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4 Signs Someone Hopes You Dont Like Them

4 Signs Someone Hopes You Dont Like Them

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Following our previous video discussions on signs of someone liking you, we received numerous comments expressing an inability to relate, with their love interest or crush appearing disinterested. In response to this feedback, we have created a contrasting video titled 4 Signs Someone Hopes You Don't Like Them. In this video, we will be talking about subtle body language, gain valuable insights into love, dating, and relationships and ways to know if someone is actually uninterested in you. Our expert advice provides practical tips and solutions for these common relationship problems. If you think there is a possibility that they actually like you, you can watch this video for confirmation
Date: 2023-08-20

Comments and reviews: 25


I have a friend who i believe really liked me, as he would always give me compliments and obvious flirts, along with huge ammounts of physical affection, but he did so really often, like every five seconds often. I was starting to get drained and annoyed, but i didnt say anything. He was so touch starved and needed affection so desperately, i just couldnt say no. And even if i did try to politely tell him to tone it down he would go silent robot mode and stare into space with no signs of life, or even cry in a corner just because i said not now, please to a hug.
At one point i realized that i dont like him anymore. I still care for him and see him as a good person but i now find myself forcing a friendship with the only person that isnt compatible with me in any way, and not in romance, just in general. But i couldnt cut him off or end the friendship, both his and my mother are really close friends, and his mom really likes me and likes the idea of him and me dating, one could even say she ships us. That along with the fact that were in the same friend group means i cant end the friendship because we would still have to be in eachother's presence. And talking to him would be nice but if he gets upset over a polite stop then who knows what a serious talk with him would be like? It was out of the question.
So, what did i do? I ignored him. I talked to other friends and talked to him only when i had to. We were still friends, we just didnt talk. After some time passed with me ignoring him i decided to try to talk again since i knew what i was doing was wrong. But it was then after some time that i realized just how badly i messed up. The complements and hugs stopped and he started to become slightly agressive. Not in a bad way, but he now playfully insults me or says something bad about me in the most friendly way he can, but its obvious that he's upset with me and being mean on purpose.
But in all honesty, i do deserve it. I shouldnt have ignored him like i did. Right now he's doing the same affection thing with another girl but its drastically toned down since i showed him more affection, however she dosent look bothered at all. He also talks more to other friends in our friend group that know more about his likings and understand them better, and they get along well with him willingly, and im even kind of glad he's taking some steam out on me since i could have found a better alternative. Right now were still forcing our friendship and to me it shows, but im willing to find a way to finally talk to him about the issue and hopefully resolve it, even if its hard at best and seemingly impossible at worst, i dont want to do something i know im going to regret.
If there's anyone willing to read this huge rant and finds themself in a similar situation, please remember that someone else's happiness shouldnt be your responsability, especially if you arent in a romantic relationship. If you have an issue like this but dont know how to resolve it, please take a look at all the possible ways you can make things better before mindlessly doing something you will regret. Choose the option that will bring you and hopefully even those around you the best outcome possible, even if it is hard to get there.

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Haven't I got a story about this. There's this male colleague at the university I work at, and over the last two and a half years he shared a lot of private things with me. He also told me he liked how I dress, the colour of my lipstick, and one day said we should go out for a drink. I wanted to go, but I was unsure about whether he was still married as he had stopped wearing his wedding ring. I decided to talk to him and I told him that I have romantic feelings for him. He told me that I misunderstood everything, and he doesn't feel the same. But then he wanted to fix things with us. A few months later I emailed him to talk, and he told me that he's getting a divorce. We met for coffee and talked. By the end of the conversation we had exchanged phone numbers. I did not bombard him with messages and calls, as I didn't want to cause trouble in light of the divorce. So after 8 months of not calling or messaging him, I went to see him after one of his lectures, as I was on campus at the same time on the day. And even though things seemed well enough, HE GHOSTED ME afterwards. When I confronted him a few weeks later, he said that my visit made him uncomfortable, and he blocked me from his phone to spare my feelings. I told him that he never made it clear to me where the boundaries are, and he should have talked to me about my visit. I have not contacted him in over a month
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My crush ghosted me after I helped him through depression and I felt used that he only used me to feel better. And Im still going through stuff but when he ghosted me I felt worse. I got rejected two times from him. He then dated my Friend I got more sad I didnt know what ti do. I didnt want to be rude about theyre relationship for my own benefit I didnt want to be selfish. So I supported theyre relationship I buried my feelings. Then it came back after they broke up. I didnt want to like him though he already rejected me. But I couldnt get over him. I thought if I dated someone else it would go away. I dated his brother it didnt work I was to in love with him. We eventually broke up. I started dating a girl and i really liked her she eased my mind but I felt jealous. Maybe she didnt like me maybe she wants to break up. I felt insecure ever since him(my crush) rejected me. I broke up with her at the wrong time. Im glad she found someone: ) my crush has moved on he doesnt like anyone and so has I. Im actually glad hes not in my life hes blocked me in everything and Im glad. Hes been rude after he ghosted me but if it makes him feel better I understand.
We love u Psych2Go >: 3

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Hey there!
Well honestly speaking this was so relatable.
Actually me and my crush are close friends.
And I ended up falling so hard for him. Due to some circumstances we couldn't meet or talk daily and frankly speaking I was the one who always used to text and massage due to his family circumstances. I have no idea how? But maybe he knows that I like him he gotta a hint. But the thing is that out of this he is the ghost mode one he moreover he used to like a girl way before but I'm not sure he does now too. Thinking about him makes me happy and sad at the same time. please help me out with thiss
(PS whenever he is with me he sorta tries provoking me so that I will eventually end up confessing him)
Also I will confess him for sure but the thing is that I don't know will he accepte me or not
ANYWAYS THANKYOU SO MUCH PSYCH2GO FOR SUCH AMAZING AND HELPFUL VIDS LOTS OF LOVE

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Im in a situation like this right now and its nerve wracking and depressing, I know the videos supposed to be hopeful and I appreciate not having false hope but it never gets any easier hearing that one more person doesnt like you. I love my best friend and wish I could date her and be with her more, shes dating a guy two years younger than her in his junior year of high school, so maybe it most likely wont work out. But I try and make time and ask her if she wants to hang out and all I get are those dry one or two word responses. Recently she hasnt said anything to me at all. So I feel kind of helpless, sometimes I feel like its so much easier for women to get want they want when it comes to relationships, its so unmotivating sometimes. So at this point Im just waiting, and working on myself a little at a time.
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Actually. I'd probably still do some of these things if I liked someone (unintentionally. But sad reality for me is: I'm either not noticed at all or for the wrong reasons (I know, self-esteem and self-love but if you're trying and still observiing this there must be something wrong. I'm really avoiding developing having a crush on anyone because I know in the end I'll only be hurt. And I'm trying to accept that it will never be any different. But I don't blame them. I had a very nice guy rejecting me in the nicest way possible some years ago. Back then it made it more difficult but considering in the past there have been different reactions I'm actually grateful there are people out there who are kind and considerate despite not knowing how to react.
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Many people gain self-confidence by putting others down. They are so insecure that they constantly tell themselves they are better than you. When someone is confident and often inspired; they for some reason feel they have no choice but to be mean to others. If someone is being mean to you, it may be because they are feeling remorse or jealousy.
Most of the time, people are oppressed. You are oppressed by society because you threaten others for being great.
Sometimes people are not interested in respecting others or being polite to others. So many people have zero motivation to practice common decency.
If you have talent, be prepared to be ignored. Its hard to accept the fact that many humans do not consider the success of others.

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I was actually on the other side of this in my previous relationship. He was nice, kind, supportive and stable. He had a good job, his own apartment and his own friends. He had personal interests, was aware of his own health needs and took care of himself. The problem? I wasnt feeling anything romantically. I didnt feel the urge for physical touch. Our weekly dates became a chore. Conversations were one sided with me asking him questions and him not. He checked all the green flag boxes except the most important: That I had feelings for him. So I ended it. I felt bad, but it was good for us both, so my next relationship with have the most important check box of them all, and thats my feelings for him.
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As someone on the otherside of the video i do maybe believe my best friend may like me a bit too muchthen i liked. I sad can agree with the they might think there imagining it since im still not sure but yeah, i dont do really do any off these which makes me nervous. Its just that i love them there great i could live without them but i just dont LOVe them. I actually had nightmares of them saying they like me and feeling just uncomfortable in the dreams and try that they dont say anything. The thing is if your wrong and they dont like you its also just wierd and all ur friends always saying as are you a couple or stuff it just plays into the factor
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I usually dont comment on videos but this video really opened my eyes. As a girl, I feel like its stereotyped that we cant get rejected at all but thats really not true.
My crush showed literally all of the signs that were in the video. He hated making eye contact with me, there was always this strange huge tension between us, and he seemed to genuinely hate talking to me. That really broke my heart and my self esteem sufferedA reminder to all of us that just because that special person doesnt like you doesnt mean youve failed in some way. Theyre just not the right person and you should be happy bc youre worth it

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This couldn't have come at a more opportune time, lol! Recently, I've been dating my crush, and it was like a dream come true. But unfortunately, our conversations have been limited to superficial small talk, and now she's mysteriously gone silent on me. I find myself in a predicament and desperately need your advice. Should I be upfront with her and express my desire to end things due to the one-sided nature of our relationship? Or should I tough it out and hope for things to improve? I've unexpectedly developed strong feelings for her, and this situation is causing me immense pain. What should i do?
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Following our previous video discussions on signs of someone liking you, we received numerous comments expressing an inability to relate, with their love interest or crush appearing disinterested. In response to this feedback, we have created a contrasting video titled 4 Signs Someone Hopes You Don't Like Them.
In this video, we will be talking about subtle body language, gain valuable insights into love, dating, and relationships and ways to know if someone is actually uninterested in you. Our expert advice provides practical tips and solutions for these common relationship problems.

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I'm going through this right now! I keep pushing messages to my crush (love, but not a lot of response from him. When we first started talking 6 weeks ago, it was the other way around! He was talking to me a lot and even told me we what was required for me to love him. Then we went out on a date, and it seemed after that's things kind of changed for him and it started being like what was talked about here! I'm doing everything I can to get him to like me like he did when we first started out, but it's like pulling teeth! I've decided it's either this guy or no guy! I'm not giving up!
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I thought I was being slick by doing number one.
I know its rude to do but I didnt want to hurt anyone. Im just a very rough person but shy when it comes to emotional matters.
Know that when some do number one we don't want to hurt anyone or break their spirit so we make them want to dislike us or fall out of love on their own because we think itd be easier and its letting them down easier. We care but this is the situation where communication is needed.
My actions personally are rooted deeper into another subject but I didnt doing this could hurt people badly.

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clicked on this video hoping someone doesn't like me. I'm not in any way ready for a relationship, and they are so nice, but I'm not sure i like them. they are super sweet as well. i don't think he does, but i try to be friendly and smile and laugh but i hope i'm not sending the wrong signals. people say that we should be together, but i'm way too young. besides, I genuinely enjoy talking to them, but nothing more. Sometimes i'll force a laugh at something that wasn't funny because i dont know what else to do. its 3 am in the morning send help
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Hello, im crushing on an aroace girl right now, ive been crushing on her for 1 and a half years now, i still cant get over her, i respect that shes aroace, but i feel totally heartbroken and i dont know what to do, anyone got any advice on what to do? i am completely in love with her at this point, she knows i like her, ive told her, but i feel like its more than a crush now, i am completely lost, and for anyone who might respond, please dont just say get over her because trust me, if i could, i wouldve a long time ago, im completely lost.
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Theres this person who I can tell clearly likes me, but unfortunately I didnt like them back. They still dont know how uncomfortable I feel around them and how much Ive been trying to hint it to them. I then later watched this video and realised everything I had been doing was literally written in the script. This is my perspective, Im sorry but its just as hard to awkwardly be around them than being rejected by someone you love.
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What if this person is a very quiet and reserved but lonely person and I wanna get to know them and be the person they open up to. Theyre very shy except around the people they know very well (they dont know me very well yet) so he doesnt initiate conversations or ask follow up questions when I ask him questions. I asked him if were cool yet and he says yeah were cool and he accepted my offer when I wanted to give him my number.
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In hindsight, I feel like I was in this situation with someone. I always figured it was one-sided, but the thing that made it complicated for me was that I didn't just have a crush on her. She was really cool, and I liked her a lot as a person, and I didn't know how to just act like a friend without her thinking I was just angling to get close to her.
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My worst ghost story is ongoing. I took her out Thursday and since her messages have seemed shorter if she even texts me at all at this time it's been over 24 hours since she last text me. Honestly I'm just tired I thought everything was good and she seemed interested in going out again and now nothing.
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I think people dont get the other point of view, the one who doesnt like the other, but trys to subtly hint to it without hurting the others feelings. There should be no hate towards them. If they dont feel comfortable around the other, it is not their fault.
You are all beautiful and perfect.

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I have a story someone ghosting me so my boyfriend we have had a off and on relationship for a year and he still be ghosting me it makes me upset and the reason I haven't brake up with him it because I'm not over my toixc ex boyfriend and I just can't handle a another brake up right now
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I've know this girl for about a year, and we've become very, VERY close friends, I secretly love her, and I think she may like me back. We love to see eachother face to face, but whenever I text her she responds very briefly and doesnt seem interesed. So I don't know what that may mean
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Welp, that's the reason i always openly says i'm not interested in dating.
I don't want people to fall in love with me again, i once rejected a guy and he seems really sad, i don't want to make another people feels that way again.

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I have a feeling that someone may be interested in me, but I am currently not interested in anyone as I am unable to date. Therefore, I hope that they do not have feelings for me as it would not be possible for me to reciprocate.
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