7 Signs You Have a Master Manipulator in Your Life
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Date: 2023-08-20
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psych2go
My ex who I just ended it with last week definitely made me feel something I never felt before and I became so exhausted. I've cried everyday for weeks now. We would be great and then she would bring up a past incident that I thought we were working through.
My friends couldn't understand why she was so pressed on the incident. I was never unfaithful or dishonest, her and I were still new and weren't official yet and for my safety I waited to share that I was traveling out of the country. She felt I went out of the country to cheat or something. I went with a good friend I've known for over 15 years. She would always bring it up over and over. She even said she couldn't date people with friends. My friends are like my family. I have an amazing support system. She tried to isolate me. I would carpool with a friend to the gym since we lived minute from each other and she hated it. She said it was sketchy. My friend has been with her fiance for 9 years.
My ex had the my way or high way attitude. Flipped everything back onto me and when she would take the blame she would say I did it but you didn't make me feel secure. She would threaten the relationship but never ended it and it caused me extreme anxiety. This is the first time ever i've been put on anxiety medication. I hope I grow and become a better person from this. She did love bomb me and sadly she treated me better than i've ever been treated so I'm having a hard time with this but also hurt me pretty badly.
I needed this video because she did have me questioning if I was this terrible person.
My mom had came to visit for a family event and she got up and hugged me over the weekend and said If she truly knew who you were, she would've realized you are a good person. and I broke down because I try. I try to be kind to everyone i cross paths with. I hope one day I find someone who provides that same heart.
omg i needed this! My ex did every single one of these.
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My ex who I just ended it with last week definitely made me feel something I never felt before and I became so exhausted. I've cried everyday for weeks now. We would be great and then she would bring up a past incident that I thought we were working through.
My friends couldn't understand why she was so pressed on the incident. I was never unfaithful or dishonest, her and I were still new and weren't official yet and for my safety I waited to share that I was traveling out of the country. She felt I went out of the country to cheat or something. I went with a good friend I've known for over 15 years. She would always bring it up over and over. She even said she couldn't date people with friends. My friends are like my family. I have an amazing support system. She tried to isolate me. I would carpool with a friend to the gym since we lived minute from each other and she hated it. She said it was sketchy. My friend has been with her fiance for 9 years.
My ex had the my way or high way attitude. Flipped everything back onto me and when she would take the blame she would say I did it but you didn't make me feel secure. She would threaten the relationship but never ended it and it caused me extreme anxiety. This is the first time ever i've been put on anxiety medication. I hope I grow and become a better person from this. She did love bomb me and sadly she treated me better than i've ever been treated so I'm having a hard time with this but also hurt me pretty badly.
I needed this video because she did have me questioning if I was this terrible person.
My mom had came to visit for a family event and she got up and hugged me over the weekend and said If she truly knew who you were, she would've realized you are a good person. and I broke down because I try. I try to be kind to everyone i cross paths with. I hope one day I find someone who provides that same heart.
omg i needed this! My ex did every single one of these.
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Indrid
It is impossible for me to be manipulated. I have to body in my life. I can not detect between people genuinely interested in me for amicable or amorous relationships, and people that will use the ruse of interest in me to get my guard down so they can take what they can from me when I show weakness. To avoid the very damaging undesireables, I simplely decided to delete the social aspect of my life. Deletjng the social aspect of my life was the best thing I could have ever done for my life. Things got better extremely soon after socially isolating myself. I require no human companionship from the type of people vast majority happens to be. So, why bother with a social life at all. No false friends, no fake girlfriend, no genuine friends, no genuine girlfriends, means no complications in life. Contrary to the indoctrination given to everyone from birth, humans require no companionship to live successfully and productively. I have lived successfully, with nobody in my life, since the 8th of August at 18: 34. Why ruin a proven life strategy with lots of benefits to it. Being social provides far more negatives than positives.
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It is impossible for me to be manipulated. I have to body in my life. I can not detect between people genuinely interested in me for amicable or amorous relationships, and people that will use the ruse of interest in me to get my guard down so they can take what they can from me when I show weakness. To avoid the very damaging undesireables, I simplely decided to delete the social aspect of my life. Deletjng the social aspect of my life was the best thing I could have ever done for my life. Things got better extremely soon after socially isolating myself. I require no human companionship from the type of people vast majority happens to be. So, why bother with a social life at all. No false friends, no fake girlfriend, no genuine friends, no genuine girlfriends, means no complications in life. Contrary to the indoctrination given to everyone from birth, humans require no companionship to live successfully and productively. I have lived successfully, with nobody in my life, since the 8th of August at 18: 34. Why ruin a proven life strategy with lots of benefits to it. Being social provides far more negatives than positives.
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Morningstar
It's Hurtful to know this. I had this one year ago. These people stressed me and made me feel guilty. I know i have my flaws but they pointed out every mistake to make me feel bad. They always wanted me to look like the villain.
When i set boundaries they freaked out! And said after everything i've done for you
They were so pissed about the fact that i don't tolerate their toxic behavior.
These people used to be my friends and i realized they never were they just hated me.
Her feelings was all what matters and her mental health. We knew each other for almost 8 years. 8 years of manipulation. 8 years wasted. 8 years of pain, just because i was too kind i hate myself for wasting so much time. After the whole thing i had to go to a mental hospital because they broke my self esteem and my soul. I suffer from ptsd since that day and i still don't know how to recover from that betrayal. I wanted to kill myself so many times to let the pain go way. Please guys be careful when it comes to friends.
- gaslighting
- guilt tripping
- emotional abuse
It is the worst.
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It's Hurtful to know this. I had this one year ago. These people stressed me and made me feel guilty. I know i have my flaws but they pointed out every mistake to make me feel bad. They always wanted me to look like the villain.
When i set boundaries they freaked out! And said after everything i've done for you
They were so pissed about the fact that i don't tolerate their toxic behavior.
These people used to be my friends and i realized they never were they just hated me.
Her feelings was all what matters and her mental health. We knew each other for almost 8 years. 8 years of manipulation. 8 years wasted. 8 years of pain, just because i was too kind i hate myself for wasting so much time. After the whole thing i had to go to a mental hospital because they broke my self esteem and my soul. I suffer from ptsd since that day and i still don't know how to recover from that betrayal. I wanted to kill myself so many times to let the pain go way. Please guys be careful when it comes to friends.
- gaslighting
- guilt tripping
- emotional abuse
It is the worst.
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Philis
M. M. destroy lives.
I noted one thing.
In Every relationship they tell everyone how the victim ended up being the crazy.
Funny how many crazies they Pounce on in short order!
The honeymoon stage is over in a split second because they cannot maintain sincerity.
Please note also. When they are supposed to be looking deep into your eyes. They're actually looking over your shoulder preying on a quick fix or their next victim
Many people are so frghtened to get caight up in this again that they remain single, shielded, with with their few, true selected friends who recognized the manipulation and the personality profile.
Too Much. Too late for some.
Love, Peace and Joy can be yours. Just forgive. Let go and never return!
Remember this person is a child of GOD. He will discipline them for doing harm to one of his children. It's not our job to do!
My aches for yours. Be Blessed. Be safe.
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M. M. destroy lives.
I noted one thing.
In Every relationship they tell everyone how the victim ended up being the crazy.
Funny how many crazies they Pounce on in short order!
The honeymoon stage is over in a split second because they cannot maintain sincerity.
Please note also. When they are supposed to be looking deep into your eyes. They're actually looking over your shoulder preying on a quick fix or their next victim
Many people are so frghtened to get caight up in this again that they remain single, shielded, with with their few, true selected friends who recognized the manipulation and the personality profile.
Too Much. Too late for some.
Love, Peace and Joy can be yours. Just forgive. Let go and never return!
Remember this person is a child of GOD. He will discipline them for doing harm to one of his children. It's not our job to do!
My aches for yours. Be Blessed. Be safe.
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Victor
Someone recently talked to me gave me a chance and I was all the red flags, I just had some trauma from a previous situation I was in and I ended up just people pleasing or love bombing, I was an absolute schmuck. I wasn't trying to cause any issues, but I absolutely did, mostly because I didn't want to deal with my own shit so I started putting my effort into them, I was more toxic than botulinum, so they intelligently let me know it wasn't going to work. I was sad and embarrassed at first but now I'm trying to use the experience to grow, and make sure I don't ever do anything like that again. I want to apologize because I know I was a schmuck regardless of my intent or my own issues, but I also feel like it's best if I just leave them be because I don't want to exacerbate what ever issues I've already caused.
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Someone recently talked to me gave me a chance and I was all the red flags, I just had some trauma from a previous situation I was in and I ended up just people pleasing or love bombing, I was an absolute schmuck. I wasn't trying to cause any issues, but I absolutely did, mostly because I didn't want to deal with my own shit so I started putting my effort into them, I was more toxic than botulinum, so they intelligently let me know it wasn't going to work. I was sad and embarrassed at first but now I'm trying to use the experience to grow, and make sure I don't ever do anything like that again. I want to apologize because I know I was a schmuck regardless of my intent or my own issues, but I also feel like it's best if I just leave them be because I don't want to exacerbate what ever issues I've already caused.
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oldgreasychips
my manipulator is named paige rayelle and she has some messed up wiring going on in her head, she kinda follows me around and keeps turning people against me, she some how lies and twists the truth and comes out the victim every time. I've been homeless multiple times because of her, i swear her goal is for me to eventually just disappear because she hated me from the start. She help aid in all the narcissists false egos, by victim blaming and always telling the abusers they are right because she uses them to get what she wants. She will tell people she 'cares' about me to get out of jail free card bs, i wish i could do something about this but i guess i just have to hide away and not let this creepy stalker know who I'm talking to or where i am at.
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my manipulator is named paige rayelle and she has some messed up wiring going on in her head, she kinda follows me around and keeps turning people against me, she some how lies and twists the truth and comes out the victim every time. I've been homeless multiple times because of her, i swear her goal is for me to eventually just disappear because she hated me from the start. She help aid in all the narcissists false egos, by victim blaming and always telling the abusers they are right because she uses them to get what she wants. She will tell people she 'cares' about me to get out of jail free card bs, i wish i could do something about this but i guess i just have to hide away and not let this creepy stalker know who I'm talking to or where i am at.
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KAZE
Finally checking few of those boxes I do fully think they were oblivious of them manipulating me
But when I finally had a talk with my best friend and now old friend they both have opened my eyes upon telling me that this person has been manipulating me.
And I'm not gonna lie my heart sank. I let this person in my life and I trusted them
Sure probably they didn't realize they were manipulating me but the fact is. When I let that information sink in, my head started to pound like I was being opened like a walnut
It hurt. I'm still healing
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Finally checking few of those boxes I do fully think they were oblivious of them manipulating me
But when I finally had a talk with my best friend and now old friend they both have opened my eyes upon telling me that this person has been manipulating me.
And I'm not gonna lie my heart sank. I let this person in my life and I trusted them
Sure probably they didn't realize they were manipulating me but the fact is. When I let that information sink in, my head started to pound like I was being opened like a walnut
It hurt. I'm still healing
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Alex
Unfortunately, this is the mother of my child. Ive learned the best way to deal with this personality (when you have to) is: dont take them personally, yes them to death (but still live your own life, disengage completely when you see they are using their tactics, cut off communication until they act normal again. The cycle will forever repeat, but always let them subtly know, they have zero control over you without letting emotions take over, and never show you are affected. Its your life, show them (dont tell them.
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Unfortunately, this is the mother of my child. Ive learned the best way to deal with this personality (when you have to) is: dont take them personally, yes them to death (but still live your own life, disengage completely when you see they are using their tactics, cut off communication until they act normal again. The cycle will forever repeat, but always let them subtly know, they have zero control over you without letting emotions take over, and never show you are affected. Its your life, show them (dont tell them.
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PlacidDysnomia
I was with one, I think I am one, I'm sure we all on here Are similar. Feels like I can't remember how I used to be in relationships. It feels like I have no friends, and I know I have been terrible to my lady, I don't intentionally lose all my filters. I don't know what to do. We can't seem to fight the problem together, we always are blaming eachother or using eachothers as a reason. I'm trying very hard to figure this out and how to solve it, short of giving up on this relationship.
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I was with one, I think I am one, I'm sure we all on here Are similar. Feels like I can't remember how I used to be in relationships. It feels like I have no friends, and I know I have been terrible to my lady, I don't intentionally lose all my filters. I don't know what to do. We can't seem to fight the problem together, we always are blaming eachother or using eachothers as a reason. I'm trying very hard to figure this out and how to solve it, short of giving up on this relationship.
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No_Good_At_Names
growing up with a brother who always overshared and told me all about how 'horrible' mom and dad were, it's still hard for me to wrap my head around how despite how horrible his intentions might or might not be, he most likely thinks he's in the right. And because I don't remember much of my early childhood, idk who to trust. My brothers, parents, cousins, grandparents? None will give me the same answer; sometimes I wish I could go into the past and see it all for myself.
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growing up with a brother who always overshared and told me all about how 'horrible' mom and dad were, it's still hard for me to wrap my head around how despite how horrible his intentions might or might not be, he most likely thinks he's in the right. And because I don't remember much of my early childhood, idk who to trust. My brothers, parents, cousins, grandparents? None will give me the same answer; sometimes I wish I could go into the past and see it all for myself.
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Garnet
Manipulators are the reason I can't bring myself to trust anyone enough to attempt another relationship.
The pain of being used, of being lied to, of everything wrong with the relationship being my fault. Not to mention the demolishment of my savings and some amazing friendships I had had. I don't doubt that the right person might be out there. But frankly, loneliness is preferable to the emptiness and confusion and dread that permeated all corners of my being.
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Manipulators are the reason I can't bring myself to trust anyone enough to attempt another relationship.
The pain of being used, of being lied to, of everything wrong with the relationship being my fault. Not to mention the demolishment of my savings and some amazing friendships I had had. I don't doubt that the right person might be out there. But frankly, loneliness is preferable to the emptiness and confusion and dread that permeated all corners of my being.
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Eye5x5
Thank you. I learned all the mistakes that the average manipulator makes and have carefully studied their behaviour, with this information I can construct the perfect personality, charisma and ego with which I can perfectly manipulate EVERYONE including people who have seen this video, and slowly destroy humanity from the inside out without them even knowing what's happening to them. hehhehehe. HAHAHAHAHA
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Thank you. I learned all the mistakes that the average manipulator makes and have carefully studied their behaviour, with this information I can construct the perfect personality, charisma and ego with which I can perfectly manipulate EVERYONE including people who have seen this video, and slowly destroy humanity from the inside out without them even knowing what's happening to them. hehhehehe. HAHAHAHAHA
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TPG
i was abused in this manner by a covert narc ex girlfriend little did she know that she was breaking down years of training to control the rage filles violent outbursts i have because of adhd emotional dysregulation. as everyone knows people with adhd can have outbursts because of external stinuli overwelming them like (manipulation/bullying/emaculation ect)
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i was abused in this manner by a covert narc ex girlfriend little did she know that she was breaking down years of training to control the rage filles violent outbursts i have because of adhd emotional dysregulation. as everyone knows people with adhd can have outbursts because of external stinuli overwelming them like (manipulation/bullying/emaculation ect)
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Pabliski
The vocalist of my band was manipulative, I was 18 and he was 22, he figured out what made me angry, and then kept pulling that string, or pressing that button. In the end, he pulled angry outbursts out of me which made me lose friends. Once someone does that to you, you change. Never again. Also therapy helps for this kind of mental shenanigans a lot.
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The vocalist of my band was manipulative, I was 18 and he was 22, he figured out what made me angry, and then kept pulling that string, or pressing that button. In the end, he pulled angry outbursts out of me which made me lose friends. Once someone does that to you, you change. Never again. Also therapy helps for this kind of mental shenanigans a lot.
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aare
Would probably be funny if you're able to clearly catch one early on and effectively just waste their by stalling everything somehow, would be like gaslighting the gaslighter by making them think they're onto something, but i guess it would just get annyoing and it would be more worth it to just leave them.
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Would probably be funny if you're able to clearly catch one early on and effectively just waste their by stalling everything somehow, would be like gaslighting the gaslighter by making them think they're onto something, but i guess it would just get annyoing and it would be more worth it to just leave them.
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Shy_
The relationship I had felt like I was lost in the dark with only a flashlight and no way out. So I broke up, which was hard to do after 3 years of dedication. But yknow what? It was totally worth it! Never stay with an abusive or manipulative person, you're way better off alone believe me; )
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The relationship I had felt like I was lost in the dark with only a flashlight and no way out. So I broke up, which was hard to do after 3 years of dedication. But yknow what? It was totally worth it! Never stay with an abusive or manipulative person, you're way better off alone believe me; )
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Todd
This was my 2nd ex. Unfortunately it took me over 20 years to finally get out of the relationship and figure it out. I'm now at the stage of life with no friends, one remaining family member and no retirement or future on the horizon but I can finally relax for the first time in a long while.
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This was my 2nd ex. Unfortunately it took me over 20 years to finally get out of the relationship and figure it out. I'm now at the stage of life with no friends, one remaining family member and no retirement or future on the horizon but I can finally relax for the first time in a long while.
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MrFlyers1121
I'm actually watching this about myself believe it or not. Sometimes, believe it or not, people can unintentionally be manipulative despite having good intentions. I feel like I manipulate to the point where I'm even manipulating myself and am just not aware of it
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I'm actually watching this about myself believe it or not. Sometimes, believe it or not, people can unintentionally be manipulative despite having good intentions. I feel like I manipulate to the point where I'm even manipulating myself and am just not aware of it
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education
Hey, question, if for example my sister is my emotional manipulator (who does all 7 of the things metioned the video) is it posible that if/when she pretends to care about me, my parants mistake her pretending to care, for her loving me?
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Hey, question, if for example my sister is my emotional manipulator (who does all 7 of the things metioned the video) is it posible that if/when she pretends to care about me, my parants mistake her pretending to care, for her loving me?
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David
Manipulunts=push pins, tacks, tapes, nails, staples, screws, handcuffs, silk ties, soft ropes, bathrobe ties, bike chains, gurney restraints, twine, ribbons, two ply toilet paper, etc.
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Manipulunts=push pins, tacks, tapes, nails, staples, screws, handcuffs, silk ties, soft ropes, bathrobe ties, bike chains, gurney restraints, twine, ribbons, two ply toilet paper, etc.
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ShinyMewtwo3
I can tell my classmate to reveal 2 of their test scores (out of 4 subjects + 3 non academic) and I can pretty much tell them how they're doing in everything else. AM I THE ONE?
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I can tell my classmate to reveal 2 of their test scores (out of 4 subjects + 3 non academic) and I can pretty much tell them how they're doing in everything else. AM I THE ONE?
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education
Very grateful I saw this when I did. I broke up with someone who was doing 1, 4, 5, 6, and 7 on me. The love-bombing was the most disturbing since it came really heavy and fast.
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Very grateful I saw this when I did. I broke up with someone who was doing 1, 4, 5, 6, and 7 on me. The love-bombing was the most disturbing since it came really heavy and fast.
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Jordan
You cant do nothing right in this world everything has a negative name for everything nothing positive at all just teach I how to be a little girl from this page
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You cant do nothing right in this world everything has a negative name for everything nothing positive at all just teach I how to be a little girl from this page
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Jonnathan
i dont use love bombing, i show interest towards a girl i saw i liked at first sight i couldnt help it at the same time i was terrified by that feeling.
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i dont use love bombing, i show interest towards a girl i saw i liked at first sight i couldnt help it at the same time i was terrified by that feeling.
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Lee
Sometimes, its two in the relationship trying to push what they determine to be the way forward, and they are at odds, and feel oppressed by reality.
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Sometimes, its two in the relationship trying to push what they determine to be the way forward, and they are at odds, and feel oppressed by reality.
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