Signs Someone Is Not Interested In You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Killer
Ight so I have doubts in my case, summarizing work 3 weeks ago and a new girl entered a week ago (she serves a food vending machine outside, Before I started talking to her, she would pass my work area and she would stare at me, we would make eye contact and she would smile at me.
After that I started going to her workplace sometimes buying food for her, we started to talk, I made her laugh, asked her out on a date this Tuesday and she said yes, And every time he passes through my area she keeps seeing me and greets me even if she brings food she invites me when she passes by, but there is another guy who is her manager, physically speaking he looks older and is nothing compared to me but he also talks to her and makes her laugh, I haven't seen any contact like she does with me but idk I don't want to succumb to jealousy when we are still nothing, and my plan today is not to go talk to her to find out if she is interested or not
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Ight so I have doubts in my case, summarizing work 3 weeks ago and a new girl entered a week ago (she serves a food vending machine outside, Before I started talking to her, she would pass my work area and she would stare at me, we would make eye contact and she would smile at me.
After that I started going to her workplace sometimes buying food for her, we started to talk, I made her laugh, asked her out on a date this Tuesday and she said yes, And every time he passes through my area she keeps seeing me and greets me even if she brings food she invites me when she passes by, but there is another guy who is her manager, physically speaking he looks older and is nothing compared to me but he also talks to her and makes her laugh, I haven't seen any contact like she does with me but idk I don't want to succumb to jealousy when we are still nothing, and my plan today is not to go talk to her to find out if she is interested or not
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Ashiqur
I met a woman at work 5 years ago. Started off well (nerdy interests, personal matters, etc, even going so far as to tell me we had a special friendship bond. She left for another state in 2019 & I have tried my hardest to keep it alive. Fast forward to 2021, she invited me to a theme park and proceeded to treat me terribly alongside her smart-ass friend claiming it was all in good clean fun. I tried talking with her about it but all I got were excuses & that I wasn't a priority to her. Everytime I tried pulling away she'd hook & bait me, making empty promises about hanging out. I finally lost it & told her I wanted to forget we ever met. She reciprocated & blocked me everywhere 1. 5 months ago. I honestly don't know what hurts more. The fact she pretended to care, or that she secretly hated me & didn't value our friendship at all
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I met a woman at work 5 years ago. Started off well (nerdy interests, personal matters, etc, even going so far as to tell me we had a special friendship bond. She left for another state in 2019 & I have tried my hardest to keep it alive. Fast forward to 2021, she invited me to a theme park and proceeded to treat me terribly alongside her smart-ass friend claiming it was all in good clean fun. I tried talking with her about it but all I got were excuses & that I wasn't a priority to her. Everytime I tried pulling away she'd hook & bait me, making empty promises about hanging out. I finally lost it & told her I wanted to forget we ever met. She reciprocated & blocked me everywhere 1. 5 months ago. I honestly don't know what hurts more. The fact she pretended to care, or that she secretly hated me & didn't value our friendship at all
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generalpeeps
While the information within has basis within fact the premise is terrible. If you are attracted to someone and you want to know how they feel, ask them. If you can't handle the threat of rejection, you're not ready for a relationship. The best relationships come from wanting to stay with someone, not from feeling you could never survive them leaving. People are chaotic, irrational beings and we act and think in ways that make no sense sometimes, you add on the extra layer of the fog of war (you can't see or know everything that's going on or the reasons for them) and an attitude of using basic criteria to judge somones attitude to you is a pathway to misunderstanding that is unhealthy and toxic. For Christ's sake people just talk about how you feel and deal with the consequences, good or bad.
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While the information within has basis within fact the premise is terrible. If you are attracted to someone and you want to know how they feel, ask them. If you can't handle the threat of rejection, you're not ready for a relationship. The best relationships come from wanting to stay with someone, not from feeling you could never survive them leaving. People are chaotic, irrational beings and we act and think in ways that make no sense sometimes, you add on the extra layer of the fog of war (you can't see or know everything that's going on or the reasons for them) and an attitude of using basic criteria to judge somones attitude to you is a pathway to misunderstanding that is unhealthy and toxic. For Christ's sake people just talk about how you feel and deal with the consequences, good or bad.
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Aus_Huayra500
There is an extremely beautiful girl that I see regularly where I go and I couldnt take my eyes off her to be honest so I was very surprised when we seemed to regularly make eye contact and I would catch her looking at me quite a few times and I freaked out because I never expected even that much. Anyway after a few more times of this happening finally I got to have a chat with her and I was of course brought harshly back to earth when she didnt seem really interested in chatting at all. I should have known such a ridiculously beautiful girl wouldnt ever wanna be near a guy like me in general
Dont think Ill ever actually find anyone either. 5 years single and coming up on 6. Not one woman in my country is interested in me
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There is an extremely beautiful girl that I see regularly where I go and I couldnt take my eyes off her to be honest so I was very surprised when we seemed to regularly make eye contact and I would catch her looking at me quite a few times and I freaked out because I never expected even that much. Anyway after a few more times of this happening finally I got to have a chat with her and I was of course brought harshly back to earth when she didnt seem really interested in chatting at all. I should have known such a ridiculously beautiful girl wouldnt ever wanna be near a guy like me in general
Dont think Ill ever actually find anyone either. 5 years single and coming up on 6. Not one woman in my country is interested in me
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Chibana
The backup tactic is the worst feeling for sure and it is rahter a new trend due to fact the majority of dating went online now where people can find many many single people. it makes things even harder and causes even more confusion and bad feelings and definitely for men, because women gets the tons of messages from men, so they have like the feeling of unlimited dating opportunities. Men are just doomed when it is about dating. I think nowadays anybody who really wants normal daring, they should try organized dating as blind date in person (unless you are a party face who has big group of friends to hang out with, because this online dating is mostly about collecting likes and attention for the women.
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The backup tactic is the worst feeling for sure and it is rahter a new trend due to fact the majority of dating went online now where people can find many many single people. it makes things even harder and causes even more confusion and bad feelings and definitely for men, because women gets the tons of messages from men, so they have like the feeling of unlimited dating opportunities. Men are just doomed when it is about dating. I think nowadays anybody who really wants normal daring, they should try organized dating as blind date in person (unless you are a party face who has big group of friends to hang out with, because this online dating is mostly about collecting likes and attention for the women.
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Dawood
How do you deal with this situation a friend of mine is really nice I mean really nice I used to vent and talk about anything with her but she never had something that went on for more than 5 mins and I felt suuuuper guilty that we only talked and had a lasting convo when I had a problem we talked about and she never talked to me about her problems saying she didnt have any and I didnt believe but never said anything. I now dont talk to her much anymore but am still super thankful she was there back then and she is now my classmate is it right to just ignore the fact that she knows more about me than anyone in the world and keep my distance and not talk with her much?
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How do you deal with this situation a friend of mine is really nice I mean really nice I used to vent and talk about anything with her but she never had something that went on for more than 5 mins and I felt suuuuper guilty that we only talked and had a lasting convo when I had a problem we talked about and she never talked to me about her problems saying she didnt have any and I didnt believe but never said anything. I now dont talk to her much anymore but am still super thankful she was there back then and she is now my classmate is it right to just ignore the fact that she knows more about me than anyone in the world and keep my distance and not talk with her much?
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The
Back in school I knew this guy who was hopelessly in love with this woman. She would rely on him in ways that, I felt, took advantage of his affections. She would turn him down, but then accept high end gifts. She'd decline hanging out one on one, but then ask him to pick her up from the club at 2AM with no warning. And he'd do it. Because he genuinely loved her and she was not a nice woman. It was very hard to watch. I was very glad when he graduated and she broke contact.
Im not even friends with the guy anymore, but it still boils my blood to remember. Wherever you are, N, I hope you outgrew that childish cruelty and you gained some God damned empathy.
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Back in school I knew this guy who was hopelessly in love with this woman. She would rely on him in ways that, I felt, took advantage of his affections. She would turn him down, but then accept high end gifts. She'd decline hanging out one on one, but then ask him to pick her up from the club at 2AM with no warning. And he'd do it. Because he genuinely loved her and she was not a nice woman. It was very hard to watch. I was very glad when he graduated and she broke contact.
Im not even friends with the guy anymore, but it still boils my blood to remember. Wherever you are, N, I hope you outgrew that childish cruelty and you gained some God damned empathy.
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Lior
After 26 years of life. I've had my first friendship with a girl. This was the first time a girl actually noticed me, so obviously I got waaay to excited. First I thought she liked me back but she checked all the boxes mentioned in this video. Needless to say it was all in my head and to her I was just another friend. I was devastated when I found out. Nevertheless, it opened my eyes to the possibility that I can be likable, and that girls can notice me. Now I'm trying to learn how to be social so that I can meet more girls who potentially will like me back. It's a long way to go but I'm excited to be finally walking it.
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After 26 years of life. I've had my first friendship with a girl. This was the first time a girl actually noticed me, so obviously I got waaay to excited. First I thought she liked me back but she checked all the boxes mentioned in this video. Needless to say it was all in my head and to her I was just another friend. I was devastated when I found out. Nevertheless, it opened my eyes to the possibility that I can be likable, and that girls can notice me. Now I'm trying to learn how to be social so that I can meet more girls who potentially will like me back. It's a long way to go but I'm excited to be finally walking it.
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Saccharina
what i learned from being a people pleaser introvert is that once i started being straight forward, people actually appreciated it and didn't feel ghosted anymore. i value our time together, but this is actually enough for me and more would make me feel uncomfortable. would you feel comfortable with this level of intimacy? then we talk about it and boom! we only talk once in every three months yet nobody gets hurt because they know that i am just not interested in something more.
I've had some people who would show interest and then disappear, so i am extra careful with not doing that to anyone else.
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what i learned from being a people pleaser introvert is that once i started being straight forward, people actually appreciated it and didn't feel ghosted anymore. i value our time together, but this is actually enough for me and more would make me feel uncomfortable. would you feel comfortable with this level of intimacy? then we talk about it and boom! we only talk once in every three months yet nobody gets hurt because they know that i am just not interested in something more.
I've had some people who would show interest and then disappear, so i am extra careful with not doing that to anyone else.
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FlameIsExisting
I'm such a bad texter. I'm always scared that someone will take me the wrong way. I prefer talking in person, it conveys emotion better.
The excessive eye contact part is untrue for me, I try to keep eye contact because i believe its a good skill to have when listening, I want to listen to the person I like. But when I'm nervous I shoot short glances to still let that person know I'm interested
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I'm such a bad texter. I'm always scared that someone will take me the wrong way. I prefer talking in person, it conveys emotion better.
The excessive eye contact part is untrue for me, I try to keep eye contact because i believe its a good skill to have when listening, I want to listen to the person I like. But when I'm nervous I shoot short glances to still let that person know I'm interested
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invisibea
This happened to me when i was 14. i had a crush on this girl for almost 2 years. They told me they liked me and i was skeptical at first but love made naive. which is why i dont know who to love and trust.
I learned she did this to learn what my friend who she probably liked told me a week before this incident. i felt sad and dumb after this. But i think im getting over it little by little.
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This happened to me when i was 14. i had a crush on this girl for almost 2 years. They told me they liked me and i was skeptical at first but love made naive. which is why i dont know who to love and trust.
I learned she did this to learn what my friend who she probably liked told me a week before this incident. i felt sad and dumb after this. But i think im getting over it little by little.
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Marcos
This happened to me recently, and looking back at it now, while watching this video, it was painfully obvious what was going on back then. And it's amazing how every one of those items fits so well in my situation.
I just don't have the energy to do this anymore. It's too much of an emotional pain for me to handle and I don't think I can do this anymore
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This happened to me recently, and looking back at it now, while watching this video, it was painfully obvious what was going on back then. And it's amazing how every one of those items fits so well in my situation.
I just don't have the energy to do this anymore. It's too much of an emotional pain for me to handle and I don't think I can do this anymore
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LunaKayuta
That's why I don't like people who usually give you hope but aren't really interested in you. On the other hand, it's understandable that they're too nice and don't want to upset you. (i still hate that tbh)
That's why I stopped thinking too much about any relationship and spent more time taking care of myself
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That's why I don't like people who usually give you hope but aren't really interested in you. On the other hand, it's understandable that they're too nice and don't want to upset you. (i still hate that tbh)
That's why I stopped thinking too much about any relationship and spent more time taking care of myself
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Juande
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
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Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
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Alltagscrash
All this hurt's the most, when you start seeing all of these points in the person you already in a relationship with.
Broke up with her yesterday and her reaction seemed to most others so calm that she didn't really care it seems. So these can also be signs that the love is lost. :(
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All this hurt's the most, when you start seeing all of these points in the person you already in a relationship with.
Broke up with her yesterday and her reaction seemed to most others so calm that she didn't really care it seems. So these can also be signs that the love is lost. :(
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Alessio
This video sums up this whole past year of my life trying to figure out if a woman ever felt something for me as strongly as I did. It has been a miserable year seeing my feelings get tossed around. Hope I can let her go and go on with my life and have more self respect going forward.
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This video sums up this whole past year of my life trying to figure out if a woman ever felt something for me as strongly as I did. It has been a miserable year seeing my feelings get tossed around. Hope I can let her go and go on with my life and have more self respect going forward.
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emmanuel
I give up already.
I dont talk to that someone quite a long time.
I guess she didnt want me even missing me on my absence.
Im tired of making myself available for them and not them for me.
They might be good persons but im tired making them my priorities.
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I give up already.
I dont talk to that someone quite a long time.
I guess she didnt want me even missing me on my absence.
Im tired of making myself available for them and not them for me.
They might be good persons but im tired making them my priorities.
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Commander
Do bear in mind that for some like autistics for example, it is quite common to just dislike or get uncomfortable with eye-contact in general, and doing it for the sake of making others comfortable also comes with the struggle of discerning how much is too much.
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Do bear in mind that for some like autistics for example, it is quite common to just dislike or get uncomfortable with eye-contact in general, and doing it for the sake of making others comfortable also comes with the struggle of discerning how much is too much.
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Mike
when a gurl breadcrumbing you, move on and love yourself, makes yourself to become a bertter version of yourself, make more new friends, keep yourself busy and goal. When someone feels he or she is losing you, they will take effort to chase you back.
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when a gurl breadcrumbing you, move on and love yourself, makes yourself to become a bertter version of yourself, make more new friends, keep yourself busy and goal. When someone feels he or she is losing you, they will take effort to chase you back.
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tiamod
Welp, its official. I officially am trapped in a confusing relationship where all signs point to yes, where he doesnt show disinterest - but still for whatever reason doesnt actually want to say yes.
Its starting to affect me mentally.
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Welp, its official. I officially am trapped in a confusing relationship where all signs point to yes, where he doesnt show disinterest - but still for whatever reason doesnt actually want to say yes.
Its starting to affect me mentally.
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Ce1estia
Tbh I was kind of hoping that the person I like checks these boxes, so that I can finally fully accept that they don't like me as anything more than a friend, but he doesn't do any of these and now I'm more confused than ever T-T
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Tbh I was kind of hoping that the person I like checks these boxes, so that I can finally fully accept that they don't like me as anything more than a friend, but he doesn't do any of these and now I'm more confused than ever T-T
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Simon
3: 58 This made me think maybe i am the backup (My crush claims she has a boyfriend but is sometimes a bit flirty to me and seems to like my jokes and also always seems happy when she speaks to me and is always nice to me.
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3: 58 This made me think maybe i am the backup (My crush claims she has a boyfriend but is sometimes a bit flirty to me and seems to like my jokes and also always seems happy when she speaks to me and is always nice to me.
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Logan
The only one I feel like that doesn't give me false hope is God. Everyone else is either full of it, or have none at all. I make sure to never get my hopes up high. Why would I just to get them crushed?
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The only one I feel like that doesn't give me false hope is God. Everyone else is either full of it, or have none at all. I make sure to never get my hopes up high. Why would I just to get them crushed?
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kissedbyfire
Always answer with I don't have a type when someone asks you what kind of man or woman you're looking for. Some people will play the part until they get what they want and leave you in the dust.
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Always answer with I don't have a type when someone asks you what kind of man or woman you're looking for. Some people will play the part until they get what they want and leave you in the dust.
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WilliamEmzy
Thanks for this video, it gave me so much clarity of the situation I am lost and trying to keep afloat in. I guess its time to be courages and face the truth, you saved me alot of time and pain!
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Thanks for this video, it gave me so much clarity of the situation I am lost and trying to keep afloat in. I guess its time to be courages and face the truth, you saved me alot of time and pain!
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