and trying to maintain that? If you want a relationship, you have to live a life that a woman wants to be part of. I suspect I live such a Spartan existence, and am good with it just like this, that it's ridiculous to think it's going to attract someone.
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Nicolai
Hi, I'm 18 and I never been into a relationship before, It's not like there wasn't someone out there, there was but I never accepted it and I am not interested for now for a relationship since I decided to focus first on career, college and stuff. All of my friends already have someone and it was sure lonely since they talk less to you, and I'm sure if I finished my goal, I will able to date someone but for now, enjoy being single, focus on yourself. Don't rush, there's like 8 billion people in the world and I'm sure you'll have someone if you wait and don't date someone just because you want to have a partner and you envied your friends, trust me some of that cases won't go well because I tried to as well and it was so uncomfortable. Having a partner is not an obligation in this world, it's something that you want and decided to do so choose an healthy relationship.
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Hi, I'm 18 and I never been into a relationship before, It's not like there wasn't someone out there, there was but I never accepted it and I am not interested for now for a relationship since I decided to focus first on career, college and stuff. All of my friends already have someone and it was sure lonely since they talk less to you, and I'm sure if I finished my goal, I will able to date someone but for now, enjoy being single, focus on yourself. Don't rush, there's like 8 billion people in the world and I'm sure you'll have someone if you wait and don't date someone just because you want to have a partner and you envied your friends, trust me some of that cases won't go well because I tried to as well and it was so uncomfortable. Having a partner is not an obligation in this world, it's something that you want and decided to do so choose an healthy relationship.
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tHaTs_
i relate a lot since theres this very geniune guy ive been talking to and i want to like him back but i find it very hard for me to reciprocate. Yes, when i stayed single i would complain that oh i wish i had someone but im just contradicting myself now. Ive been single for a long time and now when someone's generally interested, i somehow lose all interest in them. I think i just like the idea of it and not actually being involved in a real relationship unfortunately.
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i relate a lot since theres this very geniune guy ive been talking to and i want to like him back but i find it very hard for me to reciprocate. Yes, when i stayed single i would complain that oh i wish i had someone but im just contradicting myself now. Ive been single for a long time and now when someone's generally interested, i somehow lose all interest in them. I think i just like the idea of it and not actually being involved in a real relationship unfortunately.
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Fixefaxe
i just love these videos, mainly so i can help my friend get some girls and help him notice hints.
im basically that one guy that gives the best love advice despite never actually being looked at by a female being in any romantic way.
i dont like how it is. but i cant change it. im too insecure, probably because ive had social anxiety since the age of 7.
lol
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i just love these videos, mainly so i can help my friend get some girls and help him notice hints.
im basically that one guy that gives the best love advice despite never actually being looked at by a female being in any romantic way.
i dont like how it is. but i cant change it. im too insecure, probably because ive had social anxiety since the age of 7.
lol
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not
Only had 1 relationship and it never got serious (it was infatuation on both sides and we broke up and stayed friends fer couple years)
I want that deep connection but in 17 years I've yet to even have a 1st date.
Tried bettering myself (self image, confidence, health, etc, etc)
But still not made a single step in progress
Maybe it's just not going to happen
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Only had 1 relationship and it never got serious (it was infatuation on both sides and we broke up and stayed friends fer couple years)
I want that deep connection but in 17 years I've yet to even have a 1st date.
Tried bettering myself (self image, confidence, health, etc, etc)
But still not made a single step in progress
Maybe it's just not going to happen
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AZ
Yes, thank you! After all, whether one is better single or in a relationship depends ultimately on each person and in what phase of their life is. If a person always has been in a relationship with many people in their life, would prefer to be single eventually; if a person has been single for their entire life, will eventually want to be in a relationship, and that's OK.
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Yes, thank you! After all, whether one is better single or in a relationship depends ultimately on each person and in what phase of their life is. If a person always has been in a relationship with many people in their life, would prefer to be single eventually; if a person has been single for their entire life, will eventually want to be in a relationship, and that's OK.
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Flavio
Ive been single for almost 5 years now. Was in a relationship for 4 years and it got to the point where it was emotionally draining. I realized I was becoming someone who was not me and always felt I was walking on egg shells. I forgot who I was and took time to find myself. Dont feel rushed to find a relationship, enjoy life to the fullest it will come.
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Ive been single for almost 5 years now. Was in a relationship for 4 years and it got to the point where it was emotionally draining. I realized I was becoming someone who was not me and always felt I was walking on egg shells. I forgot who I was and took time to find myself. Dont feel rushed to find a relationship, enjoy life to the fullest it will come.
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education
I like being single because video games is my life and nothing can change that I been in a relationship before but because I was not spending enough time with her she just start getting mad and make fun of me I decided to break up with her and Im glad I did because now I get to enjoy playing video games without being bothered
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I like being single because video games is my life and nothing can change that I been in a relationship before but because I was not spending enough time with her she just start getting mad and make fun of me I decided to break up with her and Im glad I did because now I get to enjoy playing video games without being bothered
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chaz
ive never been in a relationship, and ive never considered it and honestly didnt really want one, but, i met this one person and now im not so sure i wanna wait much longer to consider relationships. but we just started talking not too long ago, and i dont know what their feelings are for me at all.
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ive never been in a relationship, and ive never considered it and honestly didnt really want one, but, i met this one person and now im not so sure i wanna wait much longer to consider relationships. but we just started talking not too long ago, and i dont know what their feelings are for me at all.
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Shin-jo
i noticed that you said in a committed relationship
not with someone who halfassed the relationship despite giving it your all
stay strong brother, we will find the person who respect, compassionate and gives their love back to us just like how we did it to them
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i noticed that you said in a committed relationship
not with someone who halfassed the relationship despite giving it your all
stay strong brother, we will find the person who respect, compassionate and gives their love back to us just like how we did it to them
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psych2go
Ok but I think that many of the problems that they pointed out with being single can be fixed with just a good friend group. Just have some friends and youll be fine. Or get a dog (but thats a lot of work so just have friends and a pet robot vacuum)
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Ok but I think that many of the problems that they pointed out with being single can be fixed with just a good friend group. Just have some friends and youll be fine. Or get a dog (but thats a lot of work so just have friends and a pet robot vacuum)
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education
I think being single or being in a relationship doesn't really matter to me since I was born and I learned to myself that I wasn't born to make people like me. That's why I can't accept anything good into my life because I'm used to my feelings.
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I think being single or being in a relationship doesn't really matter to me since I was born and I learned to myself that I wasn't born to make people like me. That's why I can't accept anything good into my life because I'm used to my feelings.
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GroovyGroovyFinlay
The thumbnail gives me another reason relationships are bad. If you get too in the dating zone as i like to call it, you gotta watch out because your girlfriend might be pushed down the stairs by her brother! 1
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The thumbnail gives me another reason relationships are bad. If you get too in the dating zone as i like to call it, you gotta watch out because your girlfriend might be pushed down the stairs by her brother! 1
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DumbBlobfish
Never had a relationship in my life yet but my friend is currently in an online one. I feel happy for her it better than her last one(F that guy) they seem to really care about each other from what I know
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Never had a relationship in my life yet but my friend is currently in an online one. I feel happy for her it better than her last one(F that guy) they seem to really care about each other from what I know
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Daniel
Single people die more often after heart attacks not because love can save you, but because theres someone nearby to call 911. What youre describing is the sales pitch for a life alert necklace.
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Single people die more often after heart attacks not because love can save you, but because theres someone nearby to call 911. What youre describing is the sales pitch for a life alert necklace.
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Hydratonis
I never want to get into a relationship. I have no desire to be in one. There is no one I would want to be in a relationship with. Just for fun, ask me questions about my life.
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I never want to get into a relationship. I have no desire to be in one. There is no one I would want to be in a relationship with. Just for fun, ask me questions about my life.
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michellol
reasons to be single
1. save money
2. you dont have to share food
3. watch more drama/anime
4. sleep
5. you dont have to go outside
6. dont have to socialise
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reasons to be single
1. save money
2. you dont have to share food
3. watch more drama/anime
4. sleep
5. you dont have to go outside
6. dont have to socialise
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Byakko
What if your in a relationship that they only want to be in with you for the money and they don't want you to leave and be happy.
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What if your in a relationship that they only want to be in with you for the money and they don't want you to leave and be happy.
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ETHAN
Not even here for the video but why is no one talking about how thats sunny, Mari and hero from Omori in the thumbnail lol
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Not even here for the video but why is no one talking about how thats sunny, Mari and hero from Omori in the thumbnail lol
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Katy
This video helped me a lot and answered my many questions and helped me too decide what im happy with. Thank you: D
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This video helped me a lot and answered my many questions and helped me too decide what im happy with. Thank you: D
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Clenvi011
The thumbnail blow my mind
btw am I only who realized that the thumbnail showed mari, hero, and sunny?
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The thumbnail blow my mind
btw am I only who realized that the thumbnail showed mari, hero, and sunny?
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BlokeAtPub
Personally I find it less of a should I date situation and more of a can I even date at all situation.
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Personally I find it less of a should I date situation and more of a can I even date at all situation.
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