5 Signs You're Emotionally Unstable
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Date: 2023-08-20
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EnglishAaron
Here's the thing, I made mistakes when I was upset before psychiatric care, afterwards it no longer was a choice to not be what I confused as being open when it was just unrestrained emotions being unfiltered and communicated based upon my best assessment, I didn't grow up with being able to express sadness, anger and other emotions but having to tolerate them being around me at a young age, from seven and that continued into my adult years as I was exhausted without feeling like I had any reason to be until I identified that the disregard for me as a person how I operated, along with how constantly reminded of my parents someday dying, to the I'm the worst mother ever when I brought up something that might have contributed to me being as messed up as I am when all I was trying to do was nail down what was wrong with me, combined with the fact everyone would leave or put me down for immaturity I didn't ask for as I wasn't shown properly how to be an adult.
I have many issues and if I could I would have been born without the capacity for negative emotions, to the degree of which I was capable of unless they operated within a confined box for empathy and love for others, maybe even for myself. My parents made me exhausted I thought it was normal, I know somehow I have to fix the wounds but I am not sure if I can given how far I have gone to even have wagered core parts of me to deities/devils so I could manipulate myself, something which isn't normal or how it works. I've struggled to understand patience, gentleness and kindness with myself when I had to expect being aggressively yelled at with a father red in the face for any failure or admitted wrong, sometimes even for wrong I didn't admit because of my fear. I learned to accept people for being how they are to an extent, cutting them off cleanly if possible or grieving over the loss substantially if I didn't have other people to help me out, I learned that some people never reflect and change their ways, even when you start to detach from them and in fact respond to your distancing of yourself from them as them needing to bite down harder on their control over you. If you're not quiet they'll leverage parental monitoring tools to observe what you do, if you open up to them and trust them, they'll lie to you and shame you with it to keep you under their control, you say no or object they'll push you to do what they want anyway, it doesn't matter what you want if they think something else is better for you.
Maybe if souls exist I won't get such a bad roll for a start with what you could call inconsistent at best to insensitive/abusive at best. I'm not sure if I can ever change at this point and I feel so far away from where I wanted to be and have by this point I am seriously considering throwing in the towel and living in the woods with animals, able to be violent and then pass away from whatever in peace surrounded by nature that I can understand
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Here's the thing, I made mistakes when I was upset before psychiatric care, afterwards it no longer was a choice to not be what I confused as being open when it was just unrestrained emotions being unfiltered and communicated based upon my best assessment, I didn't grow up with being able to express sadness, anger and other emotions but having to tolerate them being around me at a young age, from seven and that continued into my adult years as I was exhausted without feeling like I had any reason to be until I identified that the disregard for me as a person how I operated, along with how constantly reminded of my parents someday dying, to the I'm the worst mother ever when I brought up something that might have contributed to me being as messed up as I am when all I was trying to do was nail down what was wrong with me, combined with the fact everyone would leave or put me down for immaturity I didn't ask for as I wasn't shown properly how to be an adult.
I have many issues and if I could I would have been born without the capacity for negative emotions, to the degree of which I was capable of unless they operated within a confined box for empathy and love for others, maybe even for myself. My parents made me exhausted I thought it was normal, I know somehow I have to fix the wounds but I am not sure if I can given how far I have gone to even have wagered core parts of me to deities/devils so I could manipulate myself, something which isn't normal or how it works. I've struggled to understand patience, gentleness and kindness with myself when I had to expect being aggressively yelled at with a father red in the face for any failure or admitted wrong, sometimes even for wrong I didn't admit because of my fear. I learned to accept people for being how they are to an extent, cutting them off cleanly if possible or grieving over the loss substantially if I didn't have other people to help me out, I learned that some people never reflect and change their ways, even when you start to detach from them and in fact respond to your distancing of yourself from them as them needing to bite down harder on their control over you. If you're not quiet they'll leverage parental monitoring tools to observe what you do, if you open up to them and trust them, they'll lie to you and shame you with it to keep you under their control, you say no or object they'll push you to do what they want anyway, it doesn't matter what you want if they think something else is better for you.
Maybe if souls exist I won't get such a bad roll for a start with what you could call inconsistent at best to insensitive/abusive at best. I'm not sure if I can ever change at this point and I feel so far away from where I wanted to be and have by this point I am seriously considering throwing in the towel and living in the woods with animals, able to be violent and then pass away from whatever in peace surrounded by nature that I can understand
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Modern
My life has been a tense rollercoaster. I was academically good when i was a child but was a chronic procrastinator. Just recently i realized that i was suffering from ADHD. My parents were loving but were kind of pushy (like all parents in a developing country. My Dad is especially very pushy and he used to boast that i was a genius when i was very young to everyone he met which placed enormous burden on me. I was mostly embarrassed about it but some of his vanity began to sink into me and i subconsciously began to believe that i was special and above others. My dad has emotional stability issues and is an alcoholic. He wanted to make it big in life but failed. So he chose to push his unrealistic dreams of making it big on me. I loved reading and am curious about everything but couldn't get my act together and find focus. As a chronic procrastinator i was mediocre academically upon graduation. But somehow landed on a job that i was interested in. Worked for three years, got burnt out since there wasnt anything new to learn, abandoned my job and went for higher studies taking a loan. It was like everything i dreamed would be. Good professors, good labs except there wasnt any time. I had placed too much expectations on myself when i took my higer studies. Wanted to maintain a good grade, pursue my field of interest and get a good research position in industry. But was ill prepared for it. I have a good intuition for science and engineering but lacked the mathematical foundation. Was not a problem in my UG or job but in a grad school, it was evident immediately. Tried to learn as fast as possible but learning something fast was not my strong point. I learn at my own pace and it got me into a lot of trouble. In addition the huge pressure of the education loan took toll on my mental health and i completely broke down. Fully lost my ability to learn. Would spend hours from morning till night in libraries and not finish a single page. Failed every single subject was kicked out and wasted two years after that to depressionand poor physical health. Currently living in my parents house with my father paying the monthly dues and it is causing a rift between us. But i am regaining my physical health, playing badminton, able to study and i am optimistic inspite of everything. Occasionally i am pulled back into depression and despair but i can read the signs and come out of it faster. Planning to complete my grad school and pursue research. Sorry for the long post. This is the first time i have written about my past.
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My life has been a tense rollercoaster. I was academically good when i was a child but was a chronic procrastinator. Just recently i realized that i was suffering from ADHD. My parents were loving but were kind of pushy (like all parents in a developing country. My Dad is especially very pushy and he used to boast that i was a genius when i was very young to everyone he met which placed enormous burden on me. I was mostly embarrassed about it but some of his vanity began to sink into me and i subconsciously began to believe that i was special and above others. My dad has emotional stability issues and is an alcoholic. He wanted to make it big in life but failed. So he chose to push his unrealistic dreams of making it big on me. I loved reading and am curious about everything but couldn't get my act together and find focus. As a chronic procrastinator i was mediocre academically upon graduation. But somehow landed on a job that i was interested in. Worked for three years, got burnt out since there wasnt anything new to learn, abandoned my job and went for higher studies taking a loan. It was like everything i dreamed would be. Good professors, good labs except there wasnt any time. I had placed too much expectations on myself when i took my higer studies. Wanted to maintain a good grade, pursue my field of interest and get a good research position in industry. But was ill prepared for it. I have a good intuition for science and engineering but lacked the mathematical foundation. Was not a problem in my UG or job but in a grad school, it was evident immediately. Tried to learn as fast as possible but learning something fast was not my strong point. I learn at my own pace and it got me into a lot of trouble. In addition the huge pressure of the education loan took toll on my mental health and i completely broke down. Fully lost my ability to learn. Would spend hours from morning till night in libraries and not finish a single page. Failed every single subject was kicked out and wasted two years after that to depressionand poor physical health. Currently living in my parents house with my father paying the monthly dues and it is causing a rift between us. But i am regaining my physical health, playing badminton, able to study and i am optimistic inspite of everything. Occasionally i am pulled back into depression and despair but i can read the signs and come out of it faster. Planning to complete my grad school and pursue research. Sorry for the long post. This is the first time i have written about my past.
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Alina
I'm very unpredictable, unexpected reactions, sometimes I can't control my anger, I'm very impulsive, I'm hipervigilent, an emotional rollercoaster! Sometimes I manage to temper myself, when I'm at work for example, sometimes my impulsivity comes out and I can't control! All this because my depression and anxiety witch I'm diagnosed, I think! It's like always I fight insede me, witch keeps exhausting me so much, suck the life out of me! I live with this every single day! Not to mention some childhood drama and a few years ago! I thought I got rid o PTSD, but. I don't! I want so much to control my feelings, not to be so emotional, I want this desperately!
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I'm very unpredictable, unexpected reactions, sometimes I can't control my anger, I'm very impulsive, I'm hipervigilent, an emotional rollercoaster! Sometimes I manage to temper myself, when I'm at work for example, sometimes my impulsivity comes out and I can't control! All this because my depression and anxiety witch I'm diagnosed, I think! It's like always I fight insede me, witch keeps exhausting me so much, suck the life out of me! I live with this every single day! Not to mention some childhood drama and a few years ago! I thought I got rid o PTSD, but. I don't! I want so much to control my feelings, not to be so emotional, I want this desperately!
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hmmmmmm
Hey I need help, I have notice that someone maybe like me she been giving me sign since 8th grade I'm 10th now, and she still giving me sign my best friend also notice that, I'm too afraid being in love with someone because I don't want to disappoint her in the future, and I think I have trauma from my parent they divorced and I'm afraid I might end up like them,
Sorry I know this is oot but sometimes I feel happier around her and sometimes I feel bad, how to get out of this pls I need answer.
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Hey I need help, I have notice that someone maybe like me she been giving me sign since 8th grade I'm 10th now, and she still giving me sign my best friend also notice that, I'm too afraid being in love with someone because I don't want to disappoint her in the future, and I think I have trauma from my parent they divorced and I'm afraid I might end up like them,
Sorry I know this is oot but sometimes I feel happier around her and sometimes I feel bad, how to get out of this pls I need answer.
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Wedfomi
I had a teacher who had sutch terrible moodswings that she wasn't able to teach us anything at all. She was allways furious or suspiciously happy. As a result, the whole class was afrait to be in the same room with her or at least angry because her moodswings caused them bad grades. I was allways hiding in the classroom because she was allways yelling at my frends and even insulting them. thank god those times are over.
Edit: sorry I'm german and my english isn't the best.
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I had a teacher who had sutch terrible moodswings that she wasn't able to teach us anything at all. She was allways furious or suspiciously happy. As a result, the whole class was afrait to be in the same room with her or at least angry because her moodswings caused them bad grades. I was allways hiding in the classroom because she was allways yelling at my frends and even insulting them. thank god those times are over.
Edit: sorry I'm german and my english isn't the best.
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wwwvisitor
One thing to realize: those who can and willing to listen, will be forced to listen to make sure they stay insecure; bullies won't listen and will make their problems everyone's' problems. America is a domination culture - those who dominate will get away with anything and everything (Donald Trump, 74yo twitting at 4 a. m, anyone, the rest will have to swallow it and then go through rehab, healing, calming, meditation and other bs.
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One thing to realize: those who can and willing to listen, will be forced to listen to make sure they stay insecure; bullies won't listen and will make their problems everyone's' problems. America is a domination culture - those who dominate will get away with anything and everything (Donald Trump, 74yo twitting at 4 a. m, anyone, the rest will have to swallow it and then go through rehab, healing, calming, meditation and other bs.
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Tamako
I know this is going to look like trauma dumping but I don't know if I need help or not. I have this friend who I've known for 4 years and they are nice to me but recently they've just been ghosting me and only talking to me when they're alone and as of recent when I simply said hi to them they told me I was an ugly gay rat and I think thats an obvious toxic sign but I genuienly dont know if they're joking or they hate me now
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I know this is going to look like trauma dumping but I don't know if I need help or not. I have this friend who I've known for 4 years and they are nice to me but recently they've just been ghosting me and only talking to me when they're alone and as of recent when I simply said hi to them they told me I was an ugly gay rat and I think thats an obvious toxic sign but I genuienly dont know if they're joking or they hate me now
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erik
saying too little is almost always a much lesser crime than saying too much. the same way wearing too much clothes would not offend anyone but if you wore too little clothes or no clothes at all ppl are bound to complain. ppl prefer unfiltered beer much more than unfiltered ppl cause no moral person enjoys the drama of a social trainwreck and most ppl do enjoy a cold beer and an easy stress free day.
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saying too little is almost always a much lesser crime than saying too much. the same way wearing too much clothes would not offend anyone but if you wore too little clothes or no clothes at all ppl are bound to complain. ppl prefer unfiltered beer much more than unfiltered ppl cause no moral person enjoys the drama of a social trainwreck and most ppl do enjoy a cold beer and an easy stress free day.
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Dr.
I always have emotional breakdowns and panic attacks because of the trauma from my family and other things my dad would threaten me even for the smallest mistake and he would tell me things and he would send me out of the house and I wanted to run away and my Mom dosent care about what he does she tells me hes not being abusive hes just being intimidating when I try to tell her what hes doing to me
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I always have emotional breakdowns and panic attacks because of the trauma from my family and other things my dad would threaten me even for the smallest mistake and he would tell me things and he would send me out of the house and I wanted to run away and my Mom dosent care about what he does she tells me hes not being abusive hes just being intimidating when I try to tell her what hes doing to me
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Nitzan
I've got half of those, I'm always crying on small stuff, and i struggle to figure why, i got some illogical reactions (like in summer break, i can feel fine, and then at one moment i just start feeling sad, or scared for no apparent reason, and i do have emotional rollercoasters, but that's basically it. I thought i might have bpd, but it doesn't seem like it, i do have clinic depression
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I've got half of those, I'm always crying on small stuff, and i struggle to figure why, i got some illogical reactions (like in summer break, i can feel fine, and then at one moment i just start feeling sad, or scared for no apparent reason, and i do have emotional rollercoasters, but that's basically it. I thought i might have bpd, but it doesn't seem like it, i do have clinic depression
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Shadow
I've got problems 2 4 and 5 in this video
I've definitely established that I'm a run before walking person
I can literally describe my inability to calm down with a comic page of Nightwing and Flash (Wally West) where Wally shouts I will not calm down! in a panic
and as for 5: I have had trouble keeping friends before
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I've got problems 2 4 and 5 in this video
I've definitely established that I'm a run before walking person
I can literally describe my inability to calm down with a comic page of Nightwing and Flash (Wally West) where Wally shouts I will not calm down! in a panic
and as for 5: I have had trouble keeping friends before
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Flamegamer
I can relate to unexpected reactions. There were times where I have a rest day and there was an assignment thats due on the same day as posted. Or there were times where I thought I brought something with me and I checked my pockets, then there was nothing there. Its like panicking mode.
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I can relate to unexpected reactions. There were times where I have a rest day and there was an assignment thats due on the same day as posted. Or there were times where I thought I brought something with me and I checked my pockets, then there was nothing there. Its like panicking mode.
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QueenBee
I just got news my papa (grandpa) had a stroke and now getting physical therapy so it's probably not that bad also my older sister probably has 5 or less years to live (she's 31 if I remember correctly) and hearing a relaxing man's voice just camed me down a little bit so thank you
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I just got news my papa (grandpa) had a stroke and now getting physical therapy so it's probably not that bad also my older sister probably has 5 or less years to live (she's 31 if I remember correctly) and hearing a relaxing man's voice just camed me down a little bit so thank you
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Ael
Yes, this is me. All of it. I'm on the spectrum and have been dealing with the likes of anxiety disorder, BPD, clinical depression, and PTSD since childhood. It's been over a decade since I have last seen a therapist; I have my first appointment with a new psychologist tomorrow.
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Yes, this is me. All of it. I'm on the spectrum and have been dealing with the likes of anxiety disorder, BPD, clinical depression, and PTSD since childhood. It's been over a decade since I have last seen a therapist; I have my first appointment with a new psychologist tomorrow.
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Nick
Getting emotional stability by self is not an easy process. Though hard but it's important to pray for your partner because sometimes they fight battles they'll never speak to you about.
Make sure they are covered.
Pray everyday for their win.
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Getting emotional stability by self is not an easy process. Though hard but it's important to pray for your partner because sometimes they fight battles they'll never speak to you about.
Make sure they are covered.
Pray everyday for their win.
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CryBaby
Your telling me when I am trying to find keys and I start panicking and start crying I am emotionally unstable? Because I do it a lot. If I stress over something for a long period of time or even short depending on what Im stressing over I cry.
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Your telling me when I am trying to find keys and I start panicking and start crying I am emotionally unstable? Because I do it a lot. If I stress over something for a long period of time or even short depending on what Im stressing over I cry.
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lol
What if when you have a lot of homework from college you feel overwhelmed, doomed, and pretty frustrated but you don't take it out on someone. But when you don't think about it or once you're finished you're fine again? Would that be fine?
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What if when you have a lot of homework from college you feel overwhelmed, doomed, and pretty frustrated but you don't take it out on someone. But when you don't think about it or once you're finished you're fine again? Would that be fine?
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education
I sad wondering if you guys can do Combined ADHD if you havnt already done it? Im dont see any videos online and Im so sure I have it. Of course this is just a suggestion and I know your busy so I understand if you dont!
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I sad wondering if you guys can do Combined ADHD if you havnt already done it? Im dont see any videos online and Im so sure I have it. Of course this is just a suggestion and I know your busy so I understand if you dont!
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Darla
I am ALL of these and on top of emotional instability, I have bipolar disorder, acute anxiety disorder, CPTSD, and ADHD. I am currently in therapy and working hard on my mental health. This made me a very loneli person.
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I am ALL of these and on top of emotional instability, I have bipolar disorder, acute anxiety disorder, CPTSD, and ADHD. I am currently in therapy and working hard on my mental health. This made me a very loneli person.
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Idkhahahhh
This makes me sad because I relate to it a ton and my friends joke about mental illness or mental disabilitys and I have the main ones they make fun of and they dont know how hard it is to have them
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This makes me sad because I relate to it a ton and my friends joke about mental illness or mental disabilitys and I have the main ones they make fun of and they dont know how hard it is to have them
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education
Before I learned I had and got treatment for complex PTSD this video would have made me defensive, ashamed, angry, or depressed. And I don't mean sad when I say depressed. I really mean despair.
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Before I learned I had and got treatment for complex PTSD this video would have made me defensive, ashamed, angry, or depressed. And I don't mean sad when I say depressed. I really mean despair.
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SillyRaccoon
Now Im not sure if I have an anxiety disorder or just one of these, specifically the Unexpected Reactions one.
And Ive watched your videos on anxiety related things too.
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Now Im not sure if I have an anxiety disorder or just one of these, specifically the Unexpected Reactions one.
And Ive watched your videos on anxiety related things too.
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trishaa-ventz
can you please do the darkside to being aromantic people think that being aro is all about not liking people. nobody understands how truly lonely it feels sometimes: (
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can you please do the darkside to being aromantic people think that being aro is all about not liking people. nobody understands how truly lonely it feels sometimes: (
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Malevolent
Am happy to say am emotinally unstable on too many levels must not lie I lost my sharpener and got angry as hell and fought a guy cause he told me to be more careful
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Am happy to say am emotinally unstable on too many levels must not lie I lost my sharpener and got angry as hell and fought a guy cause he told me to be more careful
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Liris
Not to mistake with being an HSP and / or an empath, when anything and anyone's emotions can impact yours nya. Though maybe they can overlap nya.
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Not to mistake with being an HSP and / or an empath, when anything and anyone's emotions can impact yours nya. Though maybe they can overlap nya.
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